Love,it's just a joke

Is love could possibly some kind of a joke?Especially that our world have turn out everything as an instant,everything may happen easily just a click.So obviously,the story that I'm going to share with you happened online and in real life.

There was a woman, she's already 40 years old,she is having a physical illness which is kidney problem ,but she's gorgeous aand sexy.Even though her skin tone have changed due to her dialysis but she always take care of herself to always look good.

Her very fan of taking selfie, and post it online,because she just always stay at home and had nothing fun but browsing her cellphone .

One day,she join on the Facebook group ,those who are filipina seeks foreign boyfriend ,and she post her picture there.After a few minutes ,she received a message on her messenger ,a cute guy,who is a soldier from Germany.But she ignored that message for three times,while the guy a who is a 49 years old also, very consistent in her , from morning afternoon and in the evening,he chat on woman.

The woman have block him for almost three times but the man didn't stop.Until the time that they are already in a relationship and exchange words of love with each other.

They have started meeting online last September ,and after 2 1/2 months,the man have decided to go with her ,so he hurriedly pack his things without thinking.He fly immediately to where the woman lived to marry on her .When the man have reached the airport,he was arrested by the policeman because he doesn't have complete papers and due to the pandemic protocols.

He said that he will marry a filipina ,that's why he came here,but he was detained on the soldiers camp and he didn't expect that it will happened to him.Later on,the chief of police have called the woman,that his fiance is in the PNP head quarter.She was surprised and was shocked ,never thought that they guy did come for her.

The chief have told her that she needs to comply all the necessary papers for their wedding,they need to have an evidence that they will really get married like proposal,a ring or any certificate.But the woman wasn't able to do it because in the first place,she said,that she's not taking it seriously with that kind of relationship.

The guy have called her and they had conversation ,she said that she need to go home mmediately and fix her papers.But the guy was already in the police station.

The woman and the guy have a video call and the guy was happy to see her even through the cellphone.The woman asked him why did she came to the Philippines.And the man said,that she loved her so much and wants to be with her for the rest of her life.But the woman replied,"why did you take it seriously,it's just a joke"."Well,it's not a joke for me",the man answered .

The woman said,that it's just a part of her past time to chat with him,and she didn't really love with him,she told him to go home and fixed her violations.The man cried and cried,asking why did it happened to her.

"You can't push me away,I already sacrificed a lot for you ,I fulfill my promised and I swear ,I will not go back home.I found my home with you ,so why should I go.

The man have suffered after her money was almost over,he can't have any access with his money because she was detained.And the sad part is that the woman is already had a commitment with another guy.

She said ,she can't do anything for the guy's problem that's why she just ignore the man for almost few weeks.

Tha man couldn't believed that the woman was just playing at him,the truth is she doesn't in love with him,it's just a joke,the woman have already said it.The man have become a driver with the officers and washed their laundries just to have money to buy something for himself.The woman always told him to go back home but he refused to it,because he really love her,but the woman doesn't take it seriously.

End....

With online world,a person can commit cheating ,lies and disguise,or playing someone's heart.Always be aware that,not everything that we heard,we see are true.

It's just that people can abuse people just to have fun,pity are those who take it seriously .I am not a professional heart adviser but I am sure that love shouldn't be a joke at all.Love is a sacred word,which initiated by God.If love can be a playtime,what a world full of pain maybe.

For someone who fell in love but in the end ended on a joke time,how hurtful moments it was.

Always be mindful in everything that we do,whether online or in personal relationship.How hard it is to have a heart who doesn't care for someone else's feelings.

Love is not a joke,love is truth,love is pure,it never lies and disguise.

Thanks for having you here.

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