I'm At The Point In My Life Where...

As they say, experiences is the best teacher, it makes every individual become better, stronger and smarter. Through our experiences we were able to learn the things that no one has ever taught us. Experiences that made us realize and learn different things in life and through these realizations, we were also able to be at the point where we understand ourselves so much. In this article, I will share my life, realizations and lessons I got from my past. Let's start with this words, "I'm at the point in my life where...", let's begin.

I'm at the point in my life where I don't have expectations anymore

Having zero expectation is what I've learned this pandemic. I had so much expectations before that also caused me to be in pain at the end when they all didn't happen. My zero expectation are in general like as in almost in everything, people, things or even situations. I just keep in my mind that most of the things won't happen the way how we think and planned it. Too much expectation will just hurt us so bad so better limit it or just think balanced, expect the best and expect the worse at the same time so we are prepared for the possible outcomes.

I'm at the point in my life where I am more focused on myself and goals

From what I've experienced recently, I think love won't be part of my priorities as of now. However, love could be my inspiration in achieving these things but on the other side, love could also ruin me, my mental, emotional and even my physical health. I was at my lowest during that time but I am now slowly recovering from that experiences. I am just trusting time as of now, because time is one of the best healers. Back to the main topic, as of now focusing on my goals and in myself are really my priorities. I am more concerned to my future than to my lovelife LOL.

I'm at the point in my life where goodbyes are very common to me

Adulting will make us realize that most of the things in life are not meant to last. Since I'm currently at the early stage of adulthood, I've already noticed that most of the people I met are like buses and I'm the waiting shed, they come, they stop for a while and they go. Some still remembers me but most became a strangers again. But I can't do anything about that as everyone are also experiencing or have experienced that. They may leave us but the memories and lessons we learned from them will forever stays on us.

I'm at the point in my life where I find it's no longer necessary to impress anyone

I remember during my teen age years, I was so concious about the number of likes that my photo would get from my IG posts. Now, I can't find it to be necessary anymore like how it was for me back then. I don't care anymore if people will like me, adore me or hate me. I was not born to be perfect in everyone's eyes. I was not born to impress anyone other than myself. If they don't like me or they do like me, it's still the same for me, I don't care.

I'm at the point in my life where I am at the midst of transformation

I can say now that I'm in the middle of my transformation, I was able to get here because of the experiences, struggles, pains and realizations that I've been through from the past years. I called it transformation as I am slowly letting go of my old self, my old weak self. I'm in the process of being a better, smarter and stronger version of my self. As I enter the new chapter of my life, I gradually learned to let go of the unnecessary bags that I keep on holding on for too long which also caused me to struggle. You know when we have big and heavy bags, we can't enjoy our adventure as we have something heavy on our shoulders and hands. Much better to release them. Let our empty bags be filled with new things we got from that adventure. Because letting go could be the first step for our transformation in becoming the better version of us.

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