Respect is backbone of every relation

Respect is defined as to pay due regards to other people. Respect is the feeling of kindness in heart of person. Respect is not related to the elder people the younger ones also need respect. That is why respect is backbone of every relationship if there is no respect then there would be no relationship and that relationship will end soon on bad note. If one want to keep his relationships alive he should give respect to others only then he would be able to receive the same quality of respect . Respect is not related to just showing kindness and humble regards it is closely linked to heart. If you are giving respect to another just on his face such respect is not regarded as respect.

Respect is not earned it is given

Many of us has listened this quote that respect is not earned it is given. Respect has no link with having money and having authority the person who is junior or senior deserved to be respected. If you want that other people give you respect then there is a single formula of give and take respect it is a two way process it gives strength to relations. The people who are elder to us they need respect we should keep in mind when that one day we will also get old. So that respect which we give to them the same we will get.

Listen and be present:

Psychology says that if you want to make friendship and you want that your friendship last for long time you should listen to your friend eighty percent and twenty percent you should talk. Listening carefully is a category of giving respect. Let suppose our parents calls us obviously we will listen to them and remain present there because we have respect level in our heart for our parents because they are everything for all of us.

Care for other's feelings

We should always remain thoughtful regarding the feelings of other people. We should keep in our mind that our words should remain soft when we are talking to others. Our words should not be proven harsh and not become the reason for crashing the heart of the next person because the feelings matter.

Thanks and sorry

Saying thanks and sorry is the beautiful part of conversation. Whenever we are going wrong we should apologize for the mistake which we have done. It removes all the misconception in the next person's mind. When something you have taken from your friend or he helped you out then thanks should be complementary part. By saying sorry and thanks no one decrease his standard even it increase the respect for you because you have accepted you mistake and you are repenting over it. If there is not your mistake and other person is stubborn then you should also apologize for nothing because when you want that your relationship never ends so it is the best key.

Address mistake with kindness

If we have observed that the other person is going wrong then we should first understand the situation in which all that things are happening we should not have judging nature first. We first should examine all the scenario and then if the person has done bad we should give him advice and talk to him nicely because the purpose is making improvement not to destroy and demoralizing other. We should not address his mistake in crowd let say in class or in gathering rather then we can make correction when no one is there in this way he will also not feel down and he will try his best for the next time.

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Decision making on what is right and what is wrong

Fair decision making is also a part of respect in relationship of someone has given you the authority to make decisions then it's mean that the person has faith on your decision whatever you take and he will accept it with all heart. So it is also the responsibility of the person who is taking decision that he should not be biased in taking decision the good way to take decision is listening to both the parties and then discuss with the other members who have authority less than you then you have right to finalize the whole problem based on right and wrong . If you take fair decision then it will increase the respect in the eye of other person and if your decision is not fair then other will denied to accept.

Respect physical boundaries

Everyone has his own self esteem and if the other person try to break the self esteem then the relations ends. Everyone has set some boundaries if you try to cross those boundaries this will turn you in bad person and your respect in others eye will decrease. People should have respect for others and respect the physical boundaries of other

Live and let live

In this world, full of humans everyone has right to live in way in which he is comfortable we are no one to make comments over them. Obviously they have life and they know what is best for them and what is not. The only problem in our society that we are so much free to make comments over others personality. We are only seeing the one side of a person may be he has gone through harsh environment and faced so many things in his life which turned his personality so.

End Note

Life is unpredictable no one knows that when life will ends so it is necessary and the time which we have in this world should live in such way that we the time come for going from this world we have made such space in the heart of the people that even we had gone everyone remembers us in their prayer. Life has become like a fast machine we have no time for other people and have to sit with them we are wasting so much time and engaged all the time with electronic gadgets if we manage our time and sit with our grandparents and father mother , talking to them will give us a special feel .