A mother's love for her child is like nothing else in the world💞
Mother is a short word.
Hidden in this word are all the pleasures of the world, tenderness, genuine affection, cares, all the happiness of selfless love. In this world of wanting and getting nothing can compare with the love of parents. Comparison of mother to mother herself.
***The second is no longer in the dictionary of sweet words like mother.***
It is possible to go to the bottom of the river but the depth of mother's love cannot be measured. ‘Mother’ seems to be infinite in the middle.
*****I pray to the Lord of the Great Throne to stop the crying of all the mothers of the world.*****
At the touch of the mother, the child gradually becomes a full human being. In all the religions of the world, the dignity of the mother has been elevated.
*****I want to remember the word 'mother' every second of 365 days.*****
Mother, no matter how the children call, this call for peace cannot be compared to any other word in exchange for a hundred. The word 'mother' is very familiar to children of different languages. From the first day to the end of life, the mother's love for her child does not change. Mother is so incomparable to us, she is unique. But many times their children fail to fulfill their responsibilities to that incomparable man. The mother still wishes for the well-being of her child.
*****Do you know the happiness of the world?*****
The cares of parents.
*****Do you know the hardest thing??*****
Tears of parents.
*****Do you know the most precious gem??*****
The love of parents.
***There is a story in*** *****Chinese mythology********:***
The story is that ..... a lover to test her boyfriend said that she wants to test his love! Boyfriend asks what test she wants to take ....! He told the girl that he was ready for all the tests.
Hearing this, the lover told the boy to bring his mother's heart. The blind boy in love ran to his mother! He killed his mother and ran away with his mother's heart to his lover ..... to pass the test of love…!
The boy suddenly fell on the way. Mother's fresh heart slipped out of hand! The boy found the heart and took the mother's heart in his hand. The mother's heart is still beating.
*****As soon as he took it in his hand, it (the heart of his mother) asked, "Baby, are you in pain?"*****
When people are scared, when they are in danger, when they feel alone, they hold their mother like a frightened child. The mother's passion for the child is eternal. On the other hand, the mother's lap is the safest shelter in the world for the child. No matter how big the child is, the boy or girl remains the child for the mother.
*****The child's relationship with the mother is eternal.*****
The word *****‘********mother********’***** is very short but it is the sweetest word in the world; No other relationship can compare with the genuine love and affection of the mother.
***Mom!*** This one word is equal to life in our lives. Mother is a place in our lives that we can't explain very clearly. Our mother is under the tree where there is a shade in the scorching heat of life where we get some rest on the way. Mom is that corner of our house ....... where we sit quietly and take a deep breath if we do something wrong.
Our mother is the only person in our life who understands from the inside, we don't have to tell her anything, how can she understand our state of mind just by looking at our face. And the right solution comes to hand at the right time. There is no such feeling that our mothers do not know about our life or can tell us the right solution for it. A girl nurtures her child in her womb for 9 months and in a day she becomes a mother whose thoughts and love are the same for her child and for all the children of the rest of the world.
The man who has the affection of his mother in life can conquer the whole world by the force of that affection and love. There are no situations in our life that do not have a problem that our mother can not fix. A mother is a person who really satisfies her hunger when she feeds her child without eating it herself. When he saw the smiling face of the child, his mind was filled with happiness.
Mothers leave the happiness and peace of their lives for their children throughout their lives, spending their days thinking only about how their children will be better. The mother has that golden stick in the form of a stick with which she falls asleep in an instant and spreads the sheet of dreams over her eyes like a long serenity.
Just talking to mom gives us a sense of peace that takes away all the fatigue of the day, fills us with a strange feeling. We are all useless in our life except mother.....***Some poems and sayings are peeking in my mind while writing about that mother, now I will highlight them in front of everyone:***
***“Every mother has an odor on her body, whether it is wet with sweat or perfume-a specific scent. Only children smell it. ”***
Many of us know a person by smell, whether it is a scent with a person, whether it is fragrant or not, we know him by that smell; and in the case of the mother it is stronger.
***"When I was a child, when my mother could sing and sleep, who would wet my mother's eyes with tears? What is the reason that the mother cries, do not understand!"***
Whether it is an eighteenth-century mother or a twentieth-century child, the habit of putting a child to sleep by singing or telling a story is like an inexhaustible habit of eating oil-fried food in the rainy season, which will continue for thousands of years to come.
***"In this world, she is ...***
***True mother;***
***The happiness of the child is that.........***
***The mother is the idol of happiness!”***
Needless to say, mothers are good only if they can take good care of their children in the right sense, they are good only if their children are good, their whole world is like their children, they do it so that their children are good.
***"Everyone in the world can change, but mother never changes."***
Mother is the one in our life who loves us as her own part, and in the true sense of the word we are really part of her, so her love for us never changes.
Mother's affection, mother's love, mother's blessing is the best asset of life, if you ever neglect her knowingly or unknowingly, then the forgiving mother is the closest to you in this life.
The value of our parents' love and blessings in our lives cannot be written off. The one who has the blessing of the mother has the most precious treasure in the world so they always have everything.
***"One finger touches all obstacles;***
***The polish of one sari is clean all over the world .....;***
***Have you eaten? Why is it so late?***
***Who will look for it?"***
To us mother means not just a flesh-and-blood figure; instead, some questions, some warm problems, some impossible hardships .... a little comfort and a lot of love is boundless, meaningless, selfless love.
***"The dry folds of the mother's hand;***
***Polao Luchi loses to her....***
***Dust on your feet, mother***
***Not dust; it looks like a sack that encloses with a drawstring. "***
Mother is a person whose cooking is like nectar in our hands, we go to all the big restaurants in the world ..... No one likes cooking like our mother's cooking, and if we are allowed to eat dry muri in that hand; then it is like polao to us.
***"Mother, I never understood how much you were in my heart;***
***I did not understand how expensive you were in my life, mother!***
***I understand your love today, mother......"***
Nowadays, with the pace of life, the length of mother's cares has also decreased considerably. So somewhere the relationship ratios have changed, new ratios have been created which in some cases can be said to be quite good and this changed motherhood also has a different taste.
***"Mother, I will always answer your call;***
***That's why I wake up .....***
***Mom, I know you lost sleep;***
***Stay awake for me ......***
***That's why I wake up. "***
Mother's call, mother's cares, mother's hand says everything is very close to us, nothing is better than her and nothing else can be compared with it.
***The purest and inseparable bonding on earth is none other than that of a mother and child.***
Time flies, everything changes but a mother’s love for her kids, and kids’ feelings for their mother never changes.
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Protect your kidneys, lead a healthier life
*****Who does not want to be beautiful, healthy, strong and healthy?*****
The cleanliness of the outside of the body is in your hands, but the responsibility for the cleanliness of the inside of the body lies with the kidneys and the liver. The liver excretes various contaminants from the body through the bile along with the compounds.
`The kidneys play an important role in removing unnecessary harmful substances from the body.`
The number of patients suffering from Donnie's disease has increased dramatically in the last few years. Diabetes and high blood pressure are the main reasons for the increase in the number of patients with kidney failure.
*****Kidney:*****
The human body usually has two kidneys. The kidneys are located inside the abdomen, on the back, on both sides of the spine at the waist. The kidneys look like bean seeds and are shaped like fists.
*****The need for kidneys in our body is immense:*****
The kidneys purify the blood of our body, maintain the balance of fluids and metals in the body and regulate blood pressure. The kidneys help in making red blood cells and maintain bone health.
*****What are the symptoms of kidney disease?*****
The symptoms of kidney disease are of many types and it depends on the type and severity of the disease.
The most common symptoms are swelling of the mucous membranes (especially in the morning), nausea, vomiting, high blood pressure at an early age, weakness, decreased urination, burning or difficulty urinating, and the presence of blood in the urine.
*****At what point is a person with high blood pressure suspected of having kidney disease ???*****
If high blood pressure occurs at a very young age (30 years or less), if the blood pressure is too high at the time of diagnosis, if the blood pressure is not controlled by commonly used drugs.
*****Who is more likely to have kidney disease ???*****
Kidney disease can affect any person. However, people who have been suffering from high blood pressure or diabetes for a long time or who have been taking painkillers for a long time are more likely to get kidney disease. If you have hereditary kidney disease or if you have a congenital urinary tract problem, you are more likely to get kidney disease.
*****Which of the following tests is usually recommended to diagnose kidney disease ???*****
Doctors recommend appropriate tests depending on the patient's disease. Urine tests, serum creatinine and ultrasonography are the most common or important tests.
*****Kidney failure:*****
Decreased ability of the kidneys to purify or excrete is called kidney failure.
*****How is kidney failure diagnosed?*****
Serum creatinine, blood urea nitrogen and eGFR are the most common methods of diagnosing kidney failure.
*****At what time is it recommended to do kidney biopsy ????*****
Some special kidney diseases cannot be diagnosed by common methods. Kidney biopsy is the only way to diagnose those patients.
*****How to do a kidney biopsy??*****
The most common method is Percutaneous Needle Biopsy. In this method, a hollow needle is inserted into the skin of the kidney.
*****Does a person suffering from kidney failure have one kidney or two kidneys go bad together ???*****
Kidney failure occurs only if both kidneys are bad. Blood urea or serum creatinine is usually normal even if only one kidney has completely failed. But when both kidneys fail, waste products accumulate in the body, leading to high levels of blood urea and serum creatinine. This increased level of blood is a sign of kidney failure. Kidney failure cannot occur if only one of the two kidneys is damaged.
If one of the two kidneys fails or is removed, then the other normal kidney can do the normal functioning of the body properly because only one kidney is enough to do the normal functioning of the body.
*****Differences between Acute Kidney Failure and Chronic Kidney Failure:*****
In acute kidney failure, the function of the kidneys is stopped or reduced for a short period of time (some hours, days or weeks) due to special reasons. This type of kidney failure is short-lived and can be completely cured.
But over a long period of time (over a few months or a few years) slowly, a complete decline in kidney function is called chronic kidney failure. It is an incurable disease where the kidneys stop functioning for a long time. This deadly and life-threatening condition is called ***end-stage kidney disease.***
*****Diet Chronic Kidney Disease:*****
Patients with chronic kidney disease are asked to control what foods they drink. Patients with chronic kidney disease need to control food intake as advised by doctors in order to maintain good health, reduce the burden on the kidneys and maintain control of fluids and ions in the body.
***Here are some common tips for controlling food and drink:***
** Control of salt intake in patients with high blood pressure.
** Reduce fluid and water intake if there is swelling in the body.
** Control of potassium and phosphorus.
**Adequate supply of sugars, vitamins and trace elements in the body.
*****Why should patients with chronic kidney disease control their intake of liquid food?*****
The amount of urine decreases in the same way as the kidneys get worse; as the amount of urine decreases, the amount of fluid in the body increases and the mouth and legs become swollen; blood pressure also rises; accumulation of fluid in the lungs results in difficulty in breathing. If left untreated, it can be fatal.
`To get rid of these problems one is asked to control the intake of liquid food`.
*****Which foods are high in salt (sodium) ???*****
`Peel, pickle, potato chips, peanuts, etc`.
*****Which foods are high in potassium ???*****
`Fruit, fruit juice, coconut water, dried fruit etc.`
*****Why do patients with chronic kidney disease control potassium ???*****
Excess potassium in the body of patients with chronic kidney disease cannot be excreted in the urine, resulting in elevated levels of potassium in the blood (hyperkalemia). Increased potassium levels weaken the muscles and the heart rate becomes irregular. This can lead to the death of the patient. This is exactly why patients with chronic kidney disease are advised to control potassium intake.
*****Dialysis:*****
When the kidneys stop working, dialysis is an artificial method that removes unnecessary wastes from the body. This is a life-saving procedure for patients with kidney failure.
`There are two types of dialysis- hemodialysis and peritoneal dialysis.`
*****When do patients with chronic kidney disease need dialysis ????*****
When kidney function is reduced by 80 to 90 percent (End Stage Kidney Disease (ESKD)), the kidneys cannot excrete waste products, leading to nausea, shortness of breath or bloating. In this case dialysis is required. A patient with chronic kidney disease requires dialysis when the serum creatinine level is 6 mg per deciliter or more.
*****If patients with kidney failure are on dialysis once, is it necessary for the whole life ????*****
How long dialysis will be needed depends on the type of kidney failure. Patients with acute kidney failure need only a short period of time (some days or weeks). Patients with chronic kidney disease (end stage kidney disease) need dialysis for life.
*****How is hemodialysis done?*****
In this method the blood is purified with the help of dialysis machine and dialyzer (artificial kidney).
*****What is A.V. fistula used in hemodialysis?*****
Arteriovenous fistula is the most common and best method for vascular access.
*****When is a kidney transplant needed ???*****
Kidney transplantation is required when patients with chronic kidney disease have a reduced kidney function of 75 to 90%.
*****Who can donate a kidney?*****
A healthy person with two kidneys and if the blood group, tissue type matches, then that person can donate a kidney. Kidney donors must be between the ages of 18 and 65. Kidney transplants donated by parents or children are the most successful. If a living kidney donor is not available then the deceased person's kidney has to be relied upon.
*****Kidney transplant benefits:*****
The main benefits of a successful kidney transplant are improved quality of life, freedom from dialysis, freedom from food and drink control and longer life expectancy.
*****Does the kidney recipient need to take any medicine or special precautions ???*****
Yes. Take regular medications (such as immunosuppressant drugs, antihypertensive drugs, vitamins, etc.) to lead a healthier life after a kidney transplant. And special caution is required. Prevention of infection, regular consultation of nephrologists and regular laboratory tests are required.
*****Dead Kidney Transplant:*****
Dead or Transplanted Kidney Transplant - An operation that transplants a healthy kidney of a person who has died of mental illness or heart disease into a patient with chronic kidney disease is called Deceased or cadaver kidney transplant. A mentally dead person or brain death is a complete loss of brain function that cannot be cured by any medication or surgery.
Brain Death is a diagnosis made by a hospital ventilator for surviving unconscious patients. When the ventilator support is removed, patients with brain death stop breathing or heart rate immediately.
*****Why do diabetics need to know about kidney disease ???*****
Diabetic nephropathy is one of the leading causes of chronic kidney disease. Diabetes is the cause of kidney failure in 40 to 50 percent of new patients with end-stage kidney disease. Timely diagnosis and treatment can prevent diabetic kidney disease.
*****How many diabetic patients have diabetic kidney disease ???*****
The number of patients with diabetic kidney disease is very high - usually 30 to 35% of type-1 diabetes mellitus and 10 to 40% of type-2 diabetes. The most common symptoms of diabetic kidney disease are: proteinuria, high blood pressure, swelling of the knees, legs or mouth, decreased need for insulin, and frequent low blood sugar.
*****How to prevent diabetic kidney disease ???*****
***To prevent diabetic kidney disease:***
Check with a doctor regularly.
2. Control over diabetes; need to keep HbA1C level 8 or lower.
Blood pressure needs to be below 130/80.
Keep the amount of salt and sugar in the diet low. Don't eat foods high in protein or fat.
Kidney tests need to be done once a year.
Exercise regularly, keep weight under. control, do not drink alcohol, use tobacco or take painkiller. The two main steps in the treatment of diabetic kidney disease are control over diabetes and high blood pressure.
*****Polycystic kidney disease:*****
***How many people are likely to get this disease in the lineage ???***
Polycystic kidney disease is a hereditary disease. Every child has a 50:50 chance.
*****How does polycystic kidney disease affect the kidneys ???*****
In this disease many fluid filled cysts of different sizes (small pin size or up to 10 cm). Over time, these cysts become larger in size and put pressure on the kidneys, causing high blood pressure and complete damage to the kidneys.
*****How is polycystic kidney disease diagnosed ????*****
Kidney ultrasound is the most common test. Also CT scans or MRI scans are more accurate tests but these are subject to cost.
The kidneys are a very important organ in the body. Within six weeks of birth, the human kidney's filter membrane is fully formed. Then the kidneys can start working in full force.
An adult has about 10 to 12 million filters per kidney, which purifies 170 liters of blood every 24 hours and excretes one to three liters of body waste in the form of urine. Kidney disease occurs when this filter or purification work is interrupted.
*****In addition, the kidneys play an important role in controlling blood pressure, helping to make blood and making vitamin D effective.*****
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Force shouldn’t be emphasized on argument rather the force of argument is the desire of all of us
*****Often I think we as a nation are not thoughtful.*****
No civilized nation can move forward without thinking. Free thinking is a prerequisite for the spread of thought. A society that does not have the practice of free will is bound to be stagnant. Complementing free thought and freedom of speech. The spirit of democracy is intimately involved with this. There is no alternative to creating a conducive environment for the practice of free will to institutionalize democracy. And debate can play an effective role in establishing such an environment.
`Not only sound education but his alertness and dedication too are most required.`
At the present time the closest resemblance to the controversy can be observed with ***Plato*** and ***Protagoras***.
*****Protagoras is said to be the father of controversy.*****
The intellectual debate between ***Socrates*** and ***Protagoras*** was the beginning of the modern debate. There is no record of **Plato's speeches** at his academy. However, philosophical expressions have emerged in his dialogues.
*****The Greek philosopher Aristotle is called the father of logic.*****
Aristotle introduced logic in his first debate. He is the one who provides a complete picture of the first argument and applies it to the debate.
*****Why would we debate?*****
*****What are the benefits behind this?*****
*Debate is an art. The history of human civilization is the history of art. Only by the difference of art is man the best creature of creation*
Considered as from time immemorial, people have been involved in debates. At different times and in different contexts, he also sought to establish his own philosophy by reasoning.
*****But why ???*****
*****Why did people argue ????*****
Extensive moderation in current debate practice compared to the context of past debates. ***The controversy of that time was based on life.*** Nowadays there is an opportunity to sharpen one's ability to present and argue through debating clubs before debating in practical places of society in order for the debate to take an institutional form.
So in the past it was thought that presentation was a God-given or inherent subject. But now anyone who wants to a debater as can manifest himself. To transform oneself as a conscious part of society and the importance of debate for nation building is immense.
***Even if you don’t want to be a professional debater or even if you don't want to build a debate career as your career, you can get many benefits by practicing debate.Which will make your career dynamic and lively.***
***In the bosom of society you can establish yourself in a different dimension.***
***Enlighten yourself and illuminate your surroundings.***
**Its importance needs to be realized before debating.**
A dignified one has very important task to create his/her own position in the society as an individual. Every man wants others to know him, to come to him.
***So I'm not talking about thinking of yourself as bigger than others; just show your identity to others***. ***Who are you ....... that is not written on you.***
*****So how will others evaluate you?*****
***Seeing the beauty of your face .....?***
***Looking at your clothes ..... ???***
No; that will never happen. People will evaluate you by listening to you. From the outside you ....... no matter how smart you are ........ others will understand what status you are by listening to you. But it is not a matter of constant truth. However, this is considered as the basis of the initial evaluation.
There is no end to the debate over whether or not a match is made with an argument. However, learning the debate will be beneficial, it will not be found that the harm has been done.
*****Why should we learn debate ...., why should we do it .... ???*****
***Here is the answer to that question:***
Many at school, college and even university level are involved in the debate. For those who love debate, the question of *****'why debate'***** may not arise in their minds. But those who have not yet started the debate but are interested in the debate, must know what the debate can give a person.
*****Is the debate just part of some co-educational activities .... ???*****
*****Or is it able to give a person more ??*****
*****What else can a person learn besides winning several trophies by debating year after year???*****
***Let's find the answers to the questions***:
***Rational thinking:***
The debate is purely a game of logic. The main aim of the debate is to establish one's own statement by presenting arguments and examples against a particular subject. By debating, a person can be the first to develop himself as a rationalist.
