Illegal Desires

Funny how a higher percentage of our most wanted desires are illegal, it's a twist applicable to all human, maybe because we are told not to do them, then just like a starved child, we hunger more for it. Sometimes I wonder what is so sweet about disobedience that gets the heart racing and pumping in excitement, do you feel that way too. When it's right we are being force to do it, but when it's wrong we force ourselves into it. Maybe its required that we fight for what's right as we are so quick to do what's wrong. Maybe the wrong doings adds more claim to our freedom.

I've seen parents give enough freedom to their kids after experiencing this way of life, and thought it was the best way possible, yet the freedom was still misused and their worst fears became reality, also on the other end I've seen parents train so strict and you'll see the fear all about the face of the children, eventually this kids still grows up and become as was being prevented, as though they never did learn and was planning hopeful for the day when they can do as they like. So the manual isn't adding up, we no longer know what to go by, it seems like this illegal desires are in every corners.

Already we have seen that people who preach about certain things are the most vulnerable to falling into that same thing as working against. Probably the reason for the word hypocrisy. Maybe we should start accepting that it's okay to talk about your illegal desires, I feel we need to create more Avenue where people won't feel evil, ashamed or looked down upon all because they crave for something the world standard is against. In that same room of people shouting "what nonsense ", "you're a sinner", "oh that is very bad" etc are going to be people who have done the crime already, or have done worse.

Do you ever stop to think how God feels when he sees someone doing something that he desires but so wrong, does he go about shouting or dealing with the person? Well I don't think so, he's the manufacturer and he knows his creations so well and all they have inside, so he knows our deepest secret, all of our illegal desires, yet he still draws us close and want us to do better. Its only we humans speaking on the behalf of God that chase people away and make them feel unworthy to even talk to God, this is so wrong. Everyone no matter your desires. Its ok.

Imagine I had the illegal desire of stealing from someone cause I need the money to feel good and be respected at least, maybe get a car and attract lot of ladies, so let's say I got this desire, and I got to a talk with friends and someone says he felt like stealing or something worse, now he spoke it out, he is still very safe, he can't be jailed or prosecuted, no it's still on the head level, but the good thing is that it can easily be curb at this stage. People could easily advice otherwise or better still a professional leading the hangout could say a thing or two to get them erase such desires and aim better.

Before people finally commit an act, it's always first nursed at heart, and over here, it's pondered upon and pondered upon, sometimes the people are very skeptical and still confused if they should carry on with the plan or simply stop, sometimes they hope to talk it out to someone, but there's no Avenue, even your closest friends might push you away, all for having the thoughts, now you appear dangerous. Maybe they prefer you to already commit the crime and start paying the consequences before they see ways to help you out. Its not wrong to be open, its not wrong to share your thoughts, no matter how crazy it is, we all seek help sometimes.

As already said, it's better to catch the deed while it's still in the infant stage, still forming in the skull, rather than consoling and finding remedies after the deed must have been done already. However what way is there to fishing out the information from someone if he or she feels like its not safe to air out what I feel, like peradventure I didn't do it but someone else did, they could blame it all on me, so many thoughts as to why we should keep our mouths shut. Also in our literate society we need to encouragement this openness in home, society, religious centers, worship, Maybe a lot of illegalities would reduce.

We are humans and sometimes what we crave for aren't so palatable to the human ears, crimes like stealing, adultery, fraud, revenge, among others were all first thought and concluded at heart. For so many of the offenders of this actions, you'll see that they didn't talk it with anyone worth it. Maybe just like we have a rejuvenated center that help addicts to overcome their cravings, we could have another center where it is ok to talk on our desires and still feel okay, and hopefully get the needed help and direction. Not that only there, but in homes too, in school, in religious places any and everywhere so people feel easy to talk and possibly change.

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