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I told him not to stress himself on the things that he can't control.

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Written by   448
1 month ago

My husband went home late last night and I have no idea why. Usually he's in the house by 8 PM but last night it's already 8:30 PM and still he's not here. I am a bit worried but at the same time I still try to be positive like thinking maybe they have a meeting or maybe he waited for my sister to go home also.

Then finally he heard the sound of his motorcycle and we went to the sala so that the kids will make bless ( sign of respect in Filipino ) to his father. Then I asked him why he came home late and he told me something happened on the the supermarket. My husband is working as a civilian guard in one of the supermarket here in our town. He was working as a civilian intelligence for almost a year. Last December to be exact.

Then I asked him what happened and he said theres a syndicate who enter the supermarket and one of the customer lost her phone and he didn't noticed it. He was so disappointed to himself because he feel like he didn't perform his job well. Then I told him that's life. He told me that he's alone that time and he also following a group of LGBT that looks suspicious that's why he didn't noticed the another group of people that was the syndicate but he noticed by seeing the unorganized stuff in the supermarket , there's something going here.

He was so affected of what happened and told him not to think of it and if it's work matter he should leave it in work because he is on the house already. Then I told him not to stress himself on the things that he can't control. @Eylz2021 I learned something on your article haha. Then he told me that I am right and give me an example about the thing that makes us stress even if we do t have control on it.

Example is when you are on your way work and then the rain pours and then the heavy traffic started then you start to be annoyed and got stress because you think about it but the reality is that you only make yourself stress because even if you think it that much you can never do something about it aside from waiting the rain to stop and turned the heavy traffic to moderate.

I also told him that it's already done and he can't do anything to change it that why don't stress himself. I told him to focus on the future and it's not the end of the world. Maybe the syndicate will back on the next days and then he can caught them just like what happened on him a month ago.

So this incident happened a month ago and he was so humiliated because someone point his finger to him. So as a civilian intelligence they have a training to know if the customer has a hidden agenda. They will notice the action of the customer and they consider it as a red flag. So on that incident , he already had a gut feeling because a man has acting strange while on the supermarket and as a CI he followed it secretly but because the man was guilty , he confront my husband and said , why you always following me? I know who you are and it's obvious. " . Then my husband didn't say anything bad and said it's just coincidence.

Then because of the incident, he requested to review the CCTV and found out that the man was putting something on his pocket and then the next day the man went to the supermarket again and hot caught. And because of that he was happy.

Back to the topic.

So he was sad because of what happened and aside from telling him encouragement I also make a joke that work according to his salary and don't overdo his job. Then he asked me " Sa sweldo lang ba talaga iaayon ang lahat? '. My goodness my husband is a good man and put his heart on his work also and I was laughing and said Yes. Just chill and dont think about the past and focus on the future.

Then earlier , he seems fine because he told me that her manager said that it's okay because he's the only one CI that time. And then he said he will not mentioned about it again instead he will try harder.

Thank you for reading.

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Wow ha napakapasionate ng husband mo sa work niya,bibihira ang mga ganyan. Yjnh ina kasi sige work pero wala sa luso ang ginagawa pero iba ang mister mo. Thumbs up sa kanya,and hindi naman talaga natin maiiwasan ang mga dpaat mangayri kaya naman hindi kailanagan magpaka stress.,😁😁

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1 month ago

Hehe, it's good that you applied something you learned from here sis :) And your husband is a good man.

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1 month ago

Oo goods na goods hehe

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Napakapassionate po nung asawa niyo sa work hehe. More blessings po sa kanya at sa inyo hehe. Medyo natuwa po ako sa part na di niya binabase yung performance niya sa salary niya hehe

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1 month ago

Kaya nga e. Kasi ako nung nagwowork ako trabahong minimum lang haha

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

I always feel that way po sa work. Kahit di ko naman kasalanan or kahit di ko naman area of responsibility feel ko need ko mag take ng action. Huhu

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1 month ago

Sa Acadsoc?

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Di po. Sa bpo company po dati

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1 month ago

Ok lang yan... Minsan talaga feeling natin tayo ang guilty kahit di naman tayo ang may kasalanan. Ganyan ang mga dedicated sa trabaho. Pray lang always sis...

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1 month ago

Ganon nga sya. Feeling guilty

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Ganyan talaga kapag super dedicated sa work eh, kahit konting mali lang feeling nila parang they didn't perform well sa kanilang work. Okay lang yun ate, your hubby still did his part parin naman

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1 month ago

Oo nga. Kapag my nakakalusot feeling nya sya may kasalanan

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Nakakatakot naman po yung nangyari ate halla, buti walang masamang nangyari sa asawa mo. Hays tsaka, ganyan po talaga dapat mas maiging iseparate ang work at kapag kasama ang pamilya. Wag din po dapat stressin ang sarili wala naman po siyang kasalanan sana po ay masolve na po ang problema sa trabaho niya.

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1 month ago

Ayun nga Sabi ko. Haha. Stress na stress e

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Mas maganda doon is mag move on para di ma stress. Nangyari na nga wala ng magagawa. Ang tangi nalang magagawa ee pag butihin pa lalo ang work.

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1 month ago

Oo nga. Okay Naman na sya madam

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

His commitment to his job hits differently that's why he got affected that much. Nevertheless, God knows he did his best and being upset from that incident validates his sincerity to the job. 😁

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1 month ago

Sabi ko nga huwag karirin hahaha.

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Mag trabaho nang na-aayon sa sweldo. Kahit mag todo effort ka, tataas ba sweldo mo? Diba. Hahaha

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1 month ago

Kaya nga haha. Pero Sabi Kasi ng HR if kakitaan ka daw tlga ng good performance e tinataasan Naman daw haha.

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Ay, bet na bet yan. Hehe

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1 month ago

Your husband is a nice man. Probably he love his job that much which is why he is like that. You are lucky to have him.

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1 month ago

Thank you ♥️

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

He is sincere with his job that's why he is upset, hehe at least di pera pera lang tulad nang ibang empleyado tatamad tamad kasi inaayon lang sa sweldo ang trabaho hahaha

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1 month ago

Ang bad ko nga Sabi ko sa kanya magtrabaho nalang sya ng naaayon sa sweldo haha

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Because he feeling he didn't do his job well , Why a lot of bad people don't want to work .

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1 month ago

I don't know. Why they did those things

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

He must be sincere with his job,that's he was worried about this incident. But, what you said was right that he shouldn't over stress himself.

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1 month ago

Yep. He should focus on the future

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

naks... tuwa naman ako hehe pero tama naman hindi lahat magagawan agad ng solution.. tsaka may next time pa para mahuli nya yun.. and i'm sure babalik pa yung mga yun kasi akala nila madali lang makalusot sa supermarket na yun..

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1 month ago

Eto Yung comment ko dati na nalungkot ako pero Wala ako maicomment haha pero naaabsorb ko Naman sya 🤣

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago