Trip to Mt. Abu Part II
February 15, 2022
Wednesday
Good evening everyone! I just came by running and read articles from my notifications and then I decided to go further with my Trip to Mt Abu and PART I of it I published just yesterday, if you wanna follow it up before you can read it here.
So, continuing from where I left that the next challenge which we had to face was that we have to fund this trip all by ourselves.
Now, since all the trips of various batches from our school is usually funded by the school and therefore the whole batches of theirs go on trips, but in our case, since most of us belong to a middle-class family it was little hard for everyone to give 6300 rupees =$90. Anyway, we accepted the challenge because the majority of us wanted this trip so desperately as it was also going to be our first trip out of state.
**Before moving further let me introduce you to these people who sponsor me-** https://read.cash/@Trofi01/trip-to-mt-abu-part-i-2e36a466
So, when it comes to convincing people about certain things I have got some beautiful charms whether it is about people going out for fun, for bunking class, or for anything I do not want to mention hahaah.
I convinced many of us 52 out of 68 but since my family background is also not so loaded with the money I decided not to go on the trip. And I thought that anyway I will study in my vacations and it's not any problem for me. I was happy and then I made up a list of those who are keen to go on trip and took their signature against their name and some of my batchmates asked why you are not going I said I can't I have some issues at home and they all started cursing me hahah this happened 1000 times with me haha they said where will be all the fun when you won't join us. Now, the scenario reversed me who convinced everyone for the trip and then some of them starts convincing me for the trip even they sat beside my bed and start lecturing and cursing me and saying this tantrum of yours always happens.
I made a call to my home the next day and said to my parents that we have organised a batch trip and it is scheduled for our winter vacation and I am not going because I have to study a lot in the winter vacation, and my family said don't you study all the time why don't you cut some slack for yourself and go on a trip and I retorted it's also the condition that we have to fund it on our own and it's quite expensive. Thye said how much you need for the trip and then they said they will give the money but go on have some fun.
I also entered my name in the list and then we approached the authority for the same, they agreed and then we visited the divisional railway manager's office for the reservation thing, and though it took a week we got our tickets reserved at some discount because of the bulk reservation.
We were all set now just waiting for the winter vacation and going to trip, so our train was scheduled at 2330 hours but due to heavy fog in the winter the train arrived so late and we were sitting on the benches on the platform when finally the train arrived at 0300 hours in the morning.
We started our journey and then received our lunch on the train and then we crossed one state to enter the country's capital and before this, I never saw how my country's capital looks alike so I stepped off of the train to at least see how the train station looks of the capital and it was so huge which I concluded from the fact that it was the platform no. 15 on which our train was halted.
Some of my friends said it's the old Delhi and when you'd see the New Delhi it's bigger than this, I was already enjoying the trip.
Then we continued further to enter another state and we were already able to see some mountains of small heights and then entered finally the destined state the beautiful "Rajasthan". We arrived at our desired station around midnight after a complete journey of around 44 hours and the station was very empty some of us took a stroll around the platform and decided to go around to have tea outside and unfortunately one of our batchmates was hit by some road rage bikers and his legs were hit, we took him to the nearest hospital and others stayed at the platform and took some photographs and our batchmates were lying on various benches and I was still roaming the platform until I found a waiting hall though it was small, I went back to tell other batchmates who were struggling to sleep that they can sleep in the waiting room.
We slept and the next morning we did some light breakfast and booked some jeeps to lead us to our camp further which was located up the hill. And around 1200 hours we reached and were allotted the hut to refresh ourselves and then receive lunch, and mattresses and quilts.
**After settling down we received our lunch which was quite heavenly in taste because for 2 days we were only receiving the foods of the train and had to eat in moving trains haha.**
**After lunch, they said we will receive our tea at 1600 hours just here in the open hall of the mess and they showed us where was our water point.**
**We then proceeded to our huts and I decided to sleep some of us decided to play some cards and others roam a little around the camp**.
Read the further story in Part III.
**Thank you for your time**.
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Trip to Mt. Abu Part I
February 14, 2022
Monday morning
Hello! This is me again with a peregrination which outset with the sunset of 2015 and completed with the sunrise of 2016.
I already mentioned that when we were in class 7th we went on the city trip and after that, we didn't go on any trip in class 8th. And according to the school tradition, it was compulsory to go on a peregrination in class 8th and generally to another state and also in class 9th and then one in class 11th.
But our immediate senior had some arguments with the outsiders in their class 8th trip when we were in 7th only and because of that, the school administration decided that we don't deserve any trip further.
However, we were not the ones who were going to pay for the other mischiefs rather we wanted to go and establish a beautiful image of us and our school again. But the administration was stubborn not to send us anywhere our class 8th in the hope that maybe the administration will send us in class 9th but in class 9th almost the entire academic year was about to end without going anywhere and we finally decided to approach the authority continuously and they finally said that they are willing to send us to a trip but they rewarded us with the challenge to decide the place and convince a teacher who is ready to accompany us for the trip. https://read.cash/@Trofi01/the-city-trip-51193e3b
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Before further processing the trip I would like to express my gratitude to the people who sponsor me-
We won't deny the fact that it was really a despairing thing to convince a teacher to accompany us on a trip because all the teachers who have accompanied our seniors in the past on trips they faced really hot troubles always and that's the reason other teacher decided not to accompany any further batches with any of the trips.
We went to each and every single teacher there is a faculty of 40 members in our school and none of them was ready to go with us, and we requested them a lot. To be honest we even do not want to request any teacher and that is one reason the administration challenged us to convince a teacher to go with us because the administration was well aware of the things going on between the ego of the teachers and the batches.
Finally after so many requests and citing the rationale that **''how can they breed superstitions that we will also bring trouble in the trips and that if they do not give us a chance then how'd they find out actually''? other trifle rationales was also tried by us but then** a seniormost faculty of mathematics said that approach, other teachers, again and if none will be convinced then I will think about it.
We approached few teachers again not all and then showed up to the seniormost faculty of maths once again and he then said that if we are able to convince Mr. XYZ then I am ready to accompany you all.
Actually, we all were aware that these two senior teachers relations go on very well and they are quite good friends and therefore we went to that teacher and laid our proposal to him he straightforward denied the proposal, and then we said sir, the Mr. ABC is already willing to go with us then he becomes a rather thoughtful and said I will tell you tomorrow.
We went to them again tomorrow and met them together and they finally accepted the proposal.
We then decided the place of visit and contacted the various organizer of trips in other states and we finally negotiated with the organizers too. From the title of the article, you are already aware which place we decided to visit.
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We approached the administration with our detailed plan of how many days is the trip and what place we decided and which of the teachers is willing to go. But they again said that**" we can't send you amid the running academic session then we immediately said that sir, we are ready to sacrifice our winter vacation and then the administration says will your teachers sacrifice the vacation for you guys?"**
We then talked to both the teachers and then they said **"Now they need to be a little more thoughtful of the decision and they said we will tell you our decision later and finally after a week they both accepted the proposal and was ready to go with us".**
We told the administration everything and all. Then the administration said us to reserve our own train tickets and since the school fund is running out of money we'd have to finance our own trips and Now this was another trouble because you are very well aware that any trip of a week definitely requires a good amount of money.
*FOR READING FURTHER STORY READ THE NEXT PART PUBLISHING SOON...*
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Private school vs Public school.
February 12, 2022
Saturday's free thoughts.
Hello! A warm greeting to you all.
In this article, I would generally write about the features, pros, and cons of private schools and public schools.
I have been a student of both a low-key private school and a decent public school.
I mentioned here a low-key private school because it was situated in a small town and this was just for the name as a private school. There were hardly any facilities for playing or other co-curricular activities, no libraries, and no computers initially.
Otherwise, the private schools are hyped as something in which you will have lots and lots of facilities like libraries, games and sports, computer labs, physical trainer instructor, physics, chemistry or biology labs and in some cases even maths lab or English labs. And there will be other amenities such as dancing classes, music classes, crafts, or workshops. The most beautiful feature is maybe they have swimming pool too. But as they give these facilities they also charge fees from the parents accordingly which is sky-rocketing. This is the scenario in almost all the countries. And the students have their extra classes too in certain cases and they are accordingly notified for that, and overall the weight of the bags is also determined, and in cases where students do not carry that much stuff in their bags they might get punished by the teachers. These private schools spend extravagantly on their infrastructure as they do not lack money after charging hotly from the parents and also they increase their profit margin by giving less salary to the teachers and even deducting regularly if they are late or take leave.
And since I have also been in a public school I would like to share what was my experience there and what is the normal scenario otherwise.
In the public school where I was enrolled, it had a lush green campus, with almost all the facilities you can imagine and even cannot imagine it provided with the athletic ground, a large swimming pool, 3 basketball courts, 2 football grounds of standard size, horse riding club, all the experiment labs which I mentioned above, squash court, lawn tennis, table tennis, hockey, skating ring, karate class, crafts, workshops, music, band, Boxing, Badminton, and volleyball maybe I missed something too, there was a yoga center too.
But anyway this is not the actual scenario in the public school normally because all the public schools mostly lack these and since in the public schools, teachers are appointed permanently by the government (in India ). Because of their security of tenure they might get less interested in imparting education to the children. Also, the public schools lack disciplinary authority and no any oblivious circulars notifying students about what to pursue, what are the activities they will have in the week or so and so. Teachers hardly care if the students attend schools or not, even though they most probably wouldn't care if the students are taking interest in studies or not forget that they even do not care if the students have the books required for the day's routine.
This is one dark side of public school in any developing or least developed countries. But, there are also public schools regulated by the government with required facilities and good teacher-student interaction. Like central schools and others.
In India Directorate of education has issued a circular regarding the weighs of the bag according to their weight/ class/ age and recently there are lots of development in the education sector of public schools taking place, there are experiments being conducted as model schools which are public schools but the medium of education in it will be in English. And once the experiment gives the expected result it will bring a revolution in India's public education. In some states, public schools are doing better while in some it still needs a lot of interest from the authority and the administrations.
Conclusion: There are countries where the public schools are doing great like in developed countries for example in Russia if you see the public schools they have got different facilities which I have mentioned and they have lavish infrastructure too.