***Debate teaches how many ways to think about a subject.***
And those thoughts are fulfilled only when they contain a mixture of proper reasoning. So, there is no better alternative than debate to give an acceptable dimension to one's own thinking from the thoughts of ten more people.
***Rhetorical practice:***
*****Have you ever had the responsibility of presenting your class or any event?*****
*****Have you ever had to stand in front of a hundred people and talk ???*****
There are very few people who do not panic in this situation. Many of us are obsessed with public speaking. Debate practice can be quite helpful in overcoming this numbness. With the practice of speaking regularly, inertia gradually subsides, and one can speak fluently in front of fifty people at a time. Being able to speak is also a great quality. And debate can play a big helpful role in mastering this quality.
***Timing:***
*****How long is the temporal length of an individual's speech in a debate??*****
Maybe four to seven minutes depending on the topic or type of debate. Meanwhile, when a person becomes accustomed to speaking at regular intervals, the knowledge that is born in him will help him anywhere. Many people can't finish talking. How long to talk in the introduction or how long it takes to explain something, often confuses.
As can be seen, it takes five minutes to explain the role of a presentation in ten minutes in the classroom, and sometimes it takes seven minutes to finish the presentation. These aspects of time management are quite eye-catching. When a debater is accustomed to talking all the time for a certain period of time, he does not talk too much or too little time in the same way when he speaks outside the debate.
***Debaters take as much time as they need to convey to someone else.***
Regular debate practice undoubtedly plays a helpful role in creating this timing.
***Standard language practice:***
Many of us have different language problems. Some may get confused when it comes to speaking, while others may not be able to speak without the language of regionalism. There are many who do not feel comfortable speaking English. In this case, the practice of debate creates a good opportunity to build yourself well. Regular practice of standard language debates reduces the problem of language regionalism. As well as those who debate English, their linguistic proficiency also increases.
*****Spread of thought:*****
Debate teaches a person to think in many ways. A debater knows very well how to think the same thing from different perspectives. Debaters often have ten to fifteen minutes to speak for or against a particular subject in a line.
**Thus, the role of debate is crucial for the practice of how to analyze two aspects of a subject in the same way.**
When a debater decides on something in his personal life or career outside of regular debating practice, this expanded field of thought helps him to think about the various complexities, obstacles, solutions, etc. of immediate decision making.
***Dignity towards different perspectives:***
**This is the most important aspect of the debate in the present age.**
At a time when people are forgetting to respect each other's opinions, the tendency to impose their own opinions in any way, even if they are wrong, the debaters are still listening to the opponents' arguments, knowing their point of view.
Besides, in the international debate competition, competitors from different societies, cultures, economics, politics and foreign countries are arguing differently on the same subject.
**Through this process, debaters learn how to show tolerance for all kinds of views and opinions.**
***Social networks:***
When you are a debater in an organization or a club, you can get acquainted with many more like-minded or dissenting debaters. In addition, the opportunity to participate in various outside debate competitions creates the opportunity to get acquainted with many people in the debate society. Through such communication, a kind of relationship is formed between the debaters, which is also beneficial in many ways in entering the future career.
Debates are usually based on literature, politics, law, ethics, economics, recent events, and so on. So a debater always has to be aware of all these things. **Debates require a lot of study and regular updates on current events.** Thus, the role of debate from the evolving place of knowledge is undeniable.
***Personal achievement:***
That being said, a separate show-case has to be created in the drawing room of a successful debater's home just to keep his trophies. Because a debater not only wins the trophy in debates, but in addition to debates he can succeed in many other places including various speech contests, idea competitions!
It is very difficult for any competitor to lose a person who has far-reaching and logical, sufficient time-related knowledge and excellent technique of presenting himself. However, don't be upset if you lose.
***Find out that the person you lost to is also a debater, maybe he worked a little harder than you.***
Debate has been practiced since the beginning of creation, sometimes formally or sometimes informally. People have been arguing from the very beginning to achieve the purpose of education. It is human nature to give reasons for one's actions. No one can be found who has never argued.
Formal discussions are not limited to hobbies to enhance the living standards of the 21st century, but are now seen as a necessity. There is no substitute for debate to develop one's personal skills and knowledge.
Argument is the most visible object in our daily life, social and political conduct. As Bengali is a controversial nation, 'Talk Show' is probably the most popular show on television now.
***We are not talking about this argument, we are talking about the debate.***
***Debate is our goal, not argument***.
Argument involves passion,stubbornness and superstition. Sometimes the manifestation of muscle power occurs as a result of argument. There are innumerable instances in our society of getting involved in arguments and sophistry. We have to get out of that culture of meaningless argument.
Though new as a debating art, it is quite popular among the educated and conscious society. There are arguments in the debate, but that argument is logical and causal. There is no place for blind faith or superstition in the debate. There is excitement in the debate. And that excitement is sophisticated. There are attacks, those attacks are art. Though there is conflict in the debate, it teaches to be tolerant and generous. There must be differences of opinion between different individuals and groups in the society. Strong differences of opinion are indicative of the vitality of a society. This difference of opinion is marked by argument in the debate.
*****Winning on the competition stage should not be the only goal of the debater. I want him to win on the stage of life too.*****
The prerequisite for that victory is the constant practice of reason. Being rational in mind and personality is the ultimate achievement of the debater, not victory or defeat.
***Debaters will debate not to argue, but to build a society where argument wins, not force. Where the emphasis is not the argument, the emphasis of the argument is established.***
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Health benefits of Thankuni leave
`Thankuni is a very well known medicinal plant in our country.`
Its Latin name is ***Sentala Akiatica.***
Thankuni leaves are found all over the country. The contribution of thankuni leaves in the field of disease treatment is immense. Many diseases are cured by processing it from its medicinal properties. Taken directly as food, it is able to play a proper role in curing diseases.
The Bengali name is ****Thankuni****. Regionally, thankuni leaves are called as Teya, Manki, Titura, Thankuni, Adamni, Dholamani, Thulkuri, Manamani, Dhulabegun, Adagunguni.
This tree, which grows carelessly in the village, has many qualities. Thankuni juice contains a lot of minerals and vitamins for the body. Thankuni is very effective in curing various disease.
*****Where thankuni is found:*****
Thankuni is an uncultivated medicinal plant. This beneficial medicinal plant usually grows in humid environments. So thankuni can be seen more near the pond or water body. In rural areas, these small, star-shaped leaves can be found around houses, on the side of the road, or in the fields. Thankuni leaves are now also available in the city markets. In addition, it is more or less available throughout the year.
Found in India, Sinhala, Northern Australia, Indonesia, Iran, Malaysia, Papua New Guinea, and other parts of Asia. It is widely used in Ayurvedic, ancient African, Chinese, etc. in many countries.
*****According to Ayurveda, thankuni is an antidote for various diseases of the human body.*****
*****Useful parts:*****
roots, stems, and leaves.
*****Introduction:*****
This tree is a small creeper. Its leaves are small round. There are grooves on the edges of the leaves. This tree is found all over Bangladesh. However, it grows well in coastal saline climates. It is very popular among the rural common people.
*****Propagation:*****
Thankuni vines flower in spring and fruits begin to ripen in summer. Thankuni is propagated both by seed and organ reproduction.
The roots come out from each git or node and bring the vine with the roots and plant it in the moist soil.
However, it should be noted that even if it prefers moist soil, it cannot tolerate waterlogging.
Although the soil of Bangladesh is very suitable for growing thankuni, it is difficult to get seedlings of this plant even in nurseries. However, it is found everywhere in rural areas.
*****The virtues of thankuni:*****
***The chemical ingredients present in thankuni are as follows:***
***» Indocentelloside***
***» Brahmoside***
***» Brahminoside***
***» Asiaticoside***
***» Thankuniside***
***» Isothankuniside,***
***» Triterpene glycosides***
***» Indocentoic, brahmic***
***» Mesoinositol***
***» Oligosaccharide***
***» Centellose***
***» Kaempferol***
*****Benefits of Thankuni plants:*****
If one starts eating thankuni leaves regularly, the performance of every part of the body from the hair on the head to the feet starts to increase. There are many more benefits to matching that.
E.g.
*****Decreased hair loss rate:*****
Several studies have shown that eating thankuni leaves 2-3 times a week eliminates nutritional deficiencies in the scalp. As a result, the level of hair loss begins to decrease. Another way to reduce hair loss is to use thankuni leaves.
*****Do we know how it is possible ???*****
***Let's find out***:
Take the amount of thankuni leaves and crush it. Then mix it with basil leaves and amla and make a paste. Finally apply the paste on the hair and wait for some time. After 10 minutes, the hair should be washed well. By the way, if you take care of your hair by using this method at least twice a week, you will see that the hair will look much brighter, silky and shiny and at the same time the rate of hair loss will be reduced to a great extent.
*****Toxic elements leave the body:*****
In many ways multiple harmful toxins enter our body, blood throughout the day. If these toxins cannot be expelled from the body in time, then there is too much danger!
And this work is done by thankuni leaves.
*****How is that possible ??*****
Let's find out:
In this case, by mixing 1 teaspoon of honey with a small amount of thankuni leaf juice every morning, the harmful elements present in the blood are removed. As a result multiple diseases are forced to stay away.
*****Enhances skin beauty:*****
The amino acids, beta carotene, fatty acids and phytochemicals present in thankuni leaves play a special role in eliminating nutrient deficiencies inside the skin as well as reducing wrinkles. As a result, the radiance of the skin naturally increases. At the same time, the possibility of skin aging at a young age also decreases.
In fact, the nature around us contains valuable herbal extracts which are very beneficial for our body. These natural medicines do not have any side effects, so they work by eradicating the disease inside the body.
`Thankuni leaves are a very readily available herbal ingredient for the people of our country.`
Whether you have the disease or not, sometimes drinking the juice of thankuni leaves will not harm your body. Because, these herbal extracts do not contain harmful ingredients.
*****Use of thankuni leaves:*****
***Fever***:
Mix 1 teaspoon of juice of thankuni leaves and 1 teaspoon of juice of hyacinth leaves and take it every morning to cure fever.
*****Stomach ache:*****
A small amount of mango peel, 1 young leaf of pineapple, raw turmeric juice, 4/5 thankuni tree roots and roots are washed well and the juice is taken together on an empty stomach. It is more effective in small children.
***Gastric:***
Mix 1 poya misri and half poya thankuni leaf juice together in half a kg of milk and take it every morning for 1 week.
***Increases digestion power:***
Mixing thankuni leaves with eggplant / papaya and cooking dryness for 1 month every day increases digestion power.
***Thankuni to prevent blood contamination:***
Every morning on an empty stomach 4 teaspoons of thankuni leaf juice and 1 teaspoon of honey / mixed for 7 days playing blood contamination is good.
***Speech:***
In case of children who are late or vague in speaking, 1 teaspoon of rice kuni leaf juice is heated and cooled, mixed with 20/25 drops of honey and fed with cold milk for a while, the problem is cured.
***Whooping cough:***
2 teaspoons of thankuni juice with a little sugar is immediately useful for whooping cough. Playing for 1 week will be completely better.
***Diarrhea:***
Chewing 5/6 thankuni leaves every morning for 7 days cures diarrhea. Or, thankuni leaf beet mixed with sugar in leaf juice and taken twice a day to cure diarrhea.
***Liver problems:***
1 teaspoon of thankuni juice every morning, 5/6 drops of turmeric juice (due to the liver of children) with a little sugar and honey for 1 month, liver problems get better.
***Elegance:***
If the face is dirty, elegance is reduced, then 5-6 teaspoons of thankuni leaf juice should be eaten with milk. You will get benefits if you do it regularly.
*****Contaminated wounds:*****
Boil the whole tree including the roots and wash the contaminated wounds with that water.
***Wound in the face:***
Thankuni leaves should be gargled with boiled water.
***Injury:***
If it is crushed somewhere, it will be beneficial to heat the thankuni tree and apply it on the injured area.
***Common Wounds:***
Thankuni leaves should be cooled with ghee and applied on the wounds.
*****Hair loss:*****
In case of malnutrition, lack of vitamins, hair loss should be treated with nutritious vitamin rich food as well as 5-6 teaspoons of thankuni leaf juice mixed with milk.
*****Stomach upset:*****
If there is stool with stool, if the stool is not clear, if there is gas in the stomach, sometimes there is headache, in these cases 3-4 teaspoons of hot juice of thankuni leaves and equal amount of raw cow's milk should be mixed. You will benefit from playing regularly.
*****Memory:*****
If you do not remember half a cup of milk, 2-3 tolkuni leaf juice and a teaspoon of honey should be mixed.
*****Nasal congestion:*****
In case of cold nasal congestion, in case of cold, it is beneficial to sniff the powder of thankuni roots and stalks.
*****Now the question is where to find thankuni leaves in busy city life.*****
There is no shortage of thankuni trees in the village. Easily seen in the bush forest. Thankuni is a bit difficult to find in urban areas. However, if you do a little research in the raw markets including the capital's caravan market, you will find thankuni leaves. Thankuni leaves can also be kept in the fridge for a few days. And for those who live in the village, look around the house, it will match easily. Or those who are a little more aware can plant a thankuni tree on the roof of the house or in a corner of the veranda if they wish. Getting seedlings will not be a problem. Thankuni tree can be found in any nursery.
`In the end I can only say that the quality of the thankuni leaves will not last, but it will always be able to present itself as a very useful medicinal plant and that is possible only on awareness and proper use of these plants.`
Thanks for reading 😍
It’s never too late to be happy: change the situation or change your mindset towards it.
***You will never get rid of any pain if you cannot handle yourself in difficult times.***
***Read today's article carefully and you will understand how to face all the problems:***
*****Some may have seen some of life's military rains, but has it ever rained for a lifetime???*****
No, it never happens. The rain starts and stops falling at a certain time. Just as bad times do not last long. Life is a collection of stories piece by piece. Again, the story is created from life. In this bizarre life, new stories are constantly being created. Every human being has his own story. Each of us has a story to tell. It is not possible to change the beginning of the story by going back to the past, but through hard work we can rearrange the end of the story if we want. The reality of life is very cruel. This is life.
The great feature of the reality of life is that no matter how cruel or difficult it is, one has to endure it, one has to accept the necessities of life.
*****The more we break down the emotional turmoil in life's hardships, the more our life will double back.*****
Happiness is the name of accepting all the sorrows and realities of life as a part of life and accepting them in a normal way. In words, a beautiful saying is more valuable than a gem. A beautiful saying gives strength to the weak, shows the way to the lost, a torch of light to light in the dark. When the bitter feelings of frustration, failure, and guilt surround you, there is a little hope, a little handful of possibilities to turn around. However, no matter what life is like, its manifestation does not accept the reality, only if it becomes emotional, it becomes difficult to get the right direction of that life. That is why many commentators have left the right direction of the right path of life, whose words are true, not false.
In order to transform life in the right way, some features have to be accepted, life is such a creation that it never goes one way. Never goes according to human expectations. Those who cannot accept this feature of life, they live in the midst of despair. And those who can accept, they find happiness in life, then they can be happy.
*****But can everyone accept all the conditions???*****
***Still have to accept for life.***
Those who accept the reality of life can enjoy the pleasures of life and the pleasures that are hidden in them. Then they can learn something good from the hardships and sorrows. We can make life better by applying the lessons learned. As a result, we cannot see the sorrows and pains of everyone's life from outside. Or we don't want to show it to others. We have to learn from the suffering ...... by enduring the suffering.
If we do not accept the hardships that come in the midst of the reality of life all the time and become frustrated, then life sinks into despair. Some hardships come in life that are considered to be the mountain equivalent to small life. So we don't have to be frustrated all the time, we have to use patience and time to find solutions to many problems involved in life. Many scholars and commentators have left different statements about the reality of life thinking about life.
*****When you go looking for the good in others, it is possible to bring out the best in yourself.*****
Trouble in our lives sometimes comes in such a way when the eyes are closed. The ears become deaf. The voice becomes dumb. The intellect becomes foolish. The body becomes crippled. Disoriented life, all plans are abandoned in a moment. Even then people have to survive in the invisible needs of life.
I don't know what he needs. But maybe somewhere in life there is an invisible tension. In this way it can be said that maybe in my absence everything will go as usual. Even then it seems that I am the only hope to solve all the problems.
*****It seems more likely that there is no one else to solve this problem than me; Like without me?*****
It becomes impossible! Thinking about this, one may want to survive with a thousand pains. That is why I will write, people only understand that the unexpected reality of life is difficult.
There are many of us who run after lies and work tirelessly to find the right goal in life, yet when we have to get the bitter taste of failure - there is nothing to be sad about. Through this hard work we can all become stronger, more experienced, more efficient - that is the true result of real life.
In this short life we are constantly making thousands of mistakes, but we have to stumble a thousand times to learn to walk, the hardships we all have in our childhood life. Yet we are proud of our life! Every mistake, like stumbling every time, but stumbling at one time we are able to build ourselves properly and we can shape life in a more powerful way.
`WHEN CONFORNTED WITH A CHALLENGE, THE COMMITTED HEART WILL SEARCH FOR A SOLUTION, THE UNDECIDED HEART SEARCHES FOR AN ESCAPE.`
Sometimes we forget a lot of things in a lot of work, but if we can get a touch of sincerity, and if we can open our minds and smile with everyone, we can present some nice words, we can use nice things with everyone. Only then are we able to bring the impossible to the door of possibility. Emotions get caught up in the big ignorance with reality.
Sometimes we don't realize the reality of this emotional tendency. We never forget about something before or after or, what happens in front and behind - we don't see it properly, we will all try to arrange our life by thinking about the future. Emotions always think of the present, love to immerse themselves in temporary happiness and joy. He wants to cover himself in the thick fog of his own emotions. And wants to get the much-desired sweet sunshine of the morning.
`EVERYONE WANTS TO LIVE ON TOP OF THE MOUNTAIN, BUT ALL THE HAPPINESS AND GROWTH OCCURS WHILE YOU'RE CLIMBING IT.`
Failure means failure - no one will want to know why it happened or who caused it. If you fail, you will have to endure his pain alone, no one will come and stand by your side. So I think it is better for us to give opportunities to others without ever making excuses about anything for everyone's life. We have to control our lives and if we can do this properly then we will win.
Even after this, if our life is covered with clouds and if the whole world is covered. Yet there is not much regret for the formation of life. There is no instability or anxiety in life. Because the expectations are much higher than what we have got. Just like a handful of sweet sunshine in the morning feels like warmth.
This sunshine brings us endless happiness of embrace in the morning of absolute winter. In this way maybe our days are well spent floating in the midst of happiness and joy. Then let the mind be again in the colorful hope of touching the warmth of the happiness of the next morning, the sweet sun. We have to enjoy life every day, every moment, in the occasion of the joy of every little memory.
`The more we laugh, the less we complain about our life, then life may be filled with the satisfaction of happiness.`
*****With another outline of what is involved in our lives that is the ultimate reality of life?*****
Reality is very difficult, it is not like the warmth of the morning sun, happiness can be easily found in the warmth of the sweet sun, but the form of reality is very difficult for all of us in life. Reality is not easy or smooth. Reality is sometimes very cruel, solid and emotionless. Most of the time the hard and unbearable form of reality goes beyond tolerance.
*****But does emotion have any value to reality?*****
Maybe there is, maybe there is no understanding, or else we cannot awaken the feeling of proper perception!! - Emotions, insanity, excitement and exhilaration.
But some people don't want to indulge, some people don't even want to. Because it is easy to accept defeat to the solid binding of reality, to be helpless, to accept defeat. In the midst of this ruthless and cruel world, the reality is that everyone's hands and feet are tied, in an invisible shackle. All the minds and emotions of reality are also bound. We are all very helpless to society, sociality and the basic necessities of life.
*****So there is only one thing that stands as a wall between our dreams and reality - that is the excuse!*****
If we can stop showing this excuse and start working in a new way with enthusiasm, then we will no longer have dreams. From that moment on, our lives will begin to take on new forms with reality!
