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Key To Controlling Your Emotions And Making The Right Decisions
Right decision are poised to when you can control your reaction to situations or information heard. Reactions matters a lot, below are some emoji reactions.
When you first hear an information , how you react/treat to it matters . Your attitude to any given news or information is the benchmark for any other thing. No matter how shocking or exiting the information you just received, heard, saw or conceived in your mind, your attitude towards it will go a long way in knowing what becomes of the information you just let into your stream. Words means nothing when its not well interpreted in the receiver, ***words are those attached to it by the reciever or hearer.*** When someone tells you "**Are you mad**?" Whats your next reaction? Are you going to act mad and accept being mad or reply the person with a mad word? Ignore the person? Or ask the person why they said so? Walk away? Or develop anger?
all the above are likely reactions to the “***you are mad***”. The key note here is that words are just mere words not until you read meaning to it. Within lies the biggest moment of self-control. You always have a choice to choose as to what to do next and how to react. No issue how quick you respond to some random news or data or sentence or words. Therefore, try your best to watch the interpretation or meaning you give to things you hear or saw; therein lies the key to self-control and making the right decisions not based on emotions. Organised considerations are difficult to make a habit. Be that as it may, when the structure is set up, each passing hour turns into an exciting thrilling moment of happiness.
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Yes, reaction to what we hear matters a lot.
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I used to say that I am not angry when I am so that the other party will feel better but my facial expressions are something that I cannot hide. So it is with my tone of voice, therefore I often choose to be quiet for a while before answering. There are times that a burst of thousands of words comes out from my mouth, this usually happens when I had kept the true feelings hidden for a very long time. Now, if I can let out my feelings directly but as polite as I can even in my worst moment, I will do my best. Things that cannot be avoided. Even though sometimes I mean good, I cannot expect readers or those who listen to me understand the meaning behind my words. My choice of words are not always great, only those who have known me well will know who I am inside.
I really understand, sometimes am like you, but most times I keep quite and let it die, cause bursting out could be extremely dangerous most times.
Things that we let it dies can be triggered easily and it will burst out somehow. It becomes regrettable or big relief moments for me. It is all of those things that took most of my energy away.
Energy can never b destroyed or taken away, jst learn to control it.
That is true. It just felt that way.
Okay... Stay blessed
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Have self -control and be open - minded.
Any decision you make under emotional instability probably will not go well. It is proper to have a clear and calmed mind before any important decision can be taking
Nice article
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Think first before you react. Thanks for this article.
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