@Genevie1218

@Genevie1218 16 October 2021

@Adrielle1214 Salamat sa sponsor po. Hindi ako masyadong active pero binigyan mo parin ako ng pag-asa para manatili dito. Hehe. Salamat ng marami.

@Genevie1218 15 October 2021

May you never get tired of fighting Nobody had any idea how many nights you spent wondering what your real goal was here. How many mornings are you supposed to be your other start but then the attacks just came like waves crashing your soul? Stuck in the corner of your room when fear was taken over by something else? You could fight your battles alone, at night, in the morning, in the middle of the afternoon sun, before dark, after the moon had shown its beauty. At midnight, in the dark, in the silence, no one had any idea how you shed tears because you couldn't deal with people; how many people you left alone, or were so disingenuous with you? Wasn't he so honest with you? How many of them had you tucked behind the curtains? However, no one had any idea how always to fight your battles. However, and still, you choose to be okay. How do you do anything to survive? And stay here. And I hope he never gets tired of standing still, although no one in the dark can tell. May you never tire of walking when there is no one to guide you. May you not waste resting from time to time so that when you return, you will be much better off than you were before. To anyone who is continuously fighting, I believe in you. No one may do not have an idea of what you're going through, but think that all of those silent battles will be worth it one day. You are loved. You are worthy. You always can. *****Lead Image From Unsplash***** **Recent Articles** ***How I fought Postpartum Depression*** ***Changing Career Path*** ***Daddies are parents too*** ***We can support our chosen Presidentiables and still be friends*** October 16, 20221

@Genevie1218 11 October 2021

Sa mga sissy kong mababait, @Jeansapphire39@Sweetiepie@Jay997 Thank you so much sa tiwala. Babawi ako kapag mejo pansin na ako ni @TheRandomRewarder. Napakabait niyo, more blessings to come mga sissy.

@Genevie1218 10 October 2021

We can support our chosen Presidentiables and still be friends. Nalalapit na ang halalang 2022. Sino nga ba ang karapat dapat maupo bilang pangulo? Sino ba dapat ang ating iboboto? The choice is yours. Maging matalino at mapanuring botante sa 2022. Sa social media especially sa facebook ang dami kong nababasa na magkakamag anak at magkakaibigan na nag tatalo kung sino daw ba ang dapat manalo bilang presidente sa susunod na eleksyon. Bbm? Leni? Pacquiao? Lacson? Isko? Kahit sino sa kanila ay pwede nating iboto. Pero mas mainam iboto ang kandidatong mas inilalatag ang konkretong plano para sa kaunlaran at ikabubuti ng Pinas hindi yung wala nang ginawa kundi siraan ang kalaban. Yung dahilan ng pagtakbo ay pagmamahal sa bayan at hindi pang immature ang dahilan. Yung kandidatong kayang pag-isahin ang bansa at hindi dahilan bakit nahahati ito. Yung kandidatong inihahayag ang kanyang kakayanan at hindi ginagamit ang kahinaan ng iba para mag mukha lang magaling. Dahil sa maruming laro ng pulitika, taumbayan at lalong higit ang mga nasa laylayan ng lipunan ang totoong biktima. POLITICS should never divide Families and Friends. We all have different types of political views and it's okay to have different views in this matter. Don't lose your friends and love ones because of never ending political arguments, just learn to respect others opinion. Second thoughts doesn't needed let them vote who they want and who you want to vote. “My choice, my rights.” Respect mine, and I’ll respect yours. Easy, right? But whoever wins the presidency, sana competent enough, yung capable, not just credible, at may maitutulong talaga sa pag unlad ng Pilipinas. Tama na sa puro kuda, puro pa-good words lang at mga pa-good image Kuno Don’t just talk the talk, but also walk the talk. You can support your chosen candidate without badmouthing the opposition. I believe all these candidates have a good contribution in the Philippines; it’s a matter whose contribution weighs heavier to you. What matters most to you may be different from others, and it’s unfair to devalue and discredit what others have done well just because ”YOU THINK” the other did better. Indeed, the supporters of the candidate in the opposition think the same way you feel about their chosen candidate. You may feel that their candidate is terrible for the people and the nation, but they also believe that your selected candidate is the same. It’s a never-ending argument. Throwing candidates to what ”YOU THINK” was wrongful doings is a primitive strategy to attack an opposition; I’m not saying it’s not applicable at present, but I think there’s a better way of promoting someone. Election in the Philippines has always been dirty, toxic, and chaotic. I believe it’s time to change that. These candidates are subject to mistakes; they have lapsed; they all did wrong in the past. It’s only a matter of who hid it better. This is the same principle as citizens; we might be supporting the bad person, but how do we know in advance? Let’s stop the hypocrisy. We can always promote our candidates to what we think they can do as that’s what this is for. We look forward to doing better in the country and for the people when they are elected. So, imposing your political beliefs on your family, friends, and colleagues will only create tension and disrespect in a way. I am optimistic that God will guide us to select the best leaders in our country. Let’s do this, Philippines! #Election2022 That's all for today! Thank you for reading.