`SORRY IS NOT ENOUGH. SOMETIMES, YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO CHANGE.`
***Finally, I would like to end the words of this beautiful short life here, we have to work in such a way that everything in life is beautiful.***
We all try it at least once and I think it should be tried. Our Creator has sent every human being with some kind of incomparable skill in this way, yet we never know what will happen in the next days of life. As long as we live in this world, we will pray to Almighty GOD to keep us alive in this world so that we can sing His praises only by thinking about the reality of this life, not by thinking about emotions.
***There is no such thing....***
***as being too busy.***
***If you really want something,***
***You will make time for it.***
Thanks for reading 💞💞
My plan for today?Same as always :drink coffee in regular proportion and a day keeps the grumpy away
Coffee is a very popular beverage worldwide. Coffee is made by burning a type of seed known as "coffee bean" boiled with water and mixing it with powder. These seeds are the seeds of a type of fruit called coffee cherry. This fruit tree grows in about 70 countries. Green coffee is one of the best-selling agricultural products in the world.
*****What are the ingredients in coffee?*****
Coffee contains a stimulant called caffeine. 8 ounces of coffee contains about 135 milligrams of caffeine. The caffeine in coffee has a stimulating effect on people and acts as a stimulant. Now, after tea, coffee is the most popular drink in the world.
In today's urban society, there is not as much fuss and discussion about coffee as there used to be. Many have a habit of drinking coffee before starting work every day, after lunch or after a lazy afternoon.
Coffee is a type of *****cherry fruit*****, the seeds that are used to make coffee are actually roasted seeds of a type of fruit, which is called *****coffee cherry*****. If you bite the main cherry fruit inside the coffee, the seed will split into two ovals. According to the National Coffee Organization of the United States, 5% of the world's coffee contains a seed called *****'Piberi'*****. This ‘Piberi’ national coffee is distinguished by hand. This type of coffee bean is famous for its strong taste and excellent blend.
*****There are two types of coffee beans:*****
Ethiopian-born coffee is called *****Arabica*****. This type of coffee is usually refined, light and fragrant. The price of this variety of coffee is also relatively high and about 70% of the world's coffee is from this variety.
*****Robusta***** is another type of coffee that is slightly bitter in taste and rich in extra caffeine. This type of coffee is commonly used to make instant coffee. Such coffee is commonly grown in Central and West Africa, parts of Southeast Asia, and Brazil.
*****Coffee Day:*****
National Coffee Day is celebrated annually on September 29 in the United States. People have been drinking coffee for more than 500 years. The first evidence of coffee drinking in the world was found in Yemen in the fifteenth century.
***The second best trade in the world is coffee, a major part of modern diet.***
Just as many do not start the day without this coffee, many do not wake up at night. The largest consumer of coffee in the modern world is North America. Thousands of coffee shops have been set up in different countries in the style of Europe and America, where millions of people are drinking coffee every day.
*****But did you know that coffee was first credited to an Ethiopian shepherd?*****
The path to today's popularity of coffee, however, was not easy. Catholic Christians at first strongly opposed it and called it the *****'Drink of the Devil'.***** Even feminists once called it *****'smelly dirty mud'.*****
`In today's article, I will highlight some of the interesting facts behind the introduction of coffee:`
*****Is coffee the first to be discovered because of excited goats???*****
In the ninth century, a lone shepherd named ***Khaldi*** lived in Ethiopia. He seemed to have increased the mischief of his goat herd a little more than on other days. While searching, he noticed that his goats were eating a fruit like red jam. The devout Khaldi immediately presented the fruit to the imam of the local mosque. Seeing that it was impossible to eat raw, the Imam threw the fruits into the fire. At first it seemed to him that these were tempting. After a while, great fragrance started coming, which is world famous today. Imam's students thought and saw what it was like to play boiled. They did as they were told, and the roasted seeds were boiled in a pot of hot water.
`This is how the world's first cup of coffee is made.`
The Imam and his disciples were amazed to discover this and by drinking this drink they were able to stay awake for hours at night. They found the matter quite effective for prayer. The reputation of the hot drink spread from side to side.
*****In the middle of the seventeenth century, coffee came to the 'kingdom of tea' in the United Kingdom:*****
The first coffee house in Britain is known from the diary of Samuel Pepis, the famous naval administrator of Britain. In 1650, a Jewish gentleman named Jacob opened the first coffee house. That building in Oxford's The Angel in the Parish of St. Peter's is now known as 'The Grand Cafe'. The first coffee house in London was built in 1652 by a Greek named Pascoa Rosie. Although tea was introduced in India due to the British, coffee was introduced long before the advent of the East India Company. In 1870, an Indian saint named Baba Budan brought the first coffee beans to South India. From there it spread all over India. However, the southern states of South India still have the highest coffee yields in the region.
***Bangladesh*** has not yet produced coffee commercially, but efforts are being made in the hilly areas of Chittagong.
*****Coffee house was the social media of that time:*****
There is a historical truth behind the very popular song *****"That Chat In The Coffee House ..." in Bengali.*****
Coffee houses were like the Internet for students, teachers, scientists and intellectuals. Cold War with the Dutch, the arrival of a comet or the threat of a plague. Such news could not be found anywhere else except in the coffee house. By 1875, over 3,000 coffee houses had been built in England alone. Some even made arrangements to stay overnight. Many began to follow the business model of Turkish coffee houses. Their names were also very glamorous - Deacon's Fame, Blackmore's Head, Oriental Cigar Divine, Jerusalem Coffee House, Morat the Great, Sultan's Coffee House, etc.
*****Supplier of the revolution:*****
These coffee houses became very popular as a place for revolutionaries to organize. These coffee houses continue to be an integral part of everyday entertainment. At the same time, dancing, singing, playing chess, politics or any other topic of discussion, gossip was all going on there. At that time, the nickname of these coffee houses was *****"School of the Wise"*****.
*****Have we heard of Dalgona coffee ???*****
This Dalgona coffee has a great demand not only on social media but also in the real world. And there is a reason behind all this fame and that is that the taste of this coffee will fascinate us just as easy as making Dalgona coffee. A type of sponge toffee is called Dalgona in the local language of South Korea. Again, sponge toffee is called ***honeycomb*** toffee in many countries of the world. The reason is also great and that is that after biting this sponge toffee, the inside of it looks like a bee.
*****Rules and recipes for making Dalgona coffee:*****
You too can easily make this popular Dalgona coffee at home. You can easily make your loved one happy during home quarantine with a mug of Dalgona coffee. And you can learn a great recipe.
*****Ingredients needed to make Dalgona coffee:*****
1 cup of boiled cold milk
2 tablespoons of coffee
2 tablespoons of sugar
2 tablespoons of hot water
(Coffee, sugar and water should be equal).
*****Preparation*****:
First take 2 tablespoons of coffee, 2 tablespoons of sugar and 2 tablespoons of hot water together in a bowl. Now beat (mix well) the mixture with electric beater or hand beater. Continue to whisk until thick foam. Then take ice cubes as needed in the coffee mug. Pour the boiled cold milk in it. Then pour the whipped coffee mixture over the milk. Serve with delicious Dalgona coffee with a little coffee powder or chocolate spread of your choice on top.
*****Does drinking tea and coffee reduce excess fat???*****
Eating some ancillary foods with coffee will reduce excess fat. You can wake up in the morning and have a cup of black coffee. This coffee will reduce excess fat in the abdomen and body. The antioxidants in coffee, especially polyphenols, reduce the risk of inflammation in the body. Reduces the risk of various diseases.
Drinking 3-4 cups a day (720-900 ml) reduces the risk of diabetes, heart disease, liver cancer and Parkinson's disease and loses excess fat and loses excess weight. Drink at least three cups or 720 ml of coffee a day. However, do not increase the calories by mixing milk-sugar-cream with it. Eat 1500 calorie food along with coffee. Drink a cup of black coffee before eating. After that you will eat whole grains, vegetables and fruits. As there is a lot of fiber in it, the stomach gets full after playing a little and stays full for a long time. They are low in calories and high in nutrients. As a result, you will lose weight very quickly.
*****The quality of coffee*****:
There is a lot of research going on about whether coffee can reduce weight. Now you lose weight by drinking coffee more than what you are eating. Drinking coffee before meals fills the stomach with less food and drinking coffee before exercise can also be used to exercise with double the energy. Calories and fats are depleted very quickly and if one drinks coffee after exercise, the rate of fat loss increases even more. So eat coffee, but do not overdo it and follow the other rules of the diet.
*****What to eat with coffee??*****
Eat green smoothie in the morning, noon or night.
*****How to make:*****
One cup water, 1–4 tablespoons chia seeds, half a cup fat-free Greek yogurt, half a cup fresh or frozen blueberries, half a cup foot, half a banana, half a cup spinach, fresh honey, mix well and it will be delicious recipe. You can eat two or three times a day.
Coffee is good for the body. Caffeine has many benefits. But coffee on an empty stomach is deadly to the body. And if it is black coffee, then the amount of damage increases several times. Drinking coffee directly after waking up raises cholesterol levels. Not only this, due to various processes going on in the body overnight, excess acid is secreted in the stomach.
In this condition, if coffee is consumed on an empty stomach, problems like nausea and vomiting occur. So at all times of the day when the body has low cholesterol levels, it is wise to drink coffee. ***That means the ideal time to have coffee is from 9 am to 11 am.*** However, it is better to avoid coffee after lunch or dinner. This disturbs the sleep of the night.
*****The good and bad aspects of drinking coffee are:*****
*****Disadvantages of drinking coffee:*****
*****Not good for the heart:*****
Some studies have found that caffeine slows blood flow to the arteries that supply blood to the heart. Especially when you need more, such as: during exercise. Excess caffeine in the body is also responsible for palpitations, irregular heartbeats or high blood pressure.
*****Sleep Disorders:*****
One thing many people know is that drinking tea or coffee reduces sleep. Studies have shown that people who drink more than three cups of coffee a day rarely get a good night's sleep. Another study found that coffee drinkers slept 79 minutes less than those who did not. So if you have trouble sleeping, do not say coffee.
*****Relatives with sugar:*****
Although many people drink coffee without sugar. However, coffee with coffee, biscuits or breakfast contains sugar in many positions. All in all, maybe 11 tablespoons of sugar is being eaten throughout the day. So those who are trying to lose weight, their efforts will fail.
*****Bad for mood:*****
Caffeine increases the levels of a hormone called adrenaline in the body. That is why the tension of the body increases the level of feeling of excitement or panic.
*****Inability to conceive:*****
Drinking more than five cups of coffee daily can reduce the ability to conceive. If you want to be a mother, you must reduce the amount of coffee you eat. And skip coffee after pregnancy. This is because if 200 mg of caffeine enters the body daily, there is a possibility of harm to the fetus as well as birth defects.
*****The benefits of drinking coffee:*****
*****Improving sports:*****
Drinking caffeinated coffee gives life to sports. Although it increases the heart rate, coffee still creates energy and excitement in the body. So drinking coffee before any game brings different energy to the body.
*****Increased mental energy:*****
Studies have shown that during stress, 200 mg of caffeine in the body increases attention. On the other hand, there is evidence that caffeine is a particularly beneficial substance in Alzheimer's disease.
*****Reduces the risk of disease:*****
With or without caffeine, any type of coffee reduces the risk of type 2 diabetes. Coffee also reduces the risk of some cancers.
*****Liver protection:*****
Alcohol consumption and obesity increase the amount of fat deposits in the liver. Liver cirrhosis can be caused by pain as well as excess fat from the liver. Some studies have shown that caffeine sometimes plays an effective role in reducing liver or liver fat.
*****Feelings of joy:*****
Honestly, the smell of coffee makes you feel better. And if coffee falls in the stomach, it does not take much time to cut the sadness of the mind.
`That's why a cup of coffee with friends is really great.`
However, for those who are suffering from hormonal problems, it is better to avoid coffee. The caffeine in coffee interferes with the secretion of certain hormones. This causes various complex problems in the body. In addition, drinking coffee in the cold brings positive results for gastric patients.
***This is because the acidity of this drink decreases by 67% when cold.***
Caffeine is concentrated in cold coffee.It is best to drink coffee on a full stomach, and about six hours before going to bed. It also relieves the problem of drinking coffee on an empty stomach and does not disturb sleep.
*****So drink coffee in regular proportions to stay healthy. Stay healthy, keep others healthy and stay together with others.*****
Thanks for reading 💞💞
A small positive vibration can change the entire cosmos -THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT
No work in the world is small - we know that, but we have to believe it too! This is-
*****In Brazil, if a butterfly flutters its wings, the small effect on the weather caused by the fluttering winds may be followed by a tsunami in Japan or a tornado in Texas after many chain reactions ????*****
*****Or could a butterfly fluttering its wings in the Himalayas cause a hurricane in the Caribbean????*****
As surprising as it may sound, there is a lot of scientific reasoning behind it. And that scientific reasoning is not limited to the closed doors of science - human life, society, country, human history - everywhere the story of the storm created by the vibration of that butterfly's wing is hidden. This theory changed many concepts and is one of the ***key factors in the creation of modern physics*** because it relies on small differences for large results.
*****What exactly is The Butterfly Effect?*****
`'Butterfly effect'`
**It is a Chaos Theory. Chaos theory is the science of wonder, nonlinearity and uncertainty.** It teaches us to anticipate unforeseen events. As a result, we become a little more cautious in our way of life. In popular culture, the term “butterfly effect” is almost always misused. It has become synonymous with “leverage”—the idea of a small thing that has a big impact, with the implication that, like a lever, it can be manipulated to a desired end. The reality is that small things in a complex system may have no effect or a massive one and it is virtually impossible to know which will turn out to be the case.
*****Is The Butterfly Effect a real thing*****?
The answer might surprise you. The Butterfly Effect isn’t just one simple idea; it encompasses a set of mathematical discoveries that have been expressed in different ways at different times. Butterfly theory was initially applied to meteorology, but in recent years, the theory has been applied to other fields including mathematics, physics, and economics. This paper applies butterfly theory to matters of crisis management in public administration.
In order to make use of the butterfly effect, *****NASA scientists***** must study highly accurate models of satellites in the solar system.
*****Whilst Butterfly wings can be used to do some amazing things, do they really have the power to change the weather?*****
The butterfly effect is the idea that small things can have non-linear impacts on a complex system. The concept is imagined with a butterfly flapping its wings and causing a typhoon. Of course, a single act like the butterfly flapping its wings cannot cause a typhoon. Small events can, however, serve as catalysts that act on starting conditions. Some systems … are very sensitive to their starting conditions, so that a tiny difference in the initial ‘push’ you give them causes a big difference in where they end up, and there is feedback, so that what a system does affects its own behavior. `It affects the economy of the country ... the world economy ... and ultimately it affects the whole universe.`
*****Well, let's take a look at our daily routine:*****
The simple example of the butterfly theory is reflected in our daily lives. You get so much pleasure in calling one of your classmates ***‘elephant or black’***, `have you ever thought that this ugly pleasure of yours for a few seconds could actually be the reason for the girl crying in frustration over her body shape in the mirror back home???`
Sometimes a very small thing, a little encouragement can change a person's life! So one should always try to encourage people, to appreciate their quality. You may not even know that this little beautiful use of you to smile and talk to people on the street, in the market, in vehicles can make the mind of the person next to you very good! And if you think that your life is nothing, that what you do is meaningless, then you are wrong, because-
`Everything you do matters !!`
*****There are also many examples of how small things can have a big impact in real life and they can be compared to the butterfly effect:*****
For example, being seriously injured in a car accident is an unexpected event. But in anticipation of this unexpected event we use airbags, seatbelts in cars. The extent of the impact of the above event is very small. The Butterfly Effect is a chaos theory that has far-reaching effects. It is said that the movement of a butterfly's wings in one end of the earth can cause a whirlwind in the other end of the earth if the wingspan of the butterfly is at the exact point. In other words, `if the butterfly had not moved its wings at the exact spot at that time, the cyclone would not have occurred`**.**
Suppose today is a Friday holiday I called you and invited you to my house. You told the driver to get out of the car in an attempt to start the journey to my house. Due to holidays you have to request your driver, your driver is forced to change his pre-planned plan. He told his wife not to eat at home today. Your wife changed her plan in cooking. After inviting you to my house, my wife changed her cooking. After your car hit the road, the speed of many other cars changed to keep pace with the speed of your car. But your position is also responsible for changing the position of all of them in a four-dimensional way. And because of the change in their four-dimensional position, the four-dimensional spatial change also happened to all those directly related to them.
`This change is indirect to you.`
But a small move in your car can save someone's life or even cause someone's death. If you didn't drive today, your car wouldn't occupy any four-dimensional space on the road. If your car is on the road, the movement of other cars will be different from the movement of your car. And this different movement will change the movement of all the cars on the road. And maybe someone's survival depends on this little change.
`CHANGING ONE THING, CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING.`
*****Another interesting example:*****
When ***Ikhtiyaruddin Muhammad, son of Bakhtiyar Khilji***, entered the Bengal border with his cavalry, there were no nails in the stables of the border post. Due to the lack of that nail, the hoof of the ambassador's horse could not be hooked, because the hoof was not fitted, the horse without the hoof also went fast along with the ambassador fell repeatedly in the path. Due to the obstruction of the road, the ambassador could not report in time, and due to lack of accurate information, Raja Lakshman Sen and his courtiers remained confused till the last moment. Probably a factor as to why they're doing so poorly. They've probably considered the East Case Scenario first, and Ikhtiyaruddin Muhammad's cavalry must have been a formidable vanguard of a huge expeditionary force. Like any game in chess , the king is the symbol of the sovereignty of the state, which in modern martial arts is called the center of gravity. The fall of the king means the end of the war. So on the advice of the courtiers, Raja Lakshman Sen left the palace, and it is written in the pages of history, ..then Ikhtiyaruddin Muhammad conquered Bengal with a total of 18 cavalrymen. ***Then, sigh!***
`We can see how terrible the consequences of a little carelessness can be.`
*****Origin of the concept of butterfly effect:*****
It is generally thought that the events that could change the world include the atomic bomb, the insane politician, the massive earthquake or a mass movement. But because of modern thinking, people have come to realize that these are actually their misconceptions. According to Chaos Theory, the change of tiny things or events can change the whole world.Although there is little debate about the butterfly effect, *****Edward Lorenz***** was first credited with identifying this theory.
`Edward Lorenz was a professor of meteorology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and a mathematician who was the first to talk about the butterfly effect. He basically merged these two branches of his, namely meteorology and mathematics, and established Chaos Theory`.
In 1960 he was looking for a new way to forecast the weather. Because the model that was common, it was very challenging to make accurate predictions. It was from this discovery that he discovered the butterfly effect as a new theory with the help of mathematics.
`The science of strange, non-linear and uncertain events is usually called chaos or the science of chaos.`
Other branches of science generally deal with the phenomena of linear, mathematical, and specific results, such as electrical science, gravity, or chemical reactions. In these cases, it is possible to calculate the value that can be found for a certain value or for certain conditions.But chaos theory usually describes events that cannot be accurately predicted. Notable among these are the stock market, weather, human psychology, business, etc. - about which it is not possible to say anything specific. However,
`Lorenz's question about the fluttering of a butterfly's wing did not mean that a tornado actually occurs when a butterfly flutters its wings in one part of the world. Rather, he wanted to show through this strange question how much the properties of a system can change due to small changes in a large and complex system.`
He used this new theory to calculate the weather forecast. Lorenz uses a mathematical value as a prerequisite for forecasting the weather, which is ***0.506.*** This value was actually a little wider, meaning there were more digits after the decimal. Its value was ***0.506126***. When he counted six digits after the decimal, a value came up. But when he calculated with three digits after the decimal, that result was very different from the previous result. However, only three digits were omitted after the decimal point, but the results showed many changes. In this way he assigns about 12 values to the computer program (these values were mainly temperature, wind speed, humidity, etc.).