India can do some collaborations with the other countries regarding public schools where they are doing better and after researching various countries pros and cons we can apply the hybrid traits from the experiments and also the most important thing in India's public school is that they should make a disciplinary committee for every school which not only identifies mischiefs of students but also help them with counseling and maintains a code of conduct to run the school.
Thank you.
Friday's unsought hours
February 11. 2022
Friday
Hello! dear people, I greet you all with February's warmness.
Well, I am just about to share what my day was like or what I did. So I am excluding my normal routine which includes getting up in the morning and refreshing up myself and then serving all the family members lukewarm water and then I made tea for everyone. Then, I do a little clean-up of home and then I do work out followed by taking shower and reading the newspaper from the mum's phone and then I go upstairs if the sun is shining up the sky or I have my breakfast and then follow up my studies.
But, today the day went haphazardly though I will call it the day which I made myself unorganized or the day which went like haywire or whatever. I felt so high on energy and attitude and charms. And at the same time, I also feel quite dejected or make my day unfruitful or less productive as even though I was high on energy but still I end up my day by just passing time watching 2-3 videos. I was watching the video and I was present in it physically but mentally it was like I am sleeping. My thoughts were empty and my brain was thoughtless like it went into sleeping.
As if you have followed me before then you must be aware that when I am thoughtless or my day went very hectic/productive/sad/boring I just go out for run no matter what because in my life right now it is the only activity which acts medication for me and then while even running today I was not having any thoughts of anything I just kept on putting my feet forth unconsciously. And after 3rd kilometer, my knee was hurting I do not know why it happened today because my knee never hurt in the last couple of years while running but I did not pay attention to it.
*Never ignore the knee pains if it arises while running*
But I keep on running till I complete 5km and then I traveled the rest of the distance walking with an attitude full on the sky.
Then I was not aware of what to do next and because I was not actually present in the scene of the day mentally, therefore, I wanted to skip the writing today but then it strike me as to just do something productive at least one activity, haha to actually do not let go waste the time.
And, I would also mention that I even revised a chapter of my studies too. And watched the forex market for some time but I didn't feel like opening any positions so I exit.
Anyway, right now I am listening to some music after about 15 days. I really like music but I cannot make any time for myself to listen to music calmly. I just keep on running through the day with the only thought in my mind that I have to complete this by the end of this hour, or evening or so and so just to achieve some target.
**Closing thoughts: There is an advice that if you feel boring about the day or if you or sad about something then just take out 30 minutes for yourself do some activities which please you, which makes you feel afresh and then just sit tight to keep on making your day productive. But, since I sometimes have thoughts in my mind that hey! (XYZ) you have got a little time for yourself so just don't push yourself too hard. And sometimes I refuse the thought and sometimes I get flow away with the thoughts.**
**THANK YOU AND GOOD NIGHT TO EVERYONE:-)**
**At last, I only want to say that even though I haven't done many productive things but still there was a rush of energy inside of me and I feel like I am now prepared to go further with an extreme source of energy. And therefore my day was already productive in one way.**
The love undetermined. #ValentineDayChallenge2022
February 10, 2022
Thursday
Hello! there, In this auspicious month of love where every guys and girls (young, old, husband-wife, and every love couples) are busy embracing their love story and doing something beautiful for each other. I am participating in this #ValentinDayChallenge2022 in the hope that I would also be able to express some little love within me. Since I am confused about which hashtag to use since @Infinity mentioned in his article the 'VALENTINE' WITHOUT "e" so, I am also mentioning the hashtag with the letter "E'' to avoid any kind of confusion. #ValentineDayChallenge2022.
You can find the challenge here https://read.cash/@Infinity/valentinedaychallenge2022-a-contest-for-love-1fed7288
Well, to the people who go a little bold on the statements like this is the auspicious month of love and why not others then I am obliged to tell you that every month, every week, every day, and every moment is full of love to your important ones. It's just that there are some days that are assigned to celebrate it in a little more expressive ways, approachable ways, and beautiful ways. And yes indeed it is also true that your loved ones will get happy when they receive your attention these days and it hits all of us in a different way "**-the complex human psychology-".** These days are assigned so that people can have a little rest or embrace a moment a little extra.
*For example, there is a couple who keeps on grinding with labour to achieve their goals and establish something for the family, and in this post modernisation era of an extremely hectic schedule, they are so busy achieving that the sparks of love between the couples just have a name that they are loving couples. But because of days like Valentine's, they make out a loving time for each other. Isn't that beautiful?*
So, here's I would like to express my love for my partner.
It was the outset of a lovely winter when I'd first met her, we get introduced to each other slowly and I do not wanted to go further but a friend of mine suggested me that she is pretty and good, keep on interacting more with her and maybe in the meantime she would start loving you. At first, I do not wanted to comply with his suggestions but his idea was slowly beautifying my little-arrogant brain. I keep on reminding myself that she's as good as a friend and I do not need more than that out of her.
We were sailing so smoothly in a peaceful and calm sea. She used to share her day with me at the end of the day, but, as our ship keeps on moving further we reached a zone of blizzard winter and my heart instead of getting cold was getting snug and then there comes my B-day where it refuses to restrict all the cold-heartedness inside me to let out the warmth of my heart comes out freely. And I expressed to the lady that **"I love her, and I am not in any hurry to hear her opinion, I wanted to just express myself, and when she'd feel the same way for me she can convey it. I've got all the patience in the world."**
And this was not the place where our ship was destined to get struck by an iceberg, our ship keep on moving further and we were getting to know each other a little more and then one day she told that her parents are also on board with her in this ship, this I didn't expect but I thought that this is one way of her saying that she also likes me in that way. Until this, I was just behaving normally and was talking without having moments radiating so much love.
I was getting highly motivated to things that matter in my life, towards my career, towards people around me, I was being cheerful all the time, and it was later that I realised that my smiles veered to become alive.
I told a friend of mine who becomes very close to me, and then he said to me **brother!** Now it's time to be bolder and take a leap to next level. I thought that he was suggesting something good but I think my gut instinct was still asking me to keep on moving the ship stably but I refused to obey my gut instincts and I start giving more and more attention to her, complimenting her in each and every way I could and the things were going so perfectly fine but then one day in my little brain thought of moving our ship wobbly struck and I decided to wobble and fill extra adventure in the board and she was hurt unintentionally.
I apologised more than I should've and she didn't like it but then after 5 days she starts to sit with me on the deck of the ship once again and I thought everything is solved.
We were again sailing so smoothly but in a zone of icebergs and other creatures and I was still being bold which I shouldn't have been maybe. I was trying to hold her in her every little situation and I can sense her sadness even when she'd not tell me or express it and I try to make her feel special in those moments especially. But, then a day came when I start breeding a thought that since the day I become bold she slowed down her actions drastically. And, I started explaining to myself that when you are in love it doesn't matter who is being bolder, and also since she is a little introvert it doesn't mean she is not being bolder.
She keep on filling the moment with her unique boldness from time to time but then one day I talked to her mother about things and then she told me that dear! (MY NAME) I know what type of person you are and believe me that (HER DAUGHTER'S NAME) is a very harmful girl and she has a different outlook for you. And after this, I talked to her in the glistening sunlight of sunset and she asked me directly **"ARE YOU UPSET WITH WHAT MY MUM SAID?"** and I smilingly said that NO!, I can never be upset by her and I am happy that she told me things so comfortably.
And, there was already a hole in our ship which arises because of my stunts in those zones full of ice for a long time and I didn't realise until the water keeps on logging up to the deck where we both were sitting and I went down the ship swimmingly to temporarily block the hole as the hole was bigger and could only be permanently repaired if she was willing to repair it together with me. And I already waived her goodbye and after temporarily repairing the hole. Alas! it's her birthday and I cannot miss it so after giving her the last letter I jumped off the ship already into the arctic zone. And she can go on further and use the lifeboat to her beautiful journey ahead.
I know the survival tactics and I can survive this zone as long as I want to, and I am willing to survive with these tactics forever. But, my gut instincts are telling me that at the end of the day she is going to repair the damages in the ship permanently and will veer the ship to find me back. And we will write another beautiful voyage.
I jumped off not because I stopped loving you but I jumped so that you can continue your journey unhindered and keep exploring by going beyond the horizon.
My gut instincts always prove to be right but this time I also am opinionated that it is very less likely that it will prove right.
Thank you @PVMihalache
@Jane
@Infinity to hold such challenges.
Thank you sister @BCH_Lover
Have a day full of blessings.
A typical Indian marriage.
February 09, 2022
Wednesday morning thoughts
**Hello! Namaste!**
Today, I am here writing about marriages in India of course you have already guessed it from the title. The idea of writing on it breaks into my lovely brain after my brother recently attended a marriage of his friend's sister on February 05. There are many contrasting views of people on marriages, their types, and how it lasts. Of course, as there are 7 billion people living on this earth and everyone's opinion might differ according to their society, education, country, prospects, etc.
Recently I saw a small video where an American lady was interviewing an Indian actress Aishwarya Rai and the American lady asks ***"Do Indians think we are rude"?***
To which Aishwarya Rai replied, ***"Indian people are very hospitable"***. Then American lady posed another question ***"Do Indians think we go through so many divorces?"*** to which the actress replied, ***"now it can be a discussion".***
https://youtu.be/ewFqMbBAxVE
Well, time to flex people who sponsor me-
Now, the above context was not the thing I was going to talk about but I guess you already have gotten into some thoughts about the questions above but I am not here to talk about that.
Normally in India, the earlier trend was of arranged marriage where the males and females do not use to know each other and the family used to visit different family who they get acquainted with some third party like a mutual friend of both the family and so on, anyway then a date was set when the family member used to visit the other families and get to know a little bit. And then if they think they can have a relationship in future they give a chance to their kids to know a little bit about each other but it was when the family is not very conservative.
In conservative families there was no meeting or talking of brides and grooms before marriage and neither they can see each other in real life except in the photos given to them by the family. And I must say once they are married at first the girl accepts all the responsibilities of the boy's family in a hope that her family does not have to feel embarrassed about her acts or the manner in which the girl is raised is questioned.
And slowly and gradually the love also sparks among the bride and grooms and then they have kids together and they spend the rest of life together taking care of each other, completing their responsibilities and taking care of their kids and the question of divorces never arises maybe because this slow process of getting into love has already sparked and created so much love among them or maybe they think that they should live in harmony because it can affect their child.
