No one like You, You are Super

We all know that this world that we exist today is sometimes giving us headache and everyone is striving to become better from others.Just like what we see on Instagram and Facebook which resembles flawless ness and perfect skin tone.But in real life it was full of filters and edited in any Lightroom apps.Why do I know because that’s what I do too,when I’m about to change my profile in my social media accounts.

Maybe there’s a problem with self contentment, that I have seen in my browsing time.Would you agree that you and I were the only one in the whole world?There’s no one like you,and theres much more that is in you.There maybe the same names but still different.Just like when you have 5 children you were also dealing with 5 different characters and behaviors.

There are tendencies that we can look down with ourselves when we see others achievement and accomplishment.When others posts their sexy body it sometimes leads to insecurity .

I have a friend who suffers a serious physical condition lately because she used to take a slimming tablet that she bought online.And after a few times she take it,she really become slim and lose her fats, but the worst thing that happens is that, she gets sick and lose her good health.She felt so weak lately, and even feel so different than how he looks like before.Although she achieved her desired body but she was totally sick.She felt so much regrets of why she did it, and even think to surrender because of what she feels.

it makes me think that, when it comes to buying products to makes ourself sexy or lose weight, it should not be on a rush, it’s still better when everything will be done in a slow process and not in an instant way.We should not be intimidated with all the so called #relationship goals,#body goals,#fit goals.,and all that the world wants us to set.

You and me has the ability to think and decide for ourself betterment without depending on what is in “demand”,”trending”and #new style, because it might just destroy us in every way , and become a self validation for us which comes from the words of the people around us.It brings so much negativity with us when people give their comments about us.

But let me tell us that,We,are the best critic for ourselves.”It’s okay not to be sexy today,you and me are just one of the part of the world and we should not be harsh with ourselves in terms getting a good physical appearance, let’s treat ourselves nicely, to take it slowly.As we look with ourselves in the mirror, we can decide to fix from starting on a simple routine that will help us.

Let me share my discovery lately,I’ve been drinking a turmeric powder which my husband bought from their canteen.Its tastes a little bit of sweet but it has also an awful smell but it’s still good to drink.I observed that it makes me lose weight especially with the belly part.I used to have a problem with my “bil-bil”,hehe especially when I want to wear my shirt that are fit,it makes me looks like preggy 😂.After almost a monthh of taking a turmeric tea I feel better.And as I have search for its benefits ,it can help to reduce fats.I don’t know if it will also take effect with you but it was good with me.

I am not promoting this one but I just want to share my daily used herbal to help me keep myself feel better.This is a natural products, no preservatives added and it’s affordable.

On a different side,in terms with,not material things, when it comes to knowing ourself better and relating with other people is also important that we should nurture .Maybe some people would like to see things outwardly, the way it looks like but I can say that it needs to be balanced ,not just with physical appearance is a better you but with the things in the inside which really matters.

You has the ability to think which is very important, and it is your power to make things changed and make yourself as a better version.

You , learned a lot as you grow up with the teachings from your parents and with friends while you get along with them in your daily life.There are some people who can say, that there days were not complete without you.

You ,and me are a part of a missing piece of others lives.Believe it or not, there’s someone there who needs you, needs you to love,care and even just your presence is a great contribution of their lives.Even though sometimes we ended up of feeling worthless, but we shouldn’t lean on it the world is a big space for everyone to know that we belong into something.

You are a conqueror .What is that kind of life battle that you have endured today?Its your track to follow ,everyone of us are fighter in our own.There are some life situations daily that we need to face off, where there is no time to say,”No,”or even surrender.

You ,are a living hero.Whether you are a breadwinner,elder daughter or son of the family and there are siblings who needs your support.Or you are supporting on a charity works,volunteer,giver,hospitable,good neighbor ,a responsible citizen in your local area, a good influence in the society, model of character and hardworking, a good student, a great mom and dad, a supportive Tita or a helpful one, you already did a noble job.

You made people smile.How is that to make others happy?Its something that we can make a change with our environment.If you have a sense of humor a good communication talent, it is your superpowers.It can unite people and give relieves to anybody who felt discouraged or even worst.

So sad that sometimes we can makes ourself degrading or think that we are so down below.Having self pity, saying the words that,”I am just”,”I have nothing to be proud of”.

You has the super power, within yourself, your great.

This life deserve your best,and you are one of it.

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