**From this, Lorenz concludes that the effect of a slight change in the quality of the weather forecast on the weather is not small at all, but widespread. This is how the chaotic theory called the butterfly effect was born.** Simply put, the slightest change in the direction of an event can change the whole outcome! Butterfly effect is a lot like law of gravity! This is the law of sensitive dependence upon initial conditions !!!
*****It's not just about butterflies, it's about any moving matter, including humans !!!*****
Not just the weather, it has an effect on our daily lives. Our daily small deeds, small thoughts later bring big changes in our lives. In that word-
`“Tiny little sand, drop by drop water ….. forms the continent."`
*****Did you know that you are related to Nicolas Maduro, who lives in Venezuela? Or, does your father influence Neymar's in Brazil?*****
No wonder. The above events are fictional. But it is 100 percent true that all the people of this world are affected in some way by each other's work. This theory is called *****"Theory of Chaos"*****, one of the results of which is *****The Butterfly Effect.*****
*****What is the basis of this theory ???*****
The basis of this theory is: Any small action can significantly change the end result or outcome of an event. The "Theory of Chaos" was the first to be published in the 1880's. But the most plausible explanation is given by the American mathematician Edward Norton Lorenz. He showed mathematically that `if any wave in the world changed slightly, that change would significantly change all the other waves in the world. This can be explained by the superposition of the wave.`
He said, for example, that a butterfly fluttering its wings in Brazil could result in a hurricane in Texas, USA. He really meant it ... the consequences of any small action can be far greater.
*****What is the relationship of butterfly with butterfly effect ????*****
Edward Lorenz published his research paper in the form of a paper entitled *****Deterministic Nonperiodic Flow.***** It was later awarded. The gist of his dissertation was that the weather forecasting models were not completely accurate. This is because it is not possible to find or calculate the initial condition value correctly. At the same time, small changes can cause huge changes in the forecast. In order to make this theory understandable to the common man, Lorenz gave the idea of the butterfly effect. This concept is also called the '*****sensitive dependence of the initial conditions'***** on the system.
*****But there is another reason behind calling this effect the 'butterfly effect':*****
When Lorenz was working on his weather forecast model, he used a variety of weather factors, such as temperature, wind speed, and humidity, as mentioned earlier. So he saw that he was getting different results every time. He is in no way able to recreate a specific result. He also tried to change the values of different influencers, but each time different results came. Putting these values into a graph gives a graph that looks a lot like a butterfly.
`That is why the name of the butterfly is associated with this theory.`
*****There are some historical facts about the butterfly effect:*****
***Some of the notable ones are-***
`#`Atomic bomb detonation in Nagasaki:
It is difficult to find people who do not know the horrors of the US atomic bombing in Nagasaki, Japan. But the fact is that US pilots were not supposed to drop an atomic bomb on Nagasaki that day. Their target was Kuroko, another city in Japan. Kuroko's military base was their main target. But when the U.S. bomber flew over Kuroko, there were clouds in the sky. The pilots did not see the arsenal through the clouds. They tried three times to hit the target. But that was not possible just because of the clouds. As a result, US pilots decided to bomb Nagasaki and that is what happened. It was this little cloud that saved the city of Kuroko from this horrific bombing. On the other hand, due to this little cloud, Nagasaki was destroyed without being a target of US pilots.
*****The city of Kuroko is therefore called the lucky city of Japan.*****
Because of the little clouds, the situation in the two cities is different, but it was not supposed to happen, this butterfly effect is also seen here.
`#`***WAR OF THE COW***:
Then in the year 1275. A farmer in the Belgian state of Zalet stole a cow from the neighboring state of Kondroj. However, his fortune is bad, he was caught selling in the market. The then-leading people of the state of Conrad offered him that if he returned the cow to its owner, they would forgive him. The farmer returned the cow as promised, but as soon as the cow was returned he had to be hanged. The king of the Zalet kingdom did not take the matter lightly. In this incident he got severely angry, the consequences of which were terrible. The death penalty for a minor crime that could have been a few months in prison! He considered the incident an extreme blow to his self-esteem by the King of Zalet and immediately declared war. `The effects of this war, which began with appropriate punishment for the king of Kondroj, were far-reaching. The war started with the theft of a few cows and lasted for almost three years.`
Their bloody war spread to neighboring states. The protracted war destroyed 15,000 people and 80 villages in the state of Kondroj, including four states. About one and a half lakh soldiers were killed in the war. In the history of Belgium, this war is known as *****"The Guerre de la Vache" or "War of the cow".*****
While this bloody battle may seem ridiculous depending on the theft of the little cow, it is a great example of the butterfly effect.
`#`***World War I began with a massacre:***
**Gavrilo Princip, a native of Serbia**, assassinated Archduke Franz Ferdinand of Austria and his wife in the Bosnian capital. And to avenge that murder, Austria declared war on Serbia, then the flames of war ignited on the powerful countries of Europe. In just fifteen days to avenge those two killings, almost every country in Europe declared war on each other - World War I began.
Sociologists were stunned by the horrific and tragic consequences of that horrific world war that killed and wounded nearly fifteen million people - and that meaningless war, which began with a small incident. Even at the end of World War I, the remnants of that violence remained - Hitler was coming up, and in a few days the world saw a more horrific World War II.
*****The real cause of the two world wars of the last century was very small.*****
One hundred years before the First World War, when the system of European countries was stable, the system saw two world wars in the same century for a small reason.
*****So there is no such thing as stability in the world?*****
This is the kind of big event that happens on the face of the earth for small reasons that brings instability to society - sociologists wonder. People then knew that all the natural laws, weather, politics, economy in the heart of the earth are very disciplined, arranged. One small incident can ruin the whole system, some kind of math and any solution that works for that event ..... it was not known.
`Twentieth-century modern science answers that impermanence - gave birth to a new branch of mathematics, a new theory - Chaos theory.`
In 2004, a film called The Butterfly Effect was released. Directed by ***Eric Race*** and ***Jay McKay Graber***, the film seeks to change some of the past. Similar to the butterfly effect, some other effects are becoming visible in the society. If one thing happens, many similar things happen in the near future. Attempts are made to explain it through various theories including Media Effect, Cultivation Theory, Social Action Theory. Research is also underway into what kind of psychology works behind the recurrence of similar events.
*****There are two types of recurrence:*****
Positive and negative. Some psychologists say that repetition of events happens due to imitation tendency. Some events provoke human protest. As a result, similar protest incidents are visible in different places. On the other hand, some incidents can awaken the criminal mind of the people. As a result, the person may focus on the organization of the crime by applying the same strategy.
*****In the end, if I say my opinion, it is-*****
There's this chaos theory that a simple flutter of a butterfly's wing can change a situation completely. This is a type of theory that you either believe in or you don't. I think that this theory can absolutely tie into the belief of predestination.
*****Do we or do we not have a set path of where our lives will lead us in the end?*****
This is where we have the choice to believe. I believe that we do indeed have a predestination. I feel that we have a road ahead of us and that we have a final destination. However, I believe that we have the choice to change where we end up. You may have a strong feeling telling you to go one way but you have the will to choose to go the other way instead. We have the choice and will to direct how our lives will end up for the most part. Clearly we cannot change the fact that people die, get diagnosed with cancer, and many other mental and physical illnesses. We do have the choice to choose when to spend our money, where we go, who we love and who we hate. We have choices to make our lives better or make them worse.
`JUST THINK OF YOUR MIND AS A MOVIE, YOU CAN PAUSE, REWIND OR SLOW DOWN ANY DETAILS YOU WANT.`
*****But to stress the real question, can the simple flutter of a butterfly's wing change situations that occur in our lives?*****
In my opinion I think so, I think that it can in fact shift certain situations and throw new challenges and obstacles in our way. However, with agreeing to this chaos theory, I do believe that no matter how many times a butterfly will flutter their wings, we can reroute ourselves and overcome things no matter what changes are ahead of us.
`We all write the story of our present with the future in mind, if just one step of yours can change a thousand possibilities, think .... maybe someone else in some part of the universe is changing your future too!`
*Now you think about your actions, your decision today and work accordingly will depend on the good or bad butterfly effect in your future life !!*
*****YOUR ACTIONS HAVE VALUE FAR GREATER THAN SILVER OR GOLD.*****
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Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.
*****What do we mean by life?*****
The meaning of life is a journey. The journey that thousands of people will meet you, talk to you, be friends with you will be broken in the blink of an eye. But this is not the case. Because you don’t understand the value of happiness if you don’t see bad times. In the same way, even if you do not come in contact with the difficult time spent in the way of life, you will not be able to understand how confident and self-confident you can be from within. Just as we do not know when a difficult time will come, many think about what to do at that time. Some people think that this time is not going to end. This low self-confidence sometimes loses your winning bet. So become more confident in yourself whenever a difficult time comes in the midst of this flowing stream of life. And say that good times will come as easily as bad times. These difficult times can be overcome with the decision to take a cold head even in the extreme moments of life. It will not always be the same. This sentence should be the only inspiration for your difficult time.
*****Can this sentence really come to inspiration in difficult times ???*****
When someone asks us such a question, we hesitate .... In reality, we cannot think like this in difficult times. Suddenly something happens that turns everything up-down. We have to accept any unexpected change in life. Life, which has been arranged little by little for a long time, seems to become untidy in a moment, the familiar world becomes unfamiliar. Bad times come suddenly.
*****So how do you handle yourself ??*****
* Accept the sudden change in your life due to an event, no matter how unexpected, accept it. The faster you accept, the faster you will be able to adapt to the changed life.
**** Whatever the new state of life, love it.***
* Even in very negative situations, small good things are scattered around, which we don't seem to care about. Separate attention to your financial well-being, family support, and your own well-being will give you some strength, which will help you to cope with this unpleasant situation.
******We need to learn to keep ourselves busy:*****
You can forget all your pain when you are busy. Don't spend lazy time, because in lazy time you will focus on the bad aspects so that you will keep thinking about the things that will not help you. Try to do something.
*****Who can climb to the top of success ???*****
The hands of the clock do not stop. Every second of life is lost in every moment. Those who can color life every second are at the top of the list of successes. The struggle is to take life forward by painting every moment. The story of that struggle is different in different people and minds. Although the story of each person is different, everyone's life is moving forward. Some are slow and some are fast ..... everyone is counting the hours trying to move forward. And those who move forward handle the difficult times of life and focus on work with a strong morale to move forward by taking some real lessons from life.
Life is always moving. The workplace you are working in now .... thinking maybe everything is useless without you. Really but it's not. If you leave work today it will create temporary problems in the workplace, but very soon everyone will forget your presence. In the same way today you may be quite popular among friends. No chat without you. Be aware, even if you are not, the color of the chat will not be dirty in any part.
Nothing is permanent in life. Emotions, complaints or grievances ... nothing lasts forever. Social relationships will not always be the same. Whoever you think you like today may not like tomorrow. Whoever is praising you today, tomorrow he may be your harsh critic. Those who climb to the highest peaks of success never compare themselves with others. So we have to learn to compare ourselves with ourselves. Do not despise yourself when you hear the news of a good job from your friend, but try to fix your path by taking encouragement from your friend.
*****Can we really get through this difficult time and get back to normal life ????*****
***Yes, of course we can.***
No matter how much grief comes, it will come down one day. The pain of losing a lover, good job opportunities or good results in exams ..... etc. Failure and grief can come in life due to various reasons. But what's in it !! We need to know that all sorrows gradually become lighter. One day after overcoming all the sorrows, we become accustomed to normal life.
*****We have to be positive:*****
This may sound conventional but it is really true. It is much more important to be positive in difficult times. When you stay positive you can keep yourself in a good position even in bad times and be a good person yourself. When bad times come in life you can do two things together. ***You will be positive and remind yourself that there must be light after the dark tunnel that dispels the darkness.***
*****Only hard work brings us this success ????*****
Success in life does not come from hard work alone. In addition to hard work, intellectual decision making and creativity have to be added. Never get stuck in a monotonous circle of life doing the same thing year after year. Learn to take risks with decisions. One of the advantages of taking a risk is that you do not know what will happen next. This unfamiliar and unknown path opens new doors in front.
*****"Let it be what you can't control," Marter said.*****
Make a list of things in your daily routine that are out of your control. Also stop thinking about these things on the list. When meditating or praying, keep in mind that things beyond your control are being handed over to your higher powers and are going away. Then focus on the things you can control, such as your words, your actions, and your decisions.
There is so much to be thankful for in life. Laughter makes life better. Look at the beauties that surround you and smile. Be grateful for the little things in life. When you put these little things together you will see that they are really important. Remember-
*****Happiness does not make you grateful but gratitude makes you happy.*****
*****In order to be successful, should we give***** *****importance only to the opinions of others or should we use our own conscience to make life as our own ??*****
Success or failure is not everything in life. Life is about painting time in an aesthetic way. Don't think of other people's opinions as everything in life. The same book may sound good to some, bad to others. In the same way, your work may be good for some, bad for others - always work through understanding with yourself. Mobile phones or the social world are not everything in life. You may be upset to see your friend's success picture on Facebook. Again, spending a lot of time on the back of the mobile phone during the day is not positive. Try to improve your skills. Give importance to your hobby.
*****How reasonable is the idea that others will lead you on the path to success ??*****
One has to follow one's own path. Others may like you very much, but at the end of the day you have to cross your path. Every human being has a different story of progress, a different story of hardship - so never sit back and think that someone will take you forward.
Open the mouth of the bottle by shaking a water bottle.
*****What will we see ???*****
***We will see that nothing will happen. Now open the mouth of the bottle by shaking a bottle of Coke***
*****What will we see now ????*****
***Will we see the same situation as before!Of course not ..... this time it will be scattered and dirty all around.***
There are many such shocks in our life.
*****Now the question is how are we reacting to it ..... ??*****
If we want to stay calm in all situations, we have to become like water. Most of the time we react unknowingly. So first we have to be able to separate our thoughts. It is because of some thoughts that come to mind when we are restless. If there are many thoughts coming, it is a state of turmoil. But you can stay calm in any situation when you learn to let go of your worries. By eliminating unwanted thoughts, you will be able to focus your attention on the thoughts that will benefit you in that situation.
Everything that happens in this world happens for a reason. There must be some reason behind our happiness and sorrow. If you think a little deeper about those reasons in difficult times, then there is a little chance to reduce grief or worry. Then the brain should be given more importance than the heart.
Logic alone helps a person to be tough in difficult times. Repeatedly saying ***"I am not the only one in the world going through such a difficult time"*** brings strength to the mind.
***"There are billions more people in misery than me, sadder than me."*** Even if you think about this in your mind, you can get morale.
***"Is my grief, my anxiety, my worries so great that I can't cope with it?"***Thinking like that brings back confidence ..... There is a way out of a difficult situation.
Day after night comes, the last light of darkness must shine and the day is not equal to anyone. we have to believe these words ..... you don't have to bother much to go through that the difficult time by hardening your mind.
Suffering in life, difficult situations come, will come, may come; But this coming is not to last. This arrival is to leave. One day must go. And when you go back, you will see that these miserable, difficult situations have given us many experiences. It has made our path steadfast and strong. So know for sure that if you can pass the test of patience, then the wonderful scenario of your success will come before you one by one. Know that in exchange for patience, this success is bound to happen to a very small number of people. And you are one of those insignificant people. Remember,
`God created you in a special way. That is to say, just as your shape is different, so will the attributes God have bestowed on you be different and distinctive.`
Our Creator sent every human being into this world with some incomparable skill, yet we never know what will happen in the next days of life. As long as we live on this earth, we can pray to the Almighty God so that as long as He keeps us alive in this world, we can worship Him only for the reality of this life, not for the emotions.
*****Always make decisions that prioritize your inner peace.*****
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OLD AGE HOME remembers to all, " When your purpose is lost, your importance is lost."
*****Today I will present to everyone the story of a mother without her children:*****
***At the beginning of writing the story, I remembered a few lines of the poem-***
**I'm taking my mother too far .....**
**You are riding in a palanquin, mother;**
**The two doors open a little.**
**I'm going to ride a red horse;**
**Jumping next to you.**
*****But alas! Life is not like poetry:*****
The equation of life is very complex. As much as our middle-class society has kept their parents at bay for fear of public embarrassment, the lower-middle-class or low-income people, in the face of the harsh reality of deprivation, do not give them the same respect or love for their parents.
In the poem, when the boy dreams of going abroad on a red horse with his mother in a palanquin, the so-called boys and girls of reality are just the opposite.The worldly mother fell beside the broken door on the plank bed, not in the palanquin.
*****Fatema Begum is such a miserable mother:*****
Even though she is the mother of 5 sons and 1 daughter, she is spending her days in her negligence. This unfortunate mother is lying in a tin hut on the bank of the broken river. None of her children are looking for their old mother. Fatema Begum, who is about 60 years old, walks around all day picking up a few rice and pulses and eats what she gets. She went out as usual, with a razor in her hand and a bundle of worn-out cloth tied around her waist in search of rice and pulses. Tired at the end of the day, Fatema Begum returned home, but her aged body could not cook any more rice and therefore could not eat rice. I was talking about the time of Maghrib Azan when she was still hungry. One of the neighbors next door said that if she get up and sit down, Apa will take her picture. My right hand was wrapped like a vine and he sat down.
*****She asked me in my address where I came from and what should I do after taking a picture of him??*****
I said I won't do anything, I just want to talk to you. Then the old woman began to tell the various events of her sad life. Husband Sekender Munshi has long since left the world and left his wife Fatema Begum in the care of five sons and one daughter.
*****But what happens when the forehead burns .......!!!*****
In that hope, today it is just like the field of Tepantar. They don't give rice or clothes, but no children come to see for once. The elderly mother is living alone in a tin roof in the flood waters of Paikandi village in Mohanganj of Bera police station in Pabna district. A few government sandbags have been left on the roof of the house to control the floods. But with a little more rain and floods, the old woman's house will be submerged in the deep waters of the Jamuna at any moment. Maybe one day the old woman will come back home and see where she used to rest, the last shelter she used to have a little body has been washed away in the river and if the fate is more cruel then maybe in the dark of night she may be drowned in the terrible aggression of the flood. I asked her that-
*****Well, to be alone in a room that she is not afraid of???*****
He called me mother and said what should I do if I am scared ..... if I get lost I will go away with the current of the river ..... and there is no one to look after him ..... he started crying after saying this. He further said that the government did not even give a good sack of sand and asked me to go and see it. `"I don't get any food from anyone. I'm on the verge of death! What more can I say ... the children don't see me ..... and why will the government see me?"`
*****Is your daughter looking for you*****?
`"My girl is poor. She can't go. She spends her days somehow. How can she find out?"`
*****Boys and grandchildren never come to see you?*****
Before Fatema Begum could answer, a neighbor stood in front of the house and said that the mother's children and grandchildren were very bad. They live very close but never look for their mother. In this room where the light is on, the naughty boys come and take off the lights (bulbs) from time to time.
*****Aunt, who bought the fan that is spinning on your head?*****
Another broken neighbor came from the side and said that he was the one who was buying it. She is buying fans with a lot of effort.
*****I remembered some lines of poetry:*****
*"What happens every day, why it is not true....aha!*
*It was like a story......*
*Those who listened were barely surprised,*
*Grandpa used to say, how come.....*
*What is the emphasis on the boy!*
*Everyone in the neighborhood used to say,*
*Luckily the boy was with his mother."*
***I, too, was not surprised by the words of the neighbors, I was shocked.***
Mother is the closest relative in the world, a call involving a feeling of sweetness. The mother who bore children for nine months and nurtured them with difficulty .......... The mother is floating in the river today but none of her five sons keep her informed. The children of this unfortunate mother are really cruel and ruthless.
