Strong and independent woman

You need to be strong and independent woman when you choose to raise your own family.

Her name is Jane, a mom of two, a girl and a boy. She married at the age of 20, and had her first born. She had her Cesarian Section due to the fact that his baby was not properly position and the doctors did nothing to help her. She was so determined to push through the normal labor because she knew she don't have money to pay for the operation but she is tired and had no strength to push it through. The doctor advice to continue her labor via Cesarian Section. They don't have choice but to agree. Her father signed the form and she got the operation. After few ours, a baby boy is delivered to them. She was so tired and weak and let herself sleep. Her sister was the one who attended her needs because her Father and his husband don't know how to nurse a baby and a newly labored woman. It was a straight five days and she showed courage and strength as a mother. After a week of stay at the hospital she went home. She can't moved freely because she had an operation but her family could see her how much she tried her best to feed her baby and attend his needs. Her family were always there to support her. Few months had passed they decided to move to their house. They got a small house in his husband place. It was a bit far from his parents house, a 20 minutes drive or so. They were happy for them finally they would started their own family, at the same time sad because they will surely missed them. Her family visited her from time to time and they also done the same.

Years passed so fast and their first born was celebrating sixth birthday. She is caring their second child. Because of her experience having Cesarian in her first born she wanted to make her second child's labor a normal one. She did everything, control her diet and do anything to not let herself fall asleep every afternoon. She made wallets out from trash like junk foods wrapper and the like. Whenever she sell it she would save the money for her labor. She learned her lesson.

She even had a garden at the back of her house for her to have fresh vegetables at the same time something to do on her spare time. She also like to catch some fish in the river taking the advantage of having lots of fish that come near her because of such belief that she is pregnant that is why.

Her husband is a CAFGO, and don't have all his time in their house to attend his wife needs. He just have 10 days to spend to his family every month. With that reason alone you will know that she done all the chores alone from preparing foods, cleaning the house, taking care of his first born, down to chopping woods for the kitchen. She manage all of that while carrying a baby in her tummy.

When her labor is coming and she needs to go visit a doctor and had her check up. She knew that her savings would not be enough for all the expenses, so she went to a hospital that offers free labor to all pregnant woman. She endured the 2 hours ride just to not spend her savings. The doctor told her that she will deliver her baby still via Cesarian session due to the rules that the doctor follow in the hospital that, whenever a mother undergo Cesarian session, she will no longer undergo normal delivery. She had taken a back for a moment. All her efforts will be put to no use. She make sure her baby would not too big in order to fulfill her wish to not undergo CS again, but she failed. But it's for her baby so she would do anything,basically anything. So, she came back to have her second check up with that same hospital. She never knew it will be the same day of her labor. The doctor announce that they need to perform the operation because the baby is coming out soon and it is her due already. She don't know what to do because she is the only one who came in the hospital and home is too far that needs 2 hours ride. That time she never hesitate to say yes if that what's best for her daughter. She signed the form for the operation and ready herself.

She pray for God that whatever will happen He will keep her angel safe. Long hours had passed but she keep herself awake. She don't want to fall asleep beacause she want to see her child when operation is done. Moments later her baby is out. It's a baby girl. She is so happy to see her very tiny figure and angelic face. The doctor congratulated her and told her how strong and independent woman she is. After being delivered to the recovery session, and nurse was done cleaning her baby. She called her husband and her parents to inform them she had her baby girl. Few hours passed and they came rushing towards them.

Indeed she is a strong and independent woman. I admired her courage and the strength she have shown. A woman is very powerful beings. Their pure love to their children made them strong and brave. Courageous to take the path of life that they choose. They put their children first in everything. Even if this could mean harm to them. I couldn't tell if I could do it, when my journey of motherhood begin. I am amazed of how she made it possible, I am proud of her. I am proud of my sister for being a strong and indepent woman.

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@Zhyne06 you too are very independent and strong woman. Continue to be one, for the family that you chose to build.