I would like to share another video, but before that, I must mention that in the majority of the cases the kids after marriage still live with their families and take care of the parents when they get old because the only support of parents when they become old is their kids and their daughter-in-law, they do not need money to spend the rest of little life they have but the love.
https://youtu.be/mx2tQXsv3dk
well, it is an interview of Aishwarya Rai with David letterman you can search it on youtube.
But, with time things change. like always **change is the necessity of environment** so does changes came into marriages in India too, but I wouldn't say that the changes injected tonnes of divorces in India too, but it changes in the manner of marriage, not the way marriages happen but the way brides and grooms interact with each other, now in this post-modernization era we live in people are acquainted with each other using social media or other mediums.
Now, brides and grooms get to know each other better before marriage actually happens, though there are still arranged marriages happening but also now love marriages (**love+arranged marriage )** are booming. And also love marriage is important nowadays because brides and grooms get to know their compatibility with each other, earlier there used to be horoscope reading of stars alignment of brides and grooms and then if the qualities of both sides are compatible enough to allow the marriages then only marriages used to take place.
Anyway, I must say that Indians know well how to keep marriages working till their last breath and I must say that exceptions are also one dimension of nature.
**Process of marriage:**
It is a really very complex procedure and as a young gentleman I am not sure I can tell everything about it, but yeah if I would exclude some events then still it is 3-4 days procedure and maybe 5 days procedure in some cases.
There is a function of song rituals-
https://youtu.be/YDooMiUuFPo
There are then like **"Haldi rasam" (sorry I do not know what do we call it in English)**
Then there are other procedures which I do not know because the last time when I attended any marriage was in 2008 when I was so little, but one thing I must say that even after the marriage there is a function called as **"RECEPTION PARTY"** hosted by the bridegroom's family and according to the ritual it is supposed as the important relatives of this family are invited and normally the bride have to cook food for all of them but it is little modified in a way that the bride actually now just touch the wares in which the foods are being cooked while the food is actually cooked by some chefs who are hired.
I actually support this thing because in any normal function of Indian families people who attend the event is normally around 200-300 and now it is definitely very very hard work for the brides to cook for that many people.
Thank you for your time reading.
If you want to ask something you can ask it in the comment section, or if you are a bit more curious you can search it on youtube or the internet about how typical Indian marriages look alike.
I would also confer that India is a secular and democratic country and therefore all the religions have their own way of marrying procedures with no restrictions, **and the procedures which I mentioned above is of "Hindu religion".**
A small world.
February 08, 2022
Tuesday morning vibes
Hello! everyone today I am out here with a personal story.
We all have come across the phrase "a small world" from movies, books, stories where they meet someone after so many years when they parted.
I actually never relied so much on the expression and neither do I have given much thought about it that someone exactly meets someone after so many years in real and this happens in only some functional stories or movies unless there are some exceptional cases.
So, it was a lovely winter two days before Christmas in 2021, and 10 days before that Christmas we shifted to a new apartment. Exactly on December 23rd a female friend of my brother's who was also her classmate they were studying in the same class in their high school. She also was living in the same apartment for 2 years where we just shifted, comes over to our house with her younger sister.
Like always I was relaxing in my room after my evening run, and I heard that those girls are talking in my mum's room, I just thought let's just say hello to them and went to mum's room and I forwarded my hand to shake hands with my brother's friend saying hello and same with her younger sister they responded affirmatively. I then also decided to sit with them and do a little chit-chat I was filling the room with some touches of humor which they all were really lacking while talking.
We keep on talking and talking unless I realise it's really a bit late it's already 2145hours while talking the younger sister of her and I realised that we also studied in the same class when I was in class 6th (9 years before).
So, the talk went like this, I asked my brother's friend if you both studied in the same class?? she retorted "yes" I was like damn! then I said I also studied in that school but only in class 6th and after that, I joined the military school. She said you were in "Farheen's" Batch I said "yes" she (indicating her younger sister) said she also was in the same class I was like "oh really" I said, "what's her name?".
She replied do you remember there was a girl named "XYZ" I said yes I think I remember there was someone in the class with the same name, and then she added there were actually 2, then I said "oh, maybe" and then she said her name was "XYZ Singh" I said "yeah yeah" there was a girl called as "XYZ Singh" and then her younger sister interrupted in a sadist manner that both girl's name was "XYZ Singh".
Then, I said I do not know, and I do not remember actually anyone from that school I am not so good at remembering people hahaha.
Now, since it was clear that we were also classmates so they start talking about the teachers and actually demeaning the teachers in a way that this particular or that particular teacher was so discriminatory and I also responded affirmatively our talking keep on going like this for almost 2 hours and then we also talked about what we are currently doing with our studies and career, and then my brother's friend suggested to go out to eat something maybe icecream I said that is a good idea, lets go.
Then, we went to a shop outside the apartment my brother and his friend ate the "Momos" and I and her younger sister ate the icecream. She asked which flavour I want I replied anyone she'd like to suggest and then she was saying what about chocolate flavour? I said excluding that (because i do not like much chocolates) then I said give me that yellow piece she gave me a look aghahah and said who eats mango flavour in this world. By the way I had no answer for her but then i said well, I eat the mango flavour.
We waved bye and goodnight to each other.
That's how I wanted to say that sometimes its so strange people from past accidentally pop up after so many years.
Thank you for reading.
The girl who I blocked.
Dear February 06, 2022
Sunday sunnies
**Good evening!** I wish everyone's doing good, and you all are having a joyful moment, even if you are not then be thankful for the situation you are going through because it will definitely make you a warrior.
I wouldn't forget to be thankful to those who considered sponsoring me.
So, let's come to our topic about which I mentioned yesterday that there was a girl whom I liked and then I walked away.
It happened as if in just one look I liked her because she was pretty and dumb in her studies well being dumb in studies is not a criterion I am a fan of but I just mentioned it here. I used to watch her daily in a class where I enrolled myself after passing class 12th just to acquire a little more knowledge so it was like this only I used to watch but I never talked to her.
I always have been so shy to talk to girls, because of numerous reasons- I am an overthinker so I create various situations in my head and maybe another reason was I have studied from a military school and there was no exposure to any girls of me to them as there was so little vacation I get to spend at home and when I am on vacation I also was not interested in girls living nearby. But, I am not shy anymore I overcome all of it.
****So how do I start talking to her?****
It happened as if I was going to sleep at 0200 hours in the peaceful silence of midnight where the only sound was of my fan rotating at its full speed, I thought why don't I install Instagram on my phone and look for her, and at the same time I must say that I am not a fan of searching people on any social media because searching people on social media is like searching a needle in the haystack but still I downloaded that Instagram *( by the way I only like to use WhatsApp but lately I lost all interest even using that too).*
I logged into my account and then I typed her name in the search bar no surprise you will find a lot of people with the same name and when you want to find a girl the account is mostly private in 90+ % of the case but anyway the only chance is to identify in just a little glimpse from the icon of the profile so luckily when the result of people with the same name as her popped in front of me I immediately looked at the second ID because it looked a little familiar with her face but the icon was so small anyway, I send her follow request and went to sleep.
****Did she accept the request?****
Of course, she accepted the request which I noticed in the morning while I was leaving home to that class and I didn't send anything or maybe I send good morning *(it is 3-year-old incident so I do not recall actually).* We started talking to each other and I started like this **"can we be friends?"** she replied something affirmative I do not remember at all. We started talking and then I jumped into studying topics because I was topper and she was little not so good in the studies so I end up talking like I can help you and I want you to focus on your studies, *( Only I realised lately in my life that never say anything or impose your thoughts on anyone ).*
****What happened then?****
We only used to talk in Instagram only and not physically in class and there was a frindsip day one day and a friend of mine said give her a friendship band or something beautiful to which I replied to him I ain't giving any thing to anyone. But one day I challenged myself that if I wouldn't go and talk to her then it will mean that I am not a courageous person.
*(I walked into the gallery as it was lunch time and she was outside there)*
*Me: Excuse me! I want to talk to your friend for a little. (their friends gave me a look)*
*(she was in her friends group of 4 girls)*
*She: I am busy right now we can talk later (smilingly)*
*Me: yes*
I then went and sit on a bench which was there in the gallery and I called to a friend of mine who was in another class busy with his girlfriend haha I said to him what are you doing come outside, I am waiting he said NoT NOW my girlfriend and I are doing something I said come now what the heck wrong with you. And while I was talking to him on phone that girl came to me and said (smilingly) say what do you want to say. I said to her just a minute and I said bye to my friend and put the phone in my pocket.
*Me: well, I have got so many things to say but when I am speaking with you I just forget everything.*
*She: (blushed a little well more than a little or fully blushed )*
*Me: But, since we are already talking in physical now I can speak to you anytime.*
*She: of course, you can talk to me amytime.*
*Me: You go on continue with your frineds*.
We were talking normally for almost 10-15 days and I had an exam in 1.5 months upcoming so I thought I will first get clarification whether she is really interested in me or not because I do not wanted to waste my time for some things which at the end of the day wouldn't add into something productive. At the same time I was sitting in library after the class was over and my friend was also sitting beside me and his girlfriend beside him, I opened my insta and I saw that she uploaded a story on insta with his boyfriend which was an old photo and the caption was ***"completing 2 year anniversary happily"*** I was like what is so wrong with this young generation kids they are celebrating anniversary without getting married or anything there's definitely some haystack in their little brain*.*
Then, I studied till 1900 hours in library and proceeded to home.
I then messaged to her in the night with the mindset to get the whole damn clarification of what she is up to,
I messaged her **"Hello"**
*SHE: Hii*
*Me: what are you doing?*
*She: nth n wbu?*
*Me: (My whole mind was blank with what does these 3 letters mean, I went on internet searched what is 'nth n wbu'? Unfortunately I did not get any result)*
*What is "nth n wbu"?*
*She: nothing and what about you*
*Me: (In my mind oh my gosh at what level the world is learning a new language)*
*I was just going to sleep.*
*You had dinner*?
*She: yes*
*Me: I want to say something*
*She: ok*
*Me: I like you*
*She: OK*
*Everyone likes me*
*Plus nobody hates me*
*Me: (Now my ego was on top level and my temper got me and I was like what the dammn thing is that I am not everyone and not everyone is me, but I controlled myself and didn't say anything)*
*Good night*
*SHe: Good night*
The next day in the morning I blocked her and said to myself I still have 1.5 months left for my exam let's focus on it.