*****We who are the children of one or the other parent, will we live in youth forever .... will we never reach old age ??*****
According to the rules of time, we will all grow old one day, the golden days of youth will pass and the cold night of old age will come more or less in everyone's life, a fact that many of us do not realize. Joys and sorrows of youth make us so intoxicated that aging seems like an impossible consequence.
*****Don't we have any responsibility towards our own parents ???*****
Bigger than that, people have a lot more responsibilities in their youth or adulthood. Not everyone has the privilege of caring for the needs of elderly parents in spite of their desires or feelings of guilt. People of different religions have repeatedly reminded people to take care of their elderly parents. The religion of humanity has reminded us that we have found life for them and today we often hear criticism in the strain of our responsibilities about how bad the old age homes are and the only cruel children can leave their parents there. Today I will not go into that discussion. However, the fact that children often do not understand the responsibilities of parents, causes them a lot of mental and physical distress.
*****Do we have nothing to say about conscience ???*****
Truly today we are defeated and ungrateful to the conscience.
*****If not, then why even today in a friendly country like Bangladesh, old age homes are becoming the safe haven of the last age of our parents ????*****
Talking to aunt Fatima, she objected that she would not take any money from me when she came out.
*****She pulled me aside and said why should I give money ??*****
Once she just said the boys didn't see her and I didn't hear anything negative about the boys outside of that. ***This is what it means to be a mother!***
I thought to myself that the mother who had been collecting hay all day to cook some rice, ignoring the sun, rain, storms and floods and wandering around the village in her last years, was also thinking of me as her guest today, so she objected to taking my money. A miserable mother walking on the road also has a sense of humanity. It is not only the children of that mother who have no conscience. Just water and water all around. It goes without saying that there are almost no people.
*****Suddenly I became anxious and started thinking about the line of the poem:*****
*"You're scared, you wonder where I came from,*
*I'm saying don't be afraid mom,*
*Look over there, you can see the current of the dead river. "*
No, maybe her children will never say that by giving such courage to her mother. Not all children in the world can be heroes. Some people are cowards. The lives of thousands of Fatema Begums are constantly being shattered like the banks of a river whose news we do not know or do not want to know. The world today is going through a difficult time.
*****The history of mother's love:*****
A story of mother's love for her child. A helpless mother used to live in the city with her child. Ever since the boy came to his senses, he has been seeing that his mother looks ugly because he does not have one eye. The mother went to see her son one day while passing by the school. The boy did not meet that day for fear of embarrassment that his classmates would laugh because of this ugly show. Mother came back without saying anything. The boy grew up and got a job. The son got married and stopped all communication without looking for his mother. A few years later, the boy was invited to a reunion with his school's alumni. When the boy went to see his injured mother, he found out that there was someone else living in the rented house. A woman the same age as the mother of the house next door gave the boy a letter saying that the boy's mother had asked him to give it to her son before he died.
*****It was written in the letter-*****
`"Dad! I know I don't have an eye that makes me look ugly which is why you don't like me like everyone else. If you knew why I didn't have one eye, you wouldn't hate me anymore. When you were young, your father, me and you got into a car accident one day. That day your father died, I was seriously injured and one of your eyes was permanently damaged. After the operation, I gave you one of my eyes. No one else knows about this incident and I did not tell anyone."`
There are thousands of such examples in the history of mother's love. There are innumerable children around us whose conscience and responsibility are not towards their parents. Not only uneducated idiots but also educated conscientious objectors are scattered in the society. Humanity exists in the heart. The humanity of that so-called man is being transformed into a lot of bestiality.
*****How long will the unspeakable torture of elderly parents continue ???*****
I think these injustices need to end. The child has to be forced to take the responsibility of the parents. Otherwise it will have to be implemented by providing severe punishment. We never want to see the tragic consequences of a parent. May all children be sincere to their parents.
The world today is going through a difficult time.
*****Yet has unjust sin or iniquity stopped ???*****
Nothing stops. The fear of crime has not diminished at all. Nature also seems to be defeated by these senseless people. We want to see the dream of a wonderful, beautiful and beautiful life of humanity for human beings. Let that dream come true, we can make such a logical demand to the representatives of the state towards the country. Let a state law be passed for these helpless parents so that every parent in the country becomes a very valuable asset to their children. They can spend the last life with their grandchildren very happily.
`No mother or father has to go to an old age home or live in dire straits like Fatema Begum or that boy's mother.`
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Is homeopathy medical therapy or superstition ??
*****What is homeopathic medicine?*****
In 1790, a revolutionary change took place in the world of pharmacology. In 1796, the scientist ***Hahnemann*** introduced a method of treatment called ***homeopathy*** to the world. Since then, the progress of new drugs has continued..... The theory of this treatment is that if a 'substance' is applied to the body of a healthy person, the same reaction that starts in him should be used to heal a patient who develops the same reaction. When treating a patient, homeopathic doctors assess his physical symptoms as well as his mental and emotional state. The ingredients they use in a medicine are so dissolved that analyzing the ingredients in it does not give an idea of the original ingredients.
*****But even then, how does homeopathic medicine work?*****
**Hahnemann** has given a mysterious explanation in this case. He believed that homeopathic medicine had a kind of **'spirit-like power'.** When an ingredient was routinely diluted with alcohol or water, it would enter the substance. Hahnemann was the first to say that an herbal substance must be a medicine because of its intrinsic power. No substance will be recognized as a medicine unless it has general medicinal properties, unless its internal potency is developed. When an object develops its internal capacity and is applied to a healthy human body and its medicinal properties are revealed, it will be considered as medicine. The process of developing the internal capacity of an object in this way is called ***dynamization***. Medicine is the source of energy in homeopathy. ***When a drug substance is fortified by developing its internal capacity, it will be converted into a drug.*** When this drug is applied to the patient's body, it will be considered as a cure. In this way many common non-medicinal substances are also being converted into medicine in homeopathy and used as a cure for the patient.
*****Does a patient know exactly what medicine is being given to him?*****
It actually depends a lot on the doctor or the person practicing homeopathy. However, most patients do not know exactly what medicine they are taking. And in pharmacies, homeopathic medicines are only identified by their **Latin names**. Critics of homeopathy, however, have repeatedly claimed that the medicine given to a patient should include the German name (perhaps English in other countries) so that the patient understands what he is taking as medicine.
*****What else is in homeopathic medicine?*****
Crystal sugar is a key ingredient in homeopathic remedies. And homeopathic substances in liquid form cannot be called anything other than alcohol or water. This is because the active components are so diluted that they are difficult to identify.
*****What is the relationship between homeopathy and naturopathy?*****
Naturopathy and phytotherapy are considered scientific. However, homeopathy has nothing to do with these two. Herbal teas, for example, contain many identifiable active ingredients, and homeopathic medicine has many unrecognizable ingredients.
*****What is the biggest risk of homeopathic therapy?*****
The time a patient spends taking ineffective homeopathic remedies can make their disease more complicated. For example, if a cancer patient chooses homeopathic remedies instead of chemotherapy or radiotherapy, it can be difficult to treat his cancer later. And in such cases the risk of death of the patient increases. In addition, if a parent in Germany forces his or her child to seek homeopathic treatment outside the conventional medical system, he or she may face legal complications.
*****So what does the success of homeopathy depend on?*****
Homeopathic doctors usually spend several hours to find out about a patient and his disease. They try to understand the patient's weaknesses through empathy and through intensive discussion create a situation where the patient begins to feel important. This is why homeopathy is considered by many to be psychotherapy rather than medicine. In this way, an attempt is made to awaken the self-feeling power of a person. Medicine is a minor issue here. Homeopathy is therefore a matter of faith, not logic
*****Homeopathic medicine is gaining popularity:*****
With the exception of newly discovered diseases, many old diseases can be almost completely eradicated through homeopathy. According to a study, ***about*** ***40% of the total population of Bangladesh seeks homeopathic treatment. "The number of people seeking homeopathic treatment in this country has increased at least fourfold in the last 15 years," said Dr Jahangir Alam, who conducted the study.*** We say that Bangladesh is self-sufficient in allopathic medicine. One revolution after another is happening in our domestic medicine sector. ***About 98% of the country's demand for medicines is produced in the country, about 113 countries in the world are exported medicines made in Bangladesh.*** Despite all this, Ayurvedic, Unani and Homoeopathic medicine are gaining popularity along with the traditional medical system in the country.
According to the Ministry of Health, 278 allopathic medicine manufacturers in the country now produce medicines and raw materials worth about Tk 15,619 crore a year. Besides, 266 Unani, 205 Ayurvedic, 79 Homoeopathic and 32 Herbal medicine manufacturers of the country produce medicines worth around Tk 850 crore. ***Looking at the market, it is understood that the demand for these medical systems is increasing.***
*****Why the growing demand?*****
To give an example, suppose one of the kidneys is damaged. He was taken to an allopathic doctor
*****What will the doctor say?*****
Be sure to tell the patient that he needs a kidney transplant. A lot of money is needed for this operation. Think about how much money can be and what kind of misery can be borne. So there is no guarantee that it will be better if you have a kidney transplant. Those who do not have money then look for alternative ways and eventually appear in Ayurvedic, Unani or Homeopathic treatments. Here, the treatment is done for a small amount of money, people do not think what the result will be .... start the treatment, because, someone may have been better at this treatment - there are examples!
***Martina Fleischmann*** has a deep faith in homeopathy. He goes to the homeopathic doctor for any ailment. He first came in contact with homeopathy while undergoing treatment for his son. Martina Fleischmann's son was suffering from hyperactivity disorder, meaning he could not stay still. The doctor gave him a prescription for the psychiatric drug Psychotropic. Martina became terrified Then the word ***homeopathy*** came to his mind. She is worried about her son's symptoms. Psychotropic drugs ***'retail'*** can only suppress the symptoms of the disease, not cure it. His statement was that homeopathy has made his son better.
***Dr. Karin Bundelin***, a homeopath, treated Martina's son. Martina also now goes to Dr. Bundelin in sickness. Small homeopathic pills can activate the body's immune system. When a healthy person takes medicine for a disease, the symptoms of that disease appear in his body. ***For example, a sore throat can be caused when a healthy person takes the same medication that Martina takes for sore throat.*** Although not fully proven from a scientific point of view, many Germans are becoming more and more confident in homeopathy. In this regard, Dr. Karin Bundelin, a homeopath, said that ***when he first started this treatment, when one of his patients went to buy medicine, the shopkeeper would say that ... if he sells medicine to patients, they can eat it or throw it away.*** The same thing will happen. But Karin Bundelin doesn't think so now ...... that it would be easy for anyone to talk like this today.
There are a lot of books on homeopathy and medicine available in the market now. 57% of Germans believe in homeopathy. Medicinal ingredients are diluted with water or spirits to reduce their toxicity and increase their effectiveness. This is what is considered in homeopathy. Allopathy doctors, however, view this issue with suspicion. But patients like ***Doris Road*** have full confidence in homeopathy. If Doris has neck pain, then she goes for homeopathy treatment. He has also treated his son's whooping cough with homeopathic pills. In his words, ***"I understand that my decision was the right one. Although a friendly allopathic doctor told us we were playing with the boy's life. "***
*****Is this the only reason?*****
Man has some secret disease, which he is afraid to tell anyone. Herbal or homeopathic clinics have sprung up to provide the secret solutions to these hidden diseases. Leaflet is distributed for this treatment.
*****Is it scientific?*****
Homeopathy survives centuries of controversy over the likes and dislikes of ‘Like cures Like’ and the power to alleviate. But the unbelievable thing is, science still doesn't have the answer to how homeopathic medicine works. ***International Conference on Traditional Medicine, Unani, Ayurveda, Herbal and Homeopathy has been held in Dhaka. The conference was held from 13 to 15 January 2016 at the Senate Building of Dhaka University (DU).***
*****Who was the organizer, you know?*****
***DU Faculty of Pharmacy!***
A total of 800 academics, including 50 people from 32 countries, 100 from India and 650 from Bangladesh, were represented by researchers, students, regulators and representatives of manufacturers.
*****So if you ask these questions - are they scientific, will people believe you?*****
*****Homeopathy cannot cure all diseases:*****
Of course, homeopathy cannot do everything well. For example: Cancer. Conventional medicine is needed for this disease. However, homeopathy can continue as well. ***Doris Road*** also suffered from allopathy due to her son's lung infection. In this context, Doris Road said that the disease was not getting better with homeopathic treatment, it was necessary to take the help of antibiotics. Martina Fleischmann, however, has had good experience in homeopathy. He has strong confidence in small pills. Martina said that without homeopathy, she would not be where she is today. In a word, she is very well now.
*****Christian Friedrich Samuel Hahnemann, the father of homeopathy, was born on April 10, 1755, in the German state of Saxony.*****
He obtained his MD degree in medical science in 1779. In 1796, Hahnemann invented a new medical method. He later renamed this method *****Homeopathy*****. The key to homeopathy is to cure the patient with a little medicine. It was at this time that physicians and pharmacists began to oppose Hahnemann, considering homeopathy to be against their own interests. Unable to withstand this pressure, Hahnemann left Germany and moved to Paris, the capital of France There he died on July 2, 1843.
*****Origin of homeopathy:*****
The origin of homeopathy is in Germany, about two hundred years ago. Although its use in the Indian subcontinent began about eighty years ago; that is, after the First World War.
`Homeopathy Day is celebrated on April 10 in Bangladesh like many other countries on the birth anniversary of Dr. Samuel Hahnemann, the father of this medical system.`
Homeopathy began in the United States in 1825 and continues to this day, despite its discouragement. In developing countries, it is one of the main alternative treatments for the poor. Homeopathy became very popular in the Indian subcontinent and spread throughout the twentieth century. This treatment has been going on in Bangladesh for a long time. In the United States, these drugs are concentrated from vegetable or common chemicals, and physicians dilute them as needed, as directed in the guidebook. There are many books on homeopathy in Bengali and this treatment is being done in the country on the basis of these. Recently, a number of homeopathy colleges have been established for formal education in cities and towns of the country.
It is true that with the advancement of science in the present age, many medicines made from medicinal plant ingredients are making effective contribution in the field of allopathic medicine as well as in the treatment of diseases. However, the real medicine is not being implemented here due to the fraudulent drug manufacturers and fake Kabirajs of Unani and Ayurvedic industries.
*****Vehicles and roads must not be a place to sell drugs?*****
There are more fraudsters than the real organization. There are five hundred Unani and Ayurvedic institutions blacklisted by the Department of Drug Administration, who are cheating the public one after another. These fraudulent companies, which manufacture medicines for all complex diseases, have been trading Unani and Ayurvedic medicines all over the country, including the capital, year after year.
According to Section 14 of the Drugs Ordinance, 1982, advertisements for the marketing of any type of drugs are strictly prohibited and punishable, but these blacklisted companies have long been carrying out advertisements in various national dailies without paying any attention to the drug administration. Among the registered companies, the medicines of 20 companies are of good quality.
*****So what are the others doing?*****
Inferior people give birth to inferior offspring and, thus, propagate their inferiority attracted by these attractive advertisements, less educated and uneducated people are being deceived every day. A network of these fraudsters has been set up across the capital. As soon as you go out on the streets, you can see that its members are attracting people by distributing small cards and leaflets. Only the drug administration can find a better way to control and free the general public from these fraudsters. Essential medicines are considered essential for the treatment of diseases. Medicines are products of a certain chemical quality, made artificially or collected from natural sources. Their chemical composition is complex and is used in the treatment and prevention of various diseases.
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Life is the equation of hope
Josner's fire blazed on the green grass of my yard;
All shines one by one!
Nature's youth covers the pile of gray ash!
Familiar paths become crooked;
And merge into unfamiliar horizons!
I look like a silent spectator in the work of time!
And helpless vision only finds.......
What was and what is there?
By traversing the detailed path of dilemma;
There is confusion in the design of the account!
All the meaning of life is unknowingly palatable!
Life is like a geometric equation!
Here-
The habitat of salt water is flooded by incessant rains!
Depressed clouds swallow the blue sky!
Evening mourning falls on the screams of winged birds!
Grasshopper's team on the branches of the pen!
Lonely seagull loses its way in the wind!
The torn sail flies in the south wind!
The pillars of the broken house are firmly grasped!
Blessed moon to pray in the sky!
Write the song of the arrival of spring and wake up at night!
As a mistake, I gossip with my own will!
**Colorful background of simple life built on thoughts.......**
I have come a long way since I started my life. I don't know where the end of this path is..........I stopped at the bend of the path many times while walking. I have seen many things in reality, sometimes laughter, sometimes tears, sometimes the form of deception, these are very familiar with real life. I have believed many people in my life but they have repeatedly taken the opportunity of that belief.
**So I am too scared to believe people ... !!**
In the course of my life, I have seen many dreams, sometimes real and sometimes imaginary, and finally after adding and subtracting in the book of equations, the dreams are lost to reality. Even then, the ignorant mind seems to want to awaken those dreams again and fight with the real life in the world. But from the other side I woke up again to see the light of that dream ... !! Sometimes it seems that the world is very sad, yet this life will flow between wanting and losing.
The equation of life is one that is Nitrogen filled gas like a balloon. This balloon is reality. The nitrogen gas inside is yours dream, which is your reality blown away or carried forward. Every step of life like the air layer of the sky. The balloon leaves the ground from the time of giving ..... I mean, from the moment he is born, he goes through the stages of life ... like crossing each level of the atmosphere.
The more levels you cross, the better. Nitrogen which is your dream, it keeps on decreasing and the reality is tightening. At one level the balloon runs out of nitrogen. Then the reality takes you for a while in a place that floats, where there is no expectation of receipt. There is no calculation of happiness and sorrow. Then just wait for the exhaustion. And the rope that holds this reality and the dream together is your life.....over which you have no control. I are the only ones who suffer from the reality of life and the pursuit of dreams.
I like to keep quiet without saying much. Imagine all the time. In the imagination I always talk to myself. And I am always oblivious. I don't pay much attention to who is doing what around me. A lot of times when I go looking for someone I get lost. Another thing is that I don't remember my path so I often go wrong when I walk alone. So far, there is no accounting for how many people I have encountered while walking on the road. My whole life seems imaginary because everything that happens to me seems imaginary to me. If something goes wrong, I think if the imagination is broken, everything will be fine.
My impossible imagination is growing day by day. I sometimes lose myself. I don't know if there are many things in life but all that I have achieved is true. I am not proud of anything false. One of the weirdest things that always makes me wonder is why I can't accept everything as normal as eight or ten other people. Some things must touch me again and again. Everything I say comes from deep feelings, so maybe a kind of insult works if the answer is not meaningful. I entered the abyss of thought and drew many tables in a complex format so that it would not be appropriate to think of my subjects from a normal point of view. There are very few people who can understand me. I also don't understand myself sometimes, so maybe the reason I'm upset, the reason I'm angry is often unknown to me. I don't like to talk too much even though many people won't believe it when they see my post on Facebook. In fact, I do not talk much about friends and family. I like to be engrossed in different kinds of thoughts all the time so maybe my relationship with real life is also shaky. I can easily feel people so that I can easily place someone in the depths of my mind. And that's what sometimes makes me sad.
*****A few lines arose in the corner of my mind while writing this different feeling inside myself .....*****
The reckoning of life,
Captive in intricate frames.
With unknown variable,
Just treaty by mind.
Sometimes life is shared,
More than one variable.
One variable per seed ....
The combination occurs in the quality index.
Still different results,
Seeds of the same solution.
That's when the purification test is to be seen
Wet the equation of life by that seed ....
In this way the reckoning,
Wrong and right is going on ........
More and more complicated!
The equation is counting the seeds.
