The beautiful thing about letting go!

There are times that you’re afraid of the pain that you’d feel if you let go without realizing how much pain you’re in just trying to hold on.  Sometimes you just can’t do anything about everything, so you must let go, and you don’t have to be a prisoner to the things that you cannot change.

Some people choose to hold on because they think that they have to.  They put up all with the emotional abuse and all the pain that others inflicted on them, but then again they still hold on because they think that they have to. Some people choose to hold on because they feel bad if they choose and decide to let go and move on. Some people choose to stay because they are afraid of being alone. People hold on for the wrong reasons, that sometimes they cannot even understand their selves anymore even their hearts bleed and bruise.

But there comes a time that you need to ask yourself why? Why do you stay when you know that everything can be better? You’ve been holding on for far too long, and it’s time to let go, it’s time to rest, you’ve been exhausted for too long. It’s time to move on.

Some people see that one of the hardest things to do in life is walking away, but it’s not, it’s staying despite the pain. Even if nobody talks about how hard is to let go of the things that of longer serve you, keep in mind that you’re just a human. You have to move forward!

Yes, letting go of all the things and people that you’re not ready to say goodbye to and the attachment you have to get rid of will never get easy. Despite of that, always remember that in the next chapter of your life, you may not see it yet, but definitely that your story will get better. You’ll get to go to new places and know other people that will give you new hope. You’ll achieve things you thought are impossible to achieve.

Remember that life opens up when you let go! You need to let go before you can see the worst thing that may happen if you stay. That is when faith steps in, and that’s where God steps in.

When everything gets heavy, it’s alright to let the raw fall down until you see the sun comes up again.  Remember that it takes losing what you’re settling for to make us realize the things that we truly deserve.

Remember that it’s not just because something has ended doesn’t mean it never should have been. You must live, you must learn, you must grow, and you must move on. One day you will realize that it had to happen to give you the lessons you needed to grow. It doesn’t break your heart forever, but rather, it will make you better and everything that hurts will surely pass.

Let things fall apart for now, and allow yourself to get hurt for a while, that’s alright. So when the time that you’re ready to get up, life will meet you with your fresh start.