Love will make you do crazy things

Yes you already heard it.With Will's Smith speech during the Oscar Awards night,while he was apologizing in his speech to his co actors.I'm still thinking,is it really love can make us do crazy things?I've come to remember with how I react and do things when I was in love for the first time.

I was blinded with my love before during the first few months of being in a relationship with my first boyfriend and my husband today.My eyes and ears were close to anyone whose willing to give me an advise,that I was too young,that I need to have a job first before getting married.I can't explained it,how did it happened , it just so brief and we decided right away ,after 9 months.

Of course it broke my parent's hearts ,and make them feel sad because I am the only girl on the family and they expect a lot from me.

Here's some crazy things that I did for love?

• Unfriended a friend

I became too jealous before when my boyfriend had a text messages ,or someone is talking to him especially when they are laughing or teasing each other.I felt like I am transforming into another person.I get in to the girls room and shout and yell them because I am jealous ,and they are mad at me because they don't know what's the main reason.I unfriended her and in the end ,I am embarrassed.

• Violating rules

In that certain place that we live,we have the rule,that we should never talk to any man alone,or with our classmate who are boys.And because we are not allowed to talk,my boyfriend will go to my room at night.How sad,I'm violating the rules,and it caused stress to the people who are in charge on that place.Its owned by an NGO,who are helping a out of school youth to learn livelihood and agriculture.But even if I am aware that we violate rules,still we did it,that's really awful,right?

• Talk back

I'm not really a good girl ever since,my parents knew me more than ever,and when they found out that I had a boyfriend ,they were surprised and get mad.And when I told them that I will get married,they will not let me,but I keep on talking,even if they talk to me too.What a very bad actions that I did,for what they so called love?

Love can make you do crazy things

In what way that love can be called crazy?Things that will take you to the point of making others disappointed,or either you will feel the same.Crazy to the point that your acting differently from normal ways,but it's just come out on a certain time that you didn't want to.

For me,I was just too young at that time,which I think I am acting like premature,which really affects me as a person,and how did the people treat me after that.

We can do something that is weird,beyond what they called "normal",or norms .Just like what Will's Smith did ,when he slap Chris Rock face,it's not the way it should happen, in front of the public ,that's why a lot of people say,that Will is over protective with his wife.

Yes,if we love a person,we should protect them and never let them down as much as possible.Especially when other people are embarrassing your love .I think Will Smith was being pushed by his emotions at that time because he is protecting his wife in that way.

We may now what love is?And its really a complex word that anybody could state something about it.

On my part,when I was acting undesirably ,I was just drowned by my feelings so much,without thinking if I was right.I think that makes sound crazy in love.

Love will be going crazy (as what they say),when we became overprotective

Overprotective to the point that,we act something like bad,or controlling our partners life,that can make them suffocate which makes them unhappy.

Love will be going crazy when you crossed over boundaries

Just like what Will Smith did,he goes beyond what is proper,and normal.His acting just like he was never been before.It is because of his overflowing emotions within and result into his actions.

There are a lot of weird things that happened everyday in marriage life,or in a relationship.And they will still defend themselves ,that they are just "loving".

What are some crazy things that a person can do for love?

Burning a house because of a wife who live in his/her new partner.

Hire a secret agent that will follow your wife on her all the time

Put a tracking app on your bf/gf.

Performing a witchcraft just to find out the third party(in bisaya ipabarang,or ipa tag an,uso ni sa amoa,hehe).

Spend thousands of money to provide the another one.

But,recently,that most craziest thing which I know that he did because of his love for his wife,"is that he kills his own children,to take revenge on his wife.I happens in a certain place,which really broke my heart,when I heard it.

Folks,let me reminds us all what love is,love is not crazy ,as what they say,love is patient,kind,understands,forgive and many more good traits that love consist.

If love becomes crazy,I think it's not pure ,if it will abuse,or hurt people.

I think Will Smith was overtaken by his emotions ,at that moment which makes him act differently,but Will Smith surely love his wife so much .

But as I have read an update,that he is already posting a '"public apology " to Chris Rock,and that is love,"to forgive".

In the end ,love will make you realized everything,love is never be rude and bad,love is love.

Until here guys.

This is all I can think for now,regards to all my readers ,sponsors and upvoters.

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Published:March 30,2022
At:4:51 pm