Never Give Birth if You Are Not Ready

Seeing endless news about babies disposed on the bins, on the canals and even on the middle of the road is so heartless. Can you say they are better than those who aborted their child? There's no difference from the two. Both are improper and incorrect decision of planning a child. We can make a new human form anytime but it's not fun to disregarded our responsibilities.

For others, it's better dumping the baby rather than killing it inside. If you are a real human being can you stand to see the innocent babies on the middle of the road with a big chance of being eaten by the dogs? We don't know the reasons why they chose to throw their babies, could it be due to the future embarrassment? Lack of financial support to raise the baby? We don't know why.

There are babies who grow as child but they work earlier at their age to support the family needs. Is this a trap for these children? They didn't chose to be born yet it feels like it was their fault that they were born. They do not have the chance to experience the beautiful childhood years as what is expected to be in their age because they are already burdened and inclined with responsibilities to work and earn for day to day life. It's very sad but it's true. I don't understand why some parents blame their children for being born in this world when in fact they are the one who is responsible for bringing that child.

It's easy to give a life but it's hard to support a life.

It's easy to give a new a human being in this world but it's hard to sustain lives. Some think about giving birth as a part of life and nothing more. Giving birth to a new human being means it is your whole responsibility to support it throughout the years until it fully grow up. Some chose to give birth and let the world do the rest. If you are a good parent, you will think about the life and the future of your child. So many unfortunate kids grow up without knowing life should be good to them since they are kids because they grow up in a tough situations doing what adults are supposed to do.

Some who have lost their path.

I know some unwanted pregnancies causes rushed decision. This caused the mental health to deteriorate and the person to live in despair. These are the tough times where we don't have to judge but instead we need to listen and comfort. If someone was in this situation, you need to be wise on the words you will say because you don't know what was running to their minds during those situations.

Abortion is bad. Dumping the baby anywhere is bad. They are both the same act of inhumanity. We are the reasons for their suffering and struggles in life. If you cannot provide the child anything and everything he/she needs then never give life to this world. Only when you are ready and prepared to do so. Let us stop giving lives only to be lived in hell. If you have the heart to care about their situations and the mind to understand about their situations then you wouldn't chose to bear a life only to be thrown in misery.

So is it right to abort because you didn't let the child suffer alive?

For me abortion is really cruel. Even when the child doesn't have its thinking capability yet, I still find it inhumane to take off a life. If we legalize abortion then anyone wouldn't care if they are bearing many babies because they know anytime they can kill it. That's why abortion shouldn't be treated as a runaway and escape solution.

If others find it easy to create a new human being then they should also think that the responsibility is opposite to the word easy. Once you become a parent, you are a parent forever. If you refuse to take care of the child then the child would lose its way. We don't know that child one day would took the wrong path and will chose evil deeds over the good one. We can give life but are we capable to provide the living life?

March 25, 2022