Walk Away And Never Look Back

There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who do not. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living. - José N. Harris.

Have you ever been in a situation where you have to decide to choose between moving on or staying to endure the pain? It may not be the pain of an abusive union, it could also be in the area of making decisions regarding your future, career or even your friends. 

There are times we choose to endure bad behaviour hoping they will change and become better, that our boss will stop nagging and start appreciating all our efforts.

That your friends will stop making you feel inferior and letting you down. Rather than those things expected to change for the better, it keeps on getting worse. 

How long do you intend to handle a failed relationship? Been years you've been crying over the same thing. Don't you think It would be nice to walk away and never look back?

I know you had great memories together, they were the best thing you could ever wish for but when it hurts so much and your heart can not bear it again it is better to walk away, don't look back. Abusive relationships are never going to get better but worse as days go by, so why hope on it? It's like waiting for rain in the desert, not impossible but very rare.

Your boss is a pain in the neck rather than quite the job, you are expecting him to change one day. To what exactly? A better person I guess. I wish you all the best but let me burst your bubble, it might not happen. Bad characters are not learned overnight, it takes time for them to build up and such characters can not be put off within the snap of a finger. If it does, I would advise you to run because that is a pretence.

I remember a colleague in medical school who was performing great but all of a sudden became the worst in medical school. If it were you what would you have done? Probably, sit up, burn more nights at your study table, get a lot of tutorial videos and watch. But he decided to walk away, it was the most painful thing to ever happen to Us as his colleagues. He was a cool guy and everyone liked him. Currently, he owns one of the biggest stores in Belgium and he is living just fine. What if he had continued chasing the dream that left him a while ago, he would have ended up unhappy and not satisfied. Have you seen why it is necessary to walk away when things don't add up? 

Countless motivational speakers will advise you to keep on trying but then for how long? Keep on enduring a failed relationship because you expect them to change! 

My dear readers, when things don't add up or make sense anymore, it is better you walk away than wallow in pain and misery. Life was meant to be interesting but you just chose not to see it that way. You feel you could change every bad situation in your life which is never meant to be. You may not always win all your struggles, hurdles and fights but one thing I want you to know when it hurts so bad, you don't have to endure the pain knowing when to walk away. They are some pains that will never go away unless you move away. The truth is, are you willing to take that bold step today, if you are? Welcome to freedom. 

Do have a blissful week, knowing your decisions are what makes you. So make the right decision to avoid regrets. I care about everyone!

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