April 22, 2022
It's another day today to celebrate the goodness of God in our lives. We are beyond thankful that God always gives His mercy and grace upon us to sustain us in what we needed every day.
Storyyyyy timeeeeee..............
My sister has a huge problem with her family right now. The main reason for their trouble now is because of an affair. This sister of mine had already four kids. She is a single mom right after her husband died years ago. So she is single now and ready to mingle. And we have no problem with that. Her 2nd child is a girl and already has a nice job as territory manager of a known company and already has a child too same age as my baby. She became the breadwinner of their family because she is the one who provides everything from food, electricity, water, and other stuff, especially to her baby. My sister has no stress about what to eat because her daughter sustains all. Her salary as a barangay secretary is for herself alone. In other words, she is so blessed already because she has a daughter who finances everything for their survival. This baby is left in my sister's care because the mother of the child is currently working at Mindanao for she was destined there. Last week, she came home to take a short vacation.
Just last week also, the long-time secret of my sister was being blown up. Indeed, no secret will never prevail. We as her sisters already knew that this sister of us has already had an affair but the sad part of it is that this sister of us never introduce the man to us and her own family. So, we always wonder why she never attempts to acquaint the man with us since it's okay with us if she has a boyfriend because we can understand her feelings. Her mistake is that she never introduce the man to her own family the reason last week that this sister of mine was being cornered.
It was Good Friday night last week when the trouble began to burst. This sister of mine came here to our place to visit us. She was alone. She didn't bring her children because she want to relax for some time. In the evening, we thought that this sister of us already gone home but she didn't. Our niece (my sister's daughter) chatted with us looking for her mom. To our surprise, our sister wasn't home yet. So, our thoughts became so dirty. We think of negative or more than that for we all knew that this sister of us has a something addicted to and that is her relationship with the guy.
At first, she denied that she had a boyfriend. But in the long run, the war between my sister and her daughter became worst. It came to the point of their fighting that this sister of mine curse her daughter just because she fight her love for the guy and she was so mad at her daughter. Her excuse was that she was tired of taking care of her grandchild for the reason that she doesn't have enough sleep at the night because of the baby. Her excuse is that she is tired of doing the unlimited laundry, and everything household chores. She said none helped her to make it all easier. She does the household chores alone though she had still two minors kids and can able to help her. But these two minors to are not willing to help their mother.
She was furious because her daughter contacted her boyfriend through chats. Her daughter gets mad at the guy because he ruins their family. The guy replied too they exchange random angry messages. Her daughter gets mad because the guy is married but was already separated last 2016.
To be honest, we have no problem with that. The problem is that this guy never has the plan to introduce himself to us the reason why we get mad at him too.
Up until this moment, my sister and her daughter are still at war. Not on good terms because no one lowers their pride. They both explode. They are both mad with each other. I don't know why my sister did it to her own family. She fights her love for her boyfriend that never gives her good terms with her family. My sister is already 49 years old but still wants to chase love. Hays. It's big chaos now in our family and hers. The possible solution is in her hands. She is the one who can solve it.
Her daughter went back to Mindanao for her work there with a burden on her heart because she and her mother smashed their relationship caused by love.
We as her sisters and family are not okay right now. We are also affected by the turmoil they have right now. We tried to fix them but unfortunately, we didn't make it because they both have high pride. For now, we just let them fix their trouble. We just prayed for them.
That would be all for today. Thank you for reading. God bless. 😇
I think it is better to be separated physically. They might regret what is is happening between them now. They will realize this someday.