Actions and Reactions

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I read an article earlier today that was really disturbing. It got me thinking and wondering about how much life had happened to that person for him/her to reason like that. I tried to imagine the level of frustration and pain whose after math is now being displayed. Even after all my pondering. I couldn't exactly pinpoint what really happened for I am only but a curious upcoming medical practitioner and not a seer or mind reader but then..

Life is always tough no one has it easy - if one has the power to look through the hearts of people, you'll discover that everyone is actually going through one thing or another despite all their smiles and laughter. Even those that we idolize thinking they've got all things sorted out do have a truck load of problems and sad experiences that will keep one in hours of awe if opportuned to hear it. If you hear stories you'd shed tears and.maybe go to God in prayer thanking him for the little problems or experiences you've been through. Life is no respecter of anyone at all. It plays no favorites and not a respecter of anyone. I've discovered that life only seems to favor us when we align ourselves with the principle of harmony, health, joy, and peace.

How do you want life to favor you when you've let dark emotions from past experience to overshadow you? Making the past experiences to live on like a cockroach with 9lives? Thereby attracting more danger and pain to yourself? I'll tell you how

Resentments: Resentments can be of different types. Like those who are resentful towards family members or friends and also towards God blaming him for their pain, aches, personal tragedies or the death of their loved ones. It's actually normal to be resentful at first after going through a painful experience but then letting it build castle in our minds is detrimental to ourselves. A resentful heart has robbed itself of joy and happiness because for every action there's an equal and opposite reaction, the mind which is very creative begins to manufacture its own negative reactions in our lives. We must see let go of resentments or else keep punishing ourselves.

Life forgives you why not forgive yourself and others? : life never holds a grudge against anyone. . It forgives you when you cut your finger (it creates new cell to bridge the cut) when we eat something poisonous without knowing, life forgives us to regurgitate it, preserving us. Life never condemns, We are the only one who condemn ourselves with unforgiveness with the negative thoughts in our mind. An unforgiving mind reacts by wishing others evil things not knowing that we are actually wishing same for ourselves. So as a man thinketh so is he that's what the Bible says. If you point a finger towards another, your other four fingers points at you. This is no coincidence but a very symbolic act to remind us that anything we wish others same thing with more intensity will come to us. Forgiveness is something that's needed for us to attain mental peace, growth and perfect health. Let's not deny ourselves of all this by not forgiving others and ourselves.

Forgiveness is love in action. Love in the sense that you're sincerely wishing good that person who has hurt us good things and all the blessings life has to offer. Why should I wish someone who has hurt me good things huh? It may seem stupid but yet it's actually a smart move because you're not forgiving for their sake but for yourself. Your wishes for them comes 10x back to you. Ah I've forgiven all those that I've wronged me.

Let's pave way for good things to happen in our lives by getting rid of all of those negative emotions. Let's love, be happy and guide our thoughts as it can make and destroy us

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Isn't the 9lives thing attributed to cats only???hmm. Anyway our past shapes our future,(we have no fate but what we make). Our past would always affect our future now how it affects our future is now up to us. We should all learn to forgive sure but its not easy to do that. Nice article you have here by the way.

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I heard cockroaches do have multiple lives too. Thanks for your feedback. It's not easy sure.. but being resentful only cause havoc on oneself so why not forgive and have enjoy one's life?

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oh right that would be true, seeing as they survive anywhere.

You make a valid point.

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Forgiveness is definitely the best bait. Resentment is never a solution in itself.

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Let love rule, sighs... Resentment won't do us any good.

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Exactly

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