Today's realities

Some realities that happens in our life will hurt us, a lot of things that happened nowadays are more on unrealistic, just like in social media. People can show their beautiful smiles on their selfies, only to find out that in real life, they were feeling sad. A person can hide his/her true feelings through their physical expression, and posting beautiful capture in social media accounts. Does it really worth faking our emotions and feelings?

Some people say, that they enjoyed it, and it's their way of escape with the real world in which they have a hard time facing it.

Here are some realities that a person can possibly face in their life.

• Lots of social friends - No Best Friend

In reality, I do have lots of friends online, in Facebook and with this BCH community like noise and read, which I was able to log in each day. But, in real life, I think I don't have any best friends anymore. I know some friends of mine, when I see them on the streets or in church they talk to me, they smile at me,and that's it. When we go home, we didn't see each other no hi and hello anymore.

Just lately, I talk to a woman who is a friend with one of my close friend before. And she tells me, that my friend is about to get married next month. At the back of my mind, I was thinking why did she didn't even tell me, that she's going to marry. I feel hurt about that, because it seems that she already forget me, and the time that we've been a friend. Maybe she has already a new friends there in her workplace. I used to chat her sometimes, but we never had a long conversation, just a "hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine!", that's it, conversation end. Unlike before that we can talk with a lot of things, especially in our private life.

That's the reality, we lose some of our friends which we consider our close friends. I was thinking, was there any problem with me, why did my friends in real world seems fading, it seems that they don't like to talk to me anymore.On the other hand, I was thinking that they are now having a different priorities in life, that's why they can't reach out. The fact is, they slowly disappear in my life, and what remains are the virtual friends.

Big House-Small Family

Yes I see a lot of big houses here in the place where we are living today. It's like a mansion, they have a swimming pool inside the house and a garden. But, the reality is that, they can't even occupy the whole house, because they only have one child, or the husband and wife are the only remaining people in the house, because their kids were already leaving for their work abroad or in the city.

But I see a lot of houses that are small, but they have a lot of children, and even have a small space in their sleeping time,and yet they still live happily.

High income-Less peace of mind

Honestly, I can't relate with his kind of fact because we have less income since I'm a kid. There's just one time that catch my attention when a woman who is an owner of a big company,she's a millionaire, who says, "Don't you ever wonder that you want to be like me, because it's not easy, your life maybe more complicated.".

Shes longing for a simple life, in which they can have freedom to walk around, and enjoy their life outside,which they can't do because of their safety was being threat.

Life is getting harder in the year 2022

According some survey and news that I heard, that majority of the people says that their life is getting worst in the year 2022.For me, it's true, because the people were suffering from high value of basic products especially with our daily needs like foods, and other necessities of human. Even if the pandemic is gradually taking slowly, the prices of different products doesn't cooperate.

Costly watches - But no time

What does it mean? We calculate time, we know what time is it, but we didn't have enough time. Our time ends, our time is short. When some people invite us, we tend to say that we have no time for that because we have something to do, the reality is that we all have lots of things to do, but still we never get done at a time, everything is happening in cycle, repeatedly. Sometimes we miss our priorities and the most important things in life.

Our life today, maybe will take a lot of changes, as the world keeps on revolving, people, technologies and life also take its new stages, that may affect our life as humans.

Live your life, it's still beautiful living each day.

Thank you everyone for reading this,it takes time before I write today.

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