I stopped talking to her, But I noticed she wanted to like say something to me and wanted to talk, but I just keep on ignoring her. She started sitting around me in the class. She even starts sitting away from girls and always manage to find an empty seat around me. But she never get enough courage what she has in her mind and I never talked to her ever. She started getting much stupidier in her acts and I was like, the girl who can't b honest about her feelings for her boyfriend with who she was posting a story of completing 2 year anniversary does not deserve to talk to me.
Also, I do not used to understand what the emojis mean which she used to sent her and still today I do not know which emojis are used for what purpose.
That's all happened.
I never unblocked her.
Good night.
Thank you for your time.
Let's answer them.
Dear readers,
I wanted to wish you all a lovely evening.
Hope you'd enjoy this lovely evening with your loved ones or maybe yourself if you love to. Lots of people have been talking about the Chinese new year, the month of love and valentine's day a bit lately and there was a post also by @bbyblacksheep where she answered some of the questions and I would like to call it #valentinequestion so I THOUGHT WHY NOT I ALSO ANSWER SOME OR ALL OF HER QUESTIONS.
But, before that I'd like to flex my sponsors here-
Time to dive:
**Never have I ever been in a relationship:-**
I wouldn't deny the fact that there's no girl with whom I have shared a romantic relationship or platonic relationship ever. And neither I am willing to engage in one right now but yeah platonic may work well and for that there's this girl living in my building some flats after and One day I just randomly said 'Hi' to her because she came to my house to see my mum as she was acquainted with my mum for sometimes.
Well, tomorrow is her common entrance exam at a national level to get into the various colleges of fashion designing in India and she wants to get into the topmost college.
**Never have I ever had my first kiss:-**
Yeah, I never kissed any girl in my life.
But, I had this moment when she used to kiss me when I was young I just used to wipe my cheek and she was like 'WHATTT' but never said hahah
And I also hated it when someone used to pull me to kiss even my grandfather or any family members or relatives, but I just had to go through it because I was taught by my parents to obey elders so I just lose myself when they used to kiss me but I tried to be stiff.
**Never have I ever had a Valentine on February 14th:-**
Do I still need to answer that question? haha well, yeah I never had been on any valentine's day with a girl.
**Never have I ever received flowers, chocolate, or a stuffed animal:-**
I never received 'em any of 'em but I must add that I was of opinion that in my case it will always be the girl who will propose me, give anything memorable to me and all sort of things and I am never going to initiate any of it in the matter of pursuing a relationship with a girl.
**Never have I ever asked someone out:-**
Well, I never asked anyone on a date or just even a random coffee or walk or anything because I used to think what if they take it in a different way and end up thinking that I am some womanizer who asks out girls (this was my thinking back 3 years ago but now I cleared my head I guess so)
**Never have I ever been asked out:-**
Well, I think 99 percent of the probability of this question fades out when I tell you that I am a male figure, but yeah I wanted that girls asks me out.
**Never have I ever been rejected:-**
There's no rejection when you never asked anyone out or when you are not asked out for, by anyone.
**Never have I ever broken up with someone:-**
Am I not clear yet from above? How could I experience a breakup when there's no existence of patch-up.
**Never have I ever broken up with someone, but then got back together with them:-**
No!! and no more questions like that ok? haha
**Never have I ever cried over someone I liked:-**
Hahaahah I am really laughing when I want to answer this, well there was a girl 3 years ago I approached her and talked for 10-15 days and then I thought at first I will get a clarification if she is really interested in me or not, so I told her 'I LIKE YOU' and when I said I get to know 2 day before from her Instagram that she have a boyfriend but still I asked because I wanted to know what this girl really thinks of, and our conversation was like this-
*Me: I like you*
*She: OK*
*Everyone likes me*
*Plus nobody hates me*
*Me: oh (while saying this my temper got me and it starts saying to myself that what the heck, blo**y I am not everyone and no one is like me ok, so keep your mouth shut) But I literally said bye!*
I WILL PUBLISH AN ARTICLE ON THIS
**Never have I ever dated two people at the same time:-**
*No, I haven't done that and I WILL NEVER DO THAT WHEN I GET INTO a RELATIONSHIP. or when I will be attracted to a gir*l.
**Never have I ever been in love with my best friend:-**
*Hahaha I do not have any best friend but ALL MY BATCHMATES ARE A GOOD FRIEND OF ME AND EACH OTHER, ALL ARE MALE AHAHAH*
**Never have I ever received a love note:-**
No, but I am very open in this aspect are you willing to give me😉
**Never have I ever crushed on someone silently for a really long time:-**
I do not even understand the correct meaning of CRUSH
**Never have I ever watched relationship Tiktoks and felt really single:-**
Tik tok is banned in INDIA haha and I do not like tik tok I watched some videos of relationship type on youtube "sam and monica"
****Last one:**** **Never have I ever daydreamed about someone I like:-**
Maybe I daydreamed a little bit but I also knew at the same time that she is not important my goal is much worthy and I am not willing to sacrifice my goal for a single person on this entire planet living or dead.
I daydreamed about "EMA WATSON", "KRISTEN STEWART", AND "ELLE FANNING". But not anymore that was daydreaming before almost 3 years ago.
Thank you and Good night:)
The city trip
February 04, 2022
Friday's free writing
#37
**Good Evening, everyone!**
Today, I am here with my personal experience of a city trip, the 2013 trip was not actually a trip it used to be a tradition in our school that all the freshers who joined the school since coming from different backgrounds, some belong to the remote village, some from cities and some from other small town or district headquarters. And since our school was the one located in the state's capital **(Lucknow)**, according to the tradition we were to roam the entire city and visit the locations especially meant for Kid's entertainment but no one could have thought or had any idea what we are actually going to visit.
A bus was booked for a whole day by the school authority for an entire day and we were given instructions that on a decided *( I do not remember the exact date)* Sunday we have to be in our **'MUFTI'** and have to finish the early breakfast by 0700 hours so all of us gathered on the desired place in the school premise for counting and after that, we all occupied a seat for ourselves.
The bus proceeded and we cheered up with all our energy to the name of school ( it was also a tradition of us that whenever we used to go out of the premise of the school campus together we used to shout in the name of school) and after an hour or little more we reached a place called as **'SCIENCE CITY'**. Everyone, literally everyone gave a face to ourselves because we thought that we would be taken to some exciting thrilling place or places like heritage sites of the city ( *there's a lot in our city you can search them)*.
But anyway it was already our first destination we deboarded the bus and we went inside the science city and we were given time that we need to be reported to a particular place *(which was decided by the teacher)* after exploring in an hour and when we entered the science city we saw and read many instruments of physics, chemistry, and biology and also like environment, this building was around 5 storeyed as I can remember and we were roaming the same floor twice or thrice because we were not interested in those science things.
You would have definitely been a bit more excited if I had tagged the photos but none of us used to have phones back then
So, after anyhow completing our exploration in the science city experiment's building we reported to our teacher and they took us to a **'BIG CIRCULAR PLANETORIUM'** called as **"INDIRA GANDHI PLANETARIUM"** *(you can google it)* we occupied a seat and this was something which excited everyone because this was like a circular theater and the chairs can tilt almost 180 degrees to allow you to watch the entire planetarium screen in which there was another knowledgable content being played on but anyway, we as kids take the fun out of chair hahaah.
We proceeded to a 3D theater which was there in the science city, occupied a seat, and were provided with 3D glasses *(first and last time experience of many of us in 3D)* a movie was played which I do not remember what was that but there were big snakes in that like Anaconda and it felt like they are roaming just below your chairs and they are surrounding you from all around and they are just going to eat you. Amidst the movie I actually removed my 3D glass to see if there is really snakes in the room haha *(anyway it was my first experience and I came from a remote village).*
Our movie finished and then we reported back where the bus was parked and after giving count we occupied seat.
We then were a little optimistic that they will lead us to some exciting place and we even conveyed it to our teachers and they said yes this will be interesting but again to our disappointment they lead us to a huge park named **"DR BHIM RAO AMBEDKAR MEMORIAL PARK"** any way we deboarded, get our entry tickets, and were instructed to explore the park for about an hour, and we were like Damn! why we need to explore this park where what we actually were getting to see was young couples, boyfriends-girlfriends, and we were the only ones in the whole big park who were walking here and there just with our batchmates *(all boys)* haha to be exact 55 boys.
Everyone who we walk past used to give a look and I was like 'What the hell, they brought us into the park I mean literally parks are the places where normally we see married couples, or unmarried couples young boyfriends and girlfriends. While walking the park I along with a few others reached a greenhouse in the park and we saw a little inside it.
After some time it started to rain and I get wet because I forget the returning path (it is one of my negative points that I do not remember the paths) But running here and there I finally found the path which I FOLLOWED to return back to the entrance and then we again gave our counts and we boarded the bus and reached back to school.
After reaching school we immediately went to our blocks and dormitories and changed ourselves and started cursing the teachers and school for this boring trip and ruining our only holiday of the week which is Sunday.
In the comment section tell me how was your first 3D experience in a theater.
Also, tell me what is the sister city of your city. The lucknow's sister city is Brisbane and Canberra.
Thank you all. I hope you liked the content.
Thank you so much @Ling01 for that beautiful gift.
Good night, sleep tight:)
Improving English
February 03, 2022
Thursday
#36
Hello, lovelies!
This article is about my personal experience sharing about how I improved my English.
But before starting I would like to flex my sponsors..
So, I come from a very small town and most of the part of my life I also stayed in my village, the village which does not use to have well-connectivity to the nearby city, but it is now connected with the nearby city with a metallic road Thanks to the schemes rolled out by the government of connecting villages to their nearby cities.
And, we can very well expect the education which is received by the kids of a remote village and the medium of their instruction which is usually in a regional language not the books but the medium of instructions.
But then, my parents shifted to the nearby small town where there were only 2 English medium schools and others HINDI MEDIUM SCHOOLS so my parents enrolled us (me and my 2 elder brothers) in one of the English medium schools. The environment was good in the school the discipline, rules were all worth embracing but still, we could not really learn English so very well because the same thing the medium of instructions was in Hindi despite books being in Hindi, we can understand what we are taught and what's written in the books but when it comes to speaking English it was horrible.
