Forgiveness is a great quality that not everyone has. Asking for forgiveness is another quality that not all people have. Forgiveness can be of many kinds. He who forgives is a great man. There is a grudge in people that can't be forgiven very easily or don't want to do it or don't do it. Many people say I wouldn't forgive you even if I died Born, he can't forgive even if he dies.
Small things can be forgiven very easily. Usually the forgiveness of love is complicated, many times it goes to a much bigger stage, not going this way.
There are some things you can keep in mind when forgiving me.
Depending on what you apologize for, what he did is you get so wide on him. If the matter is small, then forgive him very easily. Don't think of anything. If he does the same thing for the second time, don't forgive him. It is better to stay away from him.
Sorry about the friends
It is very complicated because when the mind is dirty with your closest friend it goes too far. I had a good close friend and I was always with him. One of them went far away due to his studies. I am in one district he is in another district, home but in the same area. Slowly he moved away. He looked much worse than me. We haven't talked for almost 3 years with a very close friend. Let's settle everything later. He has to do one thing again and again. I have forgiven my close friend Hawa, but I don't trust him anymore like before.
The bottom line is that forgiveness is a different kind of forgiveness if you are a close friend.
When you forgive, don't look at anyone. People are just wrong. Forgive. If he makes the same mistake over and over again, it is the best way to forgive him and move away.
Once a person loses faith in a big weird type of car, he says straight away that he doesn't want to do it a second time. In fact, there could be many reasons for that. Suppose you lent money to someone and he was supposed to give you your money after 5 days. If he gives the money after 5 months, you will not want to give him money for the second time. In the same way faith is like that.
Lastly, if someone asks for forgiveness, he forgives because he has repented, so he came to ask for forgiveness from you.
Take a look at the body language of the person you want to forgive, whether he or she actually apologizes at all. If he looks at her body language and thinks yes, he is really sorry, then forgive me and speak well again.
If you think his body language doesn't benefit you, forgive him again, but stay away from him.
There is no need to think of yourself as great before forgiving, do not be arrogant when forgiving, there is no benefit in misunderstanding so much in a little life.
I am concluding this article with a verse from Quran.
If you reveal good or hide it or do evil, and seek forgiveness ,then surely Allah is Forgiving, AlMighty. (Surah An-Nisa ', verse 149)
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A condition for being forgiven is that you change your ways
If you do, the greatest sin can be forgiven, by yourself, or God, because there is no reason to let something bad, from history, hold you back in the future. It is consistent also with what atheist psychologists think
Yes, good to think about these things.
Carry on with your writing