Save your relationships from crumbling

A relationship is two or more people who come together to achieve a common goal. In order for a relationship to work, all the parties involved need to be on the same page and share the same vision. When one or more parties involved don't share the same vision, the relationship will eventually fail.

There are a lot of things that can go wrong in a relationship. But, often, the root cause of a breakup is due to a fundamental misunderstanding of what a relationship really is.

In most cases, people think of a relationship as a merger of two people into one entity. They think that, by being in a relationship, they are becoming one unified being. And, when that doesn’t happen, they get frustrated and the relationship falls apart.

But, that’s not what a relationship is. A relationship is, rather, two separate entities coexisting and working together. It’s two people coming together and creating something new.

If you don’t understand that difference, then you’re going to have a lot of trouble in your relationships. You’ll be constantly frustrated because you’ll be expecting something that isn’t possible.

There are many things that can cause a relationship to fail, but one of the most common once are,

·        lack of communication, When couples don't talk to each other, they can't understand each other and eventually grow apart.

·        Overdependent on the other, If one person is always taking care of the other, it can lead to resentment and a feeling of being trapped.

·        lack of trust, If one partner is always cheating or lying, the other partner will eventually lose trust in them.

·        relationships often fail when partners become too different. If one person becomes very successful while the other person stays stagnant, or if one person becomes very conservative while the other person becomes more liberal, it can be difficult to maintain the relationship.

·       also infidelity, inability to conceive a baby.

·       lack of commitment is often a leading cause of failed relationships. If one or both partners are not willing to put in the effort needed to make the relationship work, it will eventually fall apart.

If you are experiencing problems in your relationship, it is important to seek help. There are many resources available to you, including counselling and therapy. It is important to remember that you are not alone and there is help available.

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