Then I get enrolled in the military school after going through various stages and there I realised how weak my English really is I remember one incident a little senior-junior talk-
*Him: "where are your batchmates?" ( in an angry tone)*
*Me:"Sir, He are coming."*
*Him: (Very politely and gently) "You should say that 'They are coming'".*
*Me: "Yes sir*
*Him: "Now f**k off"*
Though I improved my English there I could speak and understand well but still we used to talk in Hindi itself so I haven't learned to speak English fluently.
Then I had an interview for the army when I was in class 12th and when I was practicing for the interview I realised that I am stammering while speaking and also the word which needs to be spoken off in a sentence does not strike off in my mind.
Then I passed out from the military school and while I was in military school I do not used to read newspapers but definitely used to see the pictures printed in them. After passing out from school I made up my mind that I will inculcate some good qualities in me and one of them would be to read the newspaper daily.
Bang! when I started reading the newspaper it seems so boring at first and so cumbersome but gradually I keep on giving more time to read the newspaper and in the process of reading it I learned the use of punctuations, correct use of modals, determiners, parts of speech, etc (Though I wouldn't say that I am an expert in it but I am willing to learn)
Then I also started watching Hollywood movies in English (earlier I used to watch them in the Hindi language) with the subtitles and I used to pause and look for the sentence when I encounter some beautiful sentences and some sentences which are spoken in a savage manner. Slowly I realised that I can understand what they are saying without the use of subtitles so I switched off the subtitles in all movies that follow ahead.
I also keep a diary where I write off the vocabulary which is new to me and I revise them in my free time. While mentioning those vocabs I also sometimes try to write their synonyms too but only sometimes because if you keep on doing this for every word you encounter then it will feel like hectic work and might be possible that you end up losing interest in learning new vocabs.
Lastly, I would only say that when I passed out from school I was 16 and I advised myself that in this post modernisation era Knowing and speaking English is a must and when I will hold some high positions in my life later and If I keep on stammering and unable to speak English fluently It would convey a bad influence to my juniors, subordinates and all the people around me who follows me. So I decided that I will invest my time into improving my English and the time I will be in such positions I will be able to speak so lavishly.
**"LEARNING ANYTHING IS NOT A ONE DAY PROCESS OR A WEEK, OR A MONTH SOMETIMES IT CAN TAKE A REALLY LONG TIME BUT JUST KEEP IN MIND THAT THE LONGER IT TAKES THE MOST BEAUTIFUL IT WILL BE"**
Thank you for your time reading my experience:-)
The newspaper in article is actually "The Times of India" I never preferred reading that.
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Review on: The subtle art...
February 02, 2022
Wednesday blog
#35
In today's writing, I will be sharing my thoughts and a brief review of the book **"The subtle art of not giving a f**k".**
A very helpful or you may say guiding book written by 'Mark Manson' who wrote this book basically as a counterintuitive approach to living a good life.
A total of 140 pages with Nine chapters and about 140 pearls of wisdom haha Do not derange I just wrote to make a rhyming but actually it really has a lot of wisdom and one who lacks vision or stability or has hovering thoughts/uncontrolled thoughts it is a must-read for them. At the outset of the book, you will get to learn that all the so-called societal words wishing you to be better, best, more successful than others and all these advice which we get are actually the ones we start thinking that we actually lack, for instance, If you are beautiful and someone comes to you and say to you that you got a bit of chubby fat there and you go into your bedroom stand in front of the mirror and you keep telling yourself that oh I see I am really getting chubby cheeks there but in reality, it is not there. Apply it to your other perspectives, you start telling yourself that you are a bold person why? it actually that you are not bold but just telling yourself that you're bold, In reality, if you think it the other way **Do you even need to remind yourself that you are bold, or do you need to be bold when you actually are bold?**
Further in the book, you will read that **'we actually do not need a life without problems but we need a life full of good problems'** which keeps us aspiring and encouraging to do further with our life. We can already tell ourselves that a smooth situation never creates a wise man and only a weak man who tries and fail gets to become wiser. The harder problems you face in your life the more you will have to solve them and the more you will get to feel happy after that.
Also, the author tells about that **"No one's life is without suffering so just ask yourself what you actually want to suffer about, what are things that really matter to you, who are the people that really matters in your life, what are the problems you really need to give a damn about" Take time ask yourself these questions and when you find the answer you will found things much easier and less suffering.**
ALSO, we always hear that being positive is what we always follow I wouldn't disagree but the actual thing that follows is if you are always being optimist then what you unconsciously do is you are denying your problems ad when you are denying problems you do not get the opportunity to solve them and when you do not solve your problems you do not feel the happiness of solving problems.
When we move further ahead in the book we get to read about how we actually choose things wrongly always for instance if we are blackmailed to do something we will definitely do that to avoid the situation that follows ahead but when we choose to do the same thing we get empowered to do that.
Many of us always say that **'I do not care about anyone or anything but the actual reality about them is that they care way too much'** and that's the sad reality that others do not know, forget about others you actually do not know about yourself and you always run away from it.
There is a personal experience of the author that he wanted to explore the independency and wants to visit other countries and get happy about it but the author also conveys that when he keeps on exploring with various countries and sleeping with different women on different occasions in different countries he actually realised that he is spending his life in something that is actually not worth about he is sleeping with others may be to let past the worse situations of his life but the next morning when he gets up he is alone by himself, nobody to hold his hand, nobody to share his thoughts, nobody to love him in a real sense. And when he saw his friends who actually settled and make a family they were living a much happier and peaceful life than him and they have someone with whom they can share their bitter things/moments/thoughts anything.
The author also mentioned that the moment we get ourselves very certain about something is the moment when we make ourselves rigid and that's the moment when you will not see things the way they are but you will start seeing the things the way you want to, for example, if you get yourself so rigid that no ones can be trusted then you will start seeing every other person that they are cheating at various places and maybe that person is actually not cheating really. It could destroy your relationship, family, or anything valuable to you.
For this, the author also mentioned some questions which you can ask yourself as a practice to make yourself less certain about yourself.
The author emphasized the **importance of saying no**. We very well have heard this a hundred times and if you haven't heard it then you are still so young, in order to impress all the people around us we actually forget our real identity and start presenting ourselves as the way to please them and in reality, it can backfire, forget about backfire the impact it gives you in your life is that you will lose your own identity and you get entitled yourself into pleasing others and finally you are doomed.
Last but not least I am flexing my sponsors here who supports me in my journey here on read.cash
Also, all the authors, who are here I am grateful to you because unknowingly you support me and this family in our and their lives unknowingly.
Thank you
The first month.
Februaury 01, 2022
Tuesday
#34
Hello! ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls.
To tell you *'not to confuse the headline as it is my first month on* read.cash *but it's the first month of 2022'* and I am also going to write about my report of January like everyone does, also these 2-3 days of every month are my favorite on this platform because reading people's articles mentioning their monthly earnings from read.cash is one of the things which excites and encourages me to write further.
So in all, I managed to publish sixteen articles which averages out as each in two days, and initially first week of the month I was sick so I couldn't publish anything for straight 6-7 days at the outset. But later I managed to keep my motivation up-high with a target of publishing 15 articles this month and whoa! I did that. **Congratulation to me hahaah**
My first article: of the month was about the December report you can see the no. of views and the likes and comments and the tips I received in each article in the photos itself.
**WARNING: PHOTOS OVERLOADED HAHAH JUST 16 DO NOT WORRY**
Then comes my second in which I published what it is like new year and birthday to me. Very much thanks to Ling01 again here:-)
The third one is about the advantages of open learning and the disadvantages and various aspect of it on us.
Then comes the fourth one "see yourself what the content is in there"
The fifth one is about my class 9th story
Sixth- funny one haha
seventh
Eighth one: I remember many people were sick on this day on read.cash too, I remember someone having the same story as mine about this article.
Ninth is about a prompt started about showing the photos of your phone with certain guidelines
Here comes the tenth one about my home
The eleventh this one's dedicated to our sweetest of all @Ling01 :-)
The twelfth
Thirteenth a knowledgable topic
Fourteenth
Fifteenth- it's moral content and personal life experience and wisdomful content.
The sixteenth and the last one is the funny one haha
So this was all in a glance and calculating total earnings of the month it is 36.55 dollars also this is the only income I have incurred from here in terms of BCH as all the income I earned in my first month was withdrawn by me to know the process of withdrawing and with that, I must mention that I am hoping not to withdraw unless it is extremely important.
And, for the month of February, I wish to achieve the target of 65 dollars at least. And also my target would be to publish at least 20 articles. I also am glad that in this journey of two months on this wonderful platform I finally have 60 subscribers.
I am also enthusiastic about having 11 people sponsoring me in this short time thanks to all of them you can check them here if you want to-
The wonderful content I am getting to read and learn from them is another beautiful thing I am receiving from here.
Also, I crossed the milestone of 500 views in the month of January itself.
The screenshots are by an extension in my browser called "Explain and send screenshots" https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/explain-and-send-screensh/mdddabjhelpilpnpgondfmehhcplpiin?hl=en
Thank you all. Have a blessed outcome of the day.
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Me as a teenager!
January 31, 2022
Today's blog, Monday vibes
#33
Once again I am here with some expressive thoughts of mine and it is normally related as when I was a early teenager, Like every other teenager, I had lot's of thoughts and emotions, mood swings, getting hyper at once even on silly things and being cool even at most upsetting things and the next moment it all gets opposite.
I normally had not any phone and also I do not possess any as of now too, so whenever I see friends of mine playing interesting games in their phones I used to sit beside them and used to watch it as long as how they play but never used to ask them to play, so whenever I get myself home and ask a phone from my brother used to download those games which I had seen previously my friends playing but the thing which used to happen now was I was not able to recall what game actually they were playing so I end up downloading different silly games with the same theme and then I try them and found it boring and delete them and normally back then when there was no 4g internet the data was so expensive that we could not afford to have game higher than 100 Mb or at most 150Mb now guess yourself what type off interesting you will find under 150 Mb if you are so interested in racing games or survival games or action games or adventure games. Therefore, it feels frustrating when you download something with a slow speed internet and you find it irrelevant.
