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The beautiful thing about letting go!

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Written by   63
5 months ago

There are times that you’re afraid of the pain that you’d feel if you let go without realizing how much pain you’re in just trying to hold on.  Sometimes you just can’t do anything about everything, so you must let go, and you don’t have to be a prisoner to the things that you cannot change.

Some people choose to hold on because they think that they have to.  They put up all with the emotional abuse and all the pain that others inflicted on them, but then again they still hold on because they think that they have to. Some people choose to hold on because they feel bad if they choose and decide to let go and move on. Some people choose to stay because they are afraid of being alone. People hold on for the wrong reasons, that sometimes they cannot even understand their selves anymore even their hearts bleed and bruise.

But there comes a time that you need to ask yourself why? Why do you stay when you know that everything can be better? You’ve been holding on for far too long, and it’s time to let go, it’s time to rest, you’ve been exhausted for too long. It’s time to move on.

Some people see that one of the hardest things to do in life is walking away, but it’s not, it’s staying despite the pain. Even if nobody talks about how hard is to let go of the things that of longer serve you, keep in mind that you’re just a human. You have to move forward!

Yes, letting go of all the things and people that you’re not ready to say goodbye to and the attachment you have to get rid of will never get easy. Despite of that, always remember that in the next chapter of your life, you may not see it yet, but definitely that your story will get better. You’ll get to go to new places and know other people that will give you new hope. You’ll achieve things you thought are impossible to achieve.

Remember that life opens up when you let go! You need to let go before you can see the worst thing that may happen if you stay. That is when faith steps in, and that’s where God steps in.

When everything gets heavy, it’s alright to let the raw fall down until you see the sun comes up again.  Remember that it takes losing what you’re settling for to make us realize the things that we truly deserve.

Remember that it’s not just because something has ended doesn’t mean it never should have been. You must live, you must learn, you must grow, and you must move on. One day you will realize that it had to happen to give you the lessons you needed to grow. It doesn’t break your heart forever, but rather, it will make you better and everything that hurts will surely pass.

Let things fall apart for now, and allow yourself to get hurt for a while, that’s alright. So when the time that you’re ready to get up, life will meet you with your fresh start.


 

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Letting go is painful but it woukd save us feom furthar pains as well.

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5 months ago

Indeed, and it helps us to grow to be the best version of ourselves.

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5 months ago

Shake it off, let go and move on lightly :) Easier said than done but it is really beneficial to us when we just let go instead of holding on to something that is not meant for us.

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5 months ago

Indeed, it's better for us to let go than to be a prisoner of pain. Yes, it's hard to let go and restart but in the end, it all worth it. Thankyou for reading 🤗

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5 months ago

I actually feel like you know me and you directly wrote this for me. I experience pain and heartbreak everyday yet I still refuse to let go. But reading this now, I feel it's high time I took that drastic step. Nice to meet you and thanks for the lesson. Looking forward to learning new things from your next articles. . Stay Blessed

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5 months ago

Thankyou so much for reading and appreciating my article. Nice to meet you. And it's my pleasure po. May gour heart be bless with love and peace. Everything haopens for a reason . Stay strong Michael :)

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5 months ago

Hello teacher, yes you are right we have to let go when pain overwhelm us. Life needs something to let go to all the burdens to easily move forward. Nice to meet you Teach.

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5 months ago

Nice to meet you too Lorelei. Yes, you're right. When things get burdens you with pain and toxicity, you must let go for you to move forward and be better. Thankyou for reading Lorelie.

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5 months ago

Sometimes holding on to people causes more pain than letting go, we have to learn when to stop and move on :) good article dear and nice to meet you 🥰

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5 months ago

Hello Lara 😊 Nice to meet you too. You're right, we need to know when and how to let go, especially when it's hurting you so much, and this pain becomes a hindrance for you to grow. Thankyou for reading Lara.

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5 months ago

Wonderful and nice meeting you . Your username here tells me more about you actually you are a great teacher who teaches great wisdom . You have tells me more about letting things go when we get hurt we should let it go cause there is always more to celebrate than to sorrows for . Nice meeting you mam

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5 months ago

Nice meeting you too Captainkay :) it will always be my pleasure . And, i totally agree with you, letting go may not be easy to do, you must do it anyway for you to free your heart from all the pain and let yourself be happy. Choose positivity! God bless you.

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5 months ago

Thanks so much mam looking ahead for your next articles 🔥

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5 months ago

Thankyou again Captainkay, looking ahead also for your next articles. 😊

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5 months ago

I just remembered something to let go of, However, I am not afraid of anything or anyone to let go of. It's just that I think if I let go and don't give a damn about and when they return and don't find me there, they will be broken.

Very beautiful post Jen. Have a smiling day like your photo.

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5 months ago

Thank you so much Trofi :) Whatever happens and whatever it takes, letting go will be hard first but we can discover later on while we have to let go.

Thankyou so much fro reading! God bless you.

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5 months ago

Did you spam my comment? sorry to ask, but I do not know why my comment is in your spam folder.

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5 months ago

I didn't mean it. It's just so happen. How to solve this? Please help me.

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5 months ago

in your notification, when you see my comment there is an option to unspam it.

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5 months ago

Can you reply to this message again, cause whenever i get back to notifications, I can't see yours again. Huhu im so sorry

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5 months ago

No, don't be sorry! it's ok:)

You didn't do it deliberately, but please unspam me)

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5 months ago

Is there another option, i can't see unspam in notifications. Huhu

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5 months ago

ok, here- 1- go to notification

2- click on filter

3- click on comments and replies

4- go on to my first reply in that notification which you spammed accidentally. there is the option to undo.

5- click on Undo, hahaah

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5 months ago

Huhu I'm truly sorry about this. My bad 😔

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5 months ago

Alright, leave it. be happy. It doesn't matter. what's done is done. Take care and good night

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5 months ago

I'm using my mobile phone awhile ago so maybe i can't see there the undo so i used my laptop then luckily i found it. Sorry again

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5 months ago

I already unspam you, sorry again. I'll make sure that this will never happen again. I don't mean it . I'm so sorry . Goodnight.

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