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What You Don’t See

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3 months ago

Everyone has a different story, that’s the reason why we must never judge anyone.

Keep in your mind that if we judge someone, we are making opinions behind them without even trying to know enough about them. So if we make prior assumptions, we never get the chance to them about them completely.

Sometimes we need to get through behind to understand a person. Others can easily judge by just looking at them on the outside but the truth is that there is much more behind them that we are entirely unaware of.

These are the things What You Don’t See:

Grief...

            Some people choose to be silent because they do not want to share their loss, especially when they lost a loved one, ended their relationship, or going through personal hardship. They tend to keep these alone because there are motions that they need to suffer and heal alone.

Anxiety and stress…

            There are times that people hard to admit that they are struggling and pressured for certain reasons that somehow lead to depression.

Chronic Conditions…

            Some illnesses are not visible. Some people are trying not to speak up about their conditions because they have to or because they feel that they’re all alone.

So instead of judging people others by only what we see try to:

Be kind always

A simple act of kindness can be appreciated by them especially when they are going through difficult times. It has the potential to make everything happier than ever. It can also boost one’s confidence that encourages everyone to be in a positive living. Kindness leads everyone to positive mental and physical changes that can lower stress levels.  So be kind always, and be kind in all ways.

Check-In

Make time to know them and how they’re doing and make them feel that you’re listening to them. Checking in with them can make them feel that they support them that they can count on you and can turn to you in times of their needs. You can help them by reaching out to them with words that can lighten up their hearts. Letting them know that you’re there to talk with can make all the difference.

Think of their Needs

Make some interactions with them. Respect when they say that they need time to reflect and also the time when they want to share their feelings. Give them time and opportunity to express their feelings and emotions without hesitation and embarrassment. This is because not everyone is the same in taking of grief and suffering, they’re all different. Some ideas and suggestions will not be appropriate, so if you are unsure of how to support them, better to ask them what they need and wants. Just making them know that you care and wish to help them can make them feel great comfort.

We don’t know anything about their sufferings, or challenges. And even their past life. Always try to know first and understand them instead of criticizing and judging them because people are not always how they seem, there is always more behind them.

So instead of judging them, always be kind, check on them and know what they need.

Every person has a different story. Don’t read the page that is just opened in of you, there is always something behind them.  


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I couldn't say more. Always be kind with everyone.

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3 months ago

Indeed, and be considerate always. Thankyou so much!

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3 months ago

I agree with you teach. Lahat tayo may struggles in life and we should not compare ourselves with the progress of others. One day, all of these shall pass too.

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3 months ago

Tama ka diyan po. Everything is just temporary, and Gid will never leave us alone. Thankyou for dropping by.

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3 months ago

Exactly, we must listen and respect each one's emotions. We are all different , specially on how we deals with our personal problems.

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3 months ago

You're right, everyone has it's own way how to cope with their struggles so we must be careful and be considerate to one another. Be kind and spread love! Thankyou so much po for reading.

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3 months ago

That's why we should not invalidate other feelings because they've been through a lot and they are still facing their silent battles. So yeah, we should be kind and considerate always🤗

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3 months ago

Indeed Mayiee. There are silent battles that they are struggling to overcome, so being kind and considerate is a big thing for them, these way, they making them feel that they are still valued and loved. Thankyou so much, Happy Sunday!

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Kahit saan ka magpunta, isa lang ang pinakadapat mong gawin ang maging mabuti sa bawat makakasalamuha mo. Smile lang minsan sa stranger, nakakagaan na ng loob nila.

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3 months ago

Tama po! Dapat yan po ung mapractice tlga sa lahat, ang maging mabait sa lahat ng bagay at sa lahat ng pagkakataon. Kasi po kadalasan, may mga taong pinipili lang kung sino dapat ang pakitaan ng ganito, but not knowing na llahat ng tao jave different kind of situation na kailngan ng taong magpapagaan ng kalooban kahit simpleng pagbati at pag smile lanh. Thankyou po!

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3 months ago

Indeed, we must not judge someone. And also we shouldn't feel judged it hampers our development. I have experienced it.

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3 months ago

I agree with you Trofi, it's really sucks when somebody got to judged you before knowing the reasons behind. I hope you'll never experience it over again and same as everyone. We deserve to be genuinely happy and live in this world with love. Thank you, God bless you.

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