Then again if even I used to manage to download some good games for instance take any action game or adventure games I used to play it till the level of the game is little easy but the moment the level keeps on getting harder it starts frustrating me that no matter how I try hard I couldn't clear the level so I used to delete the game as early I used to download them.
This used to happen with me always and even now. My brother bought laptop because he was in engineering and he desperately needed it so when he came home I saw a game called NFS in his laptop and it was also the latest series of NFS and I literally opened the game and woowww! it feels so thrilling to play that high graphics game with everything seeming so realistic in the game, the police sirens, and the sound of pressing car horn and the rainfall ambience with everything so advanced. I used to play it for some time but again I could not clear the level of the game with desired targets so what I used to do was I keep on roaming my expensive car in the game here and there getting it wrecked and getting hot pursuit by the cops and then finally busted and also used to do some race with other racers in the game itself. Thats' all I used to do in the game.
Anyway right now I do not play any game in phone or laptop as I already have this stereotype in my mind that at last I wouldn't clear any level and I will delete that game which eventually proves wastage of my time, also not to forget I do not have phone and the laptop which I have right now I do not want to ruin it because it is the only thing with which I study.
Thank you for reading.
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Here I added a new affiliate of mine @Abhi4.8.5.2 He is my friend and we met only for 5 days in real life in 2019 and since then we are continuously being in touch over cellphone and he is one of the friend who always talks positive and never takes my side haha. And now suddenly he started saying "well your choice was wrong and just move on". Whenever I am little confused on certain very specific thing I used to call him and his words soothes me always but none of it mattered at last. haha
Some inner thoughts.
January 29, 2022
Saturday's vibes and mankind's wisdom.
Hello, everyone!
Today, I feel like talking about some lessons which not only I am writing just after hearing or reading from people, books but also experienced quite a considerable amount.
We as human beings go through many stages infant, young kids, adolescents, youths, grown-up, and finally retired wisdomful person enough to pass it on to the next generation. Some people go through early maturity, but still, sometimes get deviated from their paths believing everything to be too roses and lavenders. Some learn the life lessons a little after but there's no right time to learn anything, anything with which you go through teaches you and prepares you for further challenges and rewards.
I as a young human prepared to dive deep into the ocean with all the optimism and ready to accept and pass optimistic thoughts and as well absorbing the pessimism. I just try not to hurt others in my way deep down into the ocean but it's a little different thing we cannot control all the scenarios ourselves, there's always a choice, and with choices comes the circumstances. It can be positive, negative, and neutral as well. Getting yourself happy with the positive outcomes and the negative outcomes is to remind you that you needed a lesson to learn and its' right in front of you do not deviate yourself from avoiding the negative outcomes. And the neutral outcomes make you think about what you could have done more to convert the scenarios into a more positive outlook.
**You cannot make everyone happy and if you are doing that then better get yourself together because if you are making all the other out there happy then you are just getting yourself entitled to do something from which it becomes difficult to return back. Learn to love yourselves first, grow yourself first, love your family and friends first and make them safe. At the same time ensure you it is your duty not to be harmful to others.**
*Adolescents get through their first crush and just let it pass and some are also courageous to get up and talks with them to find out and explore more others get into someone later and excited to explore the world through them but maybe they were not really the right person, you keep on interacting with your opposite sex at times and the life keeps moving on. So all those people out there who gets hurt because of their too much expectations from their opposites remember it's just a phase if you get heartbroken but it will pass on and there's always someone more beautiful for you you just have to be open to the world. And also I would not motivate you or discourage you for not having expectations because its our human tendency or maybe not but what i believe is that if you work for something or someone you have certain expectations out of it or them of course because you have worked for it and you expect the outcome. But the most beautiful thing to do is decide what you want, work for it wait for it and grab it if you finally get it but do not keep the outcomes always in your mind*.
There's two beautiful thought which always is there in my beautiful brain.
**"Expect least to get the most"**
**"It's not the result which gets you more happy and excited, its always the journey which makes you smile"**
Some incidents happen in our life which makes us sad and we at times may get broken but it does not mean the world is going to stop for you or your life has ended just take a little time keep yourself a little time, if you want go out with friends, indulge yourself in something other which makes you little engaged and when you have a little enough time get ready to conquer the world again with different perspectives, and with a jovial and cheerful attitude.
*I would like to share one more thing that when we have less opposite sex interaction and at later we start interacting with opposites for the first time we get very excited and we start getting so expressive to them and we start thinking about beautiful things about both but it only happens because you never had interacted with your opposites before and that opposite may have lot many people in their life and normally what we do is to keep on sharing our love and care for them but actually there's no effect of these on them because they are not deprived of opposite emotions or love or care from others for them. It's better to make yourself stable and try to interact with every other people with an open mindset without wasting all your love, emotions, and care on every other people you meet out there. You finally will strike a meeting with someone who actually is meant for you.*
At last, I only want to say that Keep smiling and be healthy. A healthy person is the only one who is having a good physical state, good mental state, and good social state. **Ask yourself are you healthy?**
**The things which I mentioned above may not be understood by all but there are life moments when you will experience all these, and you will learn it all by yourself.**
Spread love and be loved.)
Thank you all for reading.
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January twenty-sixth.
January 28, 2022
Friday
Hello everyone!
Good afternoon,
I am writing the experience of January 26 which is also the "Republic Day of India", so it happened like I never wanted to attend any ceremony like Independence day or Republic day because on these days I like to take a rest or give myself an extra little time. But still, I always have attended those programs even at against my will because it is also important to attend and celebrate the country's most important day. But this year it was a little different, in the apartment (society ) I am living in right now they organized this flag hoisting ceremony in the society's park and it was adorable at first like usual I was sitting on my bed and then went to the bathroom to have a shower around 0800 hours but while I was washing my clothes I heard the announcement from society's president that flag hoisting will start in next 5 minutes so please let us gather in the park.
And I had this automatically in my mind suddenly that I want to attend this willingly and happily so I took shower in just 2-3 minutes just showering with water haahha then I wore clothes and combed my hair in next 2 minutes and then wear shoes and when I reached the park I realised I forget to wear the mask so I again climbed upstairs and took my mask and then reached the park but the flag hoisting started in another 15 minutes to have a maximum number of people possible but those who did not come still showed up in their balcony and standstill for the national anthem. So the sweets were distributed after that and there was a few lines sung by the elders and also there were dances by young little kids. And then I came back because I had already been there for an hour above.
Now it was also my father's birthday on 26th so I wished him first thing in the morning and then we decided to go to a restaurant in the evening for dinner and unfortunately I was not aware of this plan of theirs so a friend of mine came over at my place and we shared a brisk walk and then I invited him for a tea at the house so I made tea for him and everyone else it was already now 1830 hours and we already had a long time together so I said let's drop you at home and then he went away.
And then my mum said that get ready we are going for dinner and so I combed my hair a little but I need not change the dress because I am always in jeans and shirt hahaha so we left for the restaurant and then after reaching the restaurant we ordered the food and enjoyed our meal but there was a little unfavourable condition my father get a temper on the waiter for serving a little late which was not truly late and of course, it happens that it takes little time to get served in the restaurant. I won't be judgy here about my dad. So I didn't say a word but then my mum and brothers brought it up and acknowledged him that it was not even late and still he was in his own ego. He is an egotistical person haha that's why I do not say anything to him ever.
We finished the dinner though I finished it a lot earlier and then I said give me the menu I will calculate the bill myself till you all finish so I calculated it to 1340 rupees and it is equal to 17.86 dollars but the bill which waiter showed up with was 1360 and everyone looked at me that I did the wrong calculation but I smilingly said to the waiter that we just consumed one bottle of water ( I already knew that the waiter will include the price of 2 bottles of water ) so he then said that sir then it is 1340 rupees only, and my brother smiled laughing said to me, whoa you are a smart guy. I said indeed I am no doubt! hahah
I paid the bill and we came back home it was very cold by now so I immediately slept.
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Health and water
January 27, 2022
Thursday vibes.
#30
I am feeling so excited to publish my thirtieth article in 59 days. Though it is a slow speed but I will try to cover more things slowly.
Hello, good morning!
**We keep hearing to drink a lot of water from doctors, elders, and others. But why?**
The fact that an adult male's total body weight is constituted by sixty percent of water and female's body fifty percent. So to say simply if you are 100kg male you have 60kg of water and if you are female you are 50kg of water.
Role of water in our healthy lifestyle.
The food we eat and the enzymes required to break them down required water to function effectively.
Water helps keep our bodies moisturised.
It helps remove excretory waste from the water. Even if we do not drink water at all the urine production per day will be 600 ml per day which will come from the body itself and ultimately the body will start losing water and your blood starts getting thicker.
Making the heart work more work for pumping all around the body. Thicker blood will also mean that there will be the clotting of blood vessels inside of us which ultimately leads to organ failure.
Its important for glowing skin too.
****How much to drink?****
Usually, it is advised by the health experts to drink at least 2-3 liter of water for adults but in precise form, it depends on body weight and all for example babies and kids cannot drink that much.
If you are a hard-working person, sweating very much, an athlete, a labour, one works manually hard work too much requires more water.
*Also in the weight training by bodybuilders who takes protein supplement they are advised to drink a lot of water but usually what they end up doing is they add more protein in water every time they drink thinking that it will enhance their body more and more but what happens actually is the extra protein they are taking are not able to get excreted from the body properly, the kidney requires more water to function properly if you take more protein your kidney requires more water but the weight trainers(bodybuilders) do not do that and ends up having a kidney failure.*
I am also involved in too much running but honestly, I drink a hell of a lot of water which is also not good but still, I only drink in check which is not harmful. My brother is a doctor and usually, I take a lot of advice from him on what to drink what to not how much to do what etc. all the health-related things I ask from him only. I even advised him to write some articles here but he said that he couldn't give that much time.
And in a period of stress like you have fever or anxiety or something you usually should take a little more water. Usually, when you go for micturition you see your urine colour normally amber yellow and if you are not taking sufficient water then it will get darker yellow, which indicates you need to drink more. And if you are drinking too much then it will be transparent water colour.
**When to drink?**
Usually when you get up in the morning or anytime after a long nap like 5-7 hours you should immediately intake 300 ml because you haven't have any water for that long time.
