The Hardest Good-Byes!

This is the month of hearts but literally I’m writing about good-byes. But before I start this article, I just want to greet you a very late Happy Valentine’s! Spread Love.

For me, the hardest good-byes are the ones you don’t ever see coming. The ones you don’t plan and never imagine happening. Like one day you’re spending the day together but the next day will be your last day spent. There’s no sadder about that.

In this life, we will never know how long it takes for everyone to live on this earth or how long a person could stay by your side. You will never know how everything will end and that’s one of the scariest things about life,   we cannot predict any possibilities that could happen on earth that even in one snap everything could change, everything could go.

Sometimes the hardest goodbyes are the ones never said. It hurts so deeply, and it feels like dark clouds hanging in the back of my mind. Questioning all your worth and desperately finding all the reasons behind it. And it really left the hearts so empty that only tears can make you feel at ease.

It is really sad that sometimes the people or the moments that make you the happiest version of yourself become the reason for your deepest sorrow when they walked away. And the scar that they left behind haunts you every day that shattered your hearts away. Wishing for that person to come back and hoping for those memories to happen again really sucks, and it really hurts inside.

Despite the hardest goodbyes, always remember that God removes people from our life for a reason. We may not find out at first why while others left us at all. The only thing that we can do is to pray and trust it whatever the reason too.  We’re all trying our best to figure out why God is trying to remove someone from our life though we cannot deny that we still hang on to those people because we love them or because of the memories.

To all the good-byes that happened in our life sometimes, it is what is meant to happen.  Even if how hard it is or how painful it is, if it's God's will, it will happen even we are not forced to. People come and go, and life undergoes some constructions. There will always be special things that happen in every goodbye. Sometimes these good-byes become the window of someone’s motivations, emotional health, and an invitation to grow for a better version of themselves.

Life is too short to dwell on sadness and things that didn’t work out and regret from the past. All the ‘what-ifs, and if only” can greatly stop you from being happy. It’s how unpredictable life is, you will never know what will happen next in every minute.

So this could be a reminder to everyone of us that we must appreciate everyone while we have the chance. Spread love and live life to the fullest! Learn to let go,and accept things that you have no control.