Get Yourself Together

It's no lie that we go through a lot as humans, enough to drive us insane, some stress are draining, so situations are so daring, in all we must be strong. Its more of a mental revival, pulling yourself together to be in a correct frame of mind, such as its needed for the success of what you aim for. We can all get hurt, not physically by injuries alone, we can also get hurt emotionally, more dangerous is this emotional pain compared to the physical pain. So many can still get up and do one or two things after sustaining and injury but not so many would get up to work when they feel bad emotionally. A fun fact to note is that the pain we feel is all up in our head, sometimes we hit our legs on stones but we can decide not to.shout, but some past we remember suddenly our subconsciousness scream out.

This article is geared to focus more on the mind healing, heal the mind of all form of hurt, all for of bitterness, what would we expect to grow if all we have in it is bad vibes leading to hate and fights. So many of us currently need to heal ourselves so we can finally move on and move forward. We are still hurting deep. We don't readily see the need to self heal because we feel we are in control but in actuality the hurt is constantly stealing from us, the sooner we realize, the better for our future.

A major self healing category is that of a previously bad relationship, very popular and very true, its almost like everyone has got their own fair share of the hurt. Boys and girls altogether, none exempted, heartbreak everywhere, some have dealt with it nicely, others not so much, its like they have been torn apart. Such people need to heal before they should decide to get on another relationship. More than being scare of them finding it hard to be in another relationship after the last one went down bad, we are more scared of them getting on a relationship, cause they would most likely bring toxicity to the new partner found.

Everyday we hear all men are not the same and a women are not thesame and it's beginning to feel like its just a charade, no one believes that anymore, rather we prefer to stick with the stereotype that all men would cheat and all women would go after money, and we continue to cultivate this notion that it affects our new and existing relationships. Luckily lot of people have proven it otherwise, enough to Shut down the rumors, but it seems those who are heartbroken has the loudest voices criticising both the male and female gender.

Coming back to the heartbroken person jumping into a new relationship, if the end of the previous relationship happens to be infidelity, he or she becomes more curious about the movement of this present partner, being more suspicious, this insecurity can ruin it. If the cause was bad communication he or she becomes so demanding of constant communication, if it was lack of money, then money becomes the key selector to whom to follow in this new relationship. All this shouldn't be so, its all wrong.

Self healing is a needed phase we all need to undergo, it's therapeutic, its going to help us so much. Its the one place where we can reflect think deep to ourselves and see where we have been faulting, faulting in thoughts and actions. So many of us are smart, we know the right actions to take on a normal but just getting controlled by our emotions. However when we seat to think, I mean if we can find time to think and self reflect then we can see we need healing and actually heal.

So many don't see the need to heal, as long as they can still eat, drink sleep and got their love ones around, they guess all is fine, well until they search deeper, and ask themselves the right question. For example some people smoke cigarette and do drugs today not because there's anything fun in it, or the cigarette is so tasty so they want to always have more, rather they got use to it because of the way they have been bullied before, the oppression they suffered and cried about have made them toughen up and they tool it so deep today, its becoming addictive, they too can heal.

Self healing should be taught to everyone, its as simple as thinking deep about our lives, just how past actions have shaped us to become presently. Some people are currently hot tempered, but those who knew them from way back would tell you they were the most jovial person you could have met until an incident happened causing a change in attitude. Some are unconscious about this new response they have, however some are aware but don't care, they lobe their new self. Let love continue to lead, living in love and joy gives us a different glow. Think deep today, self evaluate let's see where we need to heal and take the right dosage of motivation to help us pull through.

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