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Puberty ALWAYS Does it Right!
I am pretty sure that you have seen many photos that have description 'Puberty did it well' or 'Puberty you are doing it right'. And, I will put here a couple of those photos that i have found on the Interent, so you can see them, and later, you can realize my point.
https://baklol.com/baks/Celebs/Well-Played-Puberty-Well-Playe-_1762/2
https://baklol.com/baks/Celebs/Well-Played-Puberty-Well-Playe-_1762/2 Those are just two examples. And, point of those photos is to say that those people were ugly, before puberty, while they were kids. There is someone out there, who is finding photos of people, famous and not famous people, while they were kids, comparing them with photos of those people that were made when they grew up. Of course, those photos cannot be same. We cannot look the same at age of 11 for example and at the age of 21. And, that does not mean that we were ugly at the age of 11. Children cannot be ugly. Nobody can be ugly. We are all pretty. We all look great. Everyone is pretty. And puberty ALWAYS DOES IT WELL! VERY WELL!!! Puberty helps you to grow up, to develop into a healthy human being. Growing up does not mean that your breasts will grow and that you will get six pack. Growing up means that many things in your body will happen, and also in your mind. All those things that would be happening will help you to become a normal, healthy person. And you should apprecitate that. We all should appreciate that. I always feel bad when I see that someone is doing those comparations. This may hurt someone, someone who is still passing trough puberty, someone who is too young for puberty, someoneo who did not change during puberty. There are many people out there, who do not have self condifence, who do not love themselves, who are alone, who think that they are alone, who are sad... Those photos can destroy them. People are very cruel sometimes, and people are sometimes making other feel better, and they do not even know what they are doing, and that is totally wrong. PRETTY PLEASE, THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING. Maybe, it seems funny to you, maybe it seems like it is nothing to you. But, trust me, it can be a big deal, it can have serious consequences. Do not do that to others.
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Of course we can't look the same in puberty as adults ... When I just remember my eyebrows and rosy cheeks from the period of puberty, I'll be funny to myself :)
I think that nowadays many people are making jokes out of people who are passing trough puberty. That is not okay, they should not be doing that, it can be really harmful in some situations.
During puberty period my friends enjoyed in parties, changed clothes, traveled. I just played basketball 😃 and read books
That is great! Everyone can chose, everyone can decide what he or she will be doing during puberty and during whole life.
I survived three puberties, the worst was with my son hehe
It is difficult sometimes, but it has it purpose, and it is very important for every person.
Alas, we will still be in puberty, a catastrophe.
I think that point of puberty is to become an adult person, not to become pretty, I mean we cannot become pretty, we are all born pretty. Beauty don ot have any standards, and young peopls should focus on growing up and not on being pretty to someone else.
Puberty begins in girls at the age of 12 and in boys at the age of 14.Thats when their body stars to change.
Their bodies are changing, but that is normal. Nobody should be making those photos, before and after puberty.
Puberty is a normal phase in the life of every person, our ancestors talked about what kind of puberty it did not once exist :)
And, we all should accept it, just the way it is.
At first, I flew through my puberty like a nuclear-powered rocket, but with my children, here I am for the fourth time at the beginning with a thousand torments and problems. Worst of all, I know the problem on a professional level, but the theory is one thing and real life and circumstances are something completely different. I understand everything you wrote and I would have to write about it in the next year ...
I know that sometimes, it is difficult, specially, when you are a parent. But, there should not be people, who are judging to our children because they do not look their best during puberty. Also, it is normal to change in that period. And, the point of it is not to be prettier than you were before it.
For me personally, today's value systems are a total out. And children need to be taught to have their own standards of what is good or bad and also what is good and what is not. If they are only their own, they have huge opportunities to cope with today's circus festivals.