Girl your life is not parasitic goldfish

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At the end of the day every man wants to find himself in his own world in his own way. But in a family-centered life, a woman cannot create a world of her own thoughts about herself. As a result, there is no such thing as individuality or self-existence. He can't even take care of his mental and physical well. Because she spends all her time in the house, family, husband and children.

However, in modern times, women are developing all over the world with their intellect and mindfulness. Yet as women they have an impression of dependency. Insecurity, lack of confidence, social thinking are largely responsible for this. As a result, despite the touch of modernity, the thinking of most women is still the same as in the past. That is why a woman who is dependent on her husband breaks down emotionally whenever she makes a mistake in her life. Or silently shed tears.  

In such a situation, while playing the role of Sati Savitri's wife, the girl has forgotten her own existence, will she be able to turn around? Frightened by such thoughts, thousands of women in this society face the mental and physical torture of their husbands. 

The man he once thought was the best man of his life, one day he saw the man turn away from him. Love becomes false in an instant. In the mind, the distance between the two is broken. The relationship between the two is broken. Everything around the woman's life, the man may have found a new lover. And in such a situation, the family society is usually accustomed to blame the girl for all the mistakes. Because it is the husband's duty to make sure that his only responsibility - this is still the prevailing idea of ​​society. And the woman of the house finds fault in everything to make the husband and his unjust behavior lawful. In this way, a hostile environment comes to life by mixing truth and falsehood. 

The loser thinks that the woman and her environment are too busy to sustain herself in the world. But she doesn't realize that she is just a parasitic creature in her husband's arranged world, like the goldfish attached to a banyan tree. When gold is uprooted from a tree, it becomes non-existent. Similarly, if the husband ignores the wife, this dependence is lost. 

If you want to live as a human being in life, you should not have gold. But the pearl that can be hidden behind the shell of the snail, the woman can't think of it. Afraid of life outside the house. Of course there are obstacles along the way. And for women, that path is more difficult. But if you want to live as a human being, you have to fight in a hostile environment. There is a need for mental self-reliance first and foremost. Though such thoughts move the mind, many women do not get the courage to rebel with their husbands. Parents can't tell their families about the hardships. Physical and mental abuse continues to increase. Cut to the horrors of the days to come. Loss of self-confidence. Fear of walking alone may find a refuge again. Yet it does not want to understand that the lesson of transforming oneself from a dependent woman into a self-reliant woman is to take oneself from life.      

Because in our society, from an early age, girls grow up listening to a husband-dependent life rather than becoming self-reliant. In doing so, very few girls know that she has a life of her own. Husband and wife complement each other with equal rights with love. For women, family can be a captive life. Two people build a house in love to live in the open sky. If the shadow of sadness falls on the thorns of love, then the two cannot go on patching. He is a disaster in the name of the children of the house. In that case, it is better to choose a new way of life. And then in this society the husbandless woman becomes alone. You have to keep yourself in check.   

The reality of daylight after the poetic night of love is very difficult. Because when you walk against the current, the past parasitic life comes to the fore in many ways. Has he been released? The mind is driven by emotion in this question.

Is the family love or fascination? The answer does not match when it comes to understanding life as your own. Love does not mean rules. But women are afraid of the society to keep their feet outside the world because of infatuation. One spends his whole life forgetting the ignorance of feeling life. Deprived of the right to live as they please. 

Life is on a blackboard. Mistakes need to be corrected here. Moving forward is the name of life. The woman says that her life will not exist outside the four walls, but it is not. 

The passion of love does not just teach life to be defeated. On the contrary, sometimes the idea of ​​life comes in a new form from the emotions. 

Why become a woman only to live for husband, children or family members. If you want to breathe in the open sky, you have to live for yourself with your being. And the thought that someone is abandoning him must be removed. Rather the polymorphous man should abandon himself

How many false fascinations will be in the twists and turns of life. Only when she removes lies and develops self-reliance will women find a taste of life. 

So women are not just women. Rather, as a human being, you have to fight for survival only once. Being deprived is no longer a parasite in one's life. And for that he has to break the key of his closed room by daring to be enlightened in his own light.

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