Your Tribe: Not Conflicting Habits But Like Interests
James Clear stated it, "Our environment, our tribe are those not with conflicting habits but as much as possible those who have like interests with us." rephrase.
Even Dr. Joe Dispenza in his youtube channels have been discussing this, -our environment can shape the "genes" we have, when? Let's continue... Birds of the same feather flock together. What a clear statement regarding tribes right?
Aren't our genes came from parents and elders' elders? Yes in the natural explanation they are our first tribes, but it was Jesus who've said - "In me you will no longer be under the natural source like Adam, under the generational curses of your family and carnality. I will no longer have the records of your "genes" mischiefs, you will rise higher, above those carnality and live in me, sitting with me in heavens".
Kids in their early ages 7 or below are easily programmed of the people surrounding them. They will carry those habits (even those they don't like) until they choose the right lifestyle and have a conscious mind and way of living not to copy the unacceptable behaviours they've witnessed early on.
If those kids saw us speaking and doing good, they can copy it. If they hear us bad mouthing others, if they see more crimes and not properly guided by elders, it might be unconsciously programmed in them and that we don't favor. Thanks be to God, He sent us His Spirit to set boundaries to prevent us from harming ourselves.
I was once a child, I know how it feels when you do things out of your true behaviour but you did it anyway. Until I became conscious of what shall I do, thanks to the Holy Spirit who convicts me everytime (aside from parent's or caring elder's help).
Us as being models of the young minds have such responsibility to study ourselves as well, self-evaluation is a big help that will benefits the next gen in the long run.
As adults we are now responsible to unlearn the things we had and "inherited" that no longer serving the life and the communities we dreamt of.
Sometimes learning new things out of our natural family history means meeting new spiritual family, new people that will show us how to live with a purpose, with humble richness, with fair perspectives & equal opportunities.
Sometimes having our genuine tribe means travelling on the other side of the globe, leaving your familiar territory of ungrowing old friends or relatives. (Not forgetting them totally, better to remember the good memories instead)
Sometimes it's leaving the house temporarily to meet the other street's family. Caring for what's missing and shaping the minds into creating a productive future.
A good environment will nourish the best lights in us, programming our genes into the likeness of Christ.
Let's admit it, there are times we are asking, hoping that someone could redeem us from our misery, from sufferings, depression or poverty.
Yes because everyone needs a saviour and transforming our minds into life and it's abundance is what the Holy Spirit is working on in us.
The saviour is actually in us- Christ in you- the power is within us to bounce back or rise up from our old bad programming and if the old environment we would like to cast out was planted in us, good news, we then have the authority to pluck it out.
It is never too late.
Each and every person has their own stages of development and we will meet people who have conflicting habits than ours. So move on, move out if needed.
Maybe the reason why we have met them is to know which habits we would like to leave behind or stop, or how to deal with like situation one day or how to prevent their troubles happening in you.
Opposition is the other wall that can put us to the right places and teams.
Work on yourself, you will know what to do because the Holy Spirit will teach you, men may fail to tell you better solutions but God in you & upon you cannot.
There are billions of people around and for sure you will find the good tribe doing your habits and like interests.
You will find those who inspires you, those who are doing what you imagine you will do. Be that person your tribes project also, we are free to use our minds or imagination.
Reprogram you, the Christ in you knows what to do.
Be that environment you want to be surrounded yourself & the next gen.
In my Spirit this is what I wish too, I hope you'll know which are yours.
Here's cheering on you finding your tribe with good habits, nourishing and enriching interests,
SuperJulalaine💗
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You're right sis, we should be a good model to the young ones. Let Jesus as our model too. May we have a Christ like character that our kids can copy.