Remembering

A lot has happened, a lot is still happening, and it all gets stored as memories, we can't undo what has been done, we can only remember, and we feed off our feelings and emotions while we remember. Its good to make good memories, it's good to make each moment count, so after all is done and days have turned to years gone by, we can still smile as we remember. It's the after food for us, we feed of our memories, it feeds us with excitements, laughter, joy or even sadness, calm, anger, all dependent on the storylines of the happenings. We can't stop bad happenings, it can happen and it may not happen, we can only take Preventive measures, we can't stop good happenings too likewise, but we can intentionally make good memories to remember later.

Have you noticed it feels like yesterday when you concluded high school, it feels like yesterday when you just got married, feels like yesterday when your children were born, now your suckling kids are grown and more stubborn lol. Indeed it feels like yesterday, so much to remember, so must to laugh about, so much to talk to someone about. Many things have played out in our lives so far, some we regret, some others we would do it over and over again if more opportunities arises. Gather memories while we still living, time flies, I can remember my activities of yesterday, like it was few seconds back, already its 24hours gone, minutes by minutes to the hours, to days and months to years, all of a sudden its old age with very little or nothing to excite us anymore.

So much we want to do, so many places we wish to visit, if you can and you're capable of it,,then why not go for it. Not for any reason then for memories. Take pictures, save your videos, laugh with love ones, excite someone, take yourself out and as you do make sure to take photos, its all Gods gift to be alive and capable of having a nice treat. If you call it pride to treat yourself to a nice time because you don't want others who can't afford to feel bad, then i hope when all this don't matter anymore, you won't regret not doing it.

I have talk to a few persons and noticed that one of the major reasons aside money that makes people not gather enough memories for themselves, is because they feel its best to keep a low profile as people would think you're a show off. They can go on a vacation and they decide not to, they can buy a very good car and be better comfortable but then people would think they are pompous, infact they just stay low and I'm always like I don't understand yet. I don't understand because I know there is a better way to take care of the situation rather than deprive oneself of life's goodies.

First, keeping a low profile should be more of not making your adventures public, when you go out to fancy places, most of the people who you're protecting yourself from would not be there, so the only way they can get to know is when you upload the escapades online and that you can choose not to. Also if getting a good car, house or better lifestyle is a problem because of the people around you, then you're around a low mindset individuals, that is not a healthy and profitable place to reside, make plans to relocate if possible. There are places where good living and people's happiness is appreciated, over there you can find growth too.

Another vital keynote to make is a fact that people won't stay forever. So as we keep making memories for ourselves, let's ensure to have enough memories with people that matters. The cars, the house, clothes, places can stay forever and can be remade, but people won't stay forever and cannot be remade, so when you see someone you love and cherish, try to make enough memories with them as much as you call, call them regularly, hangout, play, fight, get into troubles, help each other rise, they won't be there forever, no one would be here forever. Save up memories.

One of the painful exits we can get is that of our parents, so many of us are lucky to have them still part of our life, no matter how hard it is to say, but they are not as young as they use to be, they are older and should be appreciated. Fees them with good memories if you can, make them smile. They are the true super heroes, everyone else came into our life along our life's journey, but they were there from the beginning. The memories we acquired from our younger ages was either from them or that they gave us to permission to experience. Therefore while making plans, also make plans to spoil them. They are very deserving of our time and resources.

Life is short, not to get anyone scare but its just the truth, more reasons for us to act right, cause we are all in a movement in time, who knows when the time would elapse, so with each passing breath, life should be appreciated, and seen valuable. Value what you have and make each day count. Is there somethings you are meaning to do, maybe a business you're willing to try, a places you're meaning to try out. What's the reason for the drawback, if its not vivid enough, then close your eyes and do it, its an experience, it'll become a memory soon enough, rather than be pressure, just enjoy it. And say "It's all for the memories".

You should be aware that God also wants us to be happy, he created all things for our pleasure, yes for your pleasure too. So you're in america and you have been meaning to visit the Philippine or vice versa, why not, he wants you to see the beauty all around the world. You have been meaning to have a full body massage, oh why not. You want to try out that Chinese dish, oh why not. If you are capable of it, then don't deprive yourself of the enjoyment. Life would continue, but we all can keep running forever, so while we are here, let's make the best off it. Gather enough loving memories. You deserve it.

Thanks For Reading.