Water and meal: Elders always advise us that you should not drink water while eating its true, the enzymes that are required to break down those foods will get diluted and the food will not get digested properly. Therefore have water before 30 minutes of meal intake. and 45-60minutes later of food intake.
We should not have water just before sleeping, therefore, it's better to have an early meal.
**Try to drink a glass of water every 2 hours during the day.**
Conclusion To be honest it is a very important topic and I just have not even covered the scratch of it, but it will go beyond length and still left more to talk about and also I will enter into medical languages then it will get more complex for everyone to understand.
Thank you for reading.
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I republished it on my website fairaffairs.wordpress.com https://fairaffairs.wordpress.com/2022/07/16/health-and-water-2/
A winsome day.
January 25, 2022
Tuesday
**Hello! lovelies**, A very warm noon to you all. Today it's sunshine here after a long time and I already was on the roof for quite a bit of time for sunbathing.
So, this is from yesterday's event I and my friend went to the mall just casually, no planning beforehand or anything. He just called me at around 1500 hours and he asked me dude do you wanna go to the **"Phoenix palassio"** it's the name of the biggest mall in my city right now and just a 7 km distance from my home and 4.5 from his home.
So what happened was yesterday I completed a syllabus of one book which was really an important one and was a very fat book hhah and the last chapter I was making notes of was "PRESSURE GROUPS'' though there was 4 others chapter after this one I do not need to make notes of those chapters because they are quite easy.
though I do not make notes of definitions like that because definitions are the easiest thing since it happened to be the last chapter in my copy so I thought of writing it a little more elaborately ( just the definition) haha. After completing the syllabus from this book I was sitting in my mum's room and was just sitting quietly she was doing her work peacefully and suddenly my friend called and asked if you suggest going to the mall, at first I said it's quite cold outside, to which he replied it's not that much it's acceptable and instantly I made up my mind that it's been a while since I have been to any mall so I said to him yeah let's go. He asked if I come to pick you up and I replied no there's no need I can walk up to your home and he said well then. I told him I will be there in 50 minutes and after readying and all I started walking from my home to his place and here I clicked a photo to show you place around my house..
Yeah,I know it's all empty hahah this is what it always looks like most of the time, and whenever I run and post these photos of track a friend of mine always says ***'it's so strange that there are no cars or vehicles around you*** ***and I always reply to her yes because it's the outskirts of the city as I live in the outskirt.***
So while I was about to reach his home he picked me up on the way and then we proceeded to the mall.
Although I forget to take the photo of the entrance because I am not very much in clicking photos and selfies I still manage to click this structure just at the entrance of the mall and it's actually twice the size of it we could not cover it in one photo hahah and we both keep on talking like they must have spent so lavishly on putting these structures. We always talk only like this whenever we meet to each other like we can do this to create so much money or this stock has got some scope or investing in this type of business, and also creating our own websites like these topics we continuously talk and plans.
ok haha this structure is of 'BARASINGHA' or in English 'REINDEER' I don't know why they put this there but still it occupied a good space and people were clicking pictures and all. you have to rotate the phone also laptop to see it. But I guess I have another one..
Then we keep on strolling the whole mall and entering every shop almost 70 percent of the shops we entered and exit especially the one where they sell shoes and clothes because he also needed to buy the football stutds but we choose one and since we were short on money so we decided to buy it next time.
This place looks beautiful to me I don't remember which floor it was but it catches my eye and so I clicked the photo and this place actually is meant for food stuffs and all but there are other place too. There is a disco bar at the end and horror house under construction, spa, playstore, Moviehall, and many things.
You see that green space in middle actually is like a mini jungle (forest) for small kids there is an entry fee into that and there is big dinosaur structures in it too it looks good and surprising for kids. I also saw a few girls making reels video but to be honest I do not like people making reels haahah
This was all and we returned back in about 2.5 hours and then he dropped me at home and I had dinner and slept.
Thank you and have a blessed day.
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Because you are sweet.
January 24, 2022
Monday vibes
Hello, my warm morning for you all!
Today I am writing about the new and latest prompt which is active right now by @Theblackdoll #Iloveyoubecause prompt, before writing I would like to thank her for rolling the ball for such an amazing prompt.
It always feels so exciting, thrilling, and ecstatic to hear the sweet and beautiful feelings that person has for you and it feels amazing to know that that person has been thinking about us this much. Sometimes when this feeling is in a romantic way and both parties know about the feeling what their opposites have been in their mind for them but when they get to hear it from that person from themselves it gives a euphoria.
Before I further get into the topic and start writing about it here is the article posted by her to acknowledge you with the different prospects about how to go through the prompt **here** https://read.cash/@Theblackdoll/i-love-you-because-prompt-d61e4d4e
Also, you know most of these users but I still would say to meet these wonderful people;
I am tagging my beloved friend who I met here not very long ago @Ling01 and,
**I love her because** **she has been very kind always to me and also to others here and in real life around her.**
**I love her because she has a good memory :-)**
**I love her because she is realistic, enjoys the moments, and makes others lively around her.**
**I love her because she always lands in my article and leaves a sweet comment.**
**I love her because she unexpectedly wished me my birthday**
**I love her because not only does she wish me my birthday but she remembers that I do not celebrate my birthday.**
**I love her because I love her that's all I can say.**
Ling, you are cute, as I have seen you from the gallery raid and you are beautiful, you are amazing you always leave a comment which makes me smile while reading it.
**When did I meet her:**
I joined the platform in the last week of November 2021 and then my real interaction with people actually started in December I met ling in December itself when I was reading one of her articles and dropped a comment since then she continuously visits my article every time I post and if she didn't slip it away.
***What was that something the user did for you or for somebody else that impacted you and developed a sense of love and respect towards them:***
So you all may not know when my birthday falls but ling remembered that it falls on January 01st and she even wished it. However, I do not clearly remember in which comment I told her about my birthday but it was so surprising for me that she remembered an exact date for a virtual person she just met. And as I told you above she even remembered that I do not celebrate my birthday. And since that day I have started loving ling very much and that day when I read her comment I felt so amazed, full of surprises. I was sick that day but I still normally opened my laptop and opened read.cash and just saw that ling posted a birthday wish for me in her article.
**Thank you so very muchhhh, Ling, a big kiss and a warm hug to you:-)**
***What advice you want to give to that user if any:***
Ling, though we are just virtually acknowledged people you can always count me as your friend whenever you will need help, or feel something to share with anything you like. I like that you are so lively and I am saying it because I have observed that you post articles about your personal stories, personal experiences, moral articles, and other content too. You know how to grace the moment with joy that's what I believe about you.
***What do you wish up on that user***
I wish ling that you achieve all the desired goals you have planned for yourself for right now or for later or which you will plan also, that they all come true and with the desired and amazing results that you'd expect out of them.
Here in a month and a half I got 500 views this is really exciting as it was one thing I was thinking of when I had the congratulations for 100 views on my articles and now I am looking for the next milestone of 1000 views soon and a way to add more subscribers too. Thank you all for staying connected with me all this time.
Thank you all.
Thanks for reading
Hey @PWWrite thanks for that)) you have been kind to me since starting.
The work done ourselves.
January 22, 2022
Saturday vibes
Hello! good evening dearest people:-)
Here I am again with another story from myself. But before we start I want to introduce you to my lovely sponsors.
If you have been following me for a long time well this long time is really not that long because I have joined the platform just 1.5 months ago and then I shifted into a new home about which I wrote an article also and on January 16th we completed a month in this newly rented apartment, though we are not very rich so still we need to decorate our apartment a lot like a really lot and talking about decorations we haven't had put on curtains on various places in the home and not even had any drilling on the walls for that till yesterday when my father borrowed a drilling machine from a nearby shop and then we marked locations using stencil pencil where we need to drill and therefore we drilled all the required places and also we had measurement about the length of steel pipes we will need to put into the place for the curtain so now we had half of this work already done and here's the photo...
this is my room and I know I haven't organised the things properly hahaha, and we installed another pair of curtains in the parents room and now we have run out of steel pipes hahahah but we will buy it and put it in the hall and the whole work will be finished, we even had not drilled in the bathroom for the stands to put soap cases and all so we also did that yesterday and at least the bathroom is done, here where i AM LIVING it's little cold right now and when there were no curtains we were feeling much colder than usual but after installing these curtains it feels like we have stopped some amount of extra cold hahah coming from outside from the photo you can see that one curtain is shorter than other but that is because where we used to live earlier the windowpane was little lower height so I trimmed the extra part of the curtain but right now I just saw it and I am going to untrim it so that it maintains at least symmetry haahah.
When I have accumulated enough BCH from here I will buy a washing machine because my mum is not any more energetic to wash the clothes and I feel bad for her when I see her working so much at her age and also after that washing machine I will buy water-purifier from BCH only and right now and till then we buy water bottle fo 20litre daily at the cost of 30 Indian rupee = 40 cents daily well I also do not feel like giving that money because we just don't realize but this money keep on going from us continuously and it gets even costlier than installing a machine at once.
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Slow raider
January 20, 2022
Thursday
#promptFactory
Hello good evening readers and writers.
Well I am little late on this prompt but I am doing it today and before moving further I would like to show gratitude to @meitanteikudo for starting this creative prompt.
Food I want to eat again:
It is actually considered as snacks or breakfast but I made it myself always and only I know in my family to make it and I cook it so deliciously that's what family member says, 'it's so dry' that's what my second brother says, 'I am delighted' that's what I say while eating it. And I made it a lot in 2021 really a lot. But haven't made a single time yet in 2022.
Best photo:
it's the best photo because of what is written in it, I read it from the book of "17 law of success" by Napoleon Hill. It's a very beautiful book and there are many real life stories examples in it a lot of. About this thing in the photo are a statement made a psychologist wife to her husband when he was at low in his life and that changed his life drastically.
I must say if you like reading books then it is a must read.
A place I wish to visit again:
It is a place in southern part of India a place called "Ooty" its quite beautiful and we went here when we were in class 11th 2017 with whole batchmates. We enjoyed a lot there really we had one of the good time there at least I felt very light there because I always have been a studious boy so everyone in my family said don't miss the trip of your batch and go so I went and it created a different perspectives also in me, hahah almost everyone.
Selfie:
This is the same group photo of us when we went in that tour to south India in 2017, 2 teachers at last went with us and a company of them too went with us.