***I don't know my present, I don't know my future, but I can only say that at one time both happiness and sorrow will feel the same to me because the world of my feelings is slowly fading. And fading my feelings means my poems, stories will disappear from my list of creative works. But I will be a disobedient friend in everyone's heart.***
Life does not match the equation ....
When I go to match, I see the simple numbers in life;
It is becoming shoreless in the thick water.
How the numbers are bound in the spider's web of relationships;
A tangle is involved without opening it ....
The saliva glands of the spider are newly secreted thread;
Old woven mesh threads ....
When that is torn on the other hand;
Can't even understand.
I have never calculated the profit or loss of life.
I thought life is life .....
Maybe it will continue like this.
The arrival of a new relationship may be the source of a new number;
Whether he is Yadav Ghosh or Pythagoras..........
If। we throw it in the formula;
The formulas must match the numbers.
Come to the end of life;
Today is a new enlightenment ....
To calculate life ...
The calculations never really matched;
In numbers or life equations.
Now let's not do any new equations.
Mathematics or life ;
Matching a lot of old equations seems to be left......
**Finally, on the last page of the colorful diary of my running life, it seems that the people of my world are very cruel, very heartless and very selfish ...... !!**
***Is that really so ???***
***These feelings of mine match with the other 10 people !!***
Beaver in this thought, when I hunt and search for history, I find ..... this is the equation that we actually complicate ourselves ... surely you are interested to know how it is possible .... so next to me I put something in front of you to find out.
Life is the equation of hope! The one whose equations match, finds the selfishness of life. The type of equation varies from person to person. The solution to the equation for someone to get close to their loved one. Again, the matter is completely unreasonable to someone. For him, perhaps the selfishness of life is to be by the side of others in their misery; Equations to solve.
Someone took a place in the minds of people for thousands of years. Some people live forever in the memory of people with hatred for their deeds. We remember ***Mother Teresa*** with reverence. People also remember **Benito Mussolini, the father of fascism** who won the **‘First Martial of the Empire**’, but not respect; for his state anarchy. We remember people for both good and bad deeds. We judge their skills in terms of **"good"** and **"bad"** from a third-party perspective. But for them, the self-interest of their own skills and the self-application of those skills is the equation for the solution of life.
**Muniba Mazari,** the famous Iron Lady of Pakistan, was paralyzed in a car accident and her husband, family and losing her ability to be a mother and devoting herself to the path of humanity, she finds selfishness in life, then her husband leaves his wife for the same reason and sees the selfishness of life in the arms of another woman. The facts are the same, the gap is just their perspective. The ups and downs of our lives keep on happening due to the demands of time.
***And then the equation becomes weird for individuals!***
We uproot and just look ahead, hoping for a brighter future. We forget the past, dear face, dear happiness. Just rush to move forward; if the equation of life matches!
***What is life really like?***
Ever since I got to know myself, I've been struggling to balance life. Then I did not know the meaning of life! After reviewing history, it seems today that life is not just a solution equation, the point of view here is the first. In the generosity of the point of view the solution can be easily matched to the expected equation. Not too hard. We was born, we grew up, we had a good job, we had a happy family or we died one day after a fight with disease-grief-repentance, it just can't be life. To live life selfishly, we need to do or leave something on the earth so that even after death we live in the human mind for our own deeds!
***That is certainly not the case with Hitler or Mussolini; through greatness.***
When we don't have the ability to be a mother, we break down in tears! It seems that the expected equation of life is not matched!
***Why don't we wake up?***
***Why don't we think thousands of newborn parents are unknown in the world???***
Thousands of fatherless children starve to death.
***Why don't we take them in our arms?***
***Why not be generous to give our rights to someone?***
If the attitude changes, the expected equation of the solution is easily matched!
*****It’s ok to cry!*****
*****It’s ok to be failed!*****
*****But it’s not ok to give up!*****
Equation of life
Does the number of life match?
Match ..... only the numbers of life match!
Here are two and two is four;
Whenever there are five instead of four....
Just then the decay occurs.
Where the mind resides in the middle of the chest.....
There is so much chaos.
The blood cells that flow in the arteries...
From the heart...
Carries your existence!
Who are you ???
You are not my life equation....!!
Or the addition-subtraction formula!
So,with you....
First of all, start counting the numbers in the wrong way;
According to which section will the results match?
I have calculated the number of lives in statutory numbers;
All results matched according to the rules;
Fresh, bright decorated beautiful family......
The solution of simple equations is being matched step by step;
No one's cheating in the computer age,
Forcing the comfort of this mind !! .......
In the company of friendship with you;
Step by step addition or subtraction ...
I managed to be a little wrong;
Otherwise the whole figure would be wrong;
The results did not match.
Not every line tester looks carefully....
Where is the time?
You can only see the first and the last line;
Whatever it is in the middle - light-heartedness;
If only the results matched ...
That is the real thing;
The equation of life!
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Meditation is not something you find, it is something you create
One of my friend Chaiti's problem is that she can't take anyone's words lightly. Once in a chat, a friend of ours called her a swindler. As soon as Chaiti's two ears began to warm up, her chest began to throb. Trying to stay normal among friends by tightening the face-eyes, but does not cut the problem. These physical reactions continue day after day. Chaiti was getting unhappy. Frustrated with life, she became bored with herself. At one point she started meditating. No matter the complex. There are some things that need to be done very carefully while sitting quietly in the room. As she did so, she noticed that she was changing from within. Chaiti noticed that ... She was not dragging out the small things. She is now able to do the work that she used to sweat when she thought about it.
Many of us do many things to keep our bodies healthy. Some walk in the morning, exercise, eat healthy food and so on. But in order to improve student life, we need to keep our body healthy as well as our mind healthy. That work we can do very easily through meditation. Meditation is a state when our brain separates itself from everything unnecessary and immerses itself in a specific subject and learns to use the power of the brain to the fullest extent and perfectly. In addition to studies, daily 10-15 minutes of meditation can have a very positive effect on the development of our mental health and intelligence in student life.
Meditation, of course, is no stranger now. Meditation is a very common practice among many of the world's most powerful people, from Nobel laureates to scientists or writers. Many people know that meditation is now not only the pursuit of solitary saints, but also those who are accustomed to civic life. Scientists have been researching this for a long time and from some reliable sources we know that meditation is really powerful. As Harvard University professor Sarah Lazar has shown in her research, regular meditation increases brain power. In scientific terms, it helps to reconstruct the gray matter of the brain. Your thinking will increase, you will be able to learn faster and you will be able to remember effortlessly. Research shows that meditation is very effective in keeping the mind calm, preventing or curing diseases.
In this regard, **Ahsan Uddin Ahmed, Assistant Professor, Department of Psychiatry, Shaheed Suhrawardy Medical College, Dhaka,** said that stress-related mental and physical illnesses such as anxiety, depression, insomnia and migraine can be cured through meditation at an early stage. However, if the complex stage is reached, the treatment should be taken according to the advice of the doctor. In addition, the practice of meditation can increase the effectiveness of treatment.
*****If you want to meditate on your own:*****
Those who are thinking of meditating can start now in a very easy way. We talked to a few people who meditate regularly and browsed the internet to find out how to meditate on your own. Choose a secluded place to meditate. Meditation can be done lying down or sitting. If you lie down, there is a possibility of falling asleep. You can use any slow-paced instrumental music as background music. Think of any happy event that happened in the near future at the beginning.
Now close your eyes. Take a deep breath. Keep thinking that every part of the body is getting loose. Then breathe very slowly a few times. Pay attention to breathing. Notice how the air enters the lungs through the nose, then exits through the nose. When the mind is distracted, bring it back to breathing. Continuing this breathing exercise is a form of meditation.
*****If you have time, you can add the following part:*****
Imagine that you are slowly entering the depths of your mind. Now decorate the place as you like. Be one with nature in your favorite environment. Instruct the mind according to your needs. Think positive. Keep thinking that this change has really come in you and keep feeling the joy of this change. In addition, there are many other ways to meditate.
*****There are many things on the side:*****
You can meditate while listening to the whole process on the guided meditation track. Lots of meditation-useful music, guided meditation tracks will be found on the internet. Meditation books are available in the market. You can also visit the websites like Headspace, Quantum Method, Chopra Centered Lifestyle etc. You can download meditation apps like Mindbody Connect, Headspace, Ombhana, Smiling Mind. And if you can't understand it alone, there is a course.
*****There are 6 important effects of meditation in student life:*****
*****1. Increase IQ level:*****
We all like to think of ourselves as a little bit smarter. Now if I say there is one thing that can really raise our IQ level then surely you will be surprised!
According to researchers, meditation can actually increase our IQ level.
A 2011 study at Harvard University found that meditating for six weeks or more increased the volume of our brain's ***LEFT HIPPOCAMPUS, POSTERIOR CINGULATE CORTEX and TEMPORO PARIETAL JUNCTION.*** It greatly enhances our memory, thinking ability and ability to learn new things.
*****2. Freedom from academic stress:*****
Many of us get lost in the pressure of class, private and homework all day long. Meditation is a very good way to overcome this disturbance of academic studies. Meditation reduces the cell volume of the ***"AMYGDALA"*** part of our brain, which in turn reduces our fears, anxieties and disturbances. Meditation also increases the emission of alpha waves in our brain which helps to reduce feelings like anxiety, sadness and anger.
*****3. Increased attention:*****
It is a bit difficult for all of us to stay focused on the reading table. In particular, it is really difficult to concentrate on a subject for a long time on exam days. But meditation can make this difficult thing a little easier for you. Daily meditation on exam days can increase your concentration by up to 50%.
Meditation will teach you to focus on one subject, which will increase your ability to think deeply about any one subject and keep all other thoughts away from the brain while reading.
*****4. It helps to give up bad habits:*****
There are some habits of student life that we can't give up easily even if we know it is bad. This is due to lack of sufficient willpower and self-control. Which is responsible for the ***"DORSOLATERAL*** ***PREFRONTAL CORTEX (dlPFC)"*** of the anterior part of the brain. Meditation affects dlPFC which increases our self-control and we can easily give up bad habits.
*****5. Physical fitness:*****
Physical fitness is one of the prerequisites for good knowledge and good results in exams. No matter how well prepared you are, if you are not physically healthy you will never be able to give 100% of your exam. Meditation not only keeps us mentally healthy but also helps us to stay physically healthy. Meditation regulates the levels of C-reactive protein in our body which greatly reduces our risk of heart disease.
***Meditation reduces a student's risk of developing depression by 31%. Just 3 months of regular meditation reduces the risk of high blood pressure by about 52%.***
Regular meditation will relieve your fatigue and exhaustion, allowing you to continue your studies and other activities at the same pace. Studies have shown that people who practice regular meditation have higher levels of antibodies and immunity than normal people.
*****6. Farewell to depression, now the turn of joy!*****
According to a survey conducted by **Emory University in the United States,** one out of every 3 students suffers from depression at some point in their student life. Study stress, bad results or conflicts with friends; whatever the reason, depression is very harmful to both our body and mind. Even more than 1000 students commit suicide every year just because of depression!
Meditation is one of the best ways to overcome depression. According to ***Professor Willem Kuyken of Oxford University***, meditation works much like an ***anti-depressant drug*** for a depressed person. **Meditation also reduces a student's risk of developing depression by 31%.**
Now open all the doors of imagination. Move to a place where you never feel bad about going. It could be a beach, a mountain, a jungle, or your own village home where you like to spend time. Spend 10 to 15 minutes. Don't let any stress take over your mind for a while. Keep your mind completely weightless. The more you can keep your mind steady, the more effective meditation will be. Continue like this every day. Try to sit at the same time every day. One thing to note here is that as long as you meditate today, you can increase that period the next day but never reduce it.
Meditation can be done at any time. However, the idea is that 4 in the morning and 4 in the afternoon is the best time for meditation. The reason for this is said to be that the sun and the earth are at an angle of 60 degrees at this time. This gives the position of our pituitary and pineal glands the maximum utility of meditation in terms of sitting accuracy.
*****Disadvantages*****:
*Does meditation always have a positive effect?*
Just as meditation has its benefits, it also has some detrimental effects.
As it brings peace of mind, confidence and positivity, it also has its detrimental aspects. Such as:
***Following the wrong procedure***
There are many types of meditation books available that mention different types of meditation methods and each one claims that their method is correct. You have to follow the method of choosing what is right among the right.
*****Experiencing harmful emotions:*****
Meditation takes our mind to a stage where we gain freedom of imagination. Like you can think of yourself as a lion or you can think of yourself as a bird and fly in the sky. But everything that is happening is in your imagination. It has no real form. In such a situation, the harmful emotions that you have in your mind can be awakened. Like your childhood weakness towards someone or fear towards something.
*****Feeling weak:*****
When you look around and hear that everyone is benefiting through meditation but you are not able to fix your mind, the opposite is likely to happen. One thing to keep in mind at the outset is that meditation does not work for everyone.
*****Strong desire to see 'white light':*****
It is said by many that one can go to another world through meditation. If you follow the right method in meditation, you will be able to imagine yourself in different places. Seeing 'white light' is also a success of his meditation in the words of some. But such talk makes people more frustrated. People start thinking, maybe he has some other problem that is preventing him from meditating. Due to which 'white light' cannot be seen. People become more restless in trying to stabilize the mind. Ambition must be overcome.
Meditation is a natural thing. It is not a medicine that you take and the disease will get better immediately.
*****Decline in social media:*****
Excessive meditation can change your character, which in turn can affect your social interactions.
*****Don't think of yourself as supernatural:*****
Through meditation you may feel something supernatural. But never think so. Meditation connects the human brain to a variety of emotions that help calm your mind. But that is never possible. Remember that everything that happens in meditation happens in the imagination, not in reality.
Experiences like seeing white light or floating in space all happen inside your brain. To this day, no one has truly meditated and floated in space, so it would be foolish to think of oneself as possessing any supernatural powers.
While meditating, the mind often wanders. The meditator has to be careful so that his meditation is uninterrupted and the mind has to be brought back to meditation again and again. It can be mastered by trying to practice carefully at the beginning of the practice and by practicing again and again. Once you have mastered the process of stabilizing the mind, you will gain the ability to keep the mind away from scattered thoughts at other times besides meditation.
*****Have a good journey:*****
Meditation can be a useful friend in anyone's life.
However, the benefits will not be caught overnight, requiring regular practice. A little meditation in the morning or at night can make a big difference in your life.
***We waste a lot of time all day, just try to meditate!***
The dusty story of one's life
There was a book that weighed one life,
It had three pages wrapped in two pages,
The name of the colored wrapper was the gift of education,
The nation had the name of the day of his life
The ink of the pen ended with the first page composition.....
That page became the flower gardener of life.
The ink ran out on the middle page and the brush was used.....
The mistakes of life were painted with blood.
There was nothing left but love on the last page,
The book ended with a picture of his mother.
At the end of the book, the mother was in charge of the bright firefly......
The rest of the wrapper was left with it.
The main wrapper lost in the cruelty of nature;
The eyes go straight to the first page of the book......
The happiness of all the books that have been shattered in the dust;
Excluded by the readers .... brings sorrow.
In the midst of insults and rebukes.... the middle page went on,
New book opened to protect the honor of the book,
Wanted to save the rest of the wrapper and the last page;
There is a lot of talk to restore the respect of the book.
The reason for the first page today is the exclusion of the book.....
The rest of the pages are sad ... crying horrible present,
The prayer is that the unveiling of the wrapper should be on the first page;
Replace the wrapper should be held.
You don't have to teach people how to be human , you have to teach them how to stop being inhuman
The Lord has developed humanity through the skill of His secret and mysterious infinite power. Man is the best of creation for the combined perception of soul and mind. It is said that if there is a soul, there are animals, but if there is no mind, there is no human being. Man is endowed with full knowledge, intellect and consciousness so that he can recognize the great Creator, walk in the path of justice, and realize the consequences of evil deeds in the world. Stays away from all kinds of evil, evil deeds and lies, and can accept true-beautiful and public welfare deeds. That is why the mentality of peaceful coexistence and human love has been given among the people.
In a civilized society, the incidents of murder, atrocities, barbarism and cruelty are constantly increasing due to trivial reasons including torture of tender-hearted children and helpless women!
***Why are people committing such heinous crimes in social life, why are they becoming so violent and brutal like animals?*** Why do people lose their ‘value’ and ‘consciousness’ and become inhuman?
In such a pandemic situation when a group of people are standing next to people with everything, risking their lives, then we have seen a different picture.
I read countless inhuman stories about coronavirus in newspapers every day. Numerous such inhuman incidents are taking place in our society including leaving one's mother infected with corona in the forest, boys fleeing after leaving their dead father in hospital, not giving place to one's wife or sister at home. We have also seen that all the members of the family have gone to the market by locking their husband / father in the house on suspicion that he / she has been affected by corona. And that father / husband has fallen into the lap of death to get the pain of quenching the thirst for water. When the coronavirus is playing with human life, I can't control myself when I see some inhuman human around me.
If we think about it once .... Father, made you human by sweating, mother carried you in the womb for ten months and ten days and brought you to the earth. Did they expect this kind of behavior from you? Is it their crime to bring you into the world as a human being?
**How would you feel if your son / daughter treated you the same way then?**
Not only that, the society is behaving the same in our Bangladesh beyond the small family. People who died in Corona are being prevented from being buried, people living in adjoining flats are being kept in solitary confinement, people are being threatened to leave their homes, and even nurses and doctors who are risking their lives are being asked to leave their homes.
*****My question to those who are doing this is that are the people affected by Corona thieves, butchers or are they accused?*****
You can't say anything to the real criminals of the society who live on money in the flat next to you. Your problem is with a helpless person. Because it is easy to torture a helpless person. We weren't told you helped to others. If you are too scared, you should walk away. Can't help, you will be human. And can you say you won't be attacked tomorrow? What makes you so proud? It should be remembered that natural disasters do not discriminate.
Of course, everyone will be worried about coronavirus. Be careful and follow the hygiene rules. Being careful and being inhuman is not the same thing.
Well, think of the people working on the front line, including the police-doctors-nurses. You should know they have children, they have families. They are serving you by giving up the illusion of life. And you can't just be human......... Can you be called a human being? We see many more pictures of inhumanity like this.
*****Even then, inhuman stories happen behind our eyes.*****
A few days ago, out of curiosity, *****I would like to ask my friends through social media, who will do it first when the lockdown is over?*****
75% of friends said they would meet their mother. The subject moved me terribly. Mother's lap is still safe. That's what it's supposed to be. I immediately remembered, then why are the old age homes being built? To know this answer, I started reading about old age home on Google. I came to know the tragic story of the elderly parents in the old age home.
*****The same summary of all the stories*****:
That is - the old people are the burden of the family. In one story, I saw the only son's wife beating her father-in-law and breaking her finger. After that he was sent to the old age home. Another story is that after the death of a woman's husband, she sent her son to the United States to study at the highest educational institution in the country. The boy never returned. Another mother was left at the station by her children. In another story, the son leaves his mother and leaves the house with his wife. It was later learned that the flat had been sold. Most of the abused adults are women.
***Abdul Awal Sir, a former professor at Jahangirnagar University,*** who has taught hundreds of students, is living alone in an old age home today. The children are terribly established. He gave his pension money to his younger son. Yet there was no place in the boy's house. When this man with personality realized that he was the burden of the family. Then he left the house. This is our humanity.
*****Educated, uneducated, who have been able to be human?*****
**We do not see all the incidents of human rights violations in many places ......** Remembering a story, when I was in the student of college, me and my frirnds went to our school to visit. Then the tiffin period was going on, the classrooms were almost all empty, while walking around I suddenly saw a student eating tiffin in a classroom. There is another person sitting next to him. I wanted to know, did you bring tiffin? He said he forgot to bring it. I told the boy next to him to share his tiffin with his friend. That student told me that her mom told him not to share the tiffin with anyone. I was shocked that day. Because my life experience is not like that. I am a child of a joint family. Not alone, I grew up eating together. I don't know how a parent can be so self-centered. However, I can say that the fate of such parents may be a time in the old age home alliance. Because **the lesson of human education has to be given from the family.**
***Now the question is how much are families teaching their children to grow up as human beings?*** Our families have kept their children busy just to get GPA-5.
