Privacy & Boundary: Respected

December 15, 2022. I've listened to this video and content earlier & would like to share some take aways and reactions.

The content was so good that learning from the preacher is like listening to my own voice, that agrees and speaks "so be it".

Personal space or privacy as what we call it is required most when we want to contemplate or think of important things, or just to be alone because of a tiring, stressful or even of joyful day (daydreaming is for the young ones or the students we have here).

Familiarity sometimes spoil this personal space, just because we know something about someone or we know them, doesn't mean we have the entire right to tell everyone all of their stories we had in mind or heard from someone about them.

Closeness doesn't guarantee a respected boundary, sometimes it only distort the image of the person this other one is trying to put in the spotlight of his /her story. We can also know an individual by their stories, they say. We can know if this person has self-control that might lead us into interrupting or envading a personal space that we should give respect in the first place.

He was correct in saying "as much as possible if you can, don't eavesdrop from a conversation", kindly go away from that situation and try not to listen. Don't enter a conversation you don't have any idea as well, you have a mind that can think and balancing a sitution when you already heard it is essentials so we don't get involve in things in which we shall set a boundary and know nothing about.

Let them have a privacy most when it's personal and not work related.

I know that some of you are introverts and the extroverts are not excluded in asking for a personal space. Everybody has that moment "leave me alone or don't touch me". Let others process their emotions as that will heal them and clear their minds, if we are not experts or know them well, just let them have an alone time or advice to go to therapy on their will.

Even if we know someone nearby, gossipping about their personal things or trying to destroy that image by exposing everything to those who have no clue of what we're talking, is like scandalizing a one-sided story so to as envade that which we shall not.

Sensitivity if not overdo let us respect the person's boundary, if they don't want to talk about a long time ago memories that they have already forgotten, just give them that space.

We all need that.

There is always a season for silence and loud noise. Let people feel it, the mourn, the happiness, whatever it is that they need to process.

May we able to tell new and respected factual stories that will keep us healthy, in mind, body and soul.

Here's cheering on your personal space and privacy,

SuperJulalaine💗

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