Social Media,(the battle ground)

May I ask, do you often browse on Facebook? If you ask me, I open it once a day, if I'm done doing my things. The reality is that, this platform is helpful because it connects people in a different part of the world, even with the students with their online learning. But it differs in a way on how we used it, like being responsible upon using it. In which we can posts photos, words of encouragement, adventure, birthday greetings, and many more because it has no limitations as long as you are willing to do it.

Some fights today,doesn't only happens in person but most of the time in social media.Can you say that it's better? I can say no because it will destroy our dignity.

Yesterday, I open my account, and it gives me stress after seeing a post that seems to start a fight within our family. These women were having a grudge already and one of them has posted hate words against the other, and it makes our family in trouble, when the two of them were having a face-off online, and in person. It disappoints how come that she post family issues on Facebook, both of them are a family member and they fight online, it's so shameful on our part.

Not only this, but I also read other posts and comments from other people, who want to spread gossip and post vulgar words which such so inhuman I feel disappointed with them and I realized to abandoned my account but I can't do that because it also helps us to connect with our family that is far from us. And these girls who fight have not been settled until now, I don't know what will happen the next day, but all I know is that it destroys their peace of mind and relationship.

There's nothing wrong to used this platform but because there are a lot of toxic things found here that might be cause destruction to a family, couple, and even with children.

It can make or break relationships, it serves now as a bridge to express anger based on what happened yesterday. And for me, it's not a healthy way of using it.

• Another thing, they used this platform to bully other people and post shameful words against each other.

• It adds commotion to both people especially with other people's comments, hey, it makes the site toxic.

• Double-check our words every time we make a post, there are also some instances that we type error words that are misunderstood by other users

Does it make sense?

No, it doesn't make sense at all. In any different versions of their posts, it's all in a vague mood. What's the point of posting hatred, does any reward can be credited by this, nothing. It is just that, it makes oneself be classified as a troublemaker and the people will know it and gives us an undesirable reputation.

The result of their actions

It affects all of us, my parents, children, neighbors, and others friends who read it on FB. It gives a gap with their relationship and even me, I become hesitant to talk to them, just to avoid any conflict to the both of them. Even if they delete their posts, but the scars on their hearts may take a long time if they will not be humble with themselves.

This situation teaches me to become responsible with what to posts and comments on this platform.

Accept the fact that everyone commits a mistake, but it's not proper to post it online to inform the world especially when he/she is a part of a family.

• Limit my time of browsing FB, and not give any comments battle words, or anger posts to anyone else.

• Remember that it takes only one click to destroy a relationship, once we click the "Post" option, only a few seconds that a relationship can be broken which is hard to reverse."Ang nasabi mo na,at nasabi, mahirap ibalik ang nasirang relasyon".

• We cannot accuse FB as the reason for this, but it's how the user manages

  her account well.

Noise .cash, read. cash advantage on Facebook

• When this happens I appreciate with now Noise. cash and read. cash works because these two platforms have their rules to follow with their users. It makes the site desirable and comfortable to browse with. It's stress-free because the admin is responsible enough to ban people who did bad things on these sites. And I think that's what should also be done in Facebook, to set rules for all so that it will lessen the offenders of both parties. That's why I can always recommend it with my friends to be here so that they can read articles that are valuable in our lives and not just "pa-cute, cute post", like what FB does.

• Choose what to click

What we see, what we hear is what we get in our system, starts with our mind and into our hearts.It affects us with our work, focus and in relating to other people.Toxic words and anything that we let in, can affect our life,it's like a trash that we stored within, we may not noticed it but if pile up and soon to burn out if there are chances to come out.Our heart is the one who suffer the most.Its better to be vigilant everytime we log in.

Conclusion;

By the time that they was no social media, and we used letters to communicate with our relatives and friends,the relationship is much healthy than today. Fb helps us to establish a relationship in an easy way, maybe it's not that genuine friendship that we can find here, because most of the time the faces are filtered.

It's much better if we are angry, stress we will talk to people in person, private to avoid unrest. There's no perfect communication that happens in person and talking heart to heart. With social media we can use flowering words just to impress people but deep inside we don't know if they mean it. Unlike with talking our complaint with each other in person ,we will know the sincerity through their eyes.

Everyone never wants to live with an enemy, especially with a family, we all want to experience peace with our heart and mind. So,it's up to us to choose which way should we go or pursue favorable things if we make ourselves suffer with our actions, but it happens, we should always be extra careful with everything that we do.

Thanks to everyone who upvote my posts,I'll be reading articles.My grammar is not that good,I hope you can understand.

God bless you all.Pls leave a commit if you want.hehe, thanks you.

Maybe this one is full of emotion ,I'm just thankful to express it here.