The Mirror: Your Self High-Fivers, Enjoy & Love You

When you face the mirror what do you see or think? Do you reject you & afraid to see your reflection or compare others with you & vice versa?

Mel Robbins said that "50-60% of men & women will not or do not look themselves in a mirror because they don't like the person that they see & if you can't even look yourself in the eyes that's in the mirror, that is a habit of self-rejection! That means you're starting your day by rejecting yourself.

You don't like what you see. You don't like you.

That's why many of us race out into the world & seek validation from partners & friends & caregivers & boyfriends & girlfriends & bosses because we haven't even give ourselves the respect we deserve."

We invalidate ourselves, our image & likeness & we search or grab it from others when we can't give it ourselves & when others failed us because we expect them to give it to us, relationship chaos starts, complains, comparison & negative connotations spread like a virus because our nervous system will look for the evidences of being devalued & not seen or heard etc. We see what we think they are & hard to see ourselves in that mess.

"We thought" we lack the attention, we lack worth & unappreciated & don't deserve that & this.

Healthy relationship to ourselves encourage us to have a beautiful, healthy relationships to others too because we can see their worth just as how we are loved & valued.

1 John 4: 19 We love because He first loved us. 20 Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. 21 And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister. Source

Self trash talking is more detrimental to our image & mental than other's opinion of us. Starting the day by rejecting yourself & don't like to even glance your reflection in a mirror, set up your neurons into "I'm no one, I'm old, I'm poor, I'm negative, I'm not good, I'm not lovable, I don't deserve bla bla bla..."

(Except when you don't have any mirror or in a rush 😅 seeing it)

When we look into the mirror we shall not "spell" those thoughts "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?" That is another negative self-talk that makes you proud or arrogant because it uplifts you but belittle other ladies or men around you.

Bad comparison neurons don't improve us.

I face the mirror at times in a day. I enjoy it & may my neurons be in the proper thinking of not belittling others just because I look good in there instead it will inspire me more to appreciate others just the way I am worthy and loved by God, by the Spirit, from His lense.

Cast away the negativity & toxicity within you that comes out from your body, mind & spirit & that is manifesting to your relationships or tasks.

Easier said than done? We all have nervous system, we all have mind & body. If others did it so we can.

The mirrors are not for "witches" but invented for our good too. Let's call them happy mirror from now on!

Our eyes are the window of our whole bodies, of toxic or good thoughts, use your eyes healthily to see you & others, let's try it once or twice until it's mastered.

Our hearts are the door of being valued & deserving, be open to the knock & warmth welcome the radical love of a loving Father from above. It will transform you.

The mirrors are our positivity magnifiers so the negativity & self-doubt we feel & think reduce to tiny zero.

Start your day not by negative self-trash talk but appreciate him or her, be grateful, apply the Philippians 4:8 of honorable thoughts etc. & seize the day with zest & joy.

The self that we inside, we hope is the same self projecting healthily to & from others. Mirror what's good.

Here's cheering on your beautiful reflection,

SuperJulalaine 💗

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