Naturally the question arises ..….. why? People are not born so cruel from the mother's womb, then????? Our family structure has not changed in such a way that the flow of cruel people in the society as a whole will coming. So??? What exactly is happening in our society and state, what regulators have been created that are turning social people into such cruel and inhuman people?
Society and the state are not isolated from each other. They walk hand in hand. If the society is powerful, it can affect the state. And when the state is powerful, it affects the society. There are two stages of cruelty, one is social or community stage and another is individual stage.
*****An interview with Yale University professor, psychologist Paul Bloom, titled 'Why Humans are Cruel'.*****
There Paul Bloom mentions an established theory of the processes that work behind human cruelty. Many of us know about the process of seeing people as subhumans. The process by which a group thinks of themselves as superior or decent people, and through a step-by-step process makes the other group a lesser human being, then gives psychological and social legitimacy to the inhuman cruelty inflicted on them. The process we have seen against Jews and whites have to legitimize racial oppression by using it against blacks. Professor Bloom agrees halfway with the process of creating this subhuman humanity. He thinks this theory is incomplete. He thinks that two kinds of human psychology are involved in the cruel treatment of other people. One is when people want respect from other people and the other is when people feel very helpless. There are two ways to get respect from people. You can get respect by helping people or you can get respect from people by committing various terrorist acts.
We can identify these atrocities in bold and we can catch the connection of power or honor with this.The cruelty that we have not yet become accustomed to or that seems unusual to us is the cruelty that is born out of extreme helplessness. We can't find any explanation for such atrocities as when the mother is selling the child in the pain of hunger or when the father is killing the child or the child is leaving the old mother at the railway station or killing the neighbours for sake of the land. Bloom says that when a person feels very helpless, he or she wants to blame someone for his or her helplessness, to seek revenge for all that he or she does not have, to be deprived of, to be humiliated, or wants to be relieved in any way.
**In fact, putting any person in a real environment would be just as cruel.**
This means that in any society, when the amount of extreme helplbessness of a person continues to increase, the amount of cruelty will also increase. Again, if respect or power can be achieved through terrorism and torture in the society, then the amount of cruelty in the society will continue to increase. A single person is not born a cruel person, the situation in the environment either makes him helpless or empowers him to be cruel. The environment and situation that is directly and indirectly influenced and controlled by the state.
Yet I go on daydreaming .... May the conscience of those whose conscience is zero be awakened. Let's build a human society. The day the human society is formed, the day peace will return to the society. At one point in his speech to the United Nations on September 25, 1974, Bangabandhu said that peace was essential for the survival of mankind. Peace can never be lasting unless it is based on justice.
Let us all swear to establish a human society in the aftermath of Corona. In that society parents will be remain close to the child. No one should rise up against anyone. Everyone's fair rights will be explained to him. Corruption free society will be formed. This society will be free from corruption only if we build resistance against corruption from our respective places. In a society where there is no corruption, there is no exploitation and in that society there is peace.
Let us all pray fervently for the cure of coronavirus and for building a beautiful, happy and prosperous golden Bangladesh.💞🇧🇩🇧🇩🥰
Persuasion
Over the course of a few days I read a lot of stories about murders, homicide and other deadly cases, I remember about those people, the picture of their helplessness and misery floats up .... Inspiration arises to write about the existence of this evil in this world.
*****Why do they choose the path of violence?*****
*****Why end a life and want to solve it?*****
I believe that it is selfishness, violence and the bad feelings that arise in people's hearts that lead to such decisions.
People have a great fear of death like all other animals. Trying to survive by fleeing or fighting at the moment of possible death is the reflex motivation of living beings. This fear of death in the subconscious is innate in the organism, but consciously remembering the possibility of death at a time other than the moment of fear, thinking about it, is probably the only human suffering. The certainty of death affects human life in many ways. Its impression in literature and philosophy. That man chooses death again, prematurely.... Invokes future death. Man knows the existence of death clearly in conscious analysis, but there is no scientific proof of the existence of anything after death. Death is therefore the end of personal time in the eyes of man, the end of all good and evil. Happiness, closeness to loved ones, as frightening as the end of life, can be a relief to him in the moment of extreme sorrow or frustration or failure.
Even in the moment of great indecision, death may seem like an easy solution to the problem. The last blow to the earthly body is done by the suicide bomber himself, but the situation killed his ability to survive slowly or suddenly. This is an unprecedented crisis for human beings. An animal that does not recognize death as a human being would look for a different solution in life in a moment of crisis. Suicide is closely associated with the meaning or meaninglessness of human life. When it comes to self-harm , society quickly blames social media for it, but social media is only a part of self-harm. People harm themselves for many more reasons. And these reasons are complex. If the society wants to support those who have this tendency, then they have to try to understand the side of their extreme misery beyond the physical wounds of those people ..... especially those who often think of hurting themselves.
*****What is self-harm***** ?
Self-harm is not a mental illness of any kind and self-harm does not mean that someone will cut off his body. In the UK, self-harm refers to poisoning or injuring oneself intentionally or unintentionally without regard to anyone.
*****Why do people harm themselves?*****
There is no single answer to the question of why people harm themselves. But there are some underlying issues that drive people to harm themselves. Among those who harm themselves, there are some people who have mental health problems such as depression or anxiety, but most have no mental health problems. People who have had to deal with emotional trauma have a higher risk of self-harm.Some researchers believe that deprivation, poverty and hardship create a risk of self-harm in people. The economic downturn in recent years has been one of the reasons for the increase in self-harm.
Suicide is also a very important issue in the eyes of ordinary social workers or health workers. Whatever the poetic, philosophical, religious or social interpretation of suicide, it is a kind of preventable death for health workers. Attempts must be made to stop him. The death rate is not negligible. According to the World Health Organization, ***eight million people commit suicide every year. That means one person is being killed by his own hand every forty seconds. Twenty percent of those who die in this way are actually failing to attempt suicide, according to these statistics. That means one person is trying to commit suicide every two seconds.*** As I write this, countless fellow citizens around us are thinking, planning, mobilizing, and even trying to commit suicide. Some of those whose death will be reported tomorrow morning may be mine or your friends or relatives......💔💘
The role of social or economic realities as a cause of suicide is important. In other words, various mental disorders are important reasons for suicide, but never the only reason. Therefore the idea of preventing all suicides by applying only psychiatric drugs is unscientific. The young man, who lost his job in mid-youth and is going to sit on the road with his family, is suddenly stunned to see the terrible crisis of the working world standing at the doorstep of youth .... At the age of forty, a citizen who suddenly discovers that he is no longer a legitimate citizen of his homeland, that is, he has no country in this world. What medicine can cure their problems from the beginning? Is it enough to treat the girl whose father-in-law is pushing her to commit suicide by demanding dowry or by constantly insulting her out of arrogance of lineage? Or do the original residents of the in-laws need more treatment? Is that treatment medicine or good education? Will the doctor treat them alone, or will you and I all unite????
Therefore, long and sincere socio-political activities are essential to prevent many people from committing suicide, in the range of small and large. The way by which we can move forward on that path is a matter of individual discussion. But just as paracetamol reduces fever before the cause of the fever is cured, so too can we take small and effective steps to save the people around us from suicide. We can give a little more time to our familiar relatives. We can look up from the smart phone and see the man next to us. We can talk to them. Only this much can be done.
Is there anyone in your immediate family who has been feeling unhappy for a while or for a long time? Anyone who is overly terrified or anxious? Or any man alone? Or is someone gradually wrapping themselves up? Anyone suffering from severe physical pain or incurable disease? Anyone suffering from the stigma of unemployment, dismissal or failure? Can't handle the burden of extra responsibilities? Any acquaintances getting intoxicated? Does anyone think he is unnecessary, a burden on the shoulders of others? Someone is expressing a desire to die? If we keep our eyes, ears and mind open for other people, we will easily find them. Talk to them on our own initiative. . This kind of people need help and support of us, we should not ignore that.
***I made this design myself. When I was writing this article, I was trying to create a design from this thought and in the end I was able to make this look. I tried to do that my best😊 and I hope you enjoy it too. How do you like this design??? Let me know in the comments.🥰 And next I will try to present something better.💝💝***
My million colours of happiness
While eating, I sat at the table and looked at my mother and gestured that my mother should tell my father. My mother looked at my father in fear and said that I wanted 10 thousand tk. That's why my friends will go to Sajek for a few days ... Dad looked at me and asked," when I would go to Sajek ....?" Then I said that I will go after 5 more days .. Dad looked down and after eating the rice, he said that I had to do something and that is to spend 3 days in the store. And Dad also started saying that he would go somewhere for 3 days and come and give me the money ........ I smiled happily and said that All right, Dad.
The next morning I went to the store. We have a small clothes shop. Sometimes I went to the shop but never sat in the shop. I sat in the store for the first time today and went to work with my mind. There are two employees in the shop and they are explaining everything to me. My job is to write down the amount of money earned on a piece of clothing and occasionally I have to show different clothes to the customers in the store. After showing a customer about 20 shirts, the customer said that he did not like any of the shirts. I asked in surprise, - "Didn't like any of these?" He said that - No ... he didn't like the shirts. As I was fixing the shirts with a sullen face, the shop employee laughed and said, " You don't have to be sullen. Always talk to the customer with a sweet smile ......"
After a while a boy came and asked to show him some new design pants. I showed him some good model pants. He liked a pair of pants. The price of the pants was 1200 tk. I asked the boy for 1500 taka. The boy turned these pants upside down and said that again I will give pants with 300 tk or not! Hearing that, the mood of mine got worse. I controlled my anger by clenching my teeth and said with a sweet smile on my face, "No, brother, it won't be so cheap......" After a while a woman came and turned all the clothes in the shop for 1 hour and said that she liked 2 clothes and also said that when her husband gets paid after 3 days, she will take these two clothes. The whole body was shaking with anger. Even then I couldn't say anything because the customer was talking. Keeping my anger frozen in my chest, I smiled and addressed her as Aunty and told her that the day uncle gets paid, the day she comes with uncle .......
One boy seems to have come to the store with his girlfriend. The shop employee is showing their different kinds of clothes. Seeing the clothes that the employee of the shop shows, the boy and his girlfriend say to show them better quality clothes. Finally the employee boy said that there is no better quality cloth in our shop. The boy said with a look of annoyance on his face, "Far be it from me!! I wasted my time in a poor shop ...". I can't stand it anymore. I told the boy, "Brother, if you are the boy of the rich, then why are you visiting all these ordinary shopping malls except Bashundhara Shopping Mall, Jamuna Future Park? While we were arguing, the employee boy apologized to the boy and told me, "If you do that, there will be no business. Every day we have to listen to so many things from different types of people. You came first today so don't know anything ..."
At the end of the day, I calculated that after deducting all the expenses, the profit was 820 tk. I look after the shop for 3 days. In these three days the income is 4020 taka.
*****I don't think I've ever had so much trouble in my life........ that much trouble these three days!*****
Sitting in my room at night while I was handling my phone, my father came and told me with an envelope that there is 10 thousand taka for me inside it . I looked at my father and said, "10 thousand taka for what?" Dad asked in surprise, "Will you go to Sajek with friends?" I looked into my father's eyes and said, "Dad, I didn't understand before how hard it is to earn money, so I've been begging you for so long." I futher told him that I have understood very well how difficult it is to earn money in these 3 days. I could not earn 5 thousand tk in 3 days, how can I beg 10 thousand taka for 2 days !!!
*****Spending so much money is nothing but a waste for lower middle class families like us.*****
My father was a little angry when he heard me say that I don't have to understand so much!! Since everyone is going, I would go too ...... I would love to see the vastness of the mountains. I took my father's hand and said that ***I don't have to go to the mountains to see the enormity. The enormity can be seen by looking into the eyes of my father.***
*****The father who puts a smile on the child's face even after a thousand hardships........*****
While sitting at the dining table, I told my father that there was no need to keep two employees in the shop. I will sit in the shop from tomorrow. My father did not answer me. Just told mom that why she gave so much chilli powder to the curry.... There are tears in his eyes ........ I know the curry are not soaked.
*****The reason for hiding the father's tears is different.*****
Sometimes a time comes in everyone's life when people suffer from indecision, then someone's advice becomes very urgent. Dad is an ideal person to stand by at that time. Everyone's closeness to the father is a little less because of the natural seriousness. But that man has no shortage of love for us. We have to take the first step to get close to him with just a little courage. It's really hard to find friends like Dad.
*****Lucky are the people who can be friends with their father.*****
*As a child I used to write some poems from time to time. Even today, when I talk about my father, I remember a poem very much.* ***There are the first few lines of that's poem:***
***As soon as I open the window of my mind;***
***I remember you,dad.***
***Where are you hiding me alone????***
***No one rules me every day like you, dad.***
***I remember your blasphemy;***
***I remember your words very much ......***
One of the greatest gifts from God in human life. I am still alive because they have blessings. Parents keep us at bay by trivializing thousands of dangers. I hope I will have the opportunity to serve them till the last day of my life. This hope inspires me. I love these two people very much.
Dad, your princess
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Am I too sensitive to be in this world?
Here's @BRISTY1820 . Now I coming up with a beautiful story. I hope everyone like this. So let's go.....
Once a girl went out for a walk with her boyfriend in the morning. They came and stood in front of a beautiful and high house. Suddenly the boy saw that his girlfriend was staring at the tall house. The boy, seeing the girl looking up at the high house, said that he was promising the girl that one day he would make such a house for her. But the girl did not say anything. At noon, the girl and her boyfriend stood in front of a large restaurant surrounded by glass. The girl stared at the restaurant for a while. Seeing this, the boy again took his girlfriend's hand and told her that one day he would take her to such a big restaurant. Then they turn around and arrive in front of a huge amusement park. Here, pay a lot of money to buy tickets to enter the park. The boy saw that his girlfriend was looking at the park door. Then the boy stood beside the girl. And he said that he did not bring much money today, but promised that the day when the money will be, once a month will bring her to visit this park. The girl did not say anything again.
When he came to take the girl home in the evening, he suddenly asked her if she was happy to be in a relationship with a poor boy like him ..... He also started saying that whether he can fulfill his lover's big wishes at all or not ... he is very worried about this. After hearing all this, the girl held the boy's hand and said that when she stood in front of the high house in the morning, she saw a beautiful blue flower tree on the verandah of the high house, not the high house, and thought that such a flower tree would be planted next to their small hut. And when we stood in front of the restaurant at noon, she saw that not the food inside the restaurant but how much an old woman was feeding an old man with care and thought that when they get older, she will feed her boyfriend in the same way. He further added that when she went in front of the park in the evening, she had no desire to go inside the park. Rather, it was a joy to see a small child playing with his parents inside the park and she began to feel those times in their next life. Finally she said that she has no big needs in life. Rather, it will be more joy to be able to fulfill small joys together. Tears welled up in the boy's eyes when he heard the girl's simple words. ***Sensitive girls are very honest as human beings. Of all the people you have already met or will meet in the future, they are the ones with real beautiful minds.***
*If you can earn their trust once, they will give their heart for you. If you make mistakes and hurt them, they will give you a chance to correct them. But once you cheat with them, they will erase you from their hearts forever. They know how to love deeply and in return they expect deep love from you too. If you have such a person in your life, give her value from today. Because, the number of such girls in the world is very low.*
So friends, what do you understand from this story ???
I think this incident perfectly presents me.
Once upon a time I heard from someone that think about yourself before meeting so many needs! But in reality he didn't really understand what I expected from him ....I think my desires were not like the big building of the story, like the big restaurant, but the small hopes, the hopes that would have made me feel so happy .... I can't express it in words, but I can say that in the big building even if I stay or go to a big restaurant and launch , I shall not find that joy.💔💔
When most people are asked to join a group of friends at a bar or crowded restaurant on a Friday or Saturday day/night, most 20- or 30-somethings don’t even hesitate to say yes—it’s a given, they’re going. But when it comes to me, more often times than not, I politely decline. Why? I don’t like loud environments, bright lights hurt my eyes and I can’t stand too many things going on at once.
**Now, I know what you are thinking, and no I am not antisocial, nor am I an extreme introvert. I’m just a highly sensitive person.**
Many Highly Sensitive People were shamed, criticized, or judged by parents. Some of us were told to ***“toughen up,”*** while others were being discouraged from taking risks because we were deemed ***“too fragile.”*** Outside the family, we sometimes experienced rejection from our friends, teachers and coaches. Fearing public criticism or humiliation, we retreated from activities that felt overwhelming.
I still remember being 15 years old at a volleyball camp. The coach told our team to yell a cheer at the top of our lungs. Not one for loud noises, I softly chanted the words. She somehow saw this and proceeded to “encourage” me to yell the cheer by myself in front of about 100 other kids and parents. I was humiliated and never forgot it. In many instances, like the case of my volleyball coach, people don’t realize the damage they’re doing with a ***“tough love”*** approach.
***Not only is it not helpful, it often creates emotional scars that take a lifetime to shake.***
As kids, we make assumptions about who we are based on the way people treat us. If we grew up receiving disdain, impatience or judgement from those around us, there’s a good chance us to struggle with self-criticism. Healing from these wounds takes time and support.
I myself often need someone safe to be a witness to what I’ve experienced. No matter how small it may seem to others, if it wounded my heart, it’s important. I think that it’s okay to be me. No matter what kind of feedback I’ve gotten, it’s okay to be me. Certain song lyrics or pieces of writing can make me emotional and that comment he said to me last month, yeah, I’m probably still thinking about it.
***While some of these behaviors may resemble antisocial behavior or odd quirks, it’s neither. I simply have a lower tolerance for external and internal stimuli that my nervous system can’t process all at once.***
It’s true that our sensitive nervous system creates ***some limitations*** that we can’t ignore. It’s equally true that many of our challenges can be mediated with the right tools and we don’t always have to leave an environment in order to get our needs met.
***Because we’re not only highly sensitive. We’re also highly resilient beings with a profound potential when we have the right support.***
That's why to be safely, I may need to learn to set boundaries and make changes to who I surround myself with. I acknowledged my limit. I learned to make choices about my day based on this limit.
***If you’re like me, you want to feel proud of who you are and confident in being you.*** Sometimes, we do: we love our intuitiveness and appreciate the powerful and profound way in which we see the world. I began to redirect my thoughts when they became obsessive and unhelpful. It’s okay to have feelings, even negative ones, ***but the way I think about them and narrate my inner experience is a big part of how much those feelings dominate my lives.*** I acknowledged my needs and learned the skills to take care of them. This self-care habit was essential to living my best, happiest life as a highly sensitive person. This subtle change in self-perception happened slowly, over time. Little by little, I acknowledged the powerful and unique parts of me, which gave me the confidence to show up as fully myself, rather than as the more socially acceptable version of me I often showed others.
***Ironically, the more I let my true self be seen, the more I was able to connect with and support others like me.***
Sensitivity is a trait that exists on a scale. All of us are sensitive to one thing or another to some degree. HSPs are sensitive to it all. Imagine something that bothers you (cigarette smoke, for example) and then imagine being that sensitive to ALL the lights, noises, smells, tastes and people around you in that same way. It’s not easy living in a body like that! Take me for instance. Learning to love an HSP is not about getting them to change, because they can’t.
