Broken Hearted? Read This

These past few days became tough for me as someone broke my heart again and guess who did it, the one whom I really love.

Have you ever experienced being broken hearted? No doubt why "Broken Hearted" is the term used when a person is in pain. Because the word itself is what we literally feel when we are going through this kind of suffering. In my case, whenever someone hurt me, my heart feels so heavy that causing me to breath heavily for the whole time. I can't barely stand straight on my own as my heart weighs so much inside my chest. Aside from being heavy, I feel like it seems to have a wound inside that's why I feel like there is a part in my heart that is really hurting me, feels like someone sliced it. It beats so fast too caused by our emotions from what we have knew.

Being broken hearted cannot only happen on a romantic relationship. It could be when we lose the one whom we love the most like our love ones, friends or pets. We could feel this too when we lose a opportunity that we really really want to grab. As a result, we tend to forget ourselves when we are broken hearted. We lose our will and interest in everything we used to do before. We feel like everything we see seems so plain. It's hard for us to smile or laugh. We feel unmotivated in life. We can't focus ourselves from what we are doing and it is really hard for us to think of new ideas.

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From being unmotivated and extremely sad these days, browsing on the internet became my escape from this silent battle. But from that supposed escape only, browsing and watching videos became the reason as well why I am here now, writing this blog of mine. A couple of days ago, I don't know what to do in my life again, I don't know where to start and I don't know anymore how will I overcome this until I watched a certain video on the internet. A video about why we need to get hurt. As I watch that video, it made me cry and realized a lot of things.

What are my realizations?

Things don't grow because of sun, we gotta have some rain

This line hit me so much at that time. I was focused on my emotions to the point that I no longer look for a solution that would help me lessen the pain I feel. All I just want to do is to lay on my bed and cry. But after I heard this, it served as an eye opener to me. This is really true, just like a plant, we will not be able to grow and bloom from being under the sun only, we need to be exposed in the rain too. Every heart breaks should not be considered as a difficult moment only but also a lesson one that would help us grow in the form of being stronger and wiser.

"If you don't laugh again on the same joke, don't cry again on the same thing"

-Charlie Chaplin

Don't let ourselves stay trapped in the situation where we feel like we are not we are. It's okay to feel sad. It's okay to cry because sometimes it's okay not to be okay as they're really part of our life. From the word itself, it is only a part not our whole life. If we ever find ourselves that we no longer laugh at the things we used to laugh before, so why would we stay on being sad from the same things for too long too? That's what we called "move on". So don't make being stressed a hobby. We need to make progress even if it is really hard to make one at the beginning but it's a must. We, humans were made to grow and learn because life is an adventure. Life is a constant learning.

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Being heart broken can be one of the most painful part in our life. But we can't all deny it that from our past relationships, we learned something from it. Not just in relationships but we could also learn from our loss from love ones or anything that caused us to feel hurt. They may not ended happily that one everyone wish for, but there are things we should be still thankful for, and that's are the lessons they left us.

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