All of us may experience the dry season in our life, at times that we don't feel like moving on with everything, our school, work, business, and even with love. Yes, I do feel this moment of my life.
At times when it seems like everything can cause boredom, even with gadgets, do you agree? As if, whatever we have there's always a moment when we don't feel like being active.
But don't worry, everyone has experienced this, I can relate this issue with our present situation.
Boredom
A single word that may describe tiredness, or fatigue is not a good feeling. Maybe this topic is stressful but let's deal with it, tho fight boredom, hehe. Im not bored today, that's why I'm writing this one, 😅.
There are some people I know that they felt like they want to stop their schooling because of the pandemic that we have, specifically with the covid 19 that the world suffers. They lost the courage as if there will be no tomorrow for them to continue their career. My kids also have felt the same, they already miss the face-to-face class before, because they said they never learned at home and they are bored. Others also have been discouraged because of the vaccine, they choose to stop pursuing their school because they don't want to be vaccinated.
But others have already overcome this state of feeling, honestly, it's just come and goes.
This feeling of being bored, affects all ages, even with the one who is working every day. Bored of repeating daily routine, over and over is again like a housewife like me.
Boredom
Do you also feel bored with a relationship? Even in a relationship there comes the time to feel like being low, seems like it doesn't feel like having an attraction with each other. I remember when I get married, my husband wants us to have a child already, but even if we try,nothing happened. It takes almost 1 year of waiting before I get pregnant. But during those months that he feels bored, he just always stay at home and doesn't feel like working. But I know, that we are not alone with the problem because a lot of people have experienced the same, even long years of waiting. We have come to the point that I questioned his love for me,if he will just love me because of the baby. And that's the first lesson that I've learned in my early days of marriage. But later on, he understands and explains everything to me about why he acted that way.For as long as, love is present it can be overcome, we can go back to dating, or find a spare time together.
Doing activities together, like cooking, washing clothes,and washing plates, hehe but most of the time,it's hard to call a husband to wash the dishes.I just heard this advice with, someone that doing activities together can help strengthen relationship.
THE DANGER OF BOREDOM
Boredom is normal to be felt by people, but undesirable things sometimes happens when a person is in this moment. He maybe can commit a mistake while on his way to boredom moment. It can create a lot of negative thoughts in our minds and will lead us to a negative actions. Sometimes, it is always a reason to say"I'm just bored, that's why I did it."
Boredom sometimes is just a moment to take a deep breath, relax an opportunity to start over.
My boredom moments of writing
A few months ago, I am not active here on read. cash because I felt bored especially when my article didn't receive anything, I feel that I want to stop, so I stop, but through frequent browsing on noise. cash, I have read a lot of posts and encouragement, my mind feels awake and I start over, that's why I'm still here today.
Even if we feel bored, it's so important that we should not stop doing something, and don't let ourselves be drowned by tiredness.
Boredom can be a time to rest and gain strength to start over again.
In my husband's company, they have the sports activity every Friday together with his co-workers, and their Director and office staff. They said that the purpose of this is to break their daily routine, that instead of non-stop working, they set a time to give themselves a break when they just enjoy basketball, badminton, volleyball, every weekend. The purpose is to assess themselves and help them be physically active.
I also observe that there is always an ice breaker, every seminar, or gathering to break the pressure in a team. Well, every day we should spend time to laughed, do what we want, hang out or do anything that we can consider a time to set space for ourselves.
The reality
All of us can feel this way, be bored, weary, and tired but let me tell you, it's just temporary don't let yourself not feel alive.
The feelings have often changed, depending on our situation, and there's always time to recover and make a choice to restart.
On the other hand, boredom can take us to a different experience and adventure, and an unplanned trips because were bored.
It's also an opportunity to learn a new craft and skill which will give as new ways to earn. Have you observed that if we are bored we will do something different, or sometimes find a way out, to break our boredom?Find someone to talk to, where you can share what you feel.
Or hug your favorite pet or they called it furbabies , they said its a good stress reliever.Help your mother with her cooking time, or water the plants in the backyard or solve a mathematical problem 😂😂, hehe nothing serious with the last one.
When I feel bored I
Go outside the house
Take a long walk
Check out my flowers
Take some green photos
Or take a cloud photos
Go uphill and watch an overview
But one thing really help me,take a deep breath and count 1-3 and repeat it all over and over again.uu
The last thing is,I eat something crispy like chicharon, chips, that's makes me feel relax.
I just hope your not bored while reading this😂.By the way, how did you fight boredom?
Until here, thanks for being here!
God bless you.
Well, today's time had been really hard, let alone last year. These days, I just chose to motivate myself once again and likewise, with what you have said with the plastic balloon, boredom is just temporary. Been working my way to get better and productive as well.