Never beg for love

20th, January 2022

Successful people do not beg for love and do not settle for anything less than true love because they know that true love is the foundation of a successful marriage. Like truth, it sets you free and it holds you together. If you find yourself in a relationship with someone who loves you with all of his or her heart, then you are the luckiest person on earth.

Forget all the false ideas that you have been told about marriage and forget all the things that people have said to discourage you from marrying your true love. The two most important things in your marriage are your spouse's undying love for you and your willingness to please him or her at all times. If you treat your spouse with respect, honor and affection, then a successful marriage will be yours for the taking. Do not dare miss this golden opportunity to be happy forever by being in a loveless marriage.

Love is the most important thing in marriage. As much as people say they are in love, they wanted to live together and did not get married, they do not have real love. The problem is that if you have real love, it is not so easy to find your soul mate. If you are lucky enough to find your soul mate, do not ruin it by forcing them to get married.

There is a story of a man who once asked a girl to marry him. She refused but he kept begging until she reluctantly said yes. They got married, but after some time, she regretted her decision. She stopped loving him and started showing disrespect to him. The husband did not bother about that problem; he just kept on loving his wife, giving her all his love. After some more days, the husband fell sick and was hospitalised. When he got better, he returned home and saw that his wife had changed into someone else. She had become very cold towards him and did not talk to him except when necessary. She had started living with another man and she did not spend any time with her husband who adored her. The foolish husband did not understand the situation. He decided to love his wife even if she did not love him. He took her for outings and bought things for her whenever she wanted them despite the fact that his wife had changed into someone else.

The man got on his knees and begged to his wife on the floor to love him. He pleaded with her, pleaded with her, pleaded with her to love him. With tears in his eyes, he sank down and cried. "Please just love me," he begged again. "I don't want you to leave me." But she didn't listen.

Finally, she looked at him and told him, "Do you love me?" "Yes," he said. "I love you." "Then sleep on the couch tonight," she replied coldly. He nodded and the two went to sleep.

Laying on the couch that night, the man thought about how he had gone from being a king to a slave in one evening. He had to sleep on a couch in his own home! It took ten seconds for him to make a decision that would change everything about his marriage.

If you are begging someone to love you, they will either pity you or feel sorry for you. This may lead to you being despised and using your vulnerability to take advantage of you.

The more desperate you try to prove your interest in someone who has shown no interest in you, the more they would hate you, and one day they will break up with you without any pity or regret.

The moment when someone who does not love you suddenly changes his or her mind and told you that he or she loves you, that is the day you need to take a step back, find everyone who has been waiting for true love and love them back.

When you beg for love, all that you get is pain. And when things get worse, everyone will be asking how it all went wrong, how to fix it and how to start over. But what they do not know is that there is no way to start over because the love has already died long ago.

A lot of people in marriages do not love each other. They find themselves in a situation where their parents and family pushed for it, or the person they wanted to marry went off the market, or there was pregnancy and they felt the need to stay together. But love is never a wrong choice, and people who marry without it tend to wonder if there can be a better option for them.

The thing is that marriage is supposed to be a paradise on earth.

A marriage without love is like a prison yard. It is like a scheduled meeting between two people who do not want to be together. The only reason why they are together at all is out of fear that a separation will cause worse problems to them.