What makes women push to take abortion?

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Why women comes to a point that they choose to abort the baby inside thier womb rather than let them live and witnessed this world?

I have watch a statement of Attorney Louie Espiritu regarding why people do abortion and he said some of the reason is poverty. I will not elaborate his who statement but one of the part of his statement is that. Women choose to do abortion because of poverty. Ofcourse we understand his point like some women choose it because they can't afford to feed another member of the family. Another one that he mentioned is rape like women who are a victim of rape will do abortion. He even included that many people died because of unsafe abortion because here in the Philippines abortion is illegal.

Then I asked myself if it's really the poverty why abortion is getting bigger and bigger? It's really the rape why women do abortion?

As I am reading the comments of the said post I read one of the comments about teenage pregnancy , premarital sex and unplanned pregnancy and I agree with him.

I have witnessed women who commit abortion and thier reasons is belong to these three.

Story no. 1

Way back on my high school days I heard my friends praying and I asked them why they are praying the prayer. I have no idea why they did that and they started opening it to me. One of our friend do abortion on our high school days. I was shocked because I can't imagine that she will do that. I asked them why she did that and they said she's afraid that her mother knows about it. Her mother is a single mom and working abroad and she's afraid that she will disappoint her mother from letting the baby live because we were in high school that day.

Story no. 2

I am working in Manila when my college friend asked me if I can buy a medicine for abortion in Baclaran because she's pregnant. She is a graduating student that time and her boyfriend is a married man and they didn't expect that she will be pregnant. I refused to buy those medicine because I don't want to be an accessories for the sin but like on my the first story she want abortion because of the situation. Not poverty , no teenage pregnancy but because of the situation. She has lot of dreams in the future and that baby in her tummy is not part of it.

Story no. 3

This story is all about poverty maybe but I am not sure. So after 8 years Marites became pregnant again. It was unexpected because she is taking pills that time and they don't want to have a baby but still she became pregnant. Here in the province there's a lot of hearsay that there's a plant that helps you to abort the baby. They called it serpentina. It has a super bitter taste. She boiled it with water and drink it hoping that her baby will be aborted but its not. Then she didn't continue it and gave birth to the baby. The baby is 10 years old now and he's kinda slow like what her mother said. Then sometimes her mother told us pinalaglag ko kasi dati yan kaya Ganyan.

This is just a random thought guys. Fell free to comment your views and opinions in the comment section.

Thanks for reading.

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Yung kapit-bahay namin pina-abort niya yung pinagbubuntis ng anak niya dahil di niya gusto yung ama dahil di gaano ka marangya sa buhay, hayun naabort nga yung bata pero nagkatuluyan pa rin sila at may dalawang anak na. Mukhang tinanggap na ng nanay.

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2 years ago

Most women see pregnancy as a blessing but to some, it's an unfortunate circumtance. Either way, may consequences naman dn, kelangan lang talaga panindigan at tibayan ang loob.

Pero grabe yung sa story 3, naiimagine ko na ang emotional damage sa bata na yan. Haaaaay. Bakit sila ganon.

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2 years ago

Good story 1 sis when I read sis I was really beautiful sis and I also learned something.

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2 years ago

They can do emergency contraceptives naman if kaka-sex lang. I mean, these are applicable to those who were raped or even with girls na ayaw mabuntis. After all, it's just about a bunch of cells forming pa naman on an early stage.

These guys should take the blame for the pregnancy. Hello? Kung wala yang mga espada nila, di tayo mabubuntis mga babae no 🤷‍♀️

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2 years ago

Pede pala Yun madam? Napanuod mo ba Yung interview? Shinare ko Yata Yun hehe

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Di ko napanood madam. Hehe. May mga emergency contraceptives naman.

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2 years ago

Nakakalungkot talaga ate yung abortion huhu. Ang pinakacommon talaga na sanhi is yung kahirapan. Sa religion namin, bawal ang teenage pregnancy at yung abortion kasi way yun ng pagpatay eh hehe.

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2 years ago

Di Rin Naman nasusunod sa inc Yun e hehe. Madami ako kilala nagbubuntis. Ititiwalag pero babalik din hehe.

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Siyempre ate yung mga yon hindi sila talaga sumusunod. Naalala ko yung kapitbahay namin noon medyo naging chaotic yung relationship nilang mag-asawa to the point na natiwalag silang dalawa. But bago siya mamatay, nagbalik loob siya hehe

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2 years ago

Minsan kasi kahit sabihin nilang safe eh nakakalusot padin. Pero tama ka madalas ang kahirapan yung dahilan nila sa abortion lalo na kung galing sila talaga sa hirap.

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2 years ago

Oo Yun sinasabi nila na main na reason talaga

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Rape is a genuine reason to abort a baby but all other reasons are just excuses to save themselves from responsibilities I think people have to think about this because what a baby want just a bottle of milk and once he/she grow don't she do any work ofc he/she does ;-)

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2 years ago

Yeah. Saving themselves from responsibilities

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Mostly talaga sis kapag hindi pa handa sa magiging result sa pinapasukan nilang bagay kaya nagagawa ang abortion.Yung kapit bahay dati ,graduating siya ng highschool at nabuntis at ang sabi engkanto daw ang nakabuntis ,kumuha sila ng marunong magabort kaya ayon malaki na yung bata na na abort ,pinalabas talaga nila na engkanto ang ama pero yung ibang kapitbahay namin ay alam nila ano yung totoo.

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2 years ago

Ai jusko bakit Naman engkanto 😭

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

My pregnancy was unplanned but never in my imagination that I'll abort it.. there are a lot of reasons but the core of it is that women who took abortion as option is that they are afraid of responsibilities and the consequences of their actions.. except for those complicated pregnancy that needs to be aborted for the sake of the mothers health.

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2 years ago

Totoo . Natatakot sa responsibility saka minsan sa sasabihin din ng mga tao

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2 years ago