@Zcharina22 11 October 2021 edited more from that month

What is your Preference in showing your love to your loveones?

Hello readers! This article wasn't mine. I have this friend 4 months ago who I've met here in Manila and entered read.cash. I introduce to her this platform for her to earn also but I wasn't able to use my affiliates because I didn't know about this before. She asked me if I can repost one of her article which is this one. I said yes why not! I just hope this will not affect my account. She abandoned readcash because she felt like rusty doesn't love her articles. I did my best to encourage her to comeback but I think she made up her mind and makes this request instead.

Have you ever wonder how people show their love to you? Have you notice their actions while they are with you? or you're being blinded? or you don't care about their actions, for what important to you is you are happy and people around you always giving your needs, but have you asked why they were doing something and making effort for you? If yes? You are being curious and observing. But the main point of everything they do for you is they appreciate you as a person and most importantly, is they loved you. Even you don't ask for something they still give you without thinking anything if you wanted or not, what important for them is they buy you something. Even you're not doing anything there are still people in there that apreciates and loves you. People show their love in many ways. Some are vocal and some are not. Some are quiet but caring and observing. Some are not comfortable saying I love you, take care, and many more sweet messages, for they are shy. So, what they did is showing their support and give you time, and sometimes they show their support through call and messages, specially if they are far from you. They even send you gift and sometimes you feel their presence and love through their gift, and thats what they call virtual love now a days. Maybe you aren't aware that many people loved you, for you're waiting something to them but actually what you're waiting to them is not their langauge of love. There are some ways that people show their love that you didn't know let me say it one by one: **Giving gift** Did you know that every gift you receive is have a meaning? Not just to appreciates you, makes you happy, and saying thank you to you, but because you are important and love. Appreciate everything you recieve because you didn't know how it possible for that someone to come up with a gift, it maybe small or what but the main reason why someone gave you a gift is that he/she loves you. Some people show their love through their gift. Some people can't say what's inside their hearts but they are showing it by giving you a gift. I remember one time my besfriend gave me a gift. I think that was a mug she printed it with our codename and theres a heart and message in it "***Always remember that I love you" I*** accidentally broke it and my bestfriend cried a lot. I was shocked that time, its just a mug but according to my bestfriend that mug was one and only, for it made by her late lola in Badoc. That mug had a memories, she gave me one because she loves me. See? there is love in gift. Sometimes we don't value gifts but for the someone who gave it to you it means a lot. **Little act of kindness** When I think of this I remember my parents doing everything for us. They are not vocal in expressing their love to us but they are making an effort to show how they love us.They cooked our food everyday. They washed my clothes before, but now I can manage my own clothes. They are working to finance your needs and everything. But have you ask them why? or do you appreciates their effort or its just nothing for you, for its their obligation to do all of those? Well, aside from the reason of obligation they do all of those because there is love in their hearts and they wanted to share to all of the members of the family. Not just the parents who did this but all the people I think. Some are not aware why they do some effort to someone but I think they make an effort because they love someone. Can I ask you? Is this also your way in showing your love to your loveones? or do you prefer someone do it for you? **Giving Quality time** Have you notice that some people pop up in your home without you knowing anything and grab you to somewhere? You were surprised right? But how did they know that it is your day off/rest day, without you telling them? Hmmmm something suspicious right? Hey! But you enjoy it right?. Being with them again makes you feel nostalgic and happy. You may not know how it was happen but its their way to cope up with you and showing their love to you. They may disturb your day off or rest day or anything but they giving you quality time that you can remember all your life. Is this also your way in showing your love? By Giving your loveones quality time? **Words of affirmation** Do you feel love when someone saying, you are handsome/beautiful? Words of affirmation makes you confident and at the same time love right? When someone appreciates your beauty that someone loves you. Instead of saying I love they affirm you with many things. "Hihi its more kilig right? Hehe joke."But there are people loves hearing affirmation than receiving flowers and chocolates. Affirmation makes you feel heaven sometimes because you feel perfect no judge, no hate but its all love. How about you, do you prefer hearing affirmations to feel love? or Your the one who is saying affirmation to your loveones? **Physical touch** People show their love by means of hugging, kissing, tapping shoulders/heads,and others. Doing this things is normal to other people for physical touch is their preference in showing their love to their loveones.These people called themselves clingy for they love touching. Do you know someone doing this things to you? You are probably loved by that someone. Are you also that clingy? Is this your way showing your love to your loveones? Or you prefer someone do it for you? They say, that you should know what your loveones preference in receiving love so that your effort will not be wasted, but don't ask them just observe whats their preference. Because when you ask them it means you're doing it forcefully. Anyways, all of us have a way how we show our love to our loveones. We also have a preference on how we receive love but what matter is there is love between our friends, family, relatives and to our one and only. Relationship will grow when love is evident. In the mention above, what do you prefer in receiving love? What do you usually do in showing/giving your love? Do you have other techniques and preference in showing how much you love someone? If you have please comment down below. Your secret in growing relationship with your loveones could also be helpful to other people.

***She told me to edit her title from "Languages of love you didn't know" to " What is Your Preference in showing your love to your loveones"*** *I just really hope this little effort of mine will change her decision to come back.! Hi brigette I show my love by doing little act of kindness and by saying affirmations hehe. I hope you will open your account and read this one! Love you! Balik ka na ha!*