MOVING ON đ
Moving on is a process. It takes time to heal. Moving on doesnât mean you forget the person or anything. It means that the memories doesnât bother you anymore.
TO MOVE ON easily, you have to first acknowledge why what happened happened. When you accept what happened, you tend to understand why it happened. And then forgive the other person( if thatâs the case). Forgiving someone makes moving on so much easier. Then you can start by removing or avoiding things that remind you of them. It can be gifts, pics, social media etc whatever that is for you. Then get yourself âbusyâ or âoccupiedâ with your work or a hobby/passion. This is the time to do things for âyourselfâ. Get together with friends and family. Slowly you will find yourself getting over the person. Its not easy, but keep doing it till it gets better. The key thing before everything is- Accept, understand & Forgive.
And please, NEVER USE SOMEONE ELSE TO MOVE ON. A lot of people tend to this. They get with some other person in order to forget or move on from a particular person. This only worsens up everything;not only your but the other personâs life as well.
You should never use a person as an instrument to heal your wounded heart. Heal yourself and the try to love again.