Why can't I have a foreign boyfriend?

Published: August 6, 2022
Time: 12: 22 PM
Article #: 175

Have you ever fantasized about falling in love with someone from a completely different country? Are you ready for that kind of connection? Well, having a foreign-born boyfriend might be difficult for me. I can't picture myself hanging out with a tall guy while making an effort to speak a foreign tongue. I can still vaguely remember a small detail of my dream from a few days ago. I always make a note of what I dream about every single time. So, this is how the dream goes. I'm having a relationship with a foreign man I met someplace. Then he simply proposed marriage to me as soon as possible. And since I still don't know him all that well, I declined his offer. In the end, we decided to share a house until I accepted his ring and that's the end of it. (Okay, epekto talaga to ng movie na Purple Hearts)

Following that dream, I often wondered why I didn't enjoy having a romantic relationship with a foreigner. First, this blog is simply meant for enjoyment as I am happily dating my Filipino boyfriend. \(≧▽≦)/~

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So yeah, returning to our subject, I find dating a foreigner to be challenging. Prior to learning their language, you must first become familiar with their culture and some of their beliefs. Of course, both of you must also make adjustments. Well, I can't stand that kind of relationship, which is why when I was alone for a long time years ago, I realized that dating a foreigner was not for me.

Additionally, there are a few reasons why I have never before dated a foreigner. The first issue is a communication barrier. Because I don't speak English well, I already know that if I have a boyfriend who is from outside the country and we argue, I will always be the one to apologize and make amends. lol.

Second, long-distance setups are fairly frequent, which is my least favourite type of arrangement. I am aware that I cannot love someone who lives so far away, and since I struggle with trust, I do not believe that long-distance relationships will succeed.

Dating is another thing I hate. Of course, it costs money to date someone from abroad. You still need to spend time and money because, after he arrives in your country, you must look after him carefully and ensure that he is at ease throughout. That is not ideal for me and is very difficult. I wanted to be honest with myself, but since I am seeing a foreigner, I also need to make certain changes before we develop our relationship deeper.

That concludes my substantial piece of random thought. I'm just relieved that I had time to write this blog because it's been hours and I'm still not able to process any of the ideas. Fortunately, I recall the movie I watched, but it has nothing to do with our topic, ok? I guess I just have a crush on Luke. hihi.

Anyhows, thank you for stopping by and see you again on my next blogs.

(￣o￣) . z Z