Oldest:
This photo is of 'Lakshman Bridge" in 'Haridwar' a spiritual place where people visits a lot. I never visited though but my parents went here in I guess 2014 because my mum had exam in that state and after exam my parents decided to visit this place too.
The speciality of this bridge is that it is not supported by any pillars or anything just at the start of the bridge and end of the bridge which makes the bridge very shaky also and people get scared while walking on it hahah but it was closed 3-4 years back I don't recall quite completely but it was closed because it was declared to be dangerous.
Latest:
This one's the latest and I took a screenshot of this because I was going to send it to my girlfriend she is a professional athlete and since few months she is not feeling to continue with her running so I took the screenshot of it and just because I wanted to tell her that I was going to stop at the end of 1.5 kilometer but then I didn't stop and continued to run further because I already said my girlfriend that I will run 7-8 km today, I do not wanted to back off of my statement.
Photo of someone I admire:
Well, I can't reveal her photo but I can show 2 of the latest photos send by her few days ago at 2 am, it was like I was talking to her and the time was 01:55 am and at the same time my brother asked my to make a black tea because he was sick at first I said that I am going to sleep which I was really going to but then I do not feel good whenever my elders asks me to do something and I refuse, so I told my girlfriend that I am going to make tea for my brother she then said I am already drinking it and finished it, I was not surprised because she eats or drinks at anytime of the day or night. She also mentioned that she is eating mint right now.
Photo of no idea-about:
That's youtube channel, she posted just one video of a game and it gets 118 k views just on her first video and she also get 650 subscribers just because of that first video.
She do not tell me the name of her channel but she don't know that I already know it, she actually do not want to tell me because she wants to show me her channel when she will have a huge achievement on her channel.
That's all from my side in this prompt and with this I am signing off to sleep too and ergo I wish you all a peaceful night.
Thank you.
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The sick day
January 17, 2022
Monday
#25
Hello everyone, I am not going to write something fancy or moral or motivating column rather I will write about my today's report.
But first, I would like to express my gratitude to these beautiful people
Monday, mostly considered as the first day of the week but I think some places call Sunday the first day of the week, anyways according to me Monday is the day when we must be ready like warriors with numerous energy to fight the further days of the week and therefore the Monday should be energetic for everyone. I always try to make my every day energetic at least Monday to Friday but today my mum got sick since midnight and I didn't know it so as usual when I woke up in the morning at 0500 hours I went to the bathroom get freshened up and studied an hour before finally proceeding towards the kitchen and warming some water for everyone to drink as its winter and normally my family prefers to drink lukewarm water in the morning but me. So after that I gave medicine for the thyroid to mum and she said she had a fever and then I went to fetch the thermometer from another room and asked her to record her temperature and it comes out to be 102 degrees Fahrenheit then I went to my brother with the first aid box to see if there is any medicine I can give mum for the fever he said no as there were no ( my brother is a doctor) so after all this, I made tea for everyone and served to everyone and waking both my elder brother up and then I was going to clean the house but mum said go and study a bit more other works can happen later and then I went to study again. And my father cleaned the house instead of me it's very rare haahah and then at around 0900 hours, my brother said to cook some normal food and accordingly I made Dal and rice for everyone and then served it to everyone and also by this time my father bought the medicine for her and after taking her medicine she took a nap. And now she is normal.
Here comes my part, after serving food to everyone and cleaning the wares I went under the blanket as by now I also started feeling a little cold so I decided to sleep for a little and then when I woke up after an hour I also had a feeling that I am sick and therefore I keep on lying under the blanket for another couple of hours and then said to my brother to make tea for mum as she hasn't had any food yet so he made tea for everyone and we sipped tea and in the evening I recorded my temperature and it comes out 100.2 degrees Fahrenheit and I also took medicine which I rarely take because I do not want to ruin my studies and workout at least for tomorrow so right now I am feeling like its little normal temperature but let's see what will happen next I mean tomorrow when I wake up wether I get sick or start the day with full josh and energy.
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Weekend's Ebbs and flow.
13:44 January 14, 2022
Friday
Hello! good afternoon beautiful readers and writers at read.cash
Today I have just studied for 3 hours and 20 minutes till now and I am going through a bit of laziness I mean I need a little more energy to continue further with my studies but, before that, I thought of writing something here and then I will do my studies for sure.
These are my beautiful sponsors, thanks to them for their encouragement and also my upvoters, commentators, and viewers.
And this blog will be about relationships, especially romantic relationship.A few things which in my opinion prevails in a romantic relationship are as:
You can be yourself: If you are in a romantic relationship and you can be yourself in terms of opinions, thoughts, plans, organizing things, etc. and you don't feel like being manipulated by others and you also ensure the same to them.
**Protecting each other**: With this, I want to confer that it not only means protecting them physically but also mentally and you two are motivating each other to be a better version of themselves and help them in this aspect and you both grow together.
**Completing each other**: It normally refers to the fact that if you are weak in one thing and your partner has a good catch in that thing then you both can complete each other by making them learn and getting a learning environment and it is like an opportunity coming from within.
**Forgiving and moving on with arguments:** In all relationships there are definitely fights and arguments and we get hurt sometimes and also we hurt our partner a few times and normally its all good because the truth is we only get hurt by the one who we love and who we care and this hurt arises not intentionally but conventionally. The best thing about this is you both forgive each other and do not hold a grudge about it and move on from arguments and love more.
**You come first for them:** It normally means not only our success, result, and achievements bring us happiness but when we see our partners excelling and doing so great we get so happy and present for them always to celebrate the moments.
**Celebrating each other's differences:** It basically indicates the difference of ethnicity, religion, background but in a broader sense, it can be about anything the contrasting opinions and plans and working on them together and even celebrating these differences because it again creates a sense of learning environment which brings best out in both of you.
**Having a sense of what the other is thinking:** This is so beautiful, in every romantic relationship both parties know each other's feelings without them conveying it and we show some gesture to make them feel comfortable and this finally sets the environment for conversation.
**Understanding:** with passing time as you both grow time in your relationship you both get to learn and understand each other so well and enjoy them so deeply.
**Feeling of knowing each other for long:** The basic truth is normally we both have never been known to each other except in some situations where love prevails from childhood, though we have known each other for not so long we feel like we are knowing each other for a really long time.
**Unreplacebale:** If you both have a strong romantic connection with each other then you both will develop a feeling that they are an irreplaceable part of our life.
**Always there for one other:** No matter how much you are in any excited state are or how low you are going through in your life they will be with you supporting and holding you like the spine and it feels so beautiful to know that actually there is someone for you out there who never stops believing in you.
**Supporting each other's in their goal:** If you both love and care for each other then you will definitely love to support them to pursue their goals and they will be encouraged at the next level with this.
**The tough conversation**: It is quite related to argument type but a little different basically in this we sometimes go through the conversation with respect to future and with respect to person's choice and telling them actually that they are doing this wrong or they should not do this it seems a tough conversation but actually it helps in a long run and it creates a way too stronger bond for future.
**Providing space**: It is so much important in every relationship, and we must know that we need to give space and alone time for our partners themselves so that they do not feel like being suffocated with you and ends up fighting with you later on.
**Never feeling silenced:** I am referring to the fact of sharing even the negative emotions of yours to your partner openly so that they feel connected with you and help you and standstill with you. Do not try to hold feelings and emotions for too long especially if it is discomforting you because it can create tensions and you will end up being so short-tempered and creating conflicts in your beautiful relationship.
**Enjoying each other's quirk:** We enjoy each other's quirk and cheer it all through for example when my girlfriend tells me how she runs very fast just to dodge the security at the gate of the apartment just to avoid the cumbersome formality and I laugh with her and tells her that's why I was wondering why you have got strong legs.
**You know they are not perfect:** Everyone has flaws in them and no one is perfect and the moment we start thinking we are perfect that means we stopped learning and attained an ego state of dangerous level and the thing is when our partner accepts us with all our flaws then the love grows so exponentially.
With this I am ending my blog and thank you for reading it through.
My 24 hours...!!!???
January 12, 2022 19:22
Wednesday vibes
Hello everyone,
Today I am not going to write any personal story or any motivating things I am just going to write the ebbs and flow within me and with me for the last 24 hours.
Yesterday, I was going to talk about what they do when they feel upset and frustrated but at the same time I was talking to someone else so beautifully and in the middle, we mutually put a thing from 3 days before and we end up fighting and then I asked another person what they do when they are frustrated but I do not want any answer at the moment because I already had ruined my mood with the things I was holding on to and also from that person the answer doesn't come haha.
Then I realized anyway that I have gone a bit too far in our fights and then I was feeling bad for that so I apologised but the thing that needed to happen was already done from nowhere and that person is still mad and of course, them should be because I made them cry of which I am sure of, and I deserve all of their silent and honestly for a little more time, I feel because it's their right to be mad for a longer time for that.
I actually am very positive about it right now (not about the fight but because of the fight) because it is true that the person who loves you will hurt you not intentionally but it will happen circumstantially because they are the one's who we are vulnerable to and who we care and who matters. It will never happen that any outsider who does not matter a thing to us can hurt us in any way.
I want to give a little more time to them at least till Saturday to talk more so that they can have their space and also if they want to make me feel passive jealous/anger/madness they can have it to their fullness and they feel like good enough.
****My brothers:**** Now, I will talk about my brothers who were fighting each other today like a kid and like being frenemy, their fights were like a debate of Engineers vs doctor as my eldest brother is a doctor and another elder brother who is little younger than my eldest brother is an engineer and they both were fighting who is better and who is not and I was studying at the time but when my eldest brother was going a bit arrogant at that moment I clearly said you use all the machinery the engineers produce and finally everyone's service is important no matter what. And they finally stopped at the same time I ended up making tea for everyone and coffee mor myself.
****My realizations from my first incident which I have written above my brother's fight:****
I was being too verrryyy muchhhh distracting from my studies for over 2.5 months and after this fight with that person I have to study and accomplice all the goals about which I dreamt of and get involved that person in my goals so finally am feeling happy and thankful for our unplanned fight with them last night and I will confess it to them thankfully. Now, I am again at my heights in studious concentration and I am going to achieve and accomplice all that I planned and dreamt for them and us.
Thank you all.
Have an enjoyable day you all.
@Trofi01
