Let Our Appearance Speak Well

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Its popularly advice to dress the way you want to be address, people won't know all about you from the first instance, whether you are smart, or has many establishments, or you're talented, they won't know just by seeing you, but they can always assume, and their assumption would be gotten from how they see you, to this effect, we need to appear nice, dress well, smell well, talk well, act well and just be like what we want people to say about us. Not that alone, if you want to be accepted in a midst of a targeted audience, then you need to dress like it, the hearts always have a soft spot for those who share a common likeness in wears.

One time a manger and his assistant were to attend a board meeting, where all members of the practitioners were suppsose gather to discuss the new standards of operations. So this manger travelled to the city where the program was scheduled to hold together with his assistant. On the day of the summit, you needed to see how well the assistant dressed, his hair cut was on point, his suit fit in well, his watch, his shoes, he didn't have a car as at the time so he took an online cab to drive in down. The car he ordered for was classic to match his appearance.

As the assistant, he got to the venue before his boss, and was already seated preparing the place for his boss. The attention he got from the arriving guest was so much, everyone wanted to greet him, talk with him and exchange details, feeling like he was someone of importance. Meanwhile he wasn't earning as much as anyone there, he just clean up so nice to match up with the gathering. Later the boss arrived and was proud to see his assistant representing him well. If his assistant was this respecting by the fellow colleagues, then imagine how much more they would honour him, and all this are walking in line to raise the esteem of his firm. The situation was a win for him, he was so proud of his assistant.

More surprise came in as the meeting commenced, so along the line, they agreed to do a joint project, one that would include millions of dollars and guess who was voted for to handle the contract? They all voted for the assistant to take up the work, although the contract was a companies job so the work still went to the managers company. To see the joy In the managers face as the company got awarded the contract, he didn't say a word, he kept quiet all through and watch as the assistant work his magic. On getting back to the their office, the manager quickly increased the salary of his assistant and devoted him with more vital task. That young man clearly was a blessing to the company and it all started with dressing up good.

So many people have the habit of calling this a fake life, but my dear, its not. As long as we don't steal to dress nice, we all deserve to dress up neatly and earn some respect out there in the world. Reason being that we don't open our wallets to show how much we have in it, or disclose how many cars we have packed in our garage, or start showing them a picture of our houses before the know how to relate to us rightly. To save us of the trouble, just dress up nice and neat. Look like what you want them to see, its not show off guys, it's portraying yourself in your right image.

My older brother has always told me dressing up is good business. Everyone wants to sell themselves to the desired public, a singer wants her target audience to identify with her. A writer wants to speak out to his or audience in the best possible way, in fact all profession need to reach out to all who is aligned to their craft. However the best way of reaching out is to communicate, communicate with your appreance, communicate with your speech, communicate with your attitude, all this and more makes up your appearance, let your appearance do the work.

It makes a larger percentage of the respect you get from people especially for the men who care so much for their ego, good physical appearance is an aspect we all should take up deliberately. Also it contributes largely to how many people draw close to us, if you're attracting some certain type of people are you're not so happy with it, among the things we can think of as being the problem, our appearance should be inclusive, and should be evaluated. Especially to the ladies who are mostly on the attracting end, it'll do a lot good to know how best to dress, speak and act in order to attract your kind of man.

You're not wasting money if you're spending to look good, looking good can take you to great places, places where you can relate with great personalities which would in turn come to favour you back. Every thing that makes up our appearance should be in check. Our dress, our smell, our attitude, our smile, our posture, our speech. I know we all have our unique attributes but if its not giving you the result you need, then you can always work on it. Improve on your appearance guys, you might be shocked at how much benefits it would bring in so quick.

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I learned a lot from this article sir/ma'am. Being a low profile in the society is not a case and it's not a hindrance for someone like us to dress neatly and have a good looking posture.Each one of us can do the same as the assistant did. Nice to meet you , a newbi in your timeline 😊

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2 years ago

Its a sir Jher, I really appreciate this great comment. Dressing up nice is good at all time, keeping a low profile is never a yardstick to not appear nicely. So much benefits rest on us dressing up nice and neatly. You're welcome Jher πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

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Thank you sir.😊

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2 years ago

Thank you more πŸ™Œ

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2 years ago

appearance really speaks a lot for a person. sometimes you are treated based on how you look. that is the reality. if you look not so well-off, people might not acknowledge you. but then when there are people who look nice, they seemed to be respected. that is why we need to dress not grand but accordingly.

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2 years ago

exactly what you have said is the word I'm trying to explain, cause some people don't want to dress flashy or expensive and so they dress up very low and shallow, no that's not good, dress up accordingly to how you want to be address, it doesn't have to be flashy or expensive, some simple neat appearance has done good jobs. Thanks a lot bro πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ’ͺ

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2 years ago

on point. i learned a lot from this so is should be the one thanking you.

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I should thank you too for such awesome comment. πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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2 years ago

Truly we would addressed by our dressing. Being rich is not based on the things you have, be it houses, cars and what have you. All those things are by the way. Dress well, so that people will respect you and speak well of you.

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2 years ago

Truly dear, dress well, some rich men has been insulted and they tried explaining theirselves but no one believes, even if you want to keep a low profile, at least dress up neat and nicely. Dress the way you wanna be addressed.

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2 years ago

Very well said sir. Yes we dress up simply because we want to look good and that makes us happy. And for me the reason we dress up is to boost our self-esteem , not just to empress other.☺️ Godbless sir and more powerβ™₯️

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Dressing up good has a way of boosting our self confidence, and self confidence is one vital habit to have especially in this world of competition. Thanks so much Proud-me, you make me truly proud. Much power πŸ’ͺ

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2 years ago

Another well said article. For some reasons, some may say that appearance does not matter at all, but for me it does. Because somehow, you need to blend with the people for you to be able to see if you are capable of doing something. I mean, dressing up well indeed should be done accordingly. It is as well somehow helped you attract people that can help you with anything that can give you good. I cannot really put my thoughts into words with this, but my point really is having a nice groom will give you positive energy and confidence.

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You already express your thought quite alright already dear. Our appearance matters so much. It helps us attract those who we aim to be around. And definitely a booster of our confidence. Much love Miss Jo. So so lovely ❀

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Yay! I got a lot to comment about this but I really cannot express that much. My English is just limited. πŸ˜†πŸ˜­ But thankfully, you got to appreciate it. ☺️

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2 years ago

I do really really appreciate it, I get your point no doubt. Its so lovely ❀❀❀

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2 years ago

Thank you so much! πŸ’—

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2 years ago

Yes Willtravis...

We are rich by the other people's heart through our appearance even without car, big houses. We should have a good appearance to be look decent and respectful to have a good relationship to the others and for the brighter tomorrow..

God bless you Willtravis...πŸ™β€οΈ

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2 years ago

Indeed from a distance we are already accepted or rejected and it's all based from our appearance, so we appear nicely to people,,both dressing and attitude. Thanks now and always Ramona ❀

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2 years ago

Yes indeed Willtravis... You're always welcome..❀️

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2 years ago

Some people tend to respect more to those people who dress up nicely just like on my college days, our Professor that time is not wearing his suit and the mother of my classmate came to school to ask updates about her child and he happened to ask our Professor where is our Proffesor lolπŸ˜‚ He did not get any idea that the one he is asking is our Professor it is because my Professor is just wearing short and a shirt. Hahaha Funny it is but it is the reality nowadays.

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Lol... Very funny story, appearance really speak a lot. Its just the reality.

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