Find what you love...

...and let it kill you!

This maybe, sonunds stupid, brutal, silly, funny, impossible...(add whatever you think now) to you. But, let's talk a bit about it.

Passion

First of all, we need to learn how to make difference between love and passion. Passion is made of instincts. We have a instinct to do something, we cannot do it when we want to, and it becomes passion.

Passion is made out of basic instincts. That is why we need to learn how to control our passions, and how to make difference between passions and love.

There is not anything that intensive about love. Love is not intensive. Love is calm, peaceful, warm, nice...

Of course, many, many, many times passions are following love, and that is why love sometimes feel intensive, but it is not. Love is slow process, slow and longlasting process.

When someone loves you, and when you love someone, or something, you should feel peace in your soul when you think about it. If you feel fire, trust me, that is passion.

Love

Now, when we are clear about the difference between love and passion, it is time to talk about love.

When you love someone or sometihng, you will feel calm about that. Of course, if something what you love is endangered, you will feel need to protect it, you will feel anger, passion, sadness. And, you will protect what you love. If you do not feel extremely strong need to protect what you love, you do not love that truly.

Many feelings sometimes feel similar to love, many feelings can even imitate love. Do not let that fool you.

Pain

Love is pain.

Pain is love.

NO, NO, NO!

Love can be painful to someone, we can feel pain because of love sometimes, but that should not be the point. That is not essence of love.

Love is nice, warm, happy...

Pain sometimes is a part of live, but it should not last long, pain should pass, and only positive things should be left to us.

Do not accept that love is pain, and that pain is love.

Maybe, bad things will happen to you. I cannot promise that they will avoid you, but I promise they will not last forever, and they are not love, they are just following love.

Let it kill you

When you find something what you truly love, what is real essence of your life, of your being, when you are sure that that is IT!

That is yours, that is you, and you are that.

You need to know that everything can go away, everything can be destroyed, everythingc an disappear.

Things and people that you truly love are now here, but nothing is forever. Those things may disappear, those people can leave.

And, when someone, who is love of your life, and when something what is essence of your life is no longer yours, that will kill you.

Inside, of course. You will not die, you will keep breatihng, but inside, you will feel like you are dead. No pain, no anger, no hate, and at the same time all together.

Everything and nothing.

Emptiness.

You will feel empty.

That is a kind of death.

That is even forse that stop breathing.

Death of your soul is worse that death of your body.

This maybe sounds horrible, but when you truly love something, you have to know that it may kill you.

This text is not here to make you stop loving.

IT IS HERE TO MAKE YOU KEEP WHAT YOU LOVE.

DO NOT LET IT DISAPPEAR.

DO NOT LET HIM/HER LEAVE.

SHOW YOUR LOVE.

LOVE AND BE LOVED.

I wish you all an easy Monday, and see you soon in next post.

Bye!