***It’s about learning how to work with their nervous system in a way that supports their low tolerance levels so the beautiful parts of their sensitivity can shine through.***
***One day, a friend of mine said that he had learned to be an HSP while living with me, which does not mean that there is something wrong with him. And said that my sensory data just processes more deeply than others, which has its disadvantages but also has many beautiful and unique advantages.💞💝***
Thanks a lot for enjoying my article. 💓
The truth of love
Here's @BRISTY1820 Today I have come up with a beautiful story about the truth of love , 😍I think you all will enjoy reading this story. Now let's go....
One day a boy suddenly asked his father, "Father, what is love?" The father was surprised to hear the boy's question and remained silent for a while. After a while the boy said to his father again that what happened, father! Then Dad said that he has to do something to find the answer to this question. And asked, " Are you ready to work?" The boy agreed.
Dad said that he has to find the biggest and most beautiful flower in the rose garden behind their house. But ***the condition is that once he go ahead without liking the flower, he will not be able to come back to that flower again.*** Hearing his father's words, the boy ran to the back rose garden and saw a large and beautiful rose in the first row. But when the boy went to pick the flower, he thought to himself that maybe if he went inside the garden a little bigger and more beautiful flowers could be seen. Going a little farther, he saw another large and beautiful rose. But he did not pick it up.
The boy thought that maybe a little more beautiful roses were waiting for him when he went inside the garden. Thinking about this when the boy reached the end of the garden.......***He was not at all ready to see what he saw then!*** He realized that he was leaving behind all the big and beautiful roses. The last part of the garden is filled with small roses and buds. When he returned to his father, he could not take a single rose with him. Seeing the sad face of the boy, the father smiled softly and ***said that he had left all the good flowers behind to go around the garden looking for the best flower. And when he finally realize that he made a mistake, he has no way to get back to that best flower.***
*****People make this mistake. In the intoxication of finding a better life partner, one person after another moves forward.*****
The son understood his mistake after hearing his father's reply, but he told his father that he understood it, but his father did not say what love is! Then the father told that his son to do another thing, bring the biggest and most beautiful flower from the sunflower garden in front of their house. However, the rules are the same as before. Once the flower is left behind, it will not be able to return. This time the boy went to the sunflower garden, but began to look very carefully so as not to make the same mistake as before. Seeing a fairly large flower in the middle of the garden, the boy picked it up and returned to his father. The father saw the flower in the son's hand and ***said that this time he must have gone to the end of the garden ??*** The boy said in reply, "No, he didn't go." Hearing the boy's reply, his father began to say that ***this is why he did not return empty-handed.*** This time, without letting his greed grow, he picked a flower of his choice from the middle of the garden. And that's exactly what love is.💗💞
That's correct point. ***When you give up the desire to find someone better, to be satisfied with who you got, you will realize that you have truly loved someone.*** At present we are looking for the people of the mind in one person after another. ****But the man of the mind is the one...... After finding that person, the desire to find someone else goes away.****
*But do we value true love????*
***Value is found in what we are willing to give in exchange for something. The value of love is found through dedication and devotion to something or someone you love.***
***But now the question may arise in everyone's mind that...what are you willing to give in exchange for love?***
Everything in life is an exchange of give and take. ***Nothing is gained without some kind of sacrifice.*** An inhale must be exchanged for an exhale or human life cannot exist. Love is exciting, enticing but it can also be painful, disappointing and empty. However, when love comes to you use it to make yourself a better person. We just have to remember that love always involves compromise. It requires the ability to back down even when you think you are right. ***Perspective and attitude determine whether love lives or dies.*** Romantic love is a kind of love, but the love of family, friends, interests, work and life is also the aspect of love that fills the heart and nourishes the soul.
Don’t get me wrong, I believe we should place our family over everything, but I don’t think love is limited to family or romance. There are different classes and categories within the love spectrum. We have to realize that it’s not a part of everyone’s life and ask ourselves if we should take the other people matter mindset to another level as a society and develop a new meaning of love — a love for everyone. ***Romantic love can be a burst of strong energy, but it will evaporate and change over time. How it changes is based on the absence or presence of true love. So do not think yourself unfortunate if you have loved and lost.*** Love comes and love goes without cause or reason. It’s whimsical and it comes as it will. ***No amount of frustration and pain will bring it back***. ***Love like anything of value requires time and patients so it can gestate and mature.*** I myself just hate fake friendship, fake showoff, fake care. I have seen so many this kind of people like my friends and relatives. ***I just want to see people’s real face.*** ***Don’t show what you are not. For gainnig something, don’t do fake promise just.*** I hate this kind of people. If you are telling some bitter words on my face, I will accept it happily cause it’s you what you are. Just donot be fake. If you are not able to do anything, tell it on my face. Just donot show that you keep promise..... If you are not doing it. I’m not saying we have to change our mindsets completely and only live for others. However, ***I am convinced it’s our responsibility to support and be there for one another.*** Because of society and its tendencies to sometimes be hostile, we tend to think twice about loving one another. It scares us to be seen as weak.
***A friend of mine wanted to know about the truth of love, I want to give him this message through this article that we learn from our mistakes and believe me when I say “We value love when it is lost and not available to us”.*** To know love you must experience both the pleasure and the pain. *****Still; love is a treasure — value it.***** I hope my answer is of some help to you. Have a great time and be blessed.😍
Thanks to all for enjoying my article 💕
Objects matched in faith, far beyond argument. .
***Since God cannot be seen and heaven and hell cannot be seen, is it necessary to believe in them?***
The owl never sees the sun. An owl can strongly believe in the existence of rats, lice, and insects. It's his job to look for them all night long. The frog that lives in the well will never be able to believe the Atlantic Ocean. Because, ***their eyesight and knowledge are very insignificant and limited.*** They do not know if they p anything beyond that. Rabbits can run too. If it understands the arrival of an enemy, it can run and defend itself. But it has a bad temper. It ran away and closed its eyes. Because it thinks, ***" I can't see anyone, so no one can see me. So, I can sit in the secret"***. As a result rabbits are easily caught.
There is no such thing as God, heaven-hell, etc. ***If you can deny in this way, whatever you want can be done in this world as you wish.*** But in the end you will see what will happen later.
*****Then you will probably believe that after eating the sting of hell that yes! There is something called hell. This is very stinging.*****
There are electrical wiring. **Be careful there is written on a pole!** But if anyone says, *"I don't believe there is electricity in it. Because I can't see".* But ***if he touches the wire with such stupidity, he will be struck by lightning and will be forced to believe that yes! There is an importance of the word caution towards electricity.***
*****But what is the value of that faith?*****
Suppose a man heard that ***if he steals, he have to be punished.*** But if he thinks that ***he can see the punishment with his own eyes, then he will believe. Otherwise, he thinks stealing is not harmful.*** Then maybe he was caught stealing, so people hit him on the head with a stick. Then ***he will continue to believe in the bloody head, and yes! He should have faith in the word that you have to be punished for stealing.***
`Sinful people can always understand the onset of death, "Alas! Leaving my body, I am going to hell now. No one is watching my plight".`
***There is no need for intelligent people to really believe in looking like owls, frogs, rabbits, thieves, etc.*** We haven't seen much, but we believe easily. We haven't seen Grandpa or his father. Yet we believe he was. Many of us haven't seen America, but we still believe in reading books and listening to them in public. If someone says,***"I will see America first then I will believe that there is something called America".*** ***There is no need for such a fool to believe.***
Those who have not seen Dadu (grandfather) but can believe his words through their father and we must believe the instructions of the sages, their detailed description of God. Otherwise, if one does not believe in the words of the sages, does not believe in the existence of God. Then-
`Faith is not needed because unbelieving life has no value.`
`There are a number of conditional factors when looking at an object. Many things are hidden from our view......`
*****So why not believe in the existence of those things????*****
***No healthy person can accept such nonsense that no one else is watching because he /she doesn't see it***.
It takes a *****microscope***** to see very *****small things*****. It takes a *****telescope***** to see *****distant objects.***** It takes a *****healthy eye***** to see properly. It takes *****light***** to see cleanliness. It takes a *****mirror***** to see one's own eyes. That is, nothing can be seen without some means. Similarly, a person with spiritual consciousness has to see God through Vedic scriptures, instructions, etc. There are also ways to get there. There are opportunities to watch. It will depend entirely on you. But *****there is no need for the hard-hearted unbeliever to know all that.***** Because this foolish person has no qualifications. If you want to get something, you have to qualify. I myself do not believe that there is anything wrong with taking care of ourselves, but if we are not careful we can develop a *****"unique" attitude and mindset***** th*hat you believe. To receive something from God it is necessary to believe*.
***I believe in the soul that If you believe in God, just think about him, talk to others about him and rely on your faith in him, it makes you believe that you are seeing what you believe. To receive something from God it is necessary to believe.😍***
`This life is not forever, nor is it the best life that will ever be. The fact is that believers are headed for heaven. No one can force your faith on you. You are always the last one who can prove your faith to be true or not!`
*****Now would you also say that you will not believe without seeing anything?????*****
*****If you believe that God has a good plan for your life, what are you doing today to prepare yourself? Do you find yourself believing in small things????*****
*Put your valuable compliment about this in this comment box if you want.*
Last of all, it can said that, the point is, *****you don't believe what you see, but you see what you already believe.***** Your deeply held beliefs distort your worldview and force you to show things the way you see them. *****Let not your heart be troubled; be believe in God; believe also in you. 😍😍*****
***Thanks a lot for enjoying my article*** 💗💗
My photography
Hello everyone.It’s @BRISTY1820 once again. I am fine.Hope you are well in this pandemic situation by the grace of Almighty God. 😍
Now I will present photography among you. I did this photography a long time ago. It's my habit too.. I just love to captured picture... 🥰 It's makes me much pleasure...😍
I did this photography from my phone, I know the photography is not so good. But I hope you like it very much.☺☺
*****Let's get started:*****
***Thanks to all for enjoying my photographs💕💕***
Autumn adorned with blood💘
***I also had autumn;***
***There was a bunch of hyacinth flowers, a bunch of coughs;***
***And the golden light of the new dawn.***
***The way people grow up ....***
***Strangles! Its simple autumn.***
***That's how I killed;***
***A touch of soft autumn flowing inside me.***
***I walk down Alic Sugar Street and see;***
***Lost all the necessities of life......***
***But also in my inner field;***
***Shouted and shouted!***
***Apu and Durga Shardiya Ferriola;***
***Sandesh, Tilagja, Batasa ....***
***Autumn came again.***
***This time the seasonless achievement of life is as complex;***
***Killing .... I am red blooded....***
***I will keep running with Apu and Durga;***
***In the autumn field of the universe;***
***At once towards the white air....***
My cordial thanks to all for enjoying my poem💕
Yours @BRISTY1820 💖
My random photography
***Hello everyone.It’s*** @BRISTY1820 ***once again. I am fine.Hope you are well in this pandemic situation by the grace of Almighty God. 😍***
Nature is said to be one of the precious and best gift given by god to us.💕 We people are really blessed to have such kind of things that surrounds us.💖 Nature is likely to be our best friend that provides us all the resources to live on earth. This is another wonderful photos again from @BRISTY1820 💖
Now I will present photography among you. I did this photography a long time ago. When I went to a place, it was almost afternoon and In the evening I also saw the sun was about to set. I took the photographs.💕 It's my habit too.. I just love to captured picture... 🥰 It's makes me much pleasure...😍
I did this photography from my phone, I know the photography is not so good. But I hope you like it very much.☺☺
*****Let's get started*****....
Earth consists of many natural scenes 💖that are really awesome. Earth is mostly covered with greenery nature. 💕
I know you all love my nature photography. Because photography, that is nature photography, is actually very beautiful to look at. 💕And I know you all look at my photographs attentively and give valuable feedback.💖💖
***My cordial thanks to all for enjoying my photography💕💕***
A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mind set💕(My thinking)
In fact, we are a big fault of the people, when we are in danger, we can understand ***what we did! We could have done it earlier..... (when he realizes time has passed him).*** Never reconcile yourself to anyone else in life.. because ***you are in no way inferior to anyone and no one has the power to lower your price.***
*Do the work on time* and you will see that your own needs will be in front of others in a way that you may not even understand. ***You are upset that you got low marks in that exam. Somehow passing that same test, the Feltus boy is happily distributing sweets. You're embarrassed to put that torn shoe on your foot. The child on the sidewalk is in a good mood with his double torn shoes. You are ashamed to take out that old model mobile in front of your friends. Your father's day is going by comfortably with a phone four times older than that.***
In fact, there are show-offs on expensive mobiles, there is no happiness. The show-off has social status, joy has no permanence. Because ***happiness lies in embracing reality, in enjoying the dynamics of life, in removing the stains of the past from the mirror of life.***
***The more past failures grip, the more blurred the mirror of life becomes; The more blurred the future, the greater the amount of frustration.*** *Not just past failures; The more you brag about past successes, the weaker you will be in the face of future challenges. The more the future will be confused.*
Happiness does not lie in such wealth or achievement. Frustration, fear, feeling bad is not the same as failure. Rather frustration, fear; ***Everything is made with vision and perception.*** Again, it can be controlled with vision. Because ***one who can't take advantage of love, one who groans in a hospital bed suffers more than him. Anyone who is bothered by a mother's reprimand is no more depressed than losing a mother at the age of three.......💔💔***
***So don't let the parrot of life - "I'm frustrated, I'm depressed" - sit down and learn to think, "Let's go through this today. There will be more tomorrow."*** And look forward to being excited. ***Don't count the frustrations of the past, count the possibilities of the front.*** Instead of sleeping in the fog of confusion, light the lamp of hope.💖 Make the outlook positive.☺ It will be much easier to be happy and successful.😍😍
***Thanks a lot of all for enjoying my article 💖💖***
***Yours*** @BRISTY1820 ***💕***
The one who has a smile ☺on his face all the time has hidden a tough attitude inside him which is very scary.......😶I am fascinated by the smile on your face and the sorrow hidden inside your eyes.💕💖
💖MY LOVE💖
How to listen to those who do not listen?[ Part - 2]
***Hello everyone, it's*** @BRISTY1820 ***once again. Please subscribe if you haven't and leave a like or comment if you want to.***
***Communication skills are very important for people to be able to speak their minds properly and to make them interested in their speech.*** It can go a long way in any case. Not only sound education but his ***alertness*** and ***dedication*** too are most required.
***Speak with understanding to the audience***
Not all people understand all kinds of things. Just because someone isn't listening doesn't mean they're not interested. Maybe you don't understand him properly. ***If a person who has studied literature has to understand science, he should understand it in simple language instead of explaining the complex equations of science. We have to try to explain science with such literary examples.*** This will make it easier for him to understand what you are saying and he will be more inclined to listen to you because he understands what he is saying. Remember, the need is yours. If necessary, he will understand how to say - it is necessary to do a little research.
***When a person sees that you are interested in his personal interests, he will feel obligated to show interest in you.💕***
***Learn about different types of learning patterns:***
***Do you know why many talented people are not good at studying? Again, despite being very talented, many people do not understand why it is so easy?***
This is because not everyone has the same learning pattern. Some read and understand well, some see and understand, some hear and understand, and some do not understand anything well until they write with their hands. People basically learn to read, listen, see and do handwriting - in one of these four patterns. One by one people like to understand one by one kind of pattern. It is called ***"Learning Pattern"***. 💥
Now, the man who likes to read and learn, but doesn't like to learn or know by listening - he will not listen to anyone, why you. The person you want to convey your message, try to understand first - what pattern he or she likes. ***If he likes to read - give your statement in writing instead of telling him. If you like to see and understand, make a presentation if possible. Where your speech will be in the form of pictures or videos.... This strategy is more useful in the workplace than at the personal level.💖***
💥***If the tips in this article are useful for you to help people understand what you are saying and listen to them, 💕then my purpose is successful. ☺Let me know in the comments if you have any comments about this article. Your every opinion is precious to me. 💗💗***
*****My cordial thanks to all of you for reading and enjoying my article***** ***💕💕***
Hello, everyone. How are all of you??? I hope all of you are well. I am also fine. Now I am here to talk about my brother photography.
My brother @Khalid is a good photographer. I am always fascinated by pictures which was taken by him. You can also see if you want. I hope all of you like his photographs. Here is the link of his last photography:
https://read.cash/@Khalid/masterpiece-photography-1-8e170b08
How to listen to those who do not listen? [Part-1]
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**Listening to people is a huge skill.** There are many people who do not want to listen to the mind. No matter how good the words, this do not reach their ears. Such people are usually not good at communication and cannot make much of an improvement in life. But in the context of our country, many such people can move to better places. ***It is very difficult to work with them but there is no way to get out of the place.***
**Now I share with you the way to listen to those who do not listen:**
***👉👉Ask more and more questions:***
Questions activate people's thoughts and attention more than comments. You can use it to listen to others. This is especially true when you are saying or explaining something to someone in great detail. Ask the person in front of you from time to time when saying or explaining something in detail. Then the conversation will not be one-sided. After finishing each point of your speech, create an opportunity to speak for the other party. ***Suppose you share a new idea with someone, at one point in your conversation ask them, "How do you feel about it?" - or "That's how he thought, what do you think?"***
***One of the human traits is that if you ask him something, he thinks he is being given importance. And as a result of the importance he is interested in paying attention.*** This method is especially useful in teaching something to someone. There are many teachers who occasionally take comments from students instead of just giving lectures . It makes them much more attentive to listening to their teacher.
***👉👉Give others a chance to talk first:***
Most people are more interested in talking about themselves than listening to others. They do not want to listen to others before they speak for themselves. That's a problem. But it can also be turned into an advantage.
***If you're going to talk to someone who likes to talk to you - listen to them first. If you stop him at first or start talking to yourself in the middle of his talk - then he will not be interested in listening to you in any way. He'll just wait for you to finish - so he can start talking again.*** So, if someone sees you and starts talking on their own - let him finish first. And not just by listening. ***Let him know that you are interested in his words. Listen to him patiently, and show interest in his appearance.*** This will make him interested in listening to you later. Thus once he has finished speaking his own words, you then tell him your own words. ***He will be very calm as he speaks, and will listen to you attentively.***☺
*****👉👉Build understanding:*****
***A relationship is very important for people to listen to you.*** Relationships don't have to be friends, relatives or anything like that. ***Need to build a good understanding.*** If there is a good understanding between two people, one is interested in listening to the other.
***How to make this understanding???***
People are more interested in listening to him, who is interested in him. Maybe you want to say something to a co-worker or relative. But there is no way to get him to pay attention. This may be because he has no understanding with you. ***Talk to him in a couple of ways outside of work to build this relationship. Take personal inquiries. Try to find similarities between you and him.***
If you can't find a match, make a match. ***Maybe he is a big fan of Rabindranath. You read Rabindranath's writings a little, try to get a little knowledge about him.*** Then try to talk to him about Rabindranath. ***Show him you are also quite interested in this. You will see that he is giving more importance to all your words than before.***
*Preferred matching creates a very quick understanding relationship between people. If you can find out what the other person likes and build an understanding with him based on that, he will listen carefully to whatever you say.*
***💕My heartiest thanks to all for reading my article*** 😍😍
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My photography
Hello everyone.It’s @BRISTY1820 once again. I am fine.Hope you are well in this pandemic situation by the grace of Almighty God. 😍
Flowers are like friends.🤗 They bring color to your world.🌹🌺 This is another wonderful photos again from @BRISTY1820
Yes I am here to show you some of my Beautiful flowers shoot trip today, have a feel of it.
***Let's get started....***
This is just the first one, which is called TOGGOR you can see more. ☺
After the rain, a lively form returns to nature. 💝 Then the form of nature is associated with the beauty of flower itself.
Another one below is still beautiful.💕
How about this amazing types of flower...... 🤗🤗
I was thinking about these photos. I don’t know the name of those flowers. If you know then ensure me.☺
***Thanks for viewing this wonderful photos of mine, a very wonderful thanks to all who's photos has really motivated me into this. Specially*** @Akashdatta98 ***always encourage me from by my side. God bless you.***
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