"Don't tell her the stuffs that went down during the weekend, she's still a "good" girl", Natasha said to Adriana
Growing up in the society (especially in high schools) these days, no one wants to be labeled as "the good boy/girl". Whether or not one has strict parents, that label is a no no.
Some don't ever go out for parties and other activities, but for some reasons, are part of the popular and bad clique.
Why?
Being the "good" girl makes one miss out on planned parties and gatherings among ones peers. She is not involved in the fun. She never knows what's going on in the school. Most times, she's not even on any social media platform. To her "trending" peers, she is never to be associated with because she's a bore.
The "good" girl displays great morals. Teachers and other elderly people in the society love her. She's the girl other parents want in their children's corner. So she loathed by her mates. To her peers, she's a show-off and an awful pretender.
All these makes the "good" girl fed up. She's sick of being the last person to find out that there was a party a week before. She wants to be noticed by all means. Being "good" has left her in the dark for a very long time.
So what's her next step?
She turns bad.
It's like a new phase of her life. She can finally spread her wings. She suddenly has a lot of friends and was involved in interesting conversations. At long last, she was finally part of the "trending" crew.
Are you a "good" girl?
Do you feel left out?
Are you hated for no reason at all?
Labels have different effects on young girls(and boys too).
Being the "good" girl is not a disease. Matter of fact, it's something to be proud of.
In a high school setting, the "good" girl is never one with juvenile regrets. Her friends are always real ones. She's not judged by her "boring" lifestyle.
So...
If you're that girl, it's time to brace up, hold your head up high and place the label as a crown on your head. Because, trust me, you are perfect the way you are.
Hey y'all, it's a bit late. Staying at home is super boring 😂💔.
What do you have planned out for the rest of the weekend? Something nice I hope.
Got to go now. I hope you love my article. Xoxo
Love @Yinye_xo
August 21,2021 23:20
Being good is a valuable virtue. A good person shouldn't let peer pressure and his or her environment influence goodness negatively.