My struggles living with my in-laws.

October 7, 2022

1:24 PM

Good afternoon guys. A sleepy afternoon here in my in-laws house. Since we stayed here last Monday I always find myself yawning when my son was asleep too. I am sleepy but I also need to do online hustle.

I thought my life will be easier here as I am now focusing only on my son but I'm wrong. I feel so tired here compared to our house. I keep on cleaning and cleaning because of my mother inlaw who always carry her slippers with her every time she entered the house. I am always irritated by the cats who roams around the house especially when I saw the footsteps and the feather all around the house. Sorry for the cat lovers here but I am not comfortable seeing those feathers and my son can inhale it.

During lunch time it's fine for me if I will prepare the food for my in-laws but the niece of my husband also eat here and I was like... Huuhhhh

I just found my peaceful place here in our room and if I will be the one to choose I will stay here whole day but it can't be as my son loves to play outside.

Speaking of playing. Since this is the house of my in-laws , thier grandchild always hang out there playing so active. Jumping on the chair , messing up the toys to the point that it became broken. I am an introvert. I really hated a noisy environment, it makes me irritated especially the kids who are hard to please.

Pur food is here on our room as my mother in-law will going to get it or touch it. I am not maarte but my mother in-law keeps on holding everything like used facemask.

Earlier I'm so stressed because I am cleaning the house and I put some of the sand in the trashcan because it has lot of ants and also cats poop that stink. My father in-law told me Mali Mali and he didn't allow me to put those sand in the trashcan because it will gets heavy. So ayun hayaan ko nalang mabaho yung harapan.

Last night he let the cats eat inside the kitchen and leave the food there resulting that the left over will have ants. I told my husband about this and remove it but earlier my father in-law place it again inside the kitchen.

For me it's okay for this kind of set up but I don't want it for my son. This is not the life I wanted but we ended up like this. Our room is the only place that is clean here. Today I sweep the floor thrice and also map it.

Tomorrow we will stay on our house for two days and maybe I will feel better there.