Parenting A Dream

Being a parent apparently is one of the most wanted task, but then actually doing the job isn't so easy. Kids behaviors are unbelievable sometimes, sometimes you get wowed, other times you get furious, yet sometimes still you get confused, but in all we can't love them less. Parents are never meant to superimpose their will on their kids, as to mandate them on what must to do, especially in terms of career and business option.

Parents are however smarter and more experienced than their kids, this is an established fact, but these wisdom should be channelled into supervision and careful advising as to how they should go about things. The world is evolving and as such the younger breeds are becoming more exposed, the adults rarely knows what's going on around and what's trending that has got everyone talking or making money, but the kids are there already more social and interactive, what we saw best would most likely not be the best option making news few years ahead.

Careers in sports and arts was almost like a sin while growing up, like what do you say you want to become again, a footballer?, a writer, a singer are those what your mates are doing to earn a living, you must be joking, oh shut up you're still a child. And of course many talents died off from such words. Then we picked up those chemistry textbooks that yet refused to get into our heads just trying to please our parents but as soon as no one is watching we are off to doing what we love to do best. We can never run from passion, so parents should be rather more supportive and see how to best build it or advice them into another option if there is a clause of this not working out.

Parents often forget what they did too while they were young and act like they were very respectful without regrets to their own parents too. Education is key and everyone should work hard to get knowledge and hold a degree to show you're qualified, yet we al have a personal drive, and this we can't and shouldn't just kill because we want to work on top offices. Let's not forget the facts that most companies we have today were stubborn push of people who wanted to do something of their own, something different.

Today, you would kill to work for companies like Facebook, Google, also for stars like Beyonce, or movie studios like Marvels etc but when they started by saying they wanted to do music or act movies or make social app where people can talk to each other, I bet the parents weren't really pleased, and if they appeared openly to be pleased, then they did well to hide the true inner feelings. Everyone wishes their kid would have a big office with people working under them and they earn a lot of money, but trying to struggle with talents which is not a sure promise of success, no doubt the parents wouldn't be happy with such decision.

Majorly parents should have a open minded discussion with their kids with an open mind of learning a new thing, rather than already having an opinion and no matter what your kid say nothing is going to change your mind, this way we can hear what they have to say. You would be shocked to know most of the kids have good laid out plans as to what to do and this plans are very constrictive and comprehensive, you might start seeing what they saw and be ready to give your full support. We all need supporters to cheer us on, you'll be very lucky if your parents are your supporters too.

The world has gone online with very few people not connected online. Now a home kid is not necessarily a broke kid, there are lot of things they could do just with an internet access and they would be earning as good as a 9-5 person. So with this we can't cajole them anymore as to being a banker or a must engineer. Its best we know what they have passion for, understand it and see the likely possibilities for a good income off it, with this parents can know what to do next, the kind of toys to buy to help them know more, books to gift them so they can know more about it, support your kid.

A parents we surely want the best for our kids at all time but we rarely drift it wrongly, I've had this discussion with few of my friends and they all said things similar, they would put a close what on their kids from an early stage to see what God gave to them, their talent and likes so they can start grooming them to be the best in that field. Already you see many parents admitting their kids in clubs because their son or daughter are lovers of sport. Or enrolling them into music school so they can learn much more, or simply buying engineering toys for them so they can start practicing, watch, see and support, they would still attend schools anyways.

All jobs are great, but all jobs and works won't be for everyone, not everyone would be doctors, people would die if so be the case, not everyone too would be engineers or our machines would malfunction more, nor pharmacist so they don't make fake drugs. Also not everyone would be singers, we already must have heard many awful music, you has to stop it, not everyone would know how to dance, some can only dance in their head but never on the floor. Not everyone can play football or the team would always loose and same applys to every job out there, its meant for some selected few, people who have the passion and dedicate their time to it, so just know there is a special reason for your kids talent, so treat it seriously. Support your kids dream today.

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