Define Beauty (30DoG)

📌PUBLISHED: July 6, 2022 TIME: 4:40 PM PST ARTICLE #: 151

"Things are beautiful if you just love them"

A random post on a Page displayed a middle-aged Filipina wearing various lingerie in a swimming pool and on the beach, and to characterize her skin traits, she has saggy breasts, no curves but a back fats and belly fats, a C-section cut, and her thighs are covered in stretch marks. Her images were shared in several Facebook groups, and I read several remarks on her.

Some remarks on meme sites and groups are really cruel. I feel that the majority of the folks that commented there are trolls and superficial.

"Excuse me ma'am your side cooch is hanging out "

"Frustrated Bold Star !!!"

"Sumobra sa confident si Nanay"

Aigoo. Honestly, when I look at the images of this woman, one thing that I saw is that, she seems so happy flexing her body. Yes, she is extremely far from the criteria we term, 'ideal body' but in truth, the scars in her body makes her perfect. Her breast looks to be sagging but little did you know that she generated hundreds of liters of her liquid gold solely to feed her babies. She had a serious CS cut but did you know that she was able to gave birth to three children. Imagine how did she withstand so much pain.

And now that her children are adolescents, some of them already have a family, she thought that she just adore her body and wants everyone to recognize it. She feel that if she uploaded it, her post will be appreciated and valued. But later on, she just received a lot of nasty comments and insulting her body.

And do you know what is more terrible? Majority of these nasty remarks came from mothers. See? While we are seeing a joyous woman, flexing her figure, there are some others of the same gender horribly feeling insecure and subjective.

Well I suppose that some mothers that remarked harsh on her are simply so close-minded and excessively conventional. All the people laughing at her are either bitter, bored while she’s out there living her life cheerfully, wearing her bikini suits, has a fantastic camera and enjoying her luxurious life. Honestly, she simply chose to appreciate her figure instead of making it good looking through skin treatment.

That is why many women feel insecure. This is because society drives people to feel uncomfortable in their own bodies. There are those that create some beauty standards and they choose to define beauty by skin hues, curves and having a very smooth skin.

Which is very wrong...

Our mental health is influenced by how we see ourselves and our body. The sooner you realize this and begin to take steps to improve it, the more attractive you will feel despite society's ideals of beauty. Despite the negativity on social media, I want you to feel good about your body and accept your skin flaws and recognize how beautiful you are on the inside and out because you are great the way you are.

Howdy my dear readers! I am currently on the fourth day of #30daysgratitudechalenge and I am very thrilled to see myself progressing here at read.cash. I may claim that I am really not in the mood to write anything but there's still a part of me that wants to do my best and that's why I am here. For now, I simply intended to express my opinions regarding being beautiful. We are all unique and I do feel that we are carrying amazing characteristics that not everyone could recognize. But do you know what is important? The most essential thing is that you do believe in yourself and you accept it. Remember this, even you are appear completely fine, people will still attempt to make you insecure thus it is necessary that you embrace whatever you are and be confident.

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