Its hard to trust again

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2 years ago
#27 blog💚April 25,2022💚11:14pm

Hello everyone read cash fam,it monday again time flies so fast.My eldest son's birthday coming up.Anyway,since this morning i've been thinking what to write but i cant think of anything,i think my brain still asleep hahaha..or maybe i havent recovered yet from being so tired yesterday.I haven't slept either well last night waiting for my husband who still outside,Because when one of my family is still outside at night i can't sleep.

Earlier while i was reading articles,i read @qheen_am article about dept so i remembered the person who owed me $226 or 12k php,i dont know why i let her dept grow like that,i believe in she said that she would pay me right away.During that time i was still working abroad,i come home already but still unpaid until now.

Wayback 2016 when she asked me if i could help her?I said what is that?what kind of help?She told me that she wanted to borrow some money to buy a plane ticket so she go to manila,I ask her how much the cost of the ticket?she told me 4k pesos.I had an extra money that time so i lent it to her,she promise me also that she will pay right away.

I trusted her because we have known each other and been friends for so long since high school.He tells me what happened to her life so i feel sorry for her specially her children,she told me if she couldnt go to manila her family might break up.

I am the type of person who is easy to approach especially when i have an extra money,because i fell guilty when i refuse so i dont hesitate to lend her right away.

A few years later but she pays almost less than a half,she made installment once a year or sometimes nothing,she always says she has no money but i see in her social media post that they have already have thier own car and has good life,she knows that i am suffering and i will need that money,but why it too jard for her to pay her dept?

When she needed me I didnt hesitate to help he but now that she's survived why she doenst want to pay her obligation to me?she foget her promise. Why do some people come to you when they need you?When it ok,she doesn't care about the person who help her when she needed.We just broke our friendship because of what she did.

It hurts but i have to admit that i trusted the wrong person..

Thanks for reading read.cash fam,have a great monday evening..GODBLESS YOU ALL.Goodnight

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Ganyan ang ibang friendship sis. Pg needy na tska ka pa maalala pg di na nganga ka na. Kya selected friends lng din ang maaasahan ko. Kya lesson learned ka na at myman na pala yung pinahiram mo lol😅.

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis eh,yumaman siya hindi man lang ako naalala,si lord na bahala sa kanya

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2 years ago

Don't worry my friend, such people actually lose themselves. Such a person can only ask you for help once. After a while, when he gets into trouble, there will be no one around him.

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2 years ago

Yes youre are right

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2 years ago

nako yan talaga ang mahirap te kahit kaibigan o kakilala mo pa yong nangutang sayo eh kung wala talagang plano magbayad kawawa talaga yong inutangan .ako nga pag may utang di ako nakakatulog hahahaha

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2 years ago

Same ganyn din ako,kaya pag nakita mo ako malaki eyebag may utang ako niyan 🤣🤣

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2 years ago

Ang laki ng 12k sis. Grabe naman yon. Hirap talaga magpautang, parang yung utang ngayon parang investing. Huwag mag invest ng pera na hindi mo kayang irisk kasi possible na di na babalik. Haha.

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2 years ago

Oo sis,inuunti unti niya yan utang hanggang sa lumaki ng ganyan,nakaawa kasi mga reason niya keso wala nadw makain anak niya at nasa luneta nalang dw sila natulog,etc kaya ayun,masama din pala ang sobrang maawain 😊

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2 years ago

kainis nman..my pakotse at pabongga tas utamg nyang 2016 pq konti plang bayad? hahaha kloka nman.....

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2 years ago

Oo sis kaya hindi nako ng oopen halos ng fb ko kasi nakikita ko mga live nila

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2 years ago

pero kelan nyu po sya last nasingil?

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2 years ago

Bihira ako maningil sis kasi nahiya ako,kapag sobrang gipit na ngchachat ako pero palaging sinasabi na walang pera keso sa ganitong petsa nalang dw kuno tapos wala din naman,hinayaan ko nalang sasama lang loob ko lalo

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2 years ago

same feeling...hayss kya never aq ngpautang tlga...kht nung ngoonline selling po aq. bihira

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2 years ago

Ngayon hindi na sis nadala na ako,kung mgpahiram man ako doon sa taong siguradong magbayad, kahit sa eload ko naningil nako,hirap mag abuno

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2 years ago

suoer hrap mgpautang minsan lalo s kamag anakan ahhaha for sure wla na tlga balikan hahaha

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2 years ago