First times : Love edition I just finished reading the article of expertwriter and I was inspired to continue writing about first time experiences because of what she shared on her article. As I was reading the question about crush and suitors I automatically remembered mine haha.
***First crush.*** I had my first crush when I was 6 years old. From that moment even if I was only a kid I really feel the slow motion that they will always said when the first time you saw him. But my admiration to him is silent because I am shy. I just love him secretly to the point that I made letter on him and put it in the box that I made. So from grade 1 up to high school he is my crush and my crush fades away when I started to have a boyfriend. Imagine how long my crush on him last haha. ***First boyfriend.*** When I was on my teenage day I am pressured by my cousin to have a boyfriend because they also having thier boyfriend. I had my relationship when I was in college and that guy also got my virginity but we only lasted for two months. My feelings back then was you know an immature kind of girl. Yes I am happy and inloved but it's like a teenage love. I can't imagine myself anymore having those kind of act and attitude like pabebe. You know the teenage stuff like kumain kanaba? Like that my goodness. And you know why we broke up? It is because one day I want him to go in our house because he always promise me that when the class ends he will going to buy me ice cream but he didn't do it because he was helping his father on thier farm. Then I was annoyed and said let's break up without meaning it and after that we totally broke up haha. ***My first heartbreak.*** It was May 5, 2009 when we broke up. I asked my friends if we can drink alcohol and because I am liberated before I was on the circle of friends who also empi is life. We drink in my friends place and from there I cried and cried and cried because of him. I even told them that I lost my virginity because of that guy and they are really mad at him. May 10,2009 it's my birthday. My ex boyfriend called me and asking if we can meet but when he texted I am in the middle of drinking session because it's my birthday. I told my friends that I will just go outside but you know they seems already know that I will see my ex that's why they get my phone call my ex and said don't ever dare to see Pen or else we will kill you. I was afraid because of my friends threat because I still love my ex and I don't want him to get involved on fights. ***My first suitor.*** Did I share to you all that I don't believe in courtship? All of my boyfriend I will said yes to them because I like them and I will know them more during our relationship. The only one who courted me was my husband and I only feel the feeling of being a girl with him because he courted me haha. The feeling of there's someone who will pick you up in the office and someone who will always treat you foods. I never experienced that with my previous relationship because I believe that couple should be equal that's why I don't want to treat me like a girl. I mean you know treating like a princess. But I had a few suitors back then but it's only a power trip and I don't have any plan on saying yes to them. Just an eme emeng article again guys. Thank you for reading
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Not to brag, pero girlfriend ko ngayon hindi ko niligawan. MU lang kami then we decide na maging kami hahaha Nagkakaintindihan kasi lalo pa't classmate 😁
Ayun ba Yung cute na minamy day mo? Ang cute cute non Yung mahaba Yung buhok?
Oo yun ata yon hahahah
Mukhang di pa sya sure @Yen 😂😂😂 Ikaw ba si Val ry, friends yata tayo sa epbi na eh..
Hahaha oo. Ano ba FB mo ma'am?
Lin ang fb name ko..
Ay oo friend tayo haha
hehehehe, apir!
Liberated ka nga Yen, hehehe.. Pero ako, feel na feel ko un nililugawan ako kasi feeling ko ang ganda ko HAHAHAHA! makagawa nga version ko hehe
Ayun nga kapag may nanliligaw sayo feeling mo Ganda Ganda mo pero Ewan ko di Kasi ko Ganon haha. Mostly Kasi nagiging jowa ko e gusto ko na talaga 🤣 E bakit pako papakipot haha. Yes mommy liberated ako non. Naligaw ako ng landas 🤣🤣
I think hindi naligaw ang landas ang tawag jn.. Nag explore ka lang sa buhay, hehe
Parang gusto ko ring sumulat neto ate, hmmm. Mention kita at itong article mo kapag nakasulat na ako hehe
O sigi sigi hehe . Eme emeng article lang ito 🤣
Ang cute naman miss yen na sa edad mong 6 natuto kanang mag crush,ako mga highschool na ako nag karoon ng crush at naging boyfriend ko pa😅
Ewan ko ba hahaha. Simula grade 1 hanggang high school crush ko Yun e
Halla grabe pati yung Virginity nadamay dito 😮 OMG. Why naman ganorn. 🤧
Okay lang yan. Hindi ko naman kinwento buong detalye 🤣 At ayaw ko din haha.
Oh It's really good to know it friend you had an crush when you are 6 year's.
Yeah it's puppy crush haha
Nyahaha ako sis one click lng kay partner. 😅 Pero kahut kami na, parang nililigwan pa rin niya ako. Yung dati mga suitors ko puro basted eh 😅
Ayun Naman Ang mahalaga. E bakit paba magpapakipot kung gusto mo diba. Naalala ko tuloy kaklase ko Ang tagal sagutin manliligaw nya kahit crush din Naman nya ayun nainip nanligaw sa iba.
Nyahahaha meron nga ganun na case. Ako nga mas nakilala ko partner ko nung kami na talaga hihihi. Kasi dati naman ayaw ko paligaw gawa ng di pa ko ready tapos pagninililigawan ako dati parang feel ko ewww nyahahaha.
Kung ikaw sis, 6 years old nagka crush, ako 8 years old ako nun, with matching share share pa ng food. Hahaha. Yeah, during our teenage days, mapupusok pa tayo that is why halos ang daming kabataan ang binibigay agad ang bataan, and I won't judge you for that. Atleast, yung pagkakamali natin noon, tinatawanan nalang natin noon at kung hindi din dahil sa experiences natin dati, di naman tayo magogrow. Everything happens for a reason, we should always learn from our past.
True yon sis. And mabait si Lord Kasi kahit naligaw ako ng landas binigay padin nya Yung lalaki na pinagpray ko..
Same tayo sis, di dn ako naniniwala sa ligaw. Pag gusto mo ko, ts gusto dn kita, arat na di na ko pabebe. Kasi maraming naghihiwalay dn after ng matagal na ligawan, feeling ko sayang oras hahahaha. Kaya pag sinagot ko at nagloko bahala ka na sa buhay mo HAHA. Husband ko lang dn yung nanligaw sa mga naging jowa ko, sakanya lang dn ako nagpabebe HAHAHAH
Apir tayo dyan haha. Kasi yung panliligaw Abe syempre pakikita lahat ng mabuti non josko 🤣 Hindi mo Naman makikilala hanggat Hindi mo talaga nakakasama. Sayang oras 🤣🤣🤣
diba, sa una lang mabait habang di pa nakukuha hatid sundo kunyari tapos kapag naging kayo na at hinahanap mo yung hatid sundo, ikaw pla clingy HAHAHAHAHA
I haven't been in a relationship kaya I really want my first to be my last. char hahaha
Natawa ako sa 6 yrs old sis ..Iniisip ko dat tym ako busy pa sa pay bebenta sa mga classmate ko ng ipit na butterfly2x na steel hahaha ..Ako siguro first crush ko 8-9 years old na nabuhay sa katawang lupa ko hahaha.
Buti nalang hindi ko close mga pinsan ko kasi for sure tutuksuin din ako na wala pa jowa hahaha.First crush is nung elementary and I was 8 years old back then ..tas may letter letter.