Your life matters

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We are born in a world which time is very important but mislead to a belief which we must be in a hurry of everything we do. We should finish studies at early age. Marry at 20's, be stable at 30's. Go and have vacation at 40's. Enjoy life at 50's then have retirement at 60's.

What if this mindset never works for many? Are you going to question how they should be living according to their will?. There are people who get married at early age, study after giving birth, find job and work hard for their children. Some don't get married even in 30's they just want to fully enjoy the fruits of their labor.

Some don't even take any step and trapped in a certain point of life after graduation because they don't even know how to start life. Some are goal oriented, some are still finding their purpose of existence. Life a journey not a race. Your life will be never compared to someone's life.

You are born unique and you have own time pace. We have different timelines and dealings which may lead us to get trapped in a certain stage or get over it to move forward for growth. It's about learning the process and takes time for everything.

It's very important to take your time in thinking before making any decisions that can directly affect your future. If we never learned by time, time will teaches us in its own ways.

Life is composed of different stages, if you stepped into next stage be sure you are ready enough taking risks. It is very important to comprehend that each stage should be fulfilled and sustained for the next steps. If not you will experiencing difficulties and complicated situations. Do not put yourself in a situation which "you have no choice", you only do things out of responsibility which cause you stress and less worthy. This scenario will lead to broken dreams, broken relationship and self destruction. The worst results are bitterness, hatreds and cursing your life.

We're all accountable for our actions. Act according to your will , goals and passion. Before entering into next step , think deeply how you handle each situation. Don't leave yourself with no option. Be prepared for the consequences of your actions.

Take your time. Everything will fall into places soon.

Don't rush life. Don't hurry in finding love for love will find you in right time. Don't be jealous seeing people having job after graduation because soon you will take yours. Take your time. The secret ingredient for a good life is to enjoy every moment of it.

If you were a student, study then enjoy the hardwork. If you are finding job, reward yourself with your first salary for your great work. If you have a family, enjoy having time together doing activities you loved. If you are an old person, enjoy giving advice to young generation.

Life is not a race, it's a journey. Enjoyment is the key by taking your time. Don't move too fast, don't walk too slow. Take steps accordingly while giving yourself a chance to enjoy each stages. Take your time. Take it easy.

Some people wish to be in your position, often those working still want to have rest like you if you not working, some wish to live in a province surrounded by rice fields, trees and bodies of water like you do. Some are wishing to go back in your country to settle for good while some wishing to go abroad to work. Students are wishing to graduate in a short period of time while those already got jobs gonna wish they go back being student so only assignments and school works are the problems not bills. Some young people are rushing life while old people want to go back in their childhood.

We only appreciate life by enjoying what we love. It's a waste of time having depression how past living is not good and get anxious how future might take.

Dear, live your life today. Enjoy your day. 24 hours is enough to deal with. Do not waste your time in dealing your past decisions which never change and don't try to hold everything now for future for no one knows what lies ahead. Chill, take your time. A day is enough to stay still. Do not force yourself to be drained.

Do things you love. Enjoy your meal, enjoy your work, enjoy your morning walk, enjoy your gathering, enjoy your day by getting coffee ☕, enjoy yourself by seeing good things today. Be at ease. Love yourself by giving rest to worries and enjoying it by saying " I'm better than my old self, getting better each day by enjoying my life".

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