Looking into self confidence

No one borns with self confidence.

Confidence is abstract thing but it contain an energy which can spread in the environment. Your surroundings will feel that energy.

The energy/vibe of of confidence should be in it's optimum level. Over and below of the optimum will scatter the stories emerging inside you. Self confidence is made up with two words. First of all you need to find your self. Exploring yourself is the biggest task which can take time but, once you found yourself then life will look smooth to you just like skating on ice.

Well, skating on ice is also not an easy thing to you. Means to say this ; on the journey to find yourself you will become an expert and you will think in rational way. Once you will discover yourself which was buried inside then confidence will shine on the top of your personality because confidence only can come if you have found your skill on which you are expert and that particular thing is your asset to excel in your life. In journey to find your "self"you need to submerge into your personality. There are so many interest floating in the sea of your personality. You cannot carry all those interest equally. There must be a single interest which would be your favorite. If you are in difficulty to find your favourite interest. You should take part in different interest and at the end , the work in which you think, this work is not looking work it's more like fun. Believe me that would be your interest and working on interest you will be a skillful person . That ability and knowledge of skill will become your confidence.

People usually think ; confidence is a thing which is God gifted. No , it's not. Life is strongly linked with you. God have given you ability to think, improve, fall and of rise. It's up to you, how you will consume that energy? There is a super hero laying inside all of us. We just have to spirit up the super hero. There is positive and negative energies laying inside you. You should sparkle the positive side of yours personality and then miracles happens.

Society is deeper in negative energy. The day you will tell them your plan. Everything which will be around you will be negative and you can feel this; the society is negative towards your dreams. Work in silence don't tell anyone that your next move is going to be this or that.

Each day is a challenge and it will bring sufferings to you which are constant in your life like "k " is constant in chemistry. Leaving the life behind due to suffering is not the solution. Life is for living not for spending. You have right to see the sky with your own lense so see, anyone who is becoming hurdle put him aside.