@Genevie1218 9 October 2021

Sobrang busy ko sa mga nakaraang araw kaya hindi ako makapagsulat ng article. By the way, thank you so much sis @Jeansapphire39 sa sponsorship. Pangako mas pag igihin ko pa ang pagsusulat. Ikaw ang kauna unahang nagbigay ng motivation para ipagpatuloy ko pa ang pagsusulat. God bless! 😚

@Genevie1218 5 October 2021

Daddies are parents too Raising and taking care of the kids is not only a Mommy-Duty but also Daddy's. We are married, we chose to start our family TOGETHER, kaya we should be in this together. Huwag kay mommy iasa lahat, kagaya ng pagpapalit ng diaper, pagpapakain, pagpapaligo, pagpapatulog at patahan kapag may toyo si baby. Yes, alam namin na pagod din si daddy sa work maghapon pero naisip mo rin ba na pagod rin si mommy sa gawaing bahay lalo na kung mejo malikot si baby? Remember, ang mga nanay kailangan din yan ng pahinga. They need their own needs din. We are not robots kaya napapagod din. Masaya maging Mommy lalo na yung joy na binibigay ng mga anak natin is PRICELESS. Pero, let me remind you, DALAWA KAYO DITO. You two are the foundation of your own family - the family that you started together. Kaya naman, I am grateful and blessed that I have a husband who is kind, hardworking and caring especially when it comes to our baby. I don't need to remind him constantly na,*"Daddy napagod ako maghapon, ikaw muna mag-aalaga kay baby."* , "Daddy napagod ako maghapon, ikaw muna mag-aalaga kay baby." Alam na niyang pagod ako at kailangan ko din ng pahinga. Every night my husband puts our baby to sleep even though he is tired from work all day. He always told me to rest, and he would take care of putting our son to sleep. Basta lagi ko lang naririnig sa kanya, *"Halika kana baby matulog kana pagod ang mommy mo."* Siya ang nagpapalit ng diaper ni baby. Hindi mo na siya kailangang sabihan na. *"Uyy daddy palitan mo diaper si baby."* May kusa siya at doon ako bumibilib sa kanya. Tinutulungan din niya akong paliguan si baby. Alam naman natin na mahirap paliguan ang bata lalo na kapag sobrang likot. Haha. Every rest day of my husband is our Family day. Iwas muna kami sa gadgets every sunday para nakatuon lang sa anak namin ang aming oras. Iba talaga ang pakiramdam na responsable ang asawa mo lalo na when it comes sa anak niyo. Yung pagod mo sa gawaing bahay plus sa pag-aalaga ay mababawasan talaga kung ang asawa mo ay marunong makiramdam. Message to my husband: Daddy, I know I am not a perfect wife and mommy to our baby, but you always make me feel na, perfect lahat ng ginagawa ko, especially in raising our child. Thank you for giving me strength kapag pakiramdam ko nanghihina na ako. Salamat sa pagmamahal, pag-aalaga at sakripisyo mo para sa amin. Always take care of yourself lalong lalo na sa work mo. We love you so much. Closing thoughts: I hope and I pray for all Daddies out there, that you help your wives. Know your roles as a husband and as a father as well. Oo, SUPERWOMAN yang pinakasala nyo, pero tao pa din yan. Hindi makakabawas ng pagka lalaki ang magbantay ng bata, in fact, mas nakakagwapo pa. Huwag ng gumaya sa ibang tatay na pagkatapos makabuo iaasa nalang lahat sa asawa ang responsibilidad sa pag-aalaga a bata.

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@Genevie1218 2 October 2021

Changing career path Can we normalize CHANGING CAREER PATHS kahit malayo sa degree na tinapos natin? I mean, stop saying "sayang teacher sana siya kaso nagbebenta benta lang siya ngayon" sayang doctor sana sya ngayon kaso nagbablog lang siya ngayon. Sayang ang course na kinuha hindi naman nai-apply sa trabaho. Nakakalungkot lang diba? may mga ganon kang maririnig sa ibang tao. Big deal? Ano naman kung ang tinapos ko ay nurse at ang kasalukuyan kong trabaho ngayon ay online selling? Makakaapekto ba ito sa pagkatao ko? Matatanggalan ba ako ng dignidad? Lol. Kagaya ko, IT ang course ko but ang naging trabaho ko before sa isang company ay Inspector at I'm proud of it. Tapos nagwork din ako sa Entrego philippines bilang isang bagger, sorter, scan dc at iba pa. Masaya naman ako at mahal ko ang trabaho ko kaya walang problema sa akin. Although minsan may nagtatanong kung ano natapos ko at sumasagot ako ng IT. Sinasabihan akong bakit ayaw mo mag-apply sa office etc.. Lagi ko lang sinasagot masaya naman ako kahit hindi sa office ang trabaho ko. Kasi at the end of the day, you work to earn money. Bonus nalang kapag yung tinapos mo, aligned sa passion mo. This picture was taken on my previous work at Entrego Philippines, as I've said before, isa akong bagger, sorter, scan dc etc. all around. Hahaha diba IT tinapos ko pero sa mainit ako nakapwesto at hindi sa office nakaupo but happy ako at kontento. Kaya wala yun sa tinapos mo as long as masaya ka sa ginagawa mo. *Pay no attention to toxic words. What people say is often a reflection of themselves, not you.* *- Christian Baloga* Closing Thoughts: If someone is thriving to reach his/her dreams and pursuing his/her passion. CONGRATULATE him/her. That means he/she conquered his/her COMFORT ZONE. P.s. Bonus nalang kapag yung tinapos mo, aligned sa passion mo. That's all for today. Thank you for reading.

@Genevie1218 29 September 2021

How I fought Postpartum Depression Hello guys, just wanna share my experience with postpartum depression at Kung Paano ko to nilabanan. Bago ang lahat ano nga ba ang postpartum depression? “*Postpartum” means the time after childbirth. Most women get the “baby blues,” or feel sad or empty, within a few days of giving birth.* Yes, isa ako sa biktima ng postpartum. After kong manganak last November 2020, napansin kong ang daming nagbago sa akin. Ang bilis ko ng mairita at magalit kahit sa maliit na bagay na hindi ko gusto o hindi kaya pakiramdam ko hindi ako naintindihan ng mga taong nakapaligid sa akin especially ang aking asawa. Madalas din akong hindi makatulog at laging puyat kahit wala naman akong ginagawa. Sa gabi hindi manlang ako makaramdam ng antok while sa umaga kahit maghapon akong nakahiga hindi ako dinadalaw ng antok. Nawalan din ako ng gana kumain gaya ng dati kaya bumaba ang aking timbang. Mismong ang paborito ko dating pagkain ayaw ko ng tikman. Panic attack, kahit sa pinakamaliit na problema na kaya namang solusyunan nagpapanic na ako. Iniisip ko na may mangyayaring hindi maganda. Lagi din akong nag ooverthink lalo na pagdating sa baby ko gaya ng, paano nalang kung hindi ko maalagan ng maayos etc.. Overwork, pakiramdam ko kasi sobrang dugyot ng aming bahay kahit kakalinis lang. Hindi ako kontento hanggat hindi ko nakikitang makintab ang sahig. Madalas basahan at walis ang aking hawak lol. At ang pinaka worst, hate na hate ko ang aking asawa kahit wala naman siyang ginagawa. Lagi kong nasisisgawan at napupuna. Minsan nahahampas ko nalang bigla. Until one day may nabasa ako sa facebook about sa nanay na nakaranas ng postartum at kung paano niya ito nilabanan. Nagkaroon din ako ng idea kung paano ako makaalis sa ganong situation. Every morning naglalakad lakad ako sa tabing dagat para magpaaraw since malapit lang ang dagat sa aming bahay atleast 15 minutes. Nakakatulong ito para marefresh ang pag-iisip. Naglalaan ako ng oras para sa sarili ko. Nag-oopen ako about sa pinagdadaanan ko sa mga malalapit sa akin, gaya ng nanay at ate ko. Hinanap ko kung ano yung mga bagay na magpapasaya sa akin at Lagi akong nagdadasal kay Lord at sumali din ako sa bible study. Mahirap pero kinaya ko. Salamat sa aking asawa kahit pagod sa work tinutulungan niya akong magalaga sa aming baby at sa gawaing bahay. Inintindi at inalagaan. Salamat sa walang sawang pagmamahal. Message: Para sa mga kalalakihan, you should know that being a woman as a mother is not a joke. That at times we are weak physically, emotionally, and psychologically you should be at our side. Postpartum depression is not a joke.