It's fine not to be fine

It's fine to make mistakes. It's fine to feel depressed. It's fine to come from a poor background. It's fine to have big teeth. It's fine to hate mathematics. It's fine to have mood swings. It's fine to be shy. It's fine to experience whatsoever. It's fine not to be fine!!!

But do you know what is not fine?

It's when you just relax and do nothing to help that situation you find yourself in.

I will use myself as an example, I was once a very shy girl. I never talked in class, in the church or at any gathering. Even at home, I prefer being in my room when everyone else is in sitting.

It was so bad that I was tagged an introvert, I got to know my real self last year - the corona era precisely.

I had always been a chorister in church right from the children's section but had never handled the microphone.

I always hid among other choristers. Thank God I'm tall, the back row was always my position.

I first handled the microphone as a soloist in two thousand seventeen. That experience was something else...

If I wasn't lucky, the microphone would have fallen off my hand.

Even though I won't say I'm a pro yet, I'm 10times better than before. So the first step is to acknowledge your situation and problem and then tackle it. All successful people once passed through a dark tunnel.

Forget the smiling faces. They once cried.

Dear, can you start taking the right decision that will make your future bright from now?

Yes, you can!

Trust me, you will be glad you did this in the nearest future.

If you got value, you can say a positive speech about your future below?

LITTLE BEGINNINGS

Beginnings are never easy

Just as a little child crawls,  and stumbles before walking flawlessly is the same way our beginnings are.

When I kick off my journey and fail

Should I keep trying or

should I revolve my back never to rise?

These were the thoughts going through Ngozi's mind as she held her fourth rejection letter within a couple of days.

She had submitted her Application letter to be employed as an Optometrist to four different hospitals but all were repudiated.

At this point, she was depressed, she felt like the world was on top of her and had prepared to give up.

She couldn't go on living this way. How would she go further without any means of sustenance?

Nevertheless, Ngozi kept on pushing and hoping that one day she will succeed.

The prime Optometrist at the University Of Benin Teaching hospital. Who could the person be?

Finally, Ngozi had her aspirations before her eyes. After two years of countless rejection letters, she finally got a place of Work.

If success is a reward and happiness is a choice, then you must begin by taking the right steps.

Little beginnings often make great endings.

All her rejections were building her up to this significant moment!  when the Chief Optometrist who used to be her classmate will

volitionally make her the heir. What a blast!!

In today's world, most people are middlings. It is time we say goodbye to fears, discouragement, laziness and any kind of negative feeling that bring about regression in life.

Little beginnings don't mean you won't make it big in life it is just the starting point of a victorious life. The end has to Explode the efforts you put in to excel in certain situations.

Beginnings are never easy but they are the driving force to a great end.

Don't be discouraged when you Fall like a child learning to walk, but always stand and make progress.

SECRET OF SUCCESS

One reason people never discover the success they are looking for is because they give up easily and too soon.

They throw in the towel just before uncovering the enormous mystery of accomplishment. A great number of individuals also come across this secret of success unknowingly, yet they don't realize it when they see it. This secret looks them in the face but they turn away from it because it looks different from what they hope it would be.

  At the same time, some who can identify this secret failed to apply it. They allow little things to deter their application of this secret, little things like fear, procrastination and lack of self-discipline.

One big truth we failed to identify is the truth about our world and nature. The truth is that we live in a world where the majority embrace average things because they like things coming easy with no risk.

We tend to look for the simplest, fastest and shortest route to our destination, the same is the nature of success. Sadly, too many of us still operate on these types of minimums, we are maximizing our returns. Though it is a thing of nature but development around the world has turned things over, therefore taking risks and going the extra mile is the big secret to success.

STRIVE, the secret to success is in this word. In other words one needs to strive by going the extra mile, being extraordinary and making EXTRA a part of you.