Social Media Fake Life

These topic would have been only directed to the famous celebrities only, but in our present time we have seen even the normal class of people trying so hard to fit in with the social media pressure. Since their friends are looking good and taking nices pictures at very expensive places, they too try so much to fit in, thereby stretching themselves pass their mark, these can be detrimental in the long run. The people we are trying to impress most times don't care about what you, but we try to much to live our lives to please them.

The quest to be loved by people has drifted our focus from the main focus which is to build ourselves to improving on ourselves. Moreover everyone is different, with segregation all around, no matter how hard we try, we can never please everyone, some people would be till dislike you so no sensible reason. So rather than pursue this is a main focus, make the main focus on our personal grown, if we can work hard on our personal growth, it'll be only be a matter of time, we would still be celebrated.

Today ladies all around the world are in search of social media followers, they want as many people standing in awe at the sight of their photos, till the extent, they are not bothered about the means at which they can use to get the attentions they need. Quite a good number of the ladies are on social planting exposing their body and doing naughty. Of course the male are very enticed by what they see so they would most likely hit the like and follow buttons, then another girl sees this and decide to take off some clothes to pose for the camera. Acquire fame through value added.

Men on the other hand don't have as much enticing nature to get people crazy to hit a like button and follow so what is next? Find fame through another route. For the male mostly have to strive Harder to get fame, the followers so desire, and the usage of money is the new trick out. Some have bought followers online, some have spent a lot to create a brand that is way pass their budget and they are actually in reality not capable of maintaining the lifestyle they claim to have. Its all a charade, it's not you.

If it's not you, then its not okay to fake yourself. Being you would help filter from the numerous people that might be coming close to you, so being truthful would help you a lot by bringing people who match your energy, attract you to people who has been has seem they can work with you. You never know. No matter how bad you feel about yourself, the next great bidden is to improve. Working hard to learn, and learn it well rather than doing what you have no feel or interest for. None should consider doing things they don't like just to please anyone, there are people who would appreciate your craft no matter what it is, reach out to your audience by doing you.

We must be aware that not all we see on the media is true, most people just show off flaunting what they got to oppress others, but the good news however is that they can't force the oppression on anyone, you have to give in to it to feel oppressed. Everyone try so had to make everything look sweet and comfortable, while there's a young boy or girl scrolling through and thinking they are not lucky. Some get so worked up in trying to be like what they see online, and this has done some harm as well as it has done good. It has done good, because at least its has made people be more ambitious, if he of she can get there, I too. However it has done some harm too, cause people are taking crazy steps just to be like someone who they see, not minding how they got there, we all need to be careful.

Most of us wants to be celebrities, fewer among us don't care about being celebrities, either choices is good, whatever we become famous or not, we must try to keep our life private. People don't have to know and have a say i whatever you do, sometimes we all might need to go against the opinion of everyone elee and prove stubborn while doing what we want to irrespective of whatever people think. When our focus shifts away from ourselves and we begin to care more about the public, what would they say, what do they want to see, how should I do this or do that to please them, slowly we get overwhelmed and lose ourselves along the way.

In summary, we don't live for anyone, no one should control us, our Private life has no business to be shared to the general public, staying private has prevented a lot of happening. On the other hand coming public has lead to many conflicts. Learn to keep your lifestyle private as well as your future plans. Also there are no use to not cutting your coat according to your seize, don't live life just to fit in. Enjoy every moment of your life with originality. Stick to your difference, do what makes you the real you.

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