Can you love and cheat at the same time?

Earlier my husband and I had a conversation. This conversation is not intentional maybe but it already ended on a topic. While we were watching the guppies he asked me a question. Love , kahit ba mahal mo makukuha mo padin magloko?

That's his question in me and I know he asked that question because of his friend who is cheating on his girlfriend after he said that he loves his girlfriend. I answered him based on my experience on the past.

Here's my answer.

Maybe yes? Because I was like that before. I love my boyfriend so much but when things not fall according to my wants I am looking for someone who will comfort me or someone who can fulfill his shortcomings. Before I thought it's okay as long as he didn't caught it after all he's my boyfriend and he's the legal. That's on my mindset before.

But you know that I changed right? Because when I experienced heartbreak with my ex and realized how toxic I am as a person I decided to be good and never do whatever I've done in the past because it's not the right concept of loving. When I met you I never thought of cheating again even there's a lot of temptation. My ex texted me again and asked if we can met but I didn't agree because I don't want to be the old Yen.

There's always a turning point to everything. Time will come that you will realize things and asked yourself if you will remain that kind of person and you will change for the better.

Knowing God is also a great impact why I changed. If you feel and know Gods love it's really impossible to have a kind of mindset about love because Jesus Himself showed the true meaning of love.

Then I asked him if using the Touch App makes him bother and he told me this.

You already know what's right and wrong. If you done something you are the one who will carry it not me.

He said it with a stranger tone of voice that's why I explained to him why I am using the app but I know also at some point that it's inappropriate to used it even if I said that there's no flirting happened. Like what he said people on the crypto space is fine when you just talking about how to do it or how to earn there but personal communication is different because at some point you will find comfort and it and he is right that's why I decided not to use the app anymore.

Before we end the conversation I told him that I will not do anything that can ruin our relationship. I know and witnessed to have a broken family and I don't want to be one. I hugged him and tell him that I love him so much and he do the same.

Communication is really important to a relationship. Being open to each other despite on how hurtful or real talk the topic is. So guys , that app is only advisable for a single like Ruffa. She